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SirChenjins · 26/06/2025 09:52

Holluschickie · 26/06/2025 09:41

India has nearly 60% reservations in education, jobs and elected bodies for lower castes. Or as they are properly called: scheduled castes or Dalits.

Can they identify into a higher one from a lower one and is everyone in the higher caste legally required to accept that self ID?

Ramblingnamechanger · 26/06/2025 09:52

Shortshriftandlethal · 26/06/2025 09:41

That's because they occupy a specific place and role in those societies. Societies in which homosexuality is either illegal, or where it is a strict taboo. Even gay men are expected to marry women. The Hijra in India rely on charity and prostitution to survive, and they are certainly not seen as actual women.

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But this means that funding eg for NGOs has to include them in women’s groups . Which means funding is diluted so men can have it. And my experience of meeting these man in India is of bullying on public transport , prostitution and involving young boys . Already there are eg hotel facilities which offer She/ they signage which is of course putting actual women at risk. ( check out the Lalit hotel chain) none of this is for the benefit of women.

Holluschickie · 26/06/2025 09:55

SirChenjins · 26/06/2025 09:52

Can they identify into a higher one from a lower one and is everyone in the higher caste legally required to accept that self ID?

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No. But India has a huge affirmative action plan.
This is not to say that Dalits do not suffer. They do.

MarieDeGournay · 26/06/2025 09:56

StMarie4me · 26/06/2025 09:32

India has recognised a “third gender” for millennia. This is simply putting it in law.

But being a woman isn't a 'gender', it's a biological fact.
You can have two genders, three genders, 1,001 genders, but there are still only two sexes, and it's not possible to swap between them.

So a third gendered person remains in the sex they were born into.
Sometimes the law is an ass, and as the UK is discovering, the law can make a complete ass of itself in 'recognising' an impossibility, i.e. that men can become women and vice versa.

India may find itself having to face up in the future to the mess that the law becomes if it legislates for fiction over fact.

VaddaABeetch · 26/06/2025 09:56

SueSuddio · 26/06/2025 09:39

This.

This is why we Brits have a more realistic take.

I also wonder how many Indian women are allowed to be butch lesbians if they so please.

& have all the rights of men.

Holluschickie · 26/06/2025 09:59

MarieDeGournay · 26/06/2025 09:56

But being a woman isn't a 'gender', it's a biological fact.
You can have two genders, three genders, 1,001 genders, but there are still only two sexes, and it's not possible to swap between them.

So a third gendered person remains in the sex they were born into.
Sometimes the law is an ass, and as the UK is discovering, the law can make a complete ass of itself in 'recognising' an impossibility, i.e. that men can become women and vice versa.

India may find itself having to face up in the future to the mess that the law becomes if it legislates for fiction over fact.

I do agree these are dangerous waters. I bet the judge has no idea who JKR even is. Or only knows her as the Harry Potter author.
The whole discussion has not reached India. There are far bigger problems there.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 26/06/2025 10:09

These societies with a traditional third gender - can women (in the original non-sexist sense of female bodied people) also become them or are they in fact a subset of male social roles?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 26/06/2025 10:19

And at the end of the day, female people exist. We are materially different to male people in concrete observable way that pre dates language and every human culture ever has recognised that fact even if the cultural and linguistic lines they draw on top of it vary. Moving the lines around the word "woman" does not change the material reality under which female people live, nor does it change the cultural and physical consequences of being female.

There is no reason, none whatsoever, that accomodating the gender non-conformity of trans identifying men and women should require that we undefine the social and legal validity of female only rights and language. The only reason this is being pushed for is the ugly selfishness of men and their age old expectation to define and constrain women for their own benefit.

@BeeSouriante why do you hate women (original sex based meaning) so much that you want this to happen to us? Why is it not acceptable to you to support trans people unless it also hurts women?

SirChenjins · 26/06/2025 10:22

Holluschickie · 26/06/2025 09:55

No. But India has a huge affirmative action plan.
This is not to say that Dalits do not suffer. They do.

And why not? If India is so keen to legally accept that men are women, why not extend that right to self ID into other areas across their society and provide the same legal rights to those in lower castes (not just the Dalit) who wish to identify as higher castes?

Or are women's rights not as important?

Zebedee999 · 26/06/2025 10:28

WomenShouldStillWinWomensSportsIsBack · 26/06/2025 09:11

Every arsehole supporting this outcome needs to watch the film Bhakshak on Netflix. They need to see some of what is actually done to natal women in India and how that society systemically covers it up. Then if they have any decency left at all, they should feel a deep sense of shame because if they can watch what happens to the girls in that film and STILL think they're right to support men forcing their way into being female in that specific country, there is no hope for them.

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Quite agree. It's only due to the British colonials that suttee got outlawed there.

Holluschickie · 26/06/2025 10:30

SirChenjins · 26/06/2025 10:22

And why not? If India is so keen to legally accept that men are women, why not extend that right to self ID into other areas across their society and provide the same legal rights to those in lower castes (not just the Dalit) who wish to identify as higher castes?

Or are women's rights not as important?

I suppose because the laws support Dalits. There are innumerable laws supporting them. So legally, there is no need for them to identify as upper caste. Reality is often very different.

Just as there are laws supporting women, but enforcing them is hard.

