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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Does anyone else feel disheartened?

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ItsCoolForCats · 01/05/2025 17:32

I was so elated at the ruling and the implications for women's sex-based protections.

And I am happy that certain media outlets have realised (begrudgingly in some cases) that refusing to air the concerns of women over the last decade has lead to a very one-sided debate. It's great to see orgs such as Sex Matters being quoted so extensively now.

However, I'm really disheartened by the sheer scale of the push back and by the fact that so many women don't support the ruling. I mean, why would anyone think that women don't deserve fair and safe sporting opportunities, for example? Why is it always women that are expected to forgo their rights?

The Supreme Court ruling should be definitive, but it doesn't feel like the end. There is the judge bringing the case to the ECHR (I know some legal experts have dismissed any chances of success), but I think activists are going to pile a lot of pressure on the government to make concessions and look at amending the law. The disquiet about the ruling amongst so many Labour MPs about the ruling is concerning me.

Is anyone else feeling a bit dejected?

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Seethlaw · 03/05/2025 16:15

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 16:03

Scoring cheap points off me doesn't change the message, you're just offering excuses to not engage with it.

I never agreed to discuss the analysis. I only ever offered to discuss your initial assertion about the Declaration itself. That you are now frustrated that I won't let myself be dragged into a different discussion is your problem, not mine.

The message of the Declaration is clear: they don't care about trans women, as long as they don't come into women's spaces. End of story.

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 16:18

TeenToTwenties · 03/05/2025 16:08

If you hang round here longer you will realise that there are some very knowledgeable posters on this board who will fact check any assertions you make.
So you had better ensure that when you state something to be true that it is true.
By relying on someone else's incorrect interpretation/analysis of a document rather than reading it yourself and then calling it a 'cheap point' rather than appologising for being inaccurate, you do your argument no favours.

I've been here longer than many of you and I know how this works.You've already derailed this from "are we feeling disheartened?" to "how dare you suggest we want to chase trans people out of society?"

My point is, you are getting the "disheartening" pushback you are because you can't keep your utter contempt for us to yourselves. All your fine talk about "safety dignity and privacy" quickly turns to denigration and disgust at the slightest opportunity, as we see here.

ThatCyanCat · 03/05/2025 16:21

I've been here longer than many of you

Six years, you say?

Have you heard of this amazing band called Nirvana?

Annoyedone · 03/05/2025 16:24

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 16:18

I've been here longer than many of you and I know how this works.You've already derailed this from "are we feeling disheartened?" to "how dare you suggest we want to chase trans people out of society?"

My point is, you are getting the "disheartening" pushback you are because you can't keep your utter contempt for us to yourselves. All your fine talk about "safety dignity and privacy" quickly turns to denigration and disgust at the slightest opportunity, as we see here.

Or it could be that your attitude towards women stinks and you’re being told so. I thought you were a woman? Don’t you know women are supposed to #bekind and not argue or whinge when their rights are being removed? Or is that only for actual women, not the “special” women?

PriOn1 · 03/05/2025 16:25

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 16:18

I've been here longer than many of you and I know how this works.You've already derailed this from "are we feeling disheartened?" to "how dare you suggest we want to chase trans people out of society?"

My point is, you are getting the "disheartening" pushback you are because you can't keep your utter contempt for us to yourselves. All your fine talk about "safety dignity and privacy" quickly turns to denigration and disgust at the slightest opportunity, as we see here.

Men who come onto a women’s board and deliberately disrupt the women who are discussing their feelings over a difficult situation deserve all our contempt.

soupycustard · 03/05/2025 16:26

This is so odd.
I cannot fathom in what way asserting the sex-based rights of females can possibly 'eliminate' trans people.
Why do males need to go into females' safe spaces or take females' prizes in order to be alive?
Why can't males either use males' spaces or compete for males' prizes (or as in many sports compete in the 'open' category), or if they are fearful of other males, start or campaign for more trans spaces and prizes? As to the latter, governments and global corporations are male-dominated the world over and many are very keen on showing solidarity with transwomen so it would be pushing on an open door.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 03/05/2025 16:31

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 12:34

Abusive men are all on your side of the fence. Russell Brand, Glinner, Matt Walsh, Lawrence Fox, Andrew Tate. Rod Liddle, Tommy Robinson. They all "know what a woman is" though so they get a platform for you to benefit from.

As I said before, you spit on a lot of good women when you spit on my life. And then you wonder why they say no to you.

One of these men is not like the others.

Nice try.

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 16:32

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 03/05/2025 16:31

One of these men is not like the others.

Nice try.

Who? Why?

Circumferences · 03/05/2025 16:32

Indeed soupycustard let alone how is it that women having legal same-sex spaces for women is "chasing trans people out of society" ????

Trans people can still crack on in society no one's minded.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 03/05/2025 16:34

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 12:55

Nope. Women's spaces is the vehicle, trans elimination has been the stated goal of Gender Critical / TE rad fem thinking for decades. You only got out the fringes because religious conservatives saw you as useful fodder for their agenda.

Nice conspiracy theory you've got there. Shame it doesn't reflect reality.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 03/05/2025 16:44

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 13:24

"The Declaration on Women's Sex-Based Rights" says otherwise. "Elimination" is the word they use.

https://www.womensdeclaration.com/en/declaration-womens-sex-based-rights-full-text/ is the full text. My browser has a function to search for text within a page. Nowhere does that declaration call for the "elimination" of trans people.

By lying, you prove that you have no legitimate argument.

