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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
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MouseLouse · 26/06/2025 22:20

My arse is actually male and my elbows are female, so this works out fine if do any crimes.

inkymoose · 26/06/2025 23:06

Thinks ... pantomime horse?

or a Pushmi Pullyu ... some kind of fictional creature anyway that has two halves

SailingWonder · 26/06/2025 23:33

Surely this is a joke?

inkymoose · 27/06/2025 00:02

SailingWonder · 26/06/2025 23:33

Surely this is a joke?

It's not very funny. It's stupid and potentially risky for female officers.

Toseland · 27/06/2025 00:24

What is happening?! It's like late night TV comedy in the 1990s or Kenny Everett!

MistyGreenAndBlue · 27/06/2025 00:32

Just when you thought this stuff couldn't get any more ridiculous

Divebar2021 · 27/06/2025 00:34

As a female police officer this wouldn’t particularly bother me. I’ve searched trans women in the past. I don’t think of all the things that I would be at risk of that this would rate very highly on the danger scale ( I’d be in a police station ). Any officer with concerns would probably not be made to do it unless they were the only female officer for miles. ( and actually I’m pretty suspicious of anyone using concern for female police officers as the reason for opposing this guidance. Typically posters here are pretty critical of police so I’m doubtful anyone has any genuine concerns for my safety ). And just as an aside I am a member of the Mets Gender Critical network.

RedNine · 27/06/2025 00:48

You are suspicious of anyone voicing concern for female police officers who might be exposed to risk from male suspects as a result of this guidance? Mmmkay.

DBSFstupid · 27/06/2025 00:55

lechiffre55 · 26/06/2025 22:11

FFS

moggly · 27/06/2025 01:26

This is stupid. Both halves are the same sex.

DefineHappy · 27/06/2025 01:28

Divebar2021 · 27/06/2025 00:34

As a female police officer this wouldn’t particularly bother me. I’ve searched trans women in the past. I don’t think of all the things that I would be at risk of that this would rate very highly on the danger scale ( I’d be in a police station ). Any officer with concerns would probably not be made to do it unless they were the only female officer for miles. ( and actually I’m pretty suspicious of anyone using concern for female police officers as the reason for opposing this guidance. Typically posters here are pretty critical of police so I’m doubtful anyone has any genuine concerns for my safety ). And just as an aside I am a member of the Mets Gender Critical network.

Check out the past threads on Mumsnet about this - the concern has always been for the females in such scenarios, ie. the females being searched and the females enacting the searches as part of their duties.

FWR can absolutely be critical of police responses and policies, especially when the actions are targeted against women and by transgender offenders appear to be given preferential treatment (ie TRAs given a free pass despite being violent, obscene and threatening, whereas women being interviewed/warned, arrested and charged for ribbons, stickers and being “untoward about paedophiles). This doesn’t change the concern we have for women being placed in a position where they have to search a biological male who insists they are a woman.

TheBig50 · 27/06/2025 01:29

To me, to you.

DefineHappy · 27/06/2025 01:38

moggly · 27/06/2025 01:26

This is stupid. Both halves are the same sex.

Absolutely.

Who searches:
TIM who has had no surgical intervention.
TIM who has had facial feminisation surgery only?
TIM who has had breast implants but retains male genitalia?
TIM who has moobs from incorrect sex hormones, but retains male genitalia?
TIM who has had both breast surgery and plastic surgery to their genitals?
TIM who have retained their penis and had a vaginoplasty?
NB who has had a mastectomy?
NB or gender fluid (natal) female?
NB or gender fluid (natal) male.

Plus, which half of the body does a female have to search on a TIM? L or R, top or bottom?

Divebar2021 · 27/06/2025 07:19

Well unless a person has been searched before we’re not going to know what we’re getting. There’s no real process for asking in custody so you’re working on visual cues I suppose. If a trans woman was “passing” well enough now they would be searched by female officers because we wouldn’t know. ( and I don’t know what post op genitals looks like so I’m not entirely sure what we would know after)

BellissimoGecko · 27/06/2025 07:25

But that’s not following the SC guidance. What a bunch of captured twats.

DeanElderberry · 27/06/2025 07:42

When the Guardian magazine did that double-page spread of images of women's vulvas, even a very brief glance before moving on made it obvious which one wasn't actually a vulva and was not a woman's.

myplace · 27/06/2025 07:47

@Divebar2021 you are making that common mistake of assuming that something which doesn’t seem risky to you is acceptable to all other women.

I understand practicalities will have to be addressed, but as a principle men should not be searched by women, and women should not be intimately searched by men.

There are reasons for that principle. It should apply to everyone- and to both halves of one body.

Mumteedum · 27/06/2025 08:53

DeanElderberry · 27/06/2025 07:42

When the Guardian magazine did that double-page spread of images of women's vulvas, even a very brief glance before moving on made it obvious which one wasn't actually a vulva and was not a woman's.

They did what now? 🤨

DeanElderberry · 27/06/2025 08:58

Mumteedum · 27/06/2025 08:53

They did what now? 🤨

They did indeed. A startling sight with one's mid-morning tea.

In hindsight, it was part of the campaign. Not sure when it was - ten years ago, six, more?

Mumteedum · 27/06/2025 08:59

Was there a penis edition too?

DeanElderberry · 27/06/2025 09:06

Not that I saw, much I might have switched weekend papers, or dropped them (reduced income) or stopped buying them altogether (Covid).

Or maybe someone pointed out to the picture editor that showing a clear photo of obvious surgical damage alongside a lot of varied but normal body parts might not gain as many supporters as they imagined.

If Trans suspects have 'the right' to make that request, do the police have 'the right' to reply 'away out of that you eejit' - or whatever the Scots equivalent is.

NextRinny · 27/06/2025 11:26
Anticipation Popcorn GIF

Scotland! You beauty!

Bring it all to a head, will you please? I've got my popcorn ready.

RegimentalSturgeon · 27/06/2025 11:31

Hic sunt dracones total effing nutjobs.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 27/06/2025 11:48

DeanElderberry · 27/06/2025 07:42

When the Guardian magazine did that double-page spread of images of women's vulvas, even a very brief glance before moving on made it obvious which one wasn't actually a vulva and was not a woman's.

I'm relieved that my Dad (a lifelong Guardian reader) didn't have to see that. The Guardian would have got a stinker of a letter from him. I recall his reaction when he was sent an unsolicited pornographic novel in the post (presumably some acquaintance's idea of a joke). The company that sent it got a snorter of a letter in response; I believe he went as far as to use the words "how dare you". I have never seen him so livid!

user101101 · 27/06/2025 11:50

Divebar2021 · 27/06/2025 00:34

As a female police officer this wouldn’t particularly bother me. I’ve searched trans women in the past. I don’t think of all the things that I would be at risk of that this would rate very highly on the danger scale ( I’d be in a police station ). Any officer with concerns would probably not be made to do it unless they were the only female officer for miles. ( and actually I’m pretty suspicious of anyone using concern for female police officers as the reason for opposing this guidance. Typically posters here are pretty critical of police so I’m doubtful anyone has any genuine concerns for my safety ). And just as an aside I am a member of the Mets Gender Critical network.

Women are critical/untrusting of police due to experience, newsworthy incidents of bad police officers, and bonkers policies like this one. The concern is women’s safety, including yours. I’m glad that you feel unthreatened and might be saying that to prove (to yourself? Your sexist colleagues? ) that you’re worthy of doing your job but you shouldn’t be put in that situation in the first place.