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Who‘s coming to FiLIA?

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lanadelgrey · 23/08/2025 10:33

I‘m starting to get excited.
Are there plans for a MN meetup?

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EmpressaurusKitty · 10/10/2025 09:02

Hopefully the early start will have acted as an extra warning to police & security.

donkey86 · 10/10/2025 09:34

I just arrived. The protesters aren’t as bad as I expected. Maybe 20 of them shouting, and about the same number of police. They have smashed a couple of windows and sprayed a lot of paint though.

TinselAngel · 10/10/2025 09:38

ParmaVioletTea · 10/10/2025 07:10

re Bea Campbell (she’s a feminist warrior, but obviously others think differently) I’ll come in here with my regular message to everyone:

The women’s movement is a broad, grassroots movement and there will be factions and disagreements.

Women are socialised to find conflict difficult. But we all need to understand that we’re all on the same big team ultimately - we all want to liberate women to live their best lives.

Oh, and smash the patriarchy before breakfast.

“We’re all on the same side” always seems to be used when the grassroots are being pressured not to criticise decisions of the elite.

HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 10/10/2025 11:06

I’ll be arriving later on carrying my AHF bag loud and clear. I’m not scared of those thugs.

PiningForTheMoon · 10/10/2025 11:12

HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 10/10/2025 11:06

I’ll be arriving later on carrying my AHF bag loud and clear. I’m not scared of those thugs.

I admire you Washing. I want to wear whatever I want and feel safe. I thought I was beyond having my clothing policed. But I do feel unnerved.

I'm glad there is a police presence. Although I think it's ridiculous we need them.

Hermiaxx · 10/10/2025 11:12

I’m in - no protests and cleanup nearly finished! Hopefully my message on the app gets through xx

RosaMundi27 · 10/10/2025 11:22

Talkinpeace · 09/10/2025 21:02

So you'll miss out on dozens of other good sessions because you do not like one speaker
OK

It betrays poor judgement on the part of the organisers that they invited this person to speak. If you read the links I posted you might understand why I object so strongly to her presence and why I don't think she should be allowed to use the gender wars to whitewash her reputation. People lost their children because of her and her partner - and by people I mean working class women and men.

Mollyollydolly · 10/10/2025 13:38

Does anyone know what happened? I don't want to comment without the details.

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DrSpartacularsMagnificentOctopus · 10/10/2025 13:46

Mollyollydolly · 10/10/2025 13:38

Does anyone know what happened? I don't want to comment without the details.

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CaptainWhacky · 10/10/2025 13:46

TinselAngel · 24/08/2025 23:56

No. I’ve been in correspondence with them about a session on trans widows and children of transitioners for several years, and was turned down for a different reason each time. This year they’ve arranged one without me, and the first thing I knew was when it was announced.

That is shocking! I’m so sorry Tinsel ❤️

ArealAdultHumanFemale · 10/10/2025 13:46

I think, because a speaker at the opening session spoke from the podium, and before she finished made reference to Palestine?

spannasaurus · 10/10/2025 13:47

KJK x post re Filia

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Mollyollydolly · 10/10/2025 13:51

Bash Back have helpfully posted video on X of them vandalising the Conference Centre if the police can be arsed to investigate.
https://x.com/TransBashBack/status/1976555969439223934

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Mollyollydolly · 10/10/2025 13:53

Well I'm with Julia Long on this occasion all the way. A feminist conference should condemn violence against women whoever the perpetrators are. I'd like to think I'd have walked out too.

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 10/10/2025 14:12

Rather hope FiLiA will put out a statement about what happened across all their channels as reports are obviously of a concern for anyone who cares about ending MVAWG

Thingybob · 10/10/2025 14:19

Mollyollydolly · 10/10/2025 13:53

Well I'm with Julia Long on this occasion all the way. A feminist conference should condemn violence against women whoever the perpetrators are. I'd like to think I'd have walked out too.

I thought the speaker did condemn Hamas then went on to also condemn the Israeli government but I could have misheard.

However I was very uncomfortable with talk of genocide and chants of 'free, free Palestine' and most of the attendees seemed to feel the same.

HaveYouActuallyDoneAnyWashingThisWeekMum · 10/10/2025 14:30

DrSpartacularsMagnificentOctopus · 10/10/2025 13:46

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Oh dear God

trainedopossum · 10/10/2025 15:40

RobinEllacotStrike · 09/10/2025 18:56

Brighton station have bunting out for us

I was looking forward to seeing the bunting (when do we ever get bunting or any kind of welcome in a public place??) but for whatever reason 🤷🏻‍♀️🤔🧐 it’s no longer there.

Hermiaxx · 10/10/2025 16:08

The bunting was still at the station this morning!

I don’t know what talk JL walked out of - it certainly wasn’t the one I attended where a Southall Black Sister was talking (about the far right) and very eloquently. There were 12 other talks taking place at the same time though.

Mmmnotsure · 10/10/2025 17:53

I think she might have been talking about Rahila Gupta in the opening session. If I heard correctly, RG acknowledged the violence on both sides, and then started calling out for Palestine. Some people joined in. A woman near me was obviously very upset by this and shouted back about the 7th of October. To be honest, it did feel rather inappropriate to have this chant as part of the presentation from the main stage in the general opening session.

Hermiaxx · 10/10/2025 18:05

Ah ok - I missed the opening session as I couldn’t get there until 11.

The Dworkin film session this afternoon was brilliant as were all of the speakers (including the wonderful Julie Bindel)

Mmmnotsure · 10/10/2025 18:25

Hermiaxx · 10/10/2025 18:05

Ah ok - I missed the opening session as I couldn’t get there until 11.

The Dworkin film session this afternoon was brilliant as were all of the speakers (including the wonderful Julie Bindel)

I enjoyed that one too. Especially JB’s rant at the end.

IwantToRetire · 10/10/2025 19:03

I'm not on this thread, and have expressed elsewhere why I think it is coporatised and not that feminist. Especially banning women who dont fit the correct politics of AGCL who seemed to have infilitrated the organising group. ie Julia Long being expelled is almost a yearly ritual. And one year she had a stall outside!

But find the reasons in this article calling for a boycott of Filia (a bit late) so implausible I feel I should somehow be supportive.

Just wondered if any of you there feel what this article says is in any way what you are experiencing.

https://bindelstockclock.substack.com/p/boycottfilia-how-filia-targets-jewish

See also https://x.com/unherdclock

#BoycottFilia (How FiLiA Targets Jewish Women)

FiLiA has much more than just broken windows that need fixing.

https://bindelstockclock.substack.com/p/boycottfilia-how-filia-targets-jewish

spannasaurus · 10/10/2025 19:07

IwantToRetire · 10/10/2025 19:03

I'm not on this thread, and have expressed elsewhere why I think it is coporatised and not that feminist. Especially banning women who dont fit the correct politics of AGCL who seemed to have infilitrated the organising group. ie Julia Long being expelled is almost a yearly ritual. And one year she had a stall outside!

But find the reasons in this article calling for a boycott of Filia (a bit late) so implausible I feel I should somehow be supportive.

Just wondered if any of you there feel what this article says is in any way what you are experiencing.

https://bindelstockclock.substack.com/p/boycottfilia-how-filia-targets-jewish

See also https://x.com/unherdclock

Edited

You know those sites are nothing to do with Julie Bindel and Kathleen Stock

IwantToRetire · 10/10/2025 19:11

spannasaurus · 10/10/2025 19:07

You know those sites are nothing to do with Julie Bindel and Kathleen Stock

Yes I know that, and isn't relevant to what I asked.

If you are at FiLia do you experience these allegations that some women feel excluded not welcome.