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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Patients sue noted former Mass. General surgeon over gender surgeries they say he botched

101 replies

CassOle · 24/08/2025 22:45

A Gender affirming surgeon is being sued in the US.

"Surgeon Curtis Cetrulo became a leading light of a cutting-edge program at Massachusetts General Hospital soon after it opened in 2018, crafting penises for transgender men — and helping plant a flag in Boston amid intensifying national competition for such procedures.
By then, Cetrulo was already well known in plastic surgery circles. He had led a Mass. General team two years earlier that completed the country’s first successful transplant of a penis, involving a 64-year-old man who had lost his penis to cancer.
For transgender patients, the surgeries he offered included a procedure called abdominal phalloplasty — using skin grafts from the abdomen to form a penis.
But now, two of his former patients are suing Cetrulo and Mass. General for medical malpractice, alleging the gender-reassignment operations he performed were experimental and unsupported by medical research. The lawsuits said he used an untested approach to abdominal phalloplasty that caused them severe pain, disfigurement, infections, and other complications — and led to even more surgery to correct the mistakes.
The patients also allege that Cetrulo did not adequately inform them of the risks of his approach."

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https://archive.is/OvYrM

OP posts:
ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:34

Datun · 10/02/2026 15:52

That's what I thought. There must be some kind of accessory that you can use, just for the kick.

Trans rights is a movement that supports women and men's rights. That's because there are trans women AND trans men. No matter if you deny our gender or not it's still for men and women.

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:44

TheOchreJoker · 10/02/2026 16:03

I'm a woman who detransitioned, it DOES happen to us.

You call us 'transmen' but in reality we are women often with severe mental co-morbities that cause us dysphoria and dis-association from ourselves. I was one of those textbook 'trans kids' insisting I was male from a young age, turned out I had undiagnosed autism and a host of other issues.
My family in their effort to support me did not challenge me when I chose to transition as a teen, even my doctors were supportive. Reality hit me many years later, far as my doctors are concerned I'm one of their 'success stories' but had my mental health and neurodivergence been prioritised I never would have gone down this path and don't pretend like the pre-op therapy is enough, it's not and I've even seen older trans people coaching younger on what to say to get their dysphoria diagnosis.

I now know more detransitioners than trans people, the numbers are growing rapidly and they're almost all girls, this seriously needs to be addressed but it keeps being swept under the rug.

It's going to be this generation's biggest medical scandal, Mark my words.

Detransitioners make up a tiny percentage of people who begin their transitions. I'm sorry you made a mistake but that doesnt give you the right to take away the treatment that is working for so many others.

I know almost no detransitioners, it's almost like we surround ourselves with people that are similar to us. I don't deny you exist, but you aren't the majority.

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:45

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/02/2026 16:49

And you aren't a woman so how about leaving women alone in their own protected spaces.

I am a woman and I'm not accepting discrimination.

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:49

EdithStourton · 10/02/2026 17:13

No, your chromosomes get to decide that.
The chromosomes that gave you the hormones that make you bigger and stronger than almost all women even if you are on hormones.

If you'd like to understand our concerns, take a look at the 'it never happens' threads', and the threads about sports.

If you don't want to do that, then accept that you're performing typical male pattern behaviour in being happy to ignore women's concerns.

Like most women, I've been sexually assaulted, as have my DDs, and I don't want ANY men in spaces where women are vulnerable.

If that doesn't give you pause for thought, then I REALLY don't want you in women's spaces.

I have been sexually assaulted and it was by a man. I have the same trauma that any other woman who's been a victim of SA has. I'm still not over it and it's been years.

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:49

EdithStourton · 10/02/2026 17:14

Oh, and You aren't trans, so leave us the fuck alone and stop trying to strip our healthcare from us.
You aren't a woman, so leave US the fuck alone in the single-sex spaces that we fought for.

They're not your spaces, their ALL women's spaces including Transsexual women's.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 10/02/2026 17:50

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:49

I have been sexually assaulted and it was by a man. I have the same trauma that any other woman who's been a victim of SA has. I'm still not over it and it's been years.

Sexual assault by a man is not proof of womanhood.

Chersfrozenface · 10/02/2026 17:51

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:49

They're not your spaces, their ALL women's spaces including Transsexual women's.

No, they're not, because "transexual women" are male.

It's the only way to be a "transexual woman".

FranticFrankie · 10/02/2026 17:52

Oh no
Not again

De-transitioners are surely arguing for better mental health care? Isn't that the best option?

Chersfrozenface · 10/02/2026 17:53

FallenSloppyDead2 · 10/02/2026 17:50

Sexual assault by a man is not proof of womanhood.

Because males sexually assault boys and men as well as girls and women.

CassOle · 10/02/2026 18:10

Jesus wept.

