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PeonyBulb · 27/07/2025 13:11

Abusers show porn to their children to desensitise them. I suppose some abused children will block out any horror they’ve experienced and their behaviour manifests in different unusual ways. It’s just such extreme behaviour of hers. It just makes me sick to my stomach really. I just feel disgust and pity in equal measures.

PennyAnnLane · 27/07/2025 23:15

I expect that if most of us had gone down the route she’s taken our parents would beg us to stop, maybe pay us to stop and arrange therapy, yet her mum is there right behind her making signs for her, it’s not normal, is it? I’d rather live on £10k a year for the rest of my life than have a million pounds from being a piece of meat 1,000 men put their dirty cocks in for 40 seconds at a time.

I suspect there was childhood abuse, perhaps going back generations.

Lalgarh · 28/07/2025 00:23

Is she being tested for STDs regularly

clearveil · 28/07/2025 04:13

Its late capitalism manifest, a totally commodified human being who only sees other people as she see herself as a resource to be exploited. It is soulless and damaging and she is very much a victim of our time and the tech bosses who ultimately profit off of women like her and those she inspires to give it a go.

She is also an example of the idea that if one is to do porn then one should become a famous porn star and make huge amounts of money doing the most outrageous work. Most women make little to no money on OF or doing porn and yet still have images and videos of them naked, having self, engaged in degrading or abusive sexual behaviours forevermore online. So they take all the risk and get very little financial reward. So Bonnie Blue may get rich enough to retire before she gets out so she might not have to worry about a different kind of job or perhaps she hopes to get a piece of the action exploiting others?

One only needs to look at the high risk of mental health issues, suicide and drug or alcohol related deaths in current and ex-porn actors to see that the emotional and psychological price paid for this work is very high. Added to that is her potential influence on younger women and the risks they may take to gain notoriety and followers, upping the ante for what is expected of them.

BlueEyedBogWitch · 28/07/2025 07:54

She’s completely disassociated.

TonTonMacoute · 28/07/2025 14:23

I couldn't read it all, it completely sickened me. The thing is, she has made money because she's one of the first to do it. How soon before it's nothing special and no one will pay up any more? And young women's lives are marred for nothing.

This excerpt, mentioned by PPs, is very disturbing. If a man was promoting this they would rightly be condemned. This is not alright because it's a woman doing it.

"To feed online rage, she has just filmed a “sex education” lesson in a classroom with very young-looking OnlyFans creators dressed in school uniforms. All look nervous; none has ever had sex in public. The boys are flushed from taking Viagra. Bonnie talks on camera of these girls needing to be “stretched out” by men

AnnunciataM · 30/07/2025 14:27

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Beowulfa · 30/07/2025 15:54

I struggle because she insists she's in control and happy, as well as rich and famous. How much money will ever be enough?

I genuinely have no frame of reference for a mother who helps organise a gang bang for her daughter.

GrumpyExpat · 30/07/2025 16:00

She says she does it for money, making millions in a month (or whatever the crazy figure is)... so how much money is enough? On a certain level, I can sort of see 'I'm going to do this to make several million dollars, stop and live the rest of my life comfortably'. Jamie Leigh Curtis's character in Trading Places comes to mind.
But if she's coming up with more and more gruesome porn... well something about her is off. Sociopathic, really.

Superhansrantowindsor · 30/07/2025 16:01

Imagine loving money and material possessions more than your own child? You can’t. Her mother is seriously mixed up in her head.

GrumpyExpat · 30/07/2025 16:06

Galdownunder · 26/07/2025 03:00

She must have a cast iron snatch I'll say that. I can't go more than two normal rounds with my partner without feeling tender lol. I'll never make a prn star.

😂

AnnunciataM · 30/07/2025 16:56

Not sure why my previous post has been hidden as it was just a link to another interview with Bonnie. One that was so uncritical that it was ridiculous.

SwedishEdith · 30/07/2025 19:01

I've watched the documentary now. It's as horrible as I imagined (I'd never heard of her but knew of the phenomenon of shagging x number of blokes in one session). Utterly joyless - dead eyed and flat voiced. The scene with the nervous young "content creators" at the end, creating content over a load of shabby back street garages was like some mass grooming exercise. The men are as revolting and reminded me of the Jodie Foster film about the rape in the bar - can't remember the name. I'm glad I'm old but worry about young girls who think this is "empowering". Kind of wish I hadn't watched it now 🤮

Lalgarh · 31/07/2025 02:14

The Accused

Lavenderandbrown · 31/07/2025 03:10

Pelvic floor disorder

Lalgarh · 31/07/2025 09:56

The articles all say she seems to not feel anything about all this, with Mangan wondering if Blue might be a sociopath.

Surely it's just a high level of disassociation?

Shortshriftandlethal · 31/07/2025 10:15

Lalgarh · 31/07/2025 09:56

The articles all say she seems to not feel anything about all this, with Mangan wondering if Blue might be a sociopath.

Surely it's just a high level of disassociation?

