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Do we allow Sharia law in this country?

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happydappy2 · 27/07/2025 13:08

I thought we all had to abide by British Law-wtf is going on? This is bad for women...surely this isn't true
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Imnobody4 · 28/07/2025 12:38

Imnobody4 · 28/07/2025 09:34

I pointed out above that Mosques and Imams can like Cof E etc register marriages but most of them don't. The reason can only be that they want Sharia Law on marriage to trump the secular law.

  1. By permitting the existence of Sharia councils and other parallel legal systems Britain is failing to meet its obligations to gender equality in marriage and family relations . Article 16 1. of CEDAW on marriage and family relations:
” States parties shall take all appropriate measures to eliminate discrimination against women in all matters relating to marriage and family relations and in particular shall ensure, on a basis of equality of men and women: (a) The same right to enter into marriage; (b) The same right freely to choose a spouse and to enter into marriage only with their free and full consent; (c) The same rights and responsibilities during marriage and at its dissolution; (d) The same rights and responsibilities as parents, irrespective of their marital status, in matters relating to their children; in all cases the interests of the children shall be paramount; (e) The same rights to decide freely and responsibly on the number and spacing of their children and to have access to the information, education and means to enable them to exercise these rights; (f) The same rights and responsibilities with regard to guardianship, wardship, trusteeship and adoption of children, or similar institutions where these concepts exist in national legislation; in all cases the interests of the children shall be paramount; (g) The same personal rights as husband and wife, including the right to choose a family name, a profession and an occupation; (h) The same rights for both spouses in respect of the ownership, acquisition, management, administration, enjoyment and disposition of property, whether free of charge or for a valuable consideration. 2. The betrothal and the marriage of a child shall have no legal effect, and all necessary action, including legislation, shall be taken to specify a minimum age for marriage and to make the registration of marriages in an official registry compulsory”.It also opens the door to polygamous Muslim marriages. The state may not recognise them but Islam does.

I'm quoting my previous post. Is CEDAW wrong?
But then what would a rascist white supremist gammon like me know about anything.

miraxxx · 28/07/2025 12:42

Let's ask ourselves whether an advert for an admin worker at a Jewish law Court (yes, they exist in most cities with bug Jewish populations) would generate at much hysteria and push back from the far right as its Muslim equivalent.

Yes, always use the beth dins or jews as the default whattaboutthem response to real concerns raised about real life harm to women and children. How original.

miraxxx · 28/07/2025 12:52

sashh · 28/07/2025 12:36

There used to be a TV programme that took different families and talked through the options of how they could and possibly should write their wills.

On was a Muslim couple who had, I think 3 children, one boy and two girls.

They wanted a Sharia compliant will.

As @BlessingKalmly said the wife would inherit less than her son if her husband died. Which sounds crap, but if the son took his share according to sharia he was also responsible for homing, feeding and clothing his mother and sisters potentially for life.

So the will was written that the son had a choice to inherit under sharia and fully support his 'dependents' or he could chose to give that up to let mum inherit.

It was a very interesting programme. It wasn't all about sharia, there was a family where mum and dad of one child were divorced, mum had remarried and had other children. The will was for if the mother died, would the child need to live permanently with her dad or would she stay with her siblings and step dad.

Islamic law regarding inheritance cannot be completely altered through a will to circumvent the unequal gender balance. Islamic law also doesn't allow you to have adopted children or non-muslim relatives inherit.

Muslims can write a will to distribute up to one-third of their assets to non-lawful beneficiaries.
Arrangements such as care of duty in lieu of a share of assets - who is going to enforce them?

TheignT · 28/07/2025 12:55

sashh · 28/07/2025 05:24

This.

Whether anyone likes it or not this type of roles are necessary. They exist for other faiths too.

Things like marriage. Until the late 1980s/1990s if you got married in anything other than a of E church or a registry office your marriage wasn't legal unless you had a registrar attend to do the written part.

