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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

A worrying thought about the SC judgment

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PlayerOneReady · 18/04/2025 08:49

Is anyone else concerned that what may happen now, in reality, is a big increase in ‘gender neutral’ facilities as organisations realise they don’t actually have capacity for a third space, at least in the short term?

And we all know from what we’ve seen in theatres, etc, that that will end up with effectively one ‘Men’s/with urinals’ and one ‘Gender Neutral’.

It was this story in today’s Times that made me think about it. I’m especially worried about gym changing rooms etc. Would we have the right to challenge if this does happen?

story:

Equalities watchdog inundated with questions on trans women ruling

https://www.thetimes.com/article/557269e6-2902-4b30-b873-4fac87ba6253?shareToken=131768232050262c20823acf6fe87c92

Equalities watchdog inundated with questions on trans women ruling

Baroness Falkner said organisations may need to provide neutral ‘third spaces’, while JK Rowling celebrated the Supreme Court ruling on social media

https://www.thetimes.com/article/557269e6-2902-4b30-b873-4fac87ba6253?shareToken=131768232050262c20823acf6fe87c92

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ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 18/04/2025 10:38

AND a lot of people can’t or have never had the need to think that on an abstract level, self-ID will allow literally ANYONE in. They say things like “yeah but you’d know if they were “at it”” or “nobody would go to the lengths of pretending” - they don’t understand how laws actually work, that a rule then must be applied without fear or favour. They think that somehow there will be a sensible person in the shop or wherever in the moment who will magically be able to step in and veto people who are exploiting it. It’s naive but it’s how lots of people operate. Which is fair enough on some level but that’s why you need to legislate for bad faith actors whenever you make abstract rules.

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 18/04/2025 10:40

There’s also a fundamental flaw in using Equalities Law to police sex separation, in that there is a safety aspect that only goes one way that does not exist with any of the other PCs…

DuesToTheDirt · 18/04/2025 10:49

Latelifelesbian · 18/04/2025 10:24

Legally they will have to make sure there is space for trans people as they aren’t allowed to discriminate so either they will need to have a third space or they will have to make existing spaces neutral.

But do they need a third space? We've been told there are, what, 64 genders? Do they all get their own space? Or shall we keep it more realistic and merely have female non-binary, male non-binary, MtF, FtM...

WorriedOnion · 18/04/2025 10:49

PencilPleat · 18/04/2025 09:09

I am worried about this too. On World at One BBC R4 yesterday Sarah Montague asked a chap commenting on the impact of the ruling on the NHS whether the answer was to do away with wards organised on sex altogether and just use gender as the determinant for everything.

I actually couldn’t believe what I was hearing. The fact that she was horrified that a TIM might be accommodated with other males, but seemed unconcerned about him being accommodated with females, was staggering.

Sarah Montague often has me shouting at turning off the radio for interrupting and speaking over a great many of the people she is interviewing. She didn't this time. Funny that.

DuesToTheDirt · 18/04/2025 10:54

PencilPleat · 18/04/2025 09:09

I am worried about this too. On World at One BBC R4 yesterday Sarah Montague asked a chap commenting on the impact of the ruling on the NHS whether the answer was to do away with wards organised on sex altogether and just use gender as the determinant for everything.

I actually couldn’t believe what I was hearing. The fact that she was horrified that a TIM might be accommodated with other males, but seemed unconcerned about him being accommodated with females, was staggering.

From the statement by the EHRC they will be policing this.

TheOtherRaven · 18/04/2025 10:58

Probably a good idea to make sure that some of those questions innundating the EHRC are coming from women so it's not a wholly one sided thing.

It will be the obvious next step: that where provision is made, accessibility is equal. There can no longer be mixed sex and mens without there being a womens too.

TheOtherRaven · 18/04/2025 11:00

DuesToTheDirt · 18/04/2025 10:49

But do they need a third space? We've been told there are, what, 64 genders? Do they all get their own space? Or shall we keep it more realistic and merely have female non-binary, male non-binary, MtF, FtM...

