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Get the violins out - Stonewall is "in crisis"

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IwantToRetire · 24/04/2025 02:17

Our biggest LGBT charity is in crisis. Are we just going to let it collapse? LGBT people need armour; an organisation like Stonewall to act as a first line of defence

Stonewall, Britain’s largest LGBT organisation, is in crisis. It’s plummeting financially, with rounds of redundancies as funding cuts hit. And its credibility and influence is plunging amid a national and global backlash against LGBT rights.

This matters. If someone asked you to name the first LGBT organisation that comes to mind, I would bet my cat you’d say Stonewall. Since it was founded more than 35 years ago, the charity has become entwined in our country’s psyche, Parliament, schools, sporting and business sectors. But for how much longer?

However you feel about Stonewall, we need a conversation about the state of the biggest charity defending LGBT people. And we need to ask ourselves a question as the opponents of all kinds of human rights lie in wait: are we just going to let it die?
...
To highlight one recent example of Stonewall’s seemingly waning influence, I asked the Government several times recently whether it has consulted with Stonewall over a proposed ban on conversion therapy since taking office. A spokesperson from the Cabinet Office declined to confirm whether it has even had any meetings with the charity about it, instead offering vaguely: “We will engage further with a broad range of stakeholders.” I asked Stonewall three times, but they did not provide a response.

Perhaps both sides are being coy or don’t want the public to know that they’ve met. But either way, this is as bizarre as it is concerning. Stonewall was once the charity that lobbied every MP in the country to help pass the same-sex marriage law in 2013. Now, it is unclear whether they’ve even had a meeting with the new Government over the psychological torture of LGBT people
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Should it die, many will dance on Stonewall’s grave. But then many would happily see the rights of LGBT people revoked too – thereby exposing how much a strong, influential organisation for this community is still needed.

If you think it should return to only representing lesbian, bisexual and gay people, then you’re ignoring not only the plight of trans people but also how intertwined all these rights are and how many government’s incarcerate people for laws that oppress every letter in the acronym – or pass laws like the Equality Act that protect everyone (until that is chipped away).
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Complete article at https://inews.co.uk/opinion/biggest-lgbt-charity-crisis-stonewall-3645337
Can also be read in full at https://archive.is/yGTYs

(If LGB people can set up their own Alliance, why cant trans people do the same?)

Our biggest LGBT charity is in crisis. Are we just going to let it collapse?

LGBT people need armour; an organisation like Stonewall to act as a first line of defence

https://inews.co.uk/opinion/biggest-lgbt-charity-crisis-stonewall-3645337

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PollyValente · 24/04/2025 13:51

ladymalfoy45 · 24/04/2025 10:36

My tardigrade is using my violin.

Mine too.

Get the violins out - Stonewall is "in crisis"
floormops · 24/04/2025 13:52

mrshoho · 24/04/2025 12:22

Too right. But past and present Governments should also be held to account. How did Stonewall come to yield so much power and be given free rein no matter how much batshit they demanded? Organisations and public bodies quietly began to remove links to Stonewall over the last few years so they knew this was coming but still they were given public funding. One of the worst and largest organisations has been the NHS. I can't imagine costs that have been incurred by the NHS in prioritising such nonsense and the costs that will now come in reversing these policies.

This. The capture and exploitation of the NHS has been absolutely scandalous. Just look at the EDI person in Fife in the Sandy Peggie case. Not qualified in any way shape or form, yet paid more than most HCPs to give terrible advice. All the money wasted on rainbow tat and trans ideology training. They could have been running first aid courses for parents or something more useful with that money.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 24/04/2025 13:54

PollyValente · 24/04/2025 13:51

Mine too.

Oh. My. God. The cuteness.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 24/04/2025 14:17

SerafinasGoose · 24/04/2025 13:15

Indeed, and education runs them a close second.

I'd also be very interested to hear the answer to this question. How in the world did these trans-activist organisations come to gain such a stranglehold over the UK's main public sector institutions, certain sectors of the judiciary, and main political parties? How did they manage to do this by stealth, before those harmed by their constant assaults on the rights of women and children shone sunlight on their actions and were ignored and persectued for ten long years and more?

How were Stonewall and Mermaids able to peddle lies as being actual law, dress those lies up as 'training', and encroach into people's workspaces to brow beat them into compliance with the law as they wished it to be, rather than as it actually was? Why was attendance enforced under pain of potential disciplinary action? Why were rainbow lanyards and pronouns in signatures used to 'police' potential non-compliance?