Declaration on Women's Sex-Based Rights

Declaration on Women's Sex-Based Rights: Full Text - Women's Declaration International

The Declaration on Women's Sex-Based Rights

https://www.womensdeclaration.com/en/declaration-womens-sex-based-rights-full-text/

ThatCyanCat · 03/05/2025 16:44

Oh, are people still doing the "everyone who knows what a woman is has the same attitude towards them" thing? Aka the Oscar Schindler Gambit. Hitler and Schindler both knew what a Jew was, therefore Schindler is Hitler, you see. And if we want to save Jews from Hitler, we absolutely must pretend we don't know what a Jew is, because that will make Jews safer. And if you don't agree, intersex 6' bearded transmen bigot spectrum dingbat teapot orange.

ThatCyanCat · 03/05/2025 16:45

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 16:32

Who? Why?

Stick around for another six years and you might work it out.

Circumferences · 03/05/2025 16:46

Why didn't TRA's ever campaign for safe and fair spaces for trans people rather than demand women's spaces get handed over to everyone?

GC feminists have been suggesting safe and perfectly normal ideas for trans people to navigate in society for a decade or more (not to chase them out in the slightest, but embrace them in the diverse and welcoming society we all know and love) for example mixed-sex spaces alongside the same-sex spaces such as in sports, refuges etc etc. All of our suggestions have been thrown out with the baby in the bathwater because TRA don't want reasonable solutions.

Why is it the end game of TRA extremism wasn't just to abolish same-sex spaces for women but also to destroy the definition of the word "woman" itself?
It's like MRA woman hating on steroids with demonic possession on the side.

Seriously, if TRA had worked with women and alongside us I'm sure we'd be the best of friends.

But they didn't want that. Now they're all tantrumming. Well, boo hoo. Now go sit in your room.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 03/05/2025 16:48

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 13:36

No. Google "an-international-human-rights-law-analysis-of-the-whrc-declaration"

"It becomes clear that what the Declaration is attempting to do is put forward a case for the elimination of ‘gender identity’ from human rights law, and it is then possible to extrapolate from that, that the document would happily see all legal protections removed from trans people. This is particularly clear when, following a misapplication of the Yogyakarta Principles definition, the Declaration states that “the concept of ‘gender identity’ has enabled men who claim a female ‘gender identity’ to assert, in law, policies, and practice, that they are members of the category of women, which is a category based upon sex.” "

Read it yourself and do your own thinking. Outsourcing critical thinking to others is a large part of how gender identitarianism took off in the first place.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 03/05/2025 16:52

teawamutu · 03/05/2025 15:30

Getting the TRA bingo card out. I think we've had quite a few already. Does 'elimination' count as 'literal violence' do we think?

And does anyone have the updated version with genocide, shadowy right wing/Trump etc?

We're going to need a bigger card.

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 16:52

ThatCyanCat · 03/05/2025 16:45

Stick around for another six years and you might work it out.

They are all horrors. Which one do you simp for?

ArabellaScott · 03/05/2025 16:53

Circumferences · 03/05/2025 16:46

Why didn't TRA's ever campaign for safe and fair spaces for trans people rather than demand women's spaces get handed over to everyone?

GC feminists have been suggesting safe and perfectly normal ideas for trans people to navigate in society for a decade or more (not to chase them out in the slightest, but embrace them in the diverse and welcoming society we all know and love) for example mixed-sex spaces alongside the same-sex spaces such as in sports, refuges etc etc. All of our suggestions have been thrown out with the baby in the bathwater because TRA don't want reasonable solutions.

Why is it the end game of TRA extremism wasn't just to abolish same-sex spaces for women but also to destroy the definition of the word "woman" itself?
It's like MRA woman hating on steroids with demonic possession on the side.

Seriously, if TRA had worked with women and alongside us I'm sure we'd be the best of friends.

But they didn't want that. Now they're all tantrumming. Well, boo hoo. Now go sit in your room.

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The tantrums are the point, tbh.

They are very angry that women won't just gosh darn do as they're told.

ArabellaScott · 03/05/2025 16:53

Men aren't women.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 03/05/2025 16:54

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 15:34

I don't see "genocide" on there.

Literally no one is suggesting that men be criminalised for wearing dresses.

soupycustard · 03/05/2025 16:55

So let me get this straight - as someone who isn't a regular on this board and might have missed something - the Declaration didn't say that trans people should be eliminated, and no one here has said that trans people should be eliminated. But asking to retain our sex-based rights, given to us because of systemic societal inequalities caused by the differences between the sexed bodies of males and females, is still in and of itself an elimination?
I can't see how that can be argued.

ThatCyanCat · 03/05/2025 16:55

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 16:52

They are all horrors. Which one do you simp for?

The one who is very much not like the others.

ArabellaScott · 03/05/2025 16:56

Men will never be women.

It doesn't matter how angry this makes anyone.

It doesn't even matter what the Supreme court says, tbh.

It remains the case that sex is dimorphic and immutable, and it will always remain the case.

Furthermore, women will not wheesht.

MadBadDaddy · 03/05/2025 16:57

ThatCyanCat · 03/05/2025 16:55

The one who is very much not like the others.

All celebrity misogynists look and sound the same to me. This is like Guess Who!

Q: Do they have any criminal cases against them?

ArabellaScott · 03/05/2025 16:58

soupycustard · 03/05/2025 16:55

So let me get this straight - as someone who isn't a regular on this board and might have missed something - the Declaration didn't say that trans people should be eliminated, and no one here has said that trans people should be eliminated. But asking to retain our sex-based rights, given to us because of systemic societal inequalities caused by the differences between the sexed bodies of males and females, is still in and of itself an elimination?
I can't see how that can be argued.

They make shit up. That's the problem.