A lot of people had a registry office ceremony the day before their religious one, whether you were RC, Jewish, Muslims, Sikh, Quaker, whatever.

A Muslim marriage is a Nikkah, it is not recognised in English law (not sure about Scotland) so unless you have a registry office wedding or you are in a place licenced for a wedding with a civil registrar.

But if you have a Nikkah in Pakistan then register it in the UK then it is legally recognised, as long as there are only two people in the marriage.

I have no idea about other countries, but this is the kind of thing the job is advertising for someone to take on.

Some people take their faith very seriously and treat the restrictions of their faith as seriously as the law of the land.

I don't think you are right about marriages in Catholic churches. I've been to many many weddings in Catholic churches since I was a child in the 50s and I've never known anyone but the priest do the written/legal part. No idea about other places if worship.

miraxxx · 28/07/2025 12:56

PhilippaGeorgiou · 28/07/2025 11:58

In fact, and this is my last comment on this thread because it was set up to do what it has done - there is no such thing as Sharia law. Not anywhere. Not ever. It is not, even in Islam, law. It is Sharia, and it is guidance to living an Islamic life. There is no single interpretation of any part of it - it varies in context and time, and is constantly changed and updated. It can also be abused. As can many things, based in religion or not. Those with their own agendas spouting outrage come in many forms. What they all share is an inability to see anything from any point of view that is not their own, and an unwillingness to recognise that life is rarely made up of absolutes. It is no more up to white entitled posters on here to decide how others should choose to live their lives than it is for the Taliban to do so. Different weapons, but the result is often the same - imposing your narrow-minded will on others because it is best for them.

The advert was a red herring - but it points to existence of many unofficial sharia courts in the UK that affect millions of women and children. The family laws that have been quoted are more or less standard practice from Morocco to Malaysia.

AnSolas · 28/07/2025 13:11

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 28/07/2025 09:37

‘So a Catholic tribunal might require applicants to be Canon lawyers but but legally qualified in UK law.’

There is no such thing as a Catholic ( I presume you mean Roman Catholic ) tribunal. Roman Catholics living in any country are expected by the Church to abide by the laws of that country. The Church gives guidance to the conscience of its members, so it will ‘prohibit’ for example abortion or the remarriage of divorced couples. If a member of the Church decides to do either of these things, the Church has the right to withhold Communion from them, just as any organisation can restrict the access of someone who has not abided by the rules of the Club. ( Think offside and arguing with the REf).

There is no tribunal, because there is nothing to argue about in a legal sense. You obey the laws of the country where you live or are visiting, if you think those laws are morally wrong you can campaign for a secular alteration.

  • Purpose:
  • Canon law serves to guide the church in its internal affairs, ensuring order, consistency, and adherence to its teachings and traditions. It also plays a role in shaping the moral and spiritual lives of its members.

This is rather different from a parallel system of civil law which is in some cases directly contrary to the Law of the country, for example relating to polygamy and forced marriage.

Edited

Nope Roman Catholics have local courts and higher courts in Rome with the Pope and bishops etc.

If RC canon law and local law clash a RC is expected to follow RC law first eg breaking the seal of confession would not be allowed for any reason even if its a criminal offence (eg child sex abuse reporting)
Under RC law RC can remarry if the original marraige was not a RC sacrament or if the first RC marraige was ended by an annulment.
CofE has the same problem
So local RC bishops normaly have a policy on marraige which takes account any priest being able to register a State recognised marraige etc

And marraige laws which allows same sex marraige have to have an exception to allow a person of Faith to refuse register a marraige. So Cof E who act in a Duel capacity for Church and State can not be forced to carry out a same sex marraige while State employees were removed from their role for the same refusal.

HPFA · 28/07/2025 13:12

i saw a programme once where a woman based in an Islamic community centre was giving marital advice.

She was telling all the women how Islam didn't give their husbands the right to do whatever they wanted to them, she was encouraging divorced women not to see themselves as failures, telling them they had a right to be happy.

Is there any reason to think the Sharia Law advisor won't be equally strong?

