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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Trans books banned in children's library sections

191 replies

BeeSouriante · 04/07/2025 13:40

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c6257p2vry3o

Including kids books that just acknowledge the existence of trans people.

Obviously, this is a local Reform council, but would you call for a ban of books about trans people across the board?

Rows of books on shelves. The books are all different colours.

Kent council bans transgender books in children’s library section

KCC says the move came after a "concerned member of the public" contacted them.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c6257p2vry3o

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UpsideDownChairs · 04/07/2025 15:14

BeeSouriante · 04/07/2025 15:04

So it's OK to mention trans people as long as you don't really mention trans people, but be explicit as to trans people exist and that's too much for you?

If this is what you mean then why? What other groups in society should not be talked about to children? Black people? Disabled people? What would be ideal in your society?

What does that even mean?

What does it bring to a plotline to labour the point that a trans person is someone who's female, but who would like to be male, and so dresses in clothes that are stereotypically male, and has changed their name etc.

Mentioned in passing, totally normal part of a book. Labouring the point? Preaching, not normal in a book.

Someone being trans as the sole point of a book for 3 year olds? Nope - it's not part of their life experience yet - let 3 year olds be 3 year olds.

Someone being trans as the sole point of a book for 15 year olds - maybe, as long as it's not misleading/lying/encouraging harmful behaviour - just as I wouldn't want a book glorifying bulimia, or brushing over the difficulties of any other health issue if it was the key plotline of the book.

In the majority of books, the fashion choices and drug regimes of a character just aren't important - mentioned in passing to add flavour, but not key to the plotline, and that's the same whether it's them being a goth, trans identified, skater or diabetic.

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 04/07/2025 15:16

I'll never ever ever support banning books, even ones I don't agree with.
But they should be in the appropriate section. In the same way that I put books like Secret Diary of A Call Girl on the top shelf of the bookcase at home when dc were small.

Actually, I question that Grandpa's Pride book. It's totally inappropriate for the age it's aimed at, and had my DC found it in the library I'd have found a reason why we couldn't borrow it. So maybe it should be banned. Or maybe just not available in the library so parents would only get it if they actually bought it.

Ddakji · 04/07/2025 15:17

BeeSouriante · 04/07/2025 15:01

That's just a mealy-mouthed response - they've been banned from the children's section of the library.

Lots of age-inappropriate books aren’t in the children’s section. Stephen King. 50 Shades of Grey.

They’re not banned and no one with an ounce of sense thinks they belong in the kids’ section either.

BurntBroccoli · 04/07/2025 15:21

IDareSay · 04/07/2025 15:09

No, safeguarding 101.

Against what? These were age appropriate, written for children’s books I believe?

OldCrone · 04/07/2025 15:21

KerryAnnSalford · 04/07/2025 14:05

Why? Just how in depth do you think these books are going?

Exact same stuff was said about books about gay and lesbian people.

Bigots that are utterly obsessed with this topic at this point just can’t help but sexualise people’s identities for some reason, that’s far more perverse than teaching children that we have a diverse society.

I have no idea how 'in depth' the book is, but it's a book written for adults, so it shouldn't be in the children's section. Why was it in the children's section in the first place?

There are plenty of books which are stocked in libraries which are for adults and which are totally unsuitable for children. Do you really think that there should be no age guidelines or that children should be able to access all books no matter the content?

OldCrone · 04/07/2025 15:23

HonestAquaMember · 04/07/2025 14:07

So people can't use 'cis' on mumsnet because it's a slur for women, but you can use slurs against other people?

What slur did I use?

Ddakji · 04/07/2025 15:25

BurntBroccoli · 04/07/2025 15:21

Against what? These were age appropriate, written for children’s books I believe?

That’s the problem - a lot of them aren’t age appropriate at all. How some got published I can’t think. Red flags a-go-go in children’s publishing and among children’s librarians.

Dwimmer · 04/07/2025 15:26

KerryAnnSalford · 04/07/2025 14:05

Why? Just how in depth do you think these books are going?

Exact same stuff was said about books about gay and lesbian people.

Bigots that are utterly obsessed with this topic at this point just can’t help but sexualise people’s identities for some reason, that’s far more perverse than teaching children that we have a diverse society.

Anyone supporting porn for children should be on the sex offenders register.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 04/07/2025 15:28

Not all books are suitable for children. It isn't "book banning" to acknowledge this.

Balloonhearts · 04/07/2025 15:29

Our local librarian won't have them anyway. Calls them tosh and says it encourages too much navel gazing.

I make her right.

Hoardasurass · 04/07/2025 15:29

HonestAquaMember · 04/07/2025 14:07

So people can't use 'cis' on mumsnet because it's a slur for women, but you can use slurs against other people?

Transsexuals is not a slur its a legal definition 😂😂😂😂

TheCatsTongue · 04/07/2025 15:40

In the US there was a parent who started reading out the content of a book from a children's library at a public meeting, they tried to shut him down because what he was reading was too explicit.