A third space has actual accessibility purposes. Parents with opposite sex children, teens and adults with SEND who need to be accompanied by carers or relatives, and of course a third space permits the women who consent to use a mixed sex space to do so.

Yes, it will not be good in terms of validation or in terms of having compelled the non consenting women to submit, but the whole point of the judgement was 'you can't have everything'.

shrinkingthiswinter · 18/04/2025 11:00

Latelifelesbian · 18/04/2025 10:24

Legally they will have to make sure there is space for trans people as they aren’t allowed to discriminate so either they will need to have a third space or they will have to make existing spaces neutral.

No, that isn’t what discrimination means in this context.

If you didn’t let a man use the men’s facilities because he had the protected characteristic of gender reassignment, then that would be discrimination.

Read the judgement so you understand what is and isn’t required.

supremecourt.uk/cases/judgments/uksc-2024-0042

myplace · 18/04/2025 11:06

I think the worst it can get would be- ‘mainly men’ and ‘mainly women’ (essentially what we have now) and that would only be acceptable where single sex places aren’t required.

So as I understand it, workplaces are required to offer single sex facilities.
People providing a service (gym) aren’t- and we can vote with our feet.

Annascaul · 18/04/2025 11:10

TeenToTwenties · 18/04/2025 09:49

You are wishful thinking.

If organisations do this they will lose a lot of their customer base.
Most women don't want to share facilities with men, and decent men don't want to impose themselves on women.

in certain areas anway the law says that separate mens and womens should be provided (sex based now clarified), and if not then full height doors etc which in reality takes up more space.

By the way, by saying it has to be 'policed' are you saying that trans people would willingly and knowingly break the law? For hundreds of years sex separated spaces has worked, it really isn't that difficult.

Added: Oh and I saw a lawyer on another thread explaining why it is up to the person to prove they should be allowed, not the organisation, who have the right to refuse entry.

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Added: Oh and I saw a lawyer on another thread explaining why it is up to the person to prove they should be allowed, not the organisation, who have the right to refuse entry
Oh, that’s good to know.

ZookeeperSE · 18/04/2025 11:11

Redorangehaze · 18/04/2025 10:19

They might do this but I am hoping most places will just say ‘ not my fault gov, it’s the law that says it men’s and women’s innit’

The whole gender bollocks thing has been shown to be far more problematic and far less popular than it was when organizations started changing provision. So I am hoping they will just revert back to how things used to be.

Indeed. And it’s never enough is it? Many organisations have probably been continuously scrabbling to not get cancelled, rather than bowing to the gender woo because they actually believe in it. Now they’ve got the backing of the law to say, sorry guv’ 🤷‍♀️.

EasternStandard · 18/04/2025 11:14

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 18/04/2025 10:34

The vast majority of the general public still see Trans as vulnerable. They imagine confused effeminate man in a dress who has had surgery. We urgently need to get the message out on this.

How do you know this? Just wondering if it’s changed recently due to high coverage of Bryson and others.

ZookeeperSE · 18/04/2025 11:14

Bearsinmotion · 18/04/2025 09:48

I also wonder about the consequences. What happens if men persistently refuse to acknowledge single sex spaces apply to them and continue to use them?

Well, now they can be legitimately challenged without the fear of a visit from the thought police.

Leafstamp · 18/04/2025 11:17

Sorry if already mentioned, but introduction of gender neutral facilities could well be sex discrimination on the basis that the impact is greater (negatively) for women than for men. Any org thinking of making facilities gender neutral should carry out an Equality Impact Assessment. Properly.

BiologicalRobot · 18/04/2025 11:32

Men who are now wailing that they can't go out in public if they can't use female toilets are saying the quiet part out loud.

From a pp above. Very succinct.

TeenToTwenties · 18/04/2025 11:32

Leafstamp · 18/04/2025 11:17

Sorry if already mentioned, but introduction of gender neutral facilities could well be sex discrimination on the basis that the impact is greater (negatively) for women than for men. Any org thinking of making facilities gender neutral should carry out an Equality Impact Assessment. Properly.

