No @Tandora . This is your misreading of the situation.
We simply want legal and social recognition that boring old physical body sex of the type recognised at birth in almost everyone including almost all trans people has a significant impact on the risks, challenges and opportunities one faces in life, particularly if one is a woman (in the boring old female body sense) because of how much of our social structures and norms have been influenced by Patriarchy.
And we want that recognition to be connected to the social, cultural and global existence and history of boring old female because that is part of understanding why what happens to us happens to us and how we can move society to a place that is better for us.
And since our laws and our history and our cultural presence are all written under the word Woman, we need that name to continue to mean what it always has, us, the boring old recognised at birth female half of the species, female for better or worse, from the day we are born to the day we die, AFAB NBs, trans men, transmasc demibois and all of us turning up female to every day of our lives.
Accepting and respecting trans people can be done alongside that, by the simple understanding that since whatever they experience is not tied to the boring everyday recognised at birth sex of their body, it does not, indeed should not, need to have the same name as the boring everyday recognised at birth sex of the body.
Respect that, and there is no reason whatsoever to not create new social concepts around these new and subtle emerging ideas of gender that can exist and flourish and are respected alongside the ones that recognise the sex of the body.
The only reason there is an issue at all it that trans people want to take something that has meaning and importance and utility to others for practical reasons that are nothing whatsoever to do with gender as trans people experience, and turn it into something that is meaningful to trans people but no longer meets those practical needs that are due to body sex.
Find new words and you turn this nasty and divisive, less then zreo game colonisation into something additive and enriching to everyone.
Why would you not want that, for trans people, and for all of us?