PrinceRegentLady · 28/07/2025 13:21

Sharia ‘law’ is not law. It cannot be enforced as ‘law’ in the courts of England and Wales or in those of Scotland.

Statutory ‘laws’ become such through a process in the UK Parliament (or in the Scottish Parliament or Welsh Senedd). (Incidentally there is no such thing as ‘British law’ given the different legal jurisdictions in different parts of the UK.)

Sharia ‘law’ does not go through this process, which is why it has no more legal effect than does my regular weekly instruction to my teenage son to ‘put the bins out’. I can’t enforce that, either. (I might say ‘putting the bins out is the law of my house, dear son’- but this would be a rhetorical, dramatic use of the word ‘law’. Actual laws are something very different. )

The suggestion seen on social media that Sharia is ‘law’ is just a crude attempt to whip up people against Muslims, and relies on the fact that a significant number of people have no idea what ‘law’ is. (Of course, though, some of the people pushing this crap do know full well what actual law is, and how it is made & enforced, and that sharia is not ‘law’: those people aren’t ignorant, just sinister racist liars taking advantage of the ignorance of others to stoke fear and hatred in our country.)

BlessingKalmly · 28/07/2025 13:41

Astridjp · 28/07/2025 12:03

This is a mere job advert, NOT any kind of suggestion that Shariah law should be implemented in the UK.

I think you'd have to be an absolute gammon to be whipped into hysteria about this. I guess gammons are the intended target audience of the fear-mongering, hysteria-whipping propaganda machine. Rational people of intelligence wouldn't fall into the trap.

My only concern about the advert is the salary. It's not great, especially for an expensive area like Didsbury. I wonder whether the same people who get triggered by prospect of a Sharia law administrator would be equally triggered by, let's say, an administrator employed by a Bet Din (a Jewish law court, also perfectly legal here in the UK - just as they should be)?

Let's ask ourselves whether an advert for an admin worker at a Jewish law Court (yes, they exist in most cities with bug Jewish populations) would generate at much hysteria and push back from the far right as its Muslim equivalent.

Hate bait gets tiresome after a while. Sigh.

I guess when you say ‘gammon’ you mean, white, working class person… bit of a racial slur isn’t it?

BlessingKalmly · 28/07/2025 13:48

Iran didn’t used to have sharia law… and now it does

Afghanistan didn’t used to have sharia law… and now it does

Pakistan didn’t used to have sharia law… and now it does

Somalia didn’t used to have sharia law… and now it does

… have these places got better for women, or worse?

If you care about women’s rights you should definitely be wary of any creeping increase of Sharia law

AnSolas · 28/07/2025 14:03

Astridjp · 28/07/2025 12:03

This is a mere job advert, NOT any kind of suggestion that Shariah law should be implemented in the UK.

I think you'd have to be an absolute gammon to be whipped into hysteria about this. I guess gammons are the intended target audience of the fear-mongering, hysteria-whipping propaganda machine. Rational people of intelligence wouldn't fall into the trap.

My only concern about the advert is the salary. It's not great, especially for an expensive area like Didsbury. I wonder whether the same people who get triggered by prospect of a Sharia law administrator would be equally triggered by, let's say, an administrator employed by a Bet Din (a Jewish law court, also perfectly legal here in the UK - just as they should be)?

Let's ask ourselves whether an advert for an admin worker at a Jewish law Court (yes, they exist in most cities with bug Jewish populations) would generate at much hysteria and push back from the far right as its Muslim equivalent.

Hate bait gets tiresome after a while. Sigh.

A dead and cooked pig.
Nice.

And yes elite or not people should check if there is a suggestion that a Faith is using public funds to employ someone to give advice which results in unlawful acts or using the funding to enforce a faith pratice on someone.
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And imo the salary is not going to attract "great" legal minds who will be the first point of contact on some very important social matters.

And yes there should be hysteria and push back from everybody if the State is ratifying agreements which would not be lawful or fair acceptable outcomes if a judge was ruling on the same facts.