Presumably here 'gender neutral' is a euphamism for 'mixed sex'

Single sex facilities can be gender neutral as eg the womens can accept women whether they are just women or have an additional gender identity of transman, non binary, agender or flying pink flamingo.

RiotAndAlarum · 18/04/2025 11:34

Time to dust off this analysis from the Sunday Times? It was based on FOIs about sexual crimes at leisure centres. The article is from 2018, which isn't all that long ago, and can be said to represent "business-as-usual", with no pandemic effects.

Look at how disproportionate the rate of sexual harrassment, voyeurism, sexual assualt, etc. is in mixed-sex facilities, compared to single-sex!

Archive copy <a class="break-all" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20250417165607/www.thetimes.com/article/b6093ee6-ae19-11e8-bc16-e88ad6fee895" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://web.archive.org/web/20250417165607/www.thetimes.com/article/b6093ee6-ae19-11e8-bc16-e88ad6fee895

There were 134 complaints of sexual misconduct in sports centre and swimming pool changing rooms last year, councils said in their FoI responses. Of these, 120 related to incidents that took place in unisex changing rooms and 14 to incidents in single-sex changing rooms. As well as voyeurism, offences recorded in unisex facilities included harassment, sexual assault and rape.

In 46 more cases, councils said, sex incidents were reported in other parts of the premises, such as in or beside the pool, in sports halls, corridors or car parks or an area of the building they could not specify. Some of those not specified could also have been in changing rooms. Not all incidents were reported to police or resulted in prosecutions.

Councils said the vast majority of changing rooms for “dryside” activities, such as fitness training and court or pitch sports, were still single-sex. About half of “wetside” changing rooms, for swimming pools, were mixed.

In Cardiff a 1,000-signature petition has recently been collected against gender-neutral facilities at the new Star Hub leisure centre. Bernie Breen, who started the protest, said the sexes “need to be separate because there isn’t enough staff to keep an eye on everybody”.

The figures show that sports centres in the same city have big differences in sex incidents depending on their changing room arrangements, even where user numbers are similar. In Wolverhampton, two centres, Aldersley Leisure Village and the Central Baths, have only single-sex changing rooms. Between them they had 506,000 users last year and no reported sex incidents.

A third venue in the city, Wolverhampton Swimming & Fitness Centre, has a mixture of single-sex and unisex changing. It had 517,000 users last year and 11 reported sex incidents, all in the unisex changing area.

[edit: I've forgotten how to do links and can't it work! 🙄]

Unisex changing rooms put women in danger

Unisex changing rooms are more dangerous for women and girls than single-sex facilities, research by The Sunday Times shows. Almost 90% of reported sexual assaults, harassment and voyeurism in swimming pool and sports-centre changing rooms happen in un...

https://web.archive.org/web/20250417165607/https://www.thetimes.com/article/b6093ee6-ae19-11e8-bc16-e88ad6fee895

MrsAvocet · 18/04/2025 11:35

CheekySnake · 18/04/2025 10:18

I don't think we will see a rush to change everything gender neutral, in fact I think we will see the opposite. Given that the vast majority of public spaces have male, female, disabled and baby change, the cheapest, quickest, easiest and legal option is single sex toilets and if you can't cope with the toilet appropriate to your sex because you've got gender feelings, you can use the fully enclosed, private, mixed sex disabled toilet.

I appreciate that this isn't fair on disabled people who don't have decent provision as it is. But given that we're told that barely anyone is trans to begin with, surely it won't cause that much of a problem if they are using the disabled facilities. After all, they only want to pee, right?