MarieDeGournay · 04/07/2025 15:40

BurntBroccoli · 04/07/2025 15:07

Farenheit 451 springs to mind. Slippery slope.

Isn't that the book about a dystopian future where armies of library assistants called 'Shelfmen' move books from one part of a library to another??
Like from from the children's section to 306.768?
Shocking!

TheCatsTongue · 04/07/2025 15:44

And please stop with the "denying trans existence", no one is doing it.

What people are trying to do is to stop a culture-bound syndrome.

RareGoalsVerge · 04/07/2025 15:46

I don't believe in banning books generally.

However, libraries should have a responsibility not to be biased in pushing one particular belief, especially where that is contentious.

I'd rather have legislation that required books that could be used to persuade children to adopt such a belief, to have a front page that gives some facts and signposts to appropriate other texts to read too.

Eg "This is a book of fiction and the characters aren't real, but some of the people you meet in the real world will also have some of the same ideas. Some people believe it is possible for girls to become boys and boys to become girls, but scientifically this isn't possible. No one should be bullied for their beliefs, and it is ok that we don't all believe the same things. After you have read this book, maybe you will also enjoy (insert names of a few similar-reading-age titles where children are allowed to enjoy the activities associated with the opposite sex without having to believe in the magic of genderswapping)"

Children are going to grow up in a world where they encounter people who believe in genderfeels. I would rather they encountered the concept while they are young enough to be reassured that it's just one of those slightly bonkers things that some people believe in if their grip on reality is tenuous, like horoscopes. If they are shielded from it while they are young, they may encounter an evangelistic true believer at that vulnerable age when teens start thinking their parents are generally stupid and ignorant, and then it's much more difficult to protect them.

With legislation requiring that a suitable age-appropriate statement like the above must be attached to any ideologically-biased book in libraries and schools, it's not a ban but the the onus is on the adults to be aware of their responsibilities, and the difficulty of composing something age-appropriate for a very young child will ensure that those in charge of choosing which books to stock will swerve away from books with any ideological bias.

TeenToTwenties · 04/07/2025 15:47

MarieDeGournay · 04/07/2025 15:40

Isn't that the book about a dystopian future where armies of library assistants called 'Shelfmen' move books from one part of a library to another??
Like from from the children's section to 306.768?
Shocking!

No. It is where books are totally banned and firemen exist to burn books not put out fires in houses (which are fireproof).

southerngirl10 · 04/07/2025 15:50

TheCatsTongue · 04/07/2025 15:40

In the US there was a parent who started reading out the content of a book from a children's library at a public meeting, they tried to shut him down because what he was reading was too explicit.

That's interesting.

Brightmoonlight · 04/07/2025 15:53

To repeat what others have said they are NOT banned, merely quite properly removed from Childrens section.
Children need to work out about straight sex before being led along the trans route.

Dwimmer · 04/07/2025 15:57

Banning books is very different from not putting books in the children’s section of a public library. There are loads of books that have no place in the children’s section of a public library - not because they are aimed at adults but because they are texts aimed at indoctrinating children into specific ideologies. The Nazis produced a whole range of literature for children, should those be translated and stocked by the local library too? What about extreme religious books telling children non-Muslims are worthless, or from Jehovah Witnesses telling them blood transfusions will stop you going to heaven? Or books that say women and girls do not have the same worth as boys? I have already mentioned porn.

I do not think we should place any books in the public library that in anyway suggests children have something wrong with them if they don’t prefer clothes/colours/activities that regressive stereotypes suggest are appropriate for their sex. If you want to buy your daughter a book that say preferring blue, not wearing dresses, liking your hair short, playing football, and wanting to be a leader makes you a boy and you should choose a boys name and everyone will have a party to celebrate, then that is up to the parents. But such books should be nowhere near public libraries or schools.

Finteq · 04/07/2025 15:58

BeeSouriante · 04/07/2025 13:40

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c6257p2vry3o

Including kids books that just acknowledge the existence of trans people.

Obviously, this is a local Reform council, but would you call for a ban of books about trans people across the board?

I would agree with this.

Young kids don't need to know about this.

TheCatsTongue · 04/07/2025 15:59

Brightmoonlight · 04/07/2025 15:53

To repeat what others have said they are NOT banned, merely quite properly removed from Childrens section.
Children need to work out about straight sex before being led along the trans route.

TBH I'm not surprised because at the moment there seems to be a trend of rival political parties or campaigners going to the BBC to moan about Reform councillors doing stuff such as removing Pride flags or not spending money on Pride events.

What the media and campaigners don't understand is that these events are not vote losing things. Trump's ban on males in female sport was popular, which is what the left just couldn't understand.

Reform will be judged on whether potholes are fixed, not whether a Pride flag flies from a council building.

And whilst Reform are naturally divisive, their policies around Pride are generally supported.

Viviennemary · 04/07/2025 16:00

I agree. Kids dont need to know. And then they will be brainwashed into thinking boys can be girls and girls can be boys. They can't.

Whataloadoffuss · 04/07/2025 16:00

Yes, of course they shouldn't be in the children's section; they should be in the mental health section instead.