Thelnebriati · 26/06/2025 10:30

This India?
30% of reported sexual assaults happen when women and girls go outside for the toilet.
www.habitatforhumanity.org.uk/too-scared-to-go/

GallantKumquat · 26/06/2025 10:31

<Deleting, because I'm not sure this was a worthwhile contribution to the discussion.>

Holluschickie · 26/06/2025 10:31

Zebedee999 · 26/06/2025 10:28

Quite agree. It's only due to the British colonials that suttee got outlawed there.

Raja Ram Mohan Roy? Ishwar Chandra Vidyasagar?
Are you now going to argue that colonialism was good for India? Please expand your reading sources.

NextRinny · 26/06/2025 10:33

Surprise, surprise, men rejected anyone different from them (and made them women's problem).

Yeah this says more about Indian men than Indian women.

So OP, do you think the "real" men are all clamouring to have sex with their new class of "women" knowing how much they chase anything in a wrap?

Annoyedone · 26/06/2025 10:39

pourmeadrinkpls · 26/06/2025 09:31

India has always had trans people since I remember, it's been very normal and as far as I'm aware they're not intimidating to other woman. Maybe this is why it's different there. I remember going there at 7 in the late 80s and being confused at men wearing saris and bindis, no one batted an eyelid, had never seen anything similar in the UK. Similar with Pacific Island cultures, they're just an accepted and non threatening part of society.

Yeah. They’re the women not forced into child marriage, killed by their husbands and fathers in the name of “honour”, expected to obey their husbands unconditionally or be beaten, treated as pariahs if they don’t follow their husbands unconditionally strict rules. So what you seem to be saying is, India’s a really progressive place for women, as long as they’re male women?

Holluschickie · 26/06/2025 10:42

Annoyedone · 26/06/2025 10:39

Yeah. They’re the women not forced into child marriage, killed by their husbands and fathers in the name of “honour”, expected to obey their husbands unconditionally or be beaten, treated as pariahs if they don’t follow their husbands unconditionally strict rules. So what you seem to be saying is, India’s a really progressive place for women, as long as they’re male women?

This is really not true. Hijras have terrible lives in India. They are not India Willoughby!
Really, applying a Western lens to India does not work.

Zebedee999 · 26/06/2025 10:44

Holluschickie · 26/06/2025 10:31

Raja Ram Mohan Roy? Ishwar Chandra Vidyasagar?
Are you now going to argue that colonialism was good for India? Please expand your reading sources.

I just stated a fact, the debate is about women in India and I pointed out A FACT that the British outlawed suttee there. Do facts need a trigger warning nowadays for the always offended who don't like them?

Holluschickie · 26/06/2025 10:46

Zebedee999 · 26/06/2025 10:44

I just stated a fact, the debate is about women in India and I pointed out A FACT that the British outlawed suttee there. Do facts need a trigger warning nowadays for the always offended who don't like them?

The FACT is that they got substantial aid from liberal Indians who risked their lives. And sati- to use the real term- was by no means common across India. You need to read more about reforms in India.
Not triggered. But gosh the ignorance.

SirChenjins · 26/06/2025 10:52

Holluschickie · 26/06/2025 10:30

I suppose because the laws support Dalits. There are innumerable laws supporting them. So legally, there is no need for them to identify as upper caste. Reality is often very different.

Just as there are laws supporting women, but enforcing them is hard.

So the answer is no then - lower castes cannot simply self ID into something they are not.

It seems that only men can do that and women have to step aside to accommodate them.

BackToLurk · 26/06/2025 10:53

A transwoman marries a man in a country that hasn't legalised same-sex marriage. Can't imagine why such a country would recognise transwomen as women. It's a mystery

KeepTalkingBeth · 26/06/2025 10:54

Holluschickie · 26/06/2025 09:55

No. But India has a huge affirmative action plan.
This is not to say that Dalits do not suffer. They do.

That's not the point

The answer to the question of "can you identify into another caste?" is no

The answer to the question "is everyone else required to accept your self-identified caste?" is no

And that's why the affirmative action plan is in place

AmandaHoldensLips · 26/06/2025 11:00

Anyone who knows anything about India knows that it is a deeply patriarchal society where women are still very much the underdogs and VAWG is omni-present.

We all know what a woman is, and it's not a man.

Holluschickie · 26/06/2025 11:02

AmandaHoldensLips · 26/06/2025 11:00

Anyone who knows anything about India knows that it is a deeply patriarchal society where women are still very much the underdogs and VAWG is omni-present.

We all know what a woman is, and it's not a man.

Agree with this, ofc.
It's an odd decision.
I wonder what will come of it.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/06/2025 11:06

breakfastdinnerandtea · 26/06/2025 09:05

“Indian law cannot deny transgender women recognition as women solely because they cannot bear children”

But the UK doesn’t deny TW recognition as women because they can’t bear children. They deny TW recognition as women because they are men.
Surely we all know the answer to this? The TW who feel their rights are being trampled on can go and live in India?

I mean, I'd love to do some sort of swap, but the reality is that the number of women in India who need safe single sex toilets is far too great for the UK to welcome them all as refugees, and the number of trans women in the UK who think they'd be better treated in India is so small that it wouldn't make a dent in our population numbers at all.

So it's better for global feminism to help oppose this misogynistic bullshit everywhere in the world, including in India.