SerendipityJane · 28/07/2025 14:11

Statutory ‘laws’ become such through a process in the UK Parliament (or in the Scottish Parliament or Welsh Senedd). (Incidentally there is no such thing as ‘British law’ given the different legal jurisdictions in different parts of the UK.)

There is also English (yes, specifically English) common law .....

BlessingKalmly · 28/07/2025 14:15

Sharia law ultimately treats women as less than men, there’s no two-ways about that.

Do we want the propagation of that value system in Britain?

Personally, I do not.

SerendipityJane · 28/07/2025 14:23

BlessingKalmly · 28/07/2025 14:15

Sharia law ultimately treats women as less than men, there’s no two-ways about that.

Do we want the propagation of that value system in Britain?

Personally, I do not.

Who is suggesting it, pray tell ?

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 28/07/2025 15:17

It seems like it's another way to isolate women in this country from the right's they have under the laws of this country. The courts don't have any legal standing in the UK but do the women and children who are members of the communities that use such council know that.

Imnobody4 · 28/07/2025 16:33

SerendipityJane · 28/07/2025 14:23

Who is suggesting it, pray tell ?

I find your indifference to protecting women's fundamental rights puzzling.

Firstly Sharia councils are currently operating in the UK. Many threads on women's rights and patriarchy highlight coercive control, presumably none of us are cool with that.

Young women are often pressurised by family and potential in laws [often arranged marriage] to have a Nakah ceremony. Mosque is not registered for civil marriage, so no legal protection.

Marriage is failure. Could just walk away but with nothing no rights, unable to marry again in faith.

Women are often driven to Sharia councils due to cost of legal aid.

Often forced to remain in marriage for years ' cos should be saved at all costs.

This seems a useful approach but as it's from 2016 and nothing has changed despite lots of talk I'm not holding my breath;
^Zee will launch her book at an event organised by libertarian think-tank, the Henry Jackson Society, in the Houses of Parliament on 12 January. She is calling on the British government to introduce new laws to help women access the criminal and civil courts for religious divorce, as in the Netherlands, where in 2010 Dutch-Pakistani woman Shirin Musa won a precedent-setting civil case.
There, a judge imposed damages upon Ms Musa’s husband for each day of non-compliance with the court’s ruling that he had to release her from the religious marriage. He instantly did, and in 2013 “marital captivity” became a criminal offence.^

IwantToRetire · 28/07/2025 17:30

The point is the thread title whether deliberating or unintentionally implied that Sharia "law" was part of the UK legal system.

And actually it seems the OP doesn't want to talk about the law, but the impact, which happens to many women in the many, many different cultures living in the UK, have customs and practices that dont match the presumed (but not always respected) rights of women in the UK.

So in fact given that this forum (FWR) have been able to have discussion about how the culture a woman is born into impacts on their life, it really cant be seen to be anything other than shit stirring to have manipulated that actual nub of the situation.

And as all too often in recent times on FWR this happens because a few seem obsessed by Muslim culture.

We have already had on this thread example of how women growing up in different cultures, religions have had their experience of being female impact on that. eg Gypsy, Roma and Traveller, various religions, etc..

And one of the aspects of this is if you are part of a minority community where you often experience hostility or outright racism, you may be less likely to turn to the "established" community for help.

Sadly no amount of hand wringing about how some minority cultures are more sexist than others, and of course the perfect Brit culture, if you have faced discrimination from that establishment you aren't going to value their opinion about your culture.

If you really care about whichever culture it is, is oppressing women, why not find out how the women in that community are organising, and find out how you can help. ie listen to what they would want you to do, ie not stand on your soap box and lecture them.

Have you every thought that your antogonism and arrogance actually turns some women to think that in the long run, they want to be within the network, customs of their community.