Male makes it clear that he will break the law.

I don't know why he expects anyone to be on his side.

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gruit · 10/02/2026 18:13

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:45

I am a woman and I'm not accepting discrimination.

you can say it till you’re blue in the face but it doesn’t make it true because a transwoman is always a male.

NotAtMyAge · 10/02/2026 19:11

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:49

They're not your spaces, their ALL women's spaces including Transsexual women's.

Not in the UK after the Supreme Court clarified the law in its judgment last April. Single-sex spaces refer to biological sex, not legal sex or gender.

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/02/2026 19:13

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:45

I am a woman and I'm not accepting discrimination.

Discrimination is being able to tell one type of thing apart from another. Female only facilities are female people; not male people. A woman is an adult human female. That is the definition...the world over.

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/02/2026 19:18

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:34

Trans rights is a movement that supports women and men's rights. That's because there are trans women AND trans men. No matter if you deny our gender or not it's still for men and women.

You don't have the right to recalibrate the meaning of words which already have established meanings. This is what the Supreme Court recently established: 'Woman' is a biological category not an 'identity' category - whatever that is supposed to mean.

If you have to identify 'as' something it is very much suggestive that you are not actually that thing. 'As' is doing all the hard work of performance and role play.

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/02/2026 19:23

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:49

They're not your spaces, their ALL women's spaces including Transsexual women's.

If you identified 'with' women, rather than 'as' a woman you might have more compassion for women, rather than this aggressive, narcissisitic self entitlement

KilkennyCats · 10/02/2026 19:23

NumbersGuy · 10/02/2026 05:34

First off, "big pharmaceutical companies will stop offering these hideous, untested procedures have no say in any medical surgeries" has NOTHING to do regarding surgeries in the U.S. They only focus on capitalizing on the medications dispensed to fill their coffers. Secondly, ftm in the U.S. deem peeing standing up as a rite of passage for achieving a machismo persona, despite the percentage of men in other countries who do it sitting down. The likely reason he promoted himself as being a star in this type of surgery, was likely for money. This is how the U.S. is different because the healthcare system is out-of-control as it's not nationally subsidized and why "top surgery" is up to $18k without the help of insurance, and "bottom surgery" is up to $75k without insurance for everything. Not to mention the medications, bed rest with not working, follow up medical appointments, etc. so for someone willing to go through all of this hardship is no different than people obsessed with plastic surgery for both in-patient and out-patient procedures. This is all about their own happiness, so instead of anyone here judging these people to seek mental health, then quit the makeup, the skims shapers, botox treatment, eye lifts, mommy makeovers, etc. and get mental health therapy instead. Glass house v brick (brick always wins btw).

Oh dear…

Shortshriftandlethal · 10/02/2026 19:25

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:49

I have been sexually assaulted and it was by a man. I have the same trauma that any other woman who's been a victim of SA has. I'm still not over it and it's been years.

Yes, violence and sexually assault are traumatic, but this still does not make you a woman.

NotAtMyAge · 10/02/2026 19:30

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:45

I am a woman and I'm not accepting discrimination.

Under the Equality Act 2010, the comparator for a male person with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment is a male person without that characteristic and here male refers to sex, not gender presentation.

GenericMNwoman · 10/02/2026 19:40

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 15:30

Girls and women don't get phalloplasty, men do. Trans men who need it to alleviate dysphoria. Also what are you talking about? Hormones don't make your internal organs rot. This is why doctors manage this stuff not obsessed weirdos online.

Violent, ha! You think I'm violent just for being transsexual? I'm weaker than almost everyone I know. I'm far more worried about you lot trying to hurt a trans person as we want to just get on with our lives while you're obsessed over hatred.

I transitioned as a minor, does that scare you? I knew who I was from a young age and so did so many other trans men and women. You aren't trans, so leave us the fuck alone and stop trying to strip our healthcare from us.

Testosterone does cause vaginal and uterine atrophy. Buck Angel nearly died because his uterus became septic. This is why after about 5-10 years on T most trans men will need a hysterectomy.

If you want to see some of Cetrulo‘s handiwork and have a very strong stomach, the SRS thread on the Antipodean fruit farm is eye opening.. and horrifying.

Datun · 10/02/2026 20:17

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:49

I have been sexually assaulted and it was by a man. I have the same trauma that any other woman who's been a victim of SA has. I'm still not over it and it's been years.

Yes, male violence is a scourge. And men who claim to be women statistically commit at a greater percentage than the men who don't.

Hence the court cases asserting that men accessing female spaces is a violation of women's dignity privacy and safety.

You belong to the sex class who commit 98% of all sex crimes. And the gender class who, according to prison statistics, commit even more.

Stop your unlawful access to women's spaces.