So many 'whys'. I don't know how we will ever receive answers, but I don't think we should rest until some are forthcoming. The NHS nurses/changing facilities cases and Sarah Summers case might help provide some. Another thing I suspect is coming over the horizon is a mass legal action, in the wake of the Cass Report, against those involved with the Tavistock - individual liability now they've closed it to avoid potential corporate negligece - and its medical transitioning of children without question and without proper safeguarding procedures. Why this isn't already a national scandal is testimony to the amount of power Stonewall, Mermaids et al have wielded for the past decade.

How?

Who backed them, who swallowed and force-fed others their doublethink, who enabled them, and who turned a blind eye to the harm they were so obviously doing?

I really, really want heads to roll for this.

Edited

Now is the time for real investigative journalism to come forward. It’s one of the biggest scandals of our time!

LittleBigHead · 24/04/2025 14:19

I'm in two minds about this because I really think that this is the time for conciliation and compromise and without an organisation to represent the interests of transgender people then that is pretty much impossible.

Well, they could set one up? Just like the Lesbian & gay activists, such as Simon Fanshawe did back in the day, and just as those absolute heroes Kate Jackson and Bev Harris did more recently with the LGB Alliance.

But the TRAs would rather make signs saying "Burn the witch", punch and physically intimidate women, and pee on statues of great women than actually do some hard work.

Zebedee999 · 24/04/2025 14:38

Kinsters · 24/04/2025 05:18

I'm in two minds about this because I really think that this is the time for conciliation and compromise and without an organisation to represent the interests of transgender people then that is pretty much impossible.

I do also think that the reason there isn't an organisation well placed to represent transgender people is because anything less than total capitulation to the TWAW fallacy is met with rejection and hatred so how can any organisation ever come to the table with transgender support and have a productive discussion. The two (trans support and ability to have a productive discussion) are mutually exclusive.

Even now on trans Reddit they are calling for what "needs" to happen for their community and the demand are utterly absurd (especially in the wake of the SC decision). Of course Reddit doesn't represent all transgender people but where are the reasonable ones who are able to talk coherently and discuss compromise. I haven't seen any of that even in what to my mind are very clear cut areas like prisons and ( to a lesser extent?) sports.

I don't see why they need anyone to represent them.
Like most people I just treat them as people. I have known a few and in fact employed two trans men in my business and my podiastrist is also a trans woman. I treat them like anyone else so why do they need representing?
It's when they got representation from the likes of Stonewall that all their troubles started in my view culminating in p1331ng on the statues of venerated people.

WarriorN · 24/04/2025 14:47

ergosd · 24/04/2025 13:23

schools where I live used to have a
“Stonewall Club” at lunchtimes where children (mostly gay/lesbian/neurodiverse) could meet up. Teachers with no training on the matter and with zero attention to safeguarding, provided snacks and for the first time, these children felt like they’d found their people. The number of gender questioning, transitioning children skyrocketed.
I say “used to have” because thankfully most of these schools have now pulled away from Stonewall.
The damage has been done in many many cases though. It’s a question of when, not if, the avalanche of lawsuits start to pile in..

a significant issue going forward is that there’s a number of very prominent head teachers and other school leaders, as well as teacher training lecturers/ professors etc who are extremely pro trans ideology (obviously linked to captured universities) and have made a specific living from being so.

there was a huge rise in edutwitter lovies getting book deals and massaging each others egos. Running school social media accounts that supposedly demonstrated excellent practice in inclusion generally, especially trans. Joining forces to hold online training and conferences etc, especially after the pandemic. doing PHDs in inclusive practice which bizarrely mashed SEND and lgbtq inclusion together.

their Twitter feeds are still demonstrating all of this. The grift has been huge. (It’s increasingly switching to SEND/ autism etc for obvious reasons.)

see: The tattooed head teacher for example.

WarriorN · 24/04/2025 14:48

Moffat is obviously one of these in the mix.

Clarencefloss · 24/04/2025 14:52

IwantToRetire · 24/04/2025 02:17

Our biggest LGBT charity is in crisis. Are we just going to let it collapse? LGBT people need armour; an organisation like Stonewall to act as a first line of defence

Stonewall, Britain’s largest LGBT organisation, is in crisis. It’s plummeting financially, with rounds of redundancies as funding cuts hit. And its credibility and influence is plunging amid a national and global backlash against LGBT rights.