Imnobody4 · 28/07/2025 17:53

If you really care about whichever culture it is, is oppressing women, why not find out how the women in that community are organising, and find out how you can help. ie listen to what they would want you to do, ie not stand on your soap box and lecture them

I think you're the one on a soap box. I have quoted evidence from many sources including testimonies of Muslim women. I am sick and tired of Western feminists nodding through straightforward misogyny both here and abroad 'cos 'culture'.
I remember them defending FGM because we mustn't presume to question.

IwantToRetire · 28/07/2025 18:03

Imnobody4 · 28/07/2025 17:53

If you really care about whichever culture it is, is oppressing women, why not find out how the women in that community are organising, and find out how you can help. ie listen to what they would want you to do, ie not stand on your soap box and lecture them

I think you're the one on a soap box. I have quoted evidence from many sources including testimonies of Muslim women. I am sick and tired of Western feminists nodding through straightforward misogyny both here and abroad 'cos 'culture'.
I remember them defending FGM because we mustn't presume to question.

As usual you dont engage with what is being said but just persist with your soap box.

Nobody is nodding through anything.

But as you cant or dont want to work with the women concerned it is immaterial.

PlanetJanette · 28/07/2025 18:19

BlessingKalmly · 28/07/2025 13:41

I guess when you say ‘gammon’ you mean, white, working class person… bit of a racial slur isn’t it?

Gammon doesn’t generally refer to working class people. More often it is used to refer to well heeled, older white middle or upper class men.

AlwaysRight991 · 28/07/2025 18:47

RaspberryRipple2 · 27/07/2025 15:00

The whole thing reads like a fake advert planted just to spread racial hatred on social media, no? That was my first assumption. It’s on the DWP website to make it look like it’s a state funded council role.

No? Because Islam is a religion not a race? Dumb comment.

"It’s on the DWP website to make it look like it’s a state funded council role."

That's WHY it's on the GOV.UK website...

PlanetJanette · 28/07/2025 19:07

AlwaysRight991 · 28/07/2025 18:47

No? Because Islam is a religion not a race? Dumb comment.

"It’s on the DWP website to make it look like it’s a state funded council role."

That's WHY it's on the GOV.UK website...

Sorry are you claiming that it is a state funded role?

Imnobody4 · 28/07/2025 19:29

IwantToRetire · 28/07/2025 18:03

As usual you dont engage with what is being said but just persist with your soap box.

Nobody is nodding through anything.

But as you cant or dont want to work with the women concerned it is immaterial.

I'm at a loss to what it is you are actually saying. You haven't engaged with any of my posts.
The title of the thread links to a specific tweet. We pretty quickly established that this country is not practising or enforcing Sharia law. However, it does accept the operation of Sharia councils, which rule on family matters that often discriminate against women.
This raises a conflict in that women's legal rights can be circumvented.
You seem to interpret any concerns about this as racism of some sort. It is not. It is a real conflict which as I've just pointed out have been dealt with by other countries. There have also been numerous parliamentary committees taking evidence from women and activists but no action.
Do you disagree with the Cedaw statement above?

If you don't like that way I post, well tough because I feel the same about your walls of text.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 28/07/2025 19:55

Imnobody4 · 28/07/2025 17:53

If you really care about whichever culture it is, is oppressing women, why not find out how the women in that community are organising, and find out how you can help. ie listen to what they would want you to do, ie not stand on your soap box and lecture them

I think you're the one on a soap box. I have quoted evidence from many sources including testimonies of Muslim women. I am sick and tired of Western feminists nodding through straightforward misogyny both here and abroad 'cos 'culture'.
I remember them defending FGM because we mustn't presume to question.

Very true, the women in Iran who are standing up to the regime and being killed, maimed and imprisoned for it, often lament on Social Media about the lack of support they get from Western women's right's activists.
I think the lack of attention paid to the Muslim women's organisations in this country, who are campaigning to shine a light on how these courts are to the detriment of women and children, is because criticizing Islam goes against the narrative of the left, you will accept multi-culturalism without criticism or you're banished from the world.

jessa15 · 28/07/2025 22:58

Its not ' far right' it's normal people not brainwashed with extreme left wing views like you.