Hatred is a big, big vague word.
Can you be specific as I’m assuming you don’t think it’s hateful to prioritise the rights and dignity women who have experienced sexual violence? And you don’t think it’s hateful for a woman who has the money, clout and balls to put her head above the parapet on behalf of many women who don’t have the same privilege, to fiercely protect those rights?
I’m also assuming you recognise the stark difference between strong words such as those from JKR and the sort spouted by trans allies when protesting such as “Die in a grease fire “ and “Decapitate TERFS” and “The only good TERF is a dead one”? And that you are waiting patiently for the rise to turn against such poison as well?