This matters. If someone asked you to name the first LGBT organisation that comes to mind, I would bet my cat you’d say Stonewall. Since it was founded more than 35 years ago, the charity has become entwined in our country’s psyche, Parliament, schools, sporting and business sectors. But for how much longer?

However you feel about Stonewall, we need a conversation about the state of the biggest charity defending LGBT people. And we need to ask ourselves a question as the opponents of all kinds of human rights lie in wait: are we just going to let it die?
...
To highlight one recent example of Stonewall’s seemingly waning influence, I asked the Government several times recently whether it has consulted with Stonewall over a proposed ban on conversion therapy since taking office. A spokesperson from the Cabinet Office declined to confirm whether it has even had any meetings with the charity about it, instead offering vaguely: “We will engage further with a broad range of stakeholders.” I asked Stonewall three times, but they did not provide a response.

Perhaps both sides are being coy or don’t want the public to know that they’ve met. But either way, this is as bizarre as it is concerning. Stonewall was once the charity that lobbied every MP in the country to help pass the same-sex marriage law in 2013. Now, it is unclear whether they’ve even had a meeting with the new Government over the psychological torture of LGBT people
...
Should it die, many will dance on Stonewall’s grave. But then many would happily see the rights of LGBT people revoked too – thereby exposing how much a strong, influential organisation for this community is still needed.

If you think it should return to only representing lesbian, bisexual and gay people, then you’re ignoring not only the plight of trans people but also how intertwined all these rights are and how many government’s incarcerate people for laws that oppress every letter in the acronym – or pass laws like the Equality Act that protect everyone (until that is chipped away).
...

Complete article at https://inews.co.uk/opinion/biggest-lgbt-charity-crisis-stonewall-3645337
Can also be read in full at https://archive.is/yGTYs

(If LGB people can set up their own Alliance, why cant trans people do the same?)

They are in crisis the money is running out. Stonewall fought for gay rights and win . That war was over and no more cash so trans movement was born . More institutions paid for their‘guidance’ and they became the militant force which will be its downfall. Sad but greed has driven them not the needs of the people.

Sskka · 24/04/2025 15:15

Sskka · 24/04/2025 13:39

I thought it was Re-Enchanting but she doesn’t seem to ever have been on there?

I think it’s most likely to have been this one: https://www.theosthinktank.co.uk/comment/2020/04/08/the-sacred-62-ruth-hunt She’s a fascinating listen. I kept wondering how does someone with those qualities end up like this, what makes her tick? I ended up feeling like the answer might be ‘nothing’. That she’s a collection of impressive skills, who could but for the flap of butterfly’s wings be doing anything.

Sorry @LuckyAnt , this was meant to be a response to you.

SirChenjins · 24/04/2025 15:16

Do you hear that silence? That's my violin playing.

Kinsters · 24/04/2025 15:35

Zebedee999 · 24/04/2025 14:38

I don't see why they need anyone to represent them.
Like most people I just treat them as people. I have known a few and in fact employed two trans men in my business and my podiastrist is also a trans woman. I treat them like anyone else so why do they need representing?
It's when they got representation from the likes of Stonewall that all their troubles started in my view culminating in p1331ng on the statues of venerated people.

Transgender people are discriminated against and targeted for being transgender though. I think that every group who is marginalised should have people to speak on their behalf and lobby for their interests.

MarieDeGournay · 24/04/2025 15:40

backslashruby · 24/04/2025 13:40

Thank you @MariadeiMiracoli and @MarieDeGournay. Have donated via Paypal. Unfortunately it doesn't let a message be added but hopefully the timing will be a big clue.

They'll know from my email that donations made around now are likely to be from usSmile

Datun · 24/04/2025 15:42

Kinsters · 24/04/2025 15:35

Transgender people are discriminated against and targeted for being transgender though. I think that every group who is marginalised should have people to speak on their behalf and lobby for their interests.

Which ones? The 13-year-old girls who object to being sexualised and want to opt out of womanhood? Or the middle-aged men who have a sexual fetish and want to wear fishnets to work? Or the autistic children who feel they don't belong anywhere, and are told that transitioning is the solution?

I certainly don't think the second cohort need any representation.