TheOchreJoker · 10/02/2026 21:09

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 17:44

Detransitioners make up a tiny percentage of people who begin their transitions. I'm sorry you made a mistake but that doesnt give you the right to take away the treatment that is working for so many others.

I know almost no detransitioners, it's almost like we surround ourselves with people that are similar to us. I don't deny you exist, but you aren't the majority.

No we don't, the 'detransitioners are a tiny percentage' is a myth based on an old study relying on detransitioners self reporting to their original clinics, the vast majority of us do not do so. That's where the old 1% regret stat came from.

I didn't go back to mine either, as I stated my original doctors think I'm one of their successes.
I switched doctors and endo, had them send my medical records to my new clinic when I moved towns and never told them about detransitioning.

You likely know more detransitioners than you think you do, most are very hesitant to tell trans people at all because a lot of detransitioners have been ostracised for it. We are not a small community, we are a quite community and that has us being mistaken for small.
I'm more 'stealth' now than when I was trans so the people I've met after detransition have no idea about my past including the all new trans people I've met since. Only the detransitioners I've come to know over the years and the trans people who stuck with me back during my transition and detransition know about it. Most of my old trans friends were quick to drop me the moment I started having doubts and halted transitioning so I do not tell any new trans people I meet or work with now.

You worry our existence threatens your access to medical transition and this is what leads to us being minimised and dismissed by the trans community. Currently most of the trans community are happy to let us be collateral damage within this broken system as long as they get want they want out of it. Many have nothing but contempt for us for speaking out, we are viewed as an inconvenience, an obstacle or a threat rather than people who have had their lives and bodies ruined by this system.

Like it or not the whole system needs an major investigation and overhaul, we're rapidly going to become too large to ignore any longer. Also the fact the vast majority are of detrans are girls and neurodivergent girls at that is indicative of a much bigger social issue that can no longer be overlooked.
This can't continue.

ATranssexualWoman · 10/02/2026 21:29

TheOchreJoker · 10/02/2026 21:09

No we don't, the 'detransitioners are a tiny percentage' is a myth based on an old study relying on detransitioners self reporting to their original clinics, the vast majority of us do not do so. That's where the old 1% regret stat came from.

I didn't go back to mine either, as I stated my original doctors think I'm one of their successes.
I switched doctors and endo, had them send my medical records to my new clinic when I moved towns and never told them about detransitioning.

You likely know more detransitioners than you think you do, most are very hesitant to tell trans people at all because a lot of detransitioners have been ostracised for it. We are not a small community, we are a quite community and that has us being mistaken for small.
I'm more 'stealth' now than when I was trans so the people I've met after detransition have no idea about my past including the all new trans people I've met since. Only the detransitioners I've come to know over the years and the trans people who stuck with me back during my transition and detransition know about it. Most of my old trans friends were quick to drop me the moment I started having doubts and halted transitioning so I do not tell any new trans people I meet or work with now.

You worry our existence threatens your access to medical transition and this is what leads to us being minimised and dismissed by the trans community. Currently most of the trans community are happy to let us be collateral damage within this broken system as long as they get want they want out of it. Many have nothing but contempt for us for speaking out, we are viewed as an inconvenience, an obstacle or a threat rather than people who have had their lives and bodies ruined by this system.

Like it or not the whole system needs an major investigation and overhaul, we're rapidly going to become too large to ignore any longer. Also the fact the vast majority are of detrans are girls and neurodivergent girls at that is indicative of a much bigger social issue that can no longer be overlooked.
This can't continue.

I do mean this genuinely but I think there's more we agree on here than disagree. I'm actually very pro gatekeeping and safeguards and hate how the modern transgender movement has turned trans people from a small group of transsexual people with real and genuine dysphoria to a "anyone can be trans" kind of thing. That's what's doing the harm. We do need to return to gatekeeping and return to safeguards to stop more people transitioning who were never suppose to.

Where I take issue is when people start talking about banning things entirely either for ages groups or types of surgery. For some transsexual men phallo is right for them. That option should remain available for them.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 10/02/2026 21:37

We do need to return to gatekeeping and return to safeguards to stop more people transitioning who were never suppose to.

Yep, well off you go to tell the rest of the trans umbrella this. Do pop back and let us know how you get on.

callmemargo · 10/02/2026 21:50

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?"
Mary Oliver.

There are some male posters who turn up on here, who you just know in real life are pathetic, weak little weaselley males who just enjoy trying to intimidate and harass women. What a bloody waste of life. How wonderful and rich life can be, but here they are just choosing to spend it in such low, and pointless ways. Utterly pathetic.

solerolover · 10/02/2026 22:04
Confused Thinking GIF

Girls and women don't get phalloplasty, men do.

Oh dear...the delusions are neverending