There's a YouTuber I used to watch, a gay American guy who did pop culture commentary. He was pretty engaging and knowledgeable. I stopped watching him during lockdown, and I still remember the moment I unsubscribed.
He'd posted this video about being allowed out of the house for his one hour daily walk, and he really wanted to wear his Hogwarts scarf and backpack, but he didn't want to platform hate, and he went on and on and on about this terrible dilemma.
My first reaction was: Jesus, you're in your thirties and you're still so obsessed with Harry Potter that you're beating yourself up about your Hogwarts scarf?
My second reaction was to just find it incredibly sad, because if you'd watched him during lockdown you'd have seen his mental health visibly deteriorate week by week, and I didn't want to watch that any more.
I bet he's one of those guys who did the trans offset.