I have some concerns about the impact on disabled people. I was a wheelchair user temporarily and then needed walking aids for quite a long time after a serious accident a few years ago and it really opened my eyes as to quite how shit provision for disabled people is. I'm ashamed to say that I wasn't really aware before I was in that position myself and I at least had the luxury of knowing that I was probably only going to have to put up with it for a few years, not for the rest of my life.
A lot of the discussions around this topic centre on the fact that transwomen's rights do not trump women's rights. They don't trump disabled people's rights either. There's enough abuse of facilities for the disabled already and "just use the disabled loo if you're not happy to use the facilities provided for people of your sex" is a slippery slope in my opinion.
(I can't quite tell if you're being sarcastic or not though, apologies if you are and I've misread you.)

sashh · 18/04/2025 11:36

Latelifelesbian · 18/04/2025 10:24

Legally they will have to make sure there is space for trans people as they aren’t allowed to discriminate so either they will need to have a third space or they will have to make existing spaces neutral.

There already is. It depends on their sex not their 'identity'.

As for men being nice, well on the odd occasion I've used the men's because the women's has been too busy they have been fine. One even 'guarded' the door for me so another man would not come in.

I wonder if the 'selfie in the ladies' will be tried in the gents?

RedHelenB · 18/04/2025 11:41

Latelifelesbian · 18/04/2025 10:24

Legally they will have to make sure there is space for trans people as they aren’t allowed to discriminate so either they will need to have a third space or they will have to make existing spaces neutral.

No they won't. The law doesn't say that trans people get their own space, just that they don't have the right to use the opposite sex provision.

WarriorN · 18/04/2025 11:42

I have a few concerns generally about wider implications, especially around backlash from various charities against this and stirring of hyperbole, in relation to the concept of “trans children.”

one thing I do know is that single sex contained loos take up more space but there’s asli certain ratio of service users per loo that can be hard to accommodate when planning / designing buildings.

this is what we will need to tackle next, case by case.

its been a lazy cheap work around to slap “all genders” on the women’s loos.

WarriorN · 18/04/2025 11:42

RedHelenB · 18/04/2025 11:41

No they won't. The law doesn't say that trans people get their own space, just that they don't have the right to use the opposite sex provision.

they may quickly learn how expensive it will be to accommodate third spaces and it will all be dropped like a stone pdq.

WarriorN · 18/04/2025 11:44

MrsAvocet · 18/04/2025 11:35

I have some concerns about the impact on disabled people. I was a wheelchair user temporarily and then needed walking aids for quite a long time after a serious accident a few years ago and it really opened my eyes as to quite how shit provision for disabled people is. I'm ashamed to say that I wasn't really aware before I was in that position myself and I at least had the luxury of knowing that I was probably only going to have to put up with it for a few years, not for the rest of my life.
A lot of the discussions around this topic centre on the fact that transwomen's rights do not trump women's rights. They don't trump disabled people's rights either. There's enough abuse of facilities for the disabled already and "just use the disabled loo if you're not happy to use the facilities provided for people of your sex" is a slippery slope in my opinion.
(I can't quite tell if you're being sarcastic or not though, apologies if you are and I've misread you.)

fully agree.

I also didn’t realise how easy it is to get a blue key. A friend does need one for a certain urinary condition but appears to have just bought one from a chemist.

WarriorN · 18/04/2025 11:46

A thread for @keeptoiletssafecertainly, hope you don’t mind the tag.

CheekySnake · 18/04/2025 11:47

MrsAvocet · 18/04/2025 11:35

I have some concerns about the impact on disabled people. I was a wheelchair user temporarily and then needed walking aids for quite a long time after a serious accident a few years ago and it really opened my eyes as to quite how shit provision for disabled people is. I'm ashamed to say that I wasn't really aware before I was in that position myself and I at least had the luxury of knowing that I was probably only going to have to put up with it for a few years, not for the rest of my life.
A lot of the discussions around this topic centre on the fact that transwomen's rights do not trump women's rights. They don't trump disabled people's rights either. There's enough abuse of facilities for the disabled already and "just use the disabled loo if you're not happy to use the facilities provided for people of your sex" is a slippery slope in my opinion.
(I can't quite tell if you're being sarcastic or not though, apologies if you are and I've misread you.)

No, I completely agree that provision for disabled people is absolutely awful and that all too often, the disabled toilet is seen as a free for all when it's not.

I'm just saying that I think this is how things will go because it's the easiest and cheapest path forwards.