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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
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MyQuirkyTraybake · 27/06/2025 11:57

Divebar2021 · 27/06/2025 00:34

As a female police officer this wouldn’t particularly bother me. I’ve searched trans women in the past. I don’t think of all the things that I would be at risk of that this would rate very highly on the danger scale ( I’d be in a police station ). Any officer with concerns would probably not be made to do it unless they were the only female officer for miles. ( and actually I’m pretty suspicious of anyone using concern for female police officers as the reason for opposing this guidance. Typically posters here are pretty critical of police so I’m doubtful anyone has any genuine concerns for my safety ). And just as an aside I am a member of the Mets Gender Critical network.

Just because you are not bothered, it doesn't mean another female officer isn't. She may not be as brave as you are re: joining networks.

I am concerned for you. You seem totally flippant about being paid to search males and not seeing how another women may feel coerced/the power dynamic at play. I don't see this as normal and I'm concerned about your blanket mistrust in MOP.

I absolutely have concern for coppers, firefighters and paramedics. I believe you're all underpaid for the personal risk to your safety while doing your jobs and I worry terribly for my family doing those jobs.

GreenFriedTomato · 27/06/2025 12:32

MouseLouse · 26/06/2025 22:20

My arse is actually male and my elbows are female, so this works out fine if do any crimes.

😂😂😂

GreenFriedTomato · 27/06/2025 13:02

Scotland has clearly gone completely mad

MrGHardy · 27/06/2025 13:14

What about the right of female police staff not to have to search male suspects?

AnotherVice · 27/06/2025 13:29

Divebar2021 · 27/06/2025 00:34

As a female police officer this wouldn’t particularly bother me. I’ve searched trans women in the past. I don’t think of all the things that I would be at risk of that this would rate very highly on the danger scale ( I’d be in a police station ). Any officer with concerns would probably not be made to do it unless they were the only female officer for miles. ( and actually I’m pretty suspicious of anyone using concern for female police officers as the reason for opposing this guidance. Typically posters here are pretty critical of police so I’m doubtful anyone has any genuine concerns for my safety ). And just as an aside I am a member of the Mets Gender Critical network.

As a female ambulance clinician requested —forced— to do an ECG on a transwoman, who clearly was getting a kick out of me touching his ‘titties’ 🤮 I would hate for you to feel as vulnerable as I did.

SternJoyousBee · 27/06/2025 13:46

Divebar2021 · 27/06/2025 07:19

Well unless a person has been searched before we’re not going to know what we’re getting. There’s no real process for asking in custody so you’re working on visual cues I suppose. If a trans woman was “passing” well enough now they would be searched by female officers because we wouldn’t know. ( and I don’t know what post op genitals looks like so I’m not entirely sure what we would know after)

i don’t think you need to be concerned about post-op generals. The vast majority of TW retain their cock and balls.

is it just transgender male prisoners you are unbothered about searching if are you happy to intimately search other men?

it should be an offence to mislead a police officer, who is about to conduct an intimate search, about your sex.

lcakethereforeIam · 27/06/2025 14:01

Here's a BBC report

Police searches to be based on biological sex - BBC News https://share.google/pFXWHIgri42Ak1cwK

Biological sex but they'll try to accommodate the gender confused. No promises though.

If I were a male copper I'd be wary of carrying out an intimate search of a biological woman. However she presented. Especially as she might be of the basket of beliefs including acab and possibly have mental health vulnerabilities, which seem to be relatively common in trans identifying women.

Two police officers wearing fluorescent yellow jackets are blurred in the background of the image. The front of a police motorcycle is visible in the foreground with the Police Scotland logo.

Police searches to be based on biological sex

The force has issued interim guidance after the UK Supreme Court ruled that sex is binary.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cn0qj5029vyo

Angelabdc · 27/06/2025 15:26

Divebar2021 · 27/06/2025 00:34

As a female police officer this wouldn’t particularly bother me. I’ve searched trans women in the past. I don’t think of all the things that I would be at risk of that this would rate very highly on the danger scale ( I’d be in a police station ). Any officer with concerns would probably not be made to do it unless they were the only female officer for miles. ( and actually I’m pretty suspicious of anyone using concern for female police officers as the reason for opposing this guidance. Typically posters here are pretty critical of police so I’m doubtful anyone has any genuine concerns for my safety ). And just as an aside I am a member of the Mets Gender Critical network.

But would it bother you if the person you were searching became aroused, or enjoyed the spectacle of humiliation for them or you?

And even if you didn’t bother is it not feasible some officers or custody staff would ?

Marylou62 · 27/06/2025 15:38

Divebar2021 · 27/06/2025 00:34

As a female police officer this wouldn’t particularly bother me. I’ve searched trans women in the past. I don’t think of all the things that I would be at risk of that this would rate very highly on the danger scale ( I’d be in a police station ). Any officer with concerns would probably not be made to do it unless they were the only female officer for miles. ( and actually I’m pretty suspicious of anyone using concern for female police officers as the reason for opposing this guidance. Typically posters here are pretty critical of police so I’m doubtful anyone has any genuine concerns for my safety ). And just as an aside I am a member of the Mets Gender Critical network.