The only time in the documentary when she displayed any real feeling, even if she was trying not to show it, was when the young girls were being prepared for the screening of live sex. It was clear they were vulnerable and nervous, and even the male 'performer' had his doubts.

She was suggesting she was simply offering a business opportunity and had no responsibility for the girls or for any other young women who might see this stuff and think it represented a normal way to make money. I think this scene in the documentary was actually getting closer to the original 'event' that caused her to detach and deaden her emotional response.

She said she first had sex age 13, and i do wonder whether that was a rape, or experienced by her as such. Her sexual response has been formed by, and framed around, her earliest experiences. All of the talk about 'control' is reminscent of many othe women who become involved in prostitution or 'sex work' who turn out to have suffered sexual trauma or abuse.

it was as if she was sacrificing the girls to her original fate. But this time she was going to take control and make money out of it ( even if they were not).That was my feeling anyway.

Thingyfanding · 31/07/2025 10:24

I watched the documentary the other night and her mother said how proud she was and that anyone would get their bits out if they could earn a million in a month.
That’s her guide and role model. WTF

DrBlackbird · 31/07/2025 17:54

TonTonMacoute · 28/07/2025 14:23

I couldn't read it all, it completely sickened me. The thing is, she has made money because she's one of the first to do it. How soon before it's nothing special and no one will pay up any more? And young women's lives are marred for nothing.

This excerpt, mentioned by PPs, is very disturbing. If a man was promoting this they would rightly be condemned. This is not alright because it's a woman doing it.

"To feed online rage, she has just filmed a “sex education” lesson in a classroom with very young-looking OnlyFans creators dressed in school uniforms. All look nervous; none has ever had sex in public. The boys are flushed from taking Viagra. Bonnie talks on camera of these girls needing to be “stretched out” by men

That is sickening. As is the fact that there’s a documentary on her and her ‘business plan’. As is the fact that The Guardian did an interview and pasted on their front page.

It’s not just this woman though is it? Or this women’s mother.

The SU at various British universities offer guidance on ‘sex work is work’ whilst sexual harassment and violence is rife, anal injuries are the fastest growing health complaint for young women on US colleges/universities, Amnesty international says sex work is work and should be decriminalised, ads for Tinder imply that you won’t be lonely in a new place if you hook up with everyone going male and female, every ‘edgy’ new young adult series/film etc. promotes transactional emotion free sex. Everyone is so bloody liberal now that nothing must be challenged or be off limits.

Our daughters are the losers here. I’m not sure what can be done to push back against this horrible pornification of society but it is distressing to see.

Hiptothisjive · 31/07/2025 17:57

Mildorado · 25/07/2025 15:09

Do you think it's about the money? The notoriety?

Yup. She hails herself as an astute business woman. Wants to be the biggest in thr porn industry. Wants to earn five million a month. Sees herself as an exceptional marketeer.

Shes also married btw.

PennyAnnLane · 31/07/2025 23:33

I’ve watched it and it was unpleasant, for any ordinary woman it would be terrifying and revolting in equal measure to have a queue of naked men in their socks and balaclavas queueing up to have sex with you, groups of strange men groping your naked body as they take turns penetrating you. I wasn’t surprised she had flu after her 1,000 men stunt, I bet that’s not all she caught.

I can only think she is disassociating to an extreme degree or she has some sort of personality disorder.

No way would I do what she does for £1 million, it would cost me more than that in therapy afterwards.

They didn’t really touch on it but I can only think that part of her success must come down to the fact she is very conventionally attractive with a model like figure, she wouldn’t look out of place in a high fashion magazine, much more so than the young girls she had on with her with their thick makeup and bad teeth who I think will regret their foray into only fans much more and much sooner than her, when they don’t have any money to fall back on and can’t get a ‘boring’ office job because when you google their names you get a video of them naked with sex toys. At least she will be able to take the money and live quietly in her old age.

Sweetbeansandmochi · 31/07/2025 23:49

I wish sexual empowerment was spoken about more often. The joy, un- inhibition, the energy, the tenderness, the connection to yourself…

I did see any of that in the BB doc. I saw exploitation, commodification and loneliness.

SueSuddio · 01/08/2025 12:54

wheresmymojo · 25/07/2025 22:54

I’m obviously not diagnosing her as I have zero background to do so, but I have found myself wondering if she’s a sociopath.

She seems incredibly emotionally flat and not remotely bothered - compare that to the other girl who slept with 100 men in a day (I forget her name but there’s a very good documentary about her on YouTube).

That was my reaction tbh.

The pedestrian way she talks about having over 1000 men have intercourse with her on a day sounded like she was just having a cup of tea and a biscuit with them.

Something is switched off in there.

If I was her I'd take the money and run, having an enormous amount of sex with strangers might not be psychologically slaying her, but physically she's playing a dangerous game - with injury or catching something.

FranticFrankie · 01/08/2025 13:12

It's all very distasteful; I feel quite sorry for her. There have to be issues there.
Agree re dissociation- how would you cope otherwise? As for her mum; words fail me
This does nothing for feminism but gives misogynists plenty of fodder
Sad