And for the other two, identifying as trans is a solution to two entirely different problems.

SquirrelSoShiny · 24/04/2025 15:50

Datun · 24/04/2025 15:42

Which ones? The 13-year-old girls who object to being sexualised and want to opt out of womanhood? Or the middle-aged men who have a sexual fetish and want to wear fishnets to work? Or the autistic children who feel they don't belong anywhere, and are told that transitioning is the solution?

I certainly don't think the second cohort need any representation.

And for the other two, identifying as trans is a solution to two entirely different problems.

💯

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 24/04/2025 15:55

Kinsters · 24/04/2025 15:35

Transgender people are discriminated against and targeted for being transgender though. I think that every group who is marginalised should have people to speak on their behalf and lobby for their interests.

Well, maybe they should, but then an organisation that insists there's no difference between transwomen and women isn't likely to act in trans people's best interests, or anyone else's for that matter.

mrshoho · 24/04/2025 16:06

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 24/04/2025 15:55

Well, maybe they should, but then an organisation that insists there's no difference between transwomen and women isn't likely to act in trans people's best interests, or anyone else's for that matter.

And any organisation who pushes for puberty blockers and trans ideology towards children poses a serious safeguarding concern. I haven't seen any of the trans charities or any individual trans person or ally give support to the Cass report. Until they agree to keep away from children how can they be considered as a worthy cause.

TheOtherRaven · 24/04/2025 16:47
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Back in the dark ages when it cared about lesbians I helped fundraise. Now thank God for the LGBA.

I defer to Sgt Major Williams.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 24/04/2025 16:49

Gettingmadderallthetime · 24/04/2025 09:15

Well I agree it's hard to define the T. But surely defining the Q+ bit is even more challenging. And the 'I' part arguably has no relevance as it's not about sexual attraction.

Edit: cross-posted with @OvaHere and totally agree

Edited

Stonewall dropped the "I" after lobbying by people with DSDs. The word "Intersex" is not used scientifically any more & those with DSDs find it offensive as they are all either male with a DSD or female with a DSD. Intersex does not exist in humans.

MariadeiMiracoli · 24/04/2025 16:54

Datun · 24/04/2025 15:42

Which ones? The 13-year-old girls who object to being sexualised and want to opt out of womanhood? Or the middle-aged men who have a sexual fetish and want to wear fishnets to work? Or the autistic children who feel they don't belong anywhere, and are told that transitioning is the solution?

I certainly don't think the second cohort need any representation.

And for the other two, identifying as trans is a solution to two entirely different problems.

Great post, would recommend.

PerkyBlinder · 24/04/2025 17:19

Kinsters · 24/04/2025 15:35

Transgender people are discriminated against and targeted for being transgender though. I think that every group who is marginalised should have people to speak on their behalf and lobby for their interests.

I think first they need to define properly the transgender people they are representing. I can definitely see a case to support those who suffer severe dysphoria. This charity would need though to fully support the CASS review and to genuinely work in trans people's best interests rather than in the interests of those who wish to exploit those suffering the dysphoria for their own ends.

There are those who seek to transition minors because they don't like them being gay (see the founder of Mermaids). There are those who seek to transition minors because they have a sexual preference for prepubescent boys (thankfully we have stopped puberty blockers for teenagers). There are those who seek to transition people because they create a lifelong income stream for the drugs and hormone treatments required. Any trans charity is going to need to be acting in a way which only seeks to fully support those with dysphoria even if it means talking therapies (currently Stonewall wants to stop those under the misdirection of calling it conversion therapy when some are dysphoric due to sexual abuse and trauma).

So with all the above in mind, yes there is a space for a charity to support trans people but it's going to have to turn its back on the AGP males and predatory men.

cocoromo · 24/04/2025 17:25

ergosd · 24/04/2025 13:44

this is fascinating. Many huge organisations have left, but many remain:

https://sex-matters.org/about-us/what-we-are-up-against/keeping-track-of-stonewall/

It’s scary to see that list and how many organisations were influenced by Stonewall. I hope it’s torn down brick by brick and the leadership sued. Terrible how far removed they became from their roots.

cocoromo · 24/04/2025 17:29

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 24/04/2025 14:17

Now is the time for real investigative journalism to come forward. It’s one of the biggest scandals of our time!

I was thinking the same thing. It’s time for some answers and I hope some journalists take this up and expose how this was allowed.