I've just want to say I'm very supportive of the police force. (And acknowledging that there are rotten apples amongst you! )
So please have a pat on the back from me..
I have many members of my family and friends who are officers..

Marylou62 · 27/06/2025 15:38

Divebar2021 · 27/06/2025 00:34

As a female police officer this wouldn’t particularly bother me. I’ve searched trans women in the past. I don’t think of all the things that I would be at risk of that this would rate very highly on the danger scale ( I’d be in a police station ). Any officer with concerns would probably not be made to do it unless they were the only female officer for miles. ( and actually I’m pretty suspicious of anyone using concern for female police officers as the reason for opposing this guidance. Typically posters here are pretty critical of police so I’m doubtful anyone has any genuine concerns for my safety ). And just as an aside I am a member of the Mets Gender Critical network.

I've just want to say I'm very supportive of the police force. (And acknowledging that there are rotten apples amongst you! )
So please have a pat on the back from me..
I have many members of my family and friends who are officers..

RaininSummer · 27/06/2025 15:52

This is a comedy.

TheDogsMother · 27/06/2025 16:09

My first thought was half and half down the middle (head to toe). I think I've got it now 😂

Divebar2021 · 27/06/2025 18:51

Let me try and respond to the various things… I’m not a response officer so my experience of strip searching pre dates all the current issues. The women I worked with were all like me - pragmatic “get the job done” types so I’m approaching this issue from a practical view point of the fact we have a prisoner who needs a strip search and we haven’t got tons of time to debate it because it’s busy. If the prisoner doesn’t get searched they will need to be watched constantly and we don’t usually have a spare person to do that.
The trans prisoner I searched previously was a street prostitute and even back then they were asked by the custody sergeant who they wanted to search them ( so this approach is not new) . My team then had some guys on who were absolutely arseholes and I wasn’t confident that they would give the person the dignity that I would give them. So myself and my female colleague did the search it and it was fine. If the prisoner was generally co-operative that would be by stance

Nowadays it’s much more charged - senior management are very nervous about offending the trans community from what I can tell. However on a day to day basis it’s the immediate line management and team who set the approach to these tricky situations. if the prisoner kicks off or in any way causes me issues then we’re stopping. It’s definitely easier for me to say that because I have a lot of service. I appreciate a very young officer may not feel able to speak on these issues but they’re not there doing this on their own.

( as an aside an officer who receives a complaint can have their career stalled / stymied for 2 years or so while investigations are conducted so vexatious complaints can really fuck up a persons career)

lechiffre55 · 27/06/2025 19:24

TheDogsMother · 27/06/2025 16:09

My first thought was half and half down the middle (head to toe). I think I've got it now 😂

Yeah I had similar thoughts. Given all that's gone on I always assume the most ludicrous situation possible given the trans context. My head went fairly quickly towards a checkerboard pattern over the surface of the whole body, with male officers searching one colour of squares and females officers searching the other colour.
Maybe one testacle for each sex to search?
The more ground given to try and accomodate, the more absurd everything gets. Given them an inch and they'll take your single sex spaces, sex based rights, privacy, and dignity.

OP posts:
PonyPatter44 · 27/06/2025 19:52

Interesting to hear from police colleagues about this. Before the grownups took back control in the Prison Service, we had similar dilemmas. We had the insane situation where male prisoners were being searched by female officers, because they claimed they were women. My suggestion at the time was to introduce (hypothetical) Officers Smith, Jones, Padelowski and Patel, all of whom are identifying as ladies today as well...

When it comes to the police, though, my concern is less for female officers compelled to search male suspects, and more for female suspects who may be intimately searched by male officers who are identifying as female. THAT is not acceptable.

SternJoyousBee · 27/06/2025 20:15

@Divebar2021 I appreciate it it’s a difficult and rapidly evolving situation very often and you and your colleagues are in a difficult situation. But TRAs will absolutely weaponise this and they will be submitting vexatious complaints. I don’t want any woman forced to conduct an intimate search of a male bodied person against their will

Divebar2021 · 27/06/2025 23:58

Yes I had a conversation with a senior officer about female officers who didn’t want to search and his viewpoint was it was a disciplined service which is short hand for “ do as you’re told” and we had a fairly frank exchange of views about that ( he’s a friend). In the Met we have enough officers to be able to rustle up other officers if need be but county forces may not have that luxury. I’ve never agreed with trans women officers searching women but I was under the impression that they could not now do that. ( numbers are probably quite few thankfully ).

SternJoyousBee · 28/06/2025 00:57

Thank you for speaking up @Divebar2021 as you said previously, you have seniority/service and can perhaps speak up when more junior or less experienced colleagues cannot. I wonder if your senior officer colleague would expect a female officer to intimately search a non trans identifying male?

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