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KnottyAuty · 16/04/2025 17:56

Chariothorses · 16/04/2025 17:45

@KnottyAuty I know several women being interviewed by regional BBC tomorrow.

Exactly - tomorrow!
(But glad to hear they are at least trying to sort it out late)

Felinnefine · 16/04/2025 17:57

NessieDoesExistYes · 16/04/2025 17:54

I don't.

I'd prefer' in my experience'.

Lived goes without saying. Or you'd be dead.

Yes. I agree.. that’s why I was glad the pp used quotation marks.

Peony1897 · 16/04/2025 17:57

Chariothorses · 16/04/2025 17:52

I was in a room with about 100 (!) 16- 18 year olds last year and only a few girls had short hair. From photos I see from a generation ago (eg the 80s) everyone did what they wanted and there was a total mixture.

I think thats due to regressive trans enforcement of gender stereotypes (remember the sexist trans/ mermaids gingerbread person- if you have long hair you're a girl, short hair you're a boy).

Hope that changes soon.

It’s very, very heavily gendered now. The ‘look’ for Gen Z girls is the blow up sex doll look - big lips, small thin nose, big eyelashes, long hair, tiny waist with big bum/boobs. Then there the fake tan and long nails. I was watching a reel the other day of sixth formers in 2003 on their last day of school and what struck me was how toned down even the glamorous girls looked compared to now - just straightened hair and some make up, nice top and jeans.

Zita60 · 16/04/2025 17:59

akkakk · 16/04/2025 17:33

Can it go to the ECHR? surely to appeal from the Supreme Court needs one of the parties who have had the judgement against them to take that appeal - wouldn't anyone else have to take it through national courts first - and the ECHR is only there if their rights are being restricted by the nation's courts... as the judgment has made very clear - no rights are being oppressed by this clarification - all people still have full rights against harassment / discrimination etc. - so it would be challenging to find a basis on which to take it to the ECHR

regarding the comments about transwomen being male - they always have been male in law - you can't change your sex, if born male, you will always be male - so this is simply a clarification that the law recognises this... and always has done

I hope you're right. The Scottish Government has said it accepts the decision, so presumably they aren't intending to take it to the ECHR. I think you're right that no-one else can.

CheshireSplat · 16/04/2025 18:02

I've just cancelled the direct debit I have had with Amnesty for 30 years... I gave them all my birthday money for two or three years in my teens and campaigned heavily for them at university.

This is what I've told them. I'd like to thank the PP who used the "when sex matters, it really matters" line. That resonated and I'll be using it on a few friends!!

Hi.

I'm just writing to inform you that I've cancelled my DD as a result of your reaction to the Supreme Court judgment.

The judgment is not "disappointing", it is crucial for women's rights. I think in particular of the case highlighted by Baroness Nicholson, in the House of Lords debate on SSA, about the case of a male patient raping a female patient, who was then told by NHS staff that no rape could have taken place because there were no males on the ward, when in fact the alleged rapist is a male who identifies as a woman). The trauma she must have gone through, being gaslit and doubted.

In addition I am thinking of women's refuges and women's sports. Sex doesn't always matter, but when it matters, it really matters.

I have supported Amnesty for over 30 years, since I donated all my birthday money at the age of 13, campaigned extensively at University, but you have completely lost the plot.

I sincerely hope that transpeople can have an easier life, I'm a tolerant left wing wishy-washy woman, but this isn't anti trans, it's pro women, and separate.

Felinnefine · 16/04/2025 18:03

Peony1897 · 16/04/2025 17:57

It’s very, very heavily gendered now. The ‘look’ for Gen Z girls is the blow up sex doll look - big lips, small thin nose, big eyelashes, long hair, tiny waist with big bum/boobs. Then there the fake tan and long nails. I was watching a reel the other day of sixth formers in 2003 on their last day of school and what struck me was how toned down even the glamorous girls looked compared to now - just straightened hair and some make up, nice top and jeans.

That’s interesting, and sad. My daughter goes to an all girls school. They’re much more like your 2003 example than the lip job / boob job / fake eyelashes examples that we see on social media.
Not sure what that says, but it says something.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 16/04/2025 18:03

Wings Over Scotland have been quick of the mark, with a very through distillation of the judgement.

'In another unconventionally strong bit of judicial language, the Scottish Government’s position is at one point described as “unprincipled”, “impractical”, “perverse”, being of “doubtful” truth and characterised by “incoherence”. Ouch. That’s gotta sting.'

Wings Over Scotland | The highlights show

PriOn1 · 16/04/2025 18:04

This is in response to @theilltemperedqueenofspacetime but I lost the quote somehow…

I haven’t quite reached the latest posts, but a couple of pages have gone with no-one addressing this, so I shall make an attempt, specifically with relation to this part:

But those women-only entities that are permitted under sex-discrimination law because of reasons of safety, fairness and privacy (toilets and changing rooms, prisons, refuges, sports teams) can only justify the exclusion of TW by reference to a proportionate means to a legitimate end, which is more onerous.”

This is based on a misconception regarding the Single Sex Exemptions. Being trans is irrelevant as these exemptions are about sex and trans status/gender reassignment is entirely irrelevant.

What your statement should read, had Stonewall et al not muddied the waters all these years is that:

Those women-only entities that are permitted under sex-discrimination law because of reasons of safety, fairness and privacy (toilets and changing rooms, prisons, refuges, sports teams) can justify the exclusion of MEN so long as it is a proportionate means to a legitimate end.

It isn’t particularly onerous to explain why men should be excluded from those spaces. And now it has been absolutely confirmed that whether those men claim a trans identity or not is irrelevant. So you don’t have to justify why you want to exclude any specific group of men. All men can be excluded, so long as that is a proportionate means to a legitimate end. The Supreme Court has just pointed out that even the men with apparently the strongest case to claim they are women, are still excluded along with all the other men.

Catiette · 16/04/2025 18:04

Just popping on without having read the whole thread to say... Yay! Posted a few times on the other thread, but wanted to say a big thank you here as well to everyone reading who contributed in any way to this, an even bigger thank you to the sheroes who spoke out in public with such courage and clarity, and how wonderful it feels to have this judgment. The relief I feel is striking - it's like a weight's been lifted. Not the whole weight - we've a long way to go yet, no doubt - but to receive "formal", public recognition and validation of everything women on here have been saying for so very long on this scale means the world. It's been far too long coming, and that it was even needed is appalling, but it's securely "on the record" now for posterity... and the RSOH!

StupidBoy · 16/04/2025 18:05

There is an awful lot of what I can only describe as Performance Weeping going on on TikTok this afternoon.

teawamutu · 16/04/2025 18:05

LoyalMember · 16/04/2025 17:05

David Tennant's a smug, wee luvvy arsehole.

He is indeed. Be interesting to see if he sounds off. Not least because - and this might be a typo - I caught this in an interview with him and his idiotic wife the other day. She's referring to their very loudly previously proclaimed 'nonbinary' child...

Supreme court ruling
Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 16/04/2025 18:05

Peony1897 · 16/04/2025 17:57

It’s very, very heavily gendered now. The ‘look’ for Gen Z girls is the blow up sex doll look - big lips, small thin nose, big eyelashes, long hair, tiny waist with big bum/boobs. Then there the fake tan and long nails. I was watching a reel the other day of sixth formers in 2003 on their last day of school and what struck me was how toned down even the glamorous girls looked compared to now - just straightened hair and some make up, nice top and jeans.

It's grim, isn't it. I can't post it, but I have a school photo from around 1976 which shows a wide variety of hairstyles in my form of 27 girls aged about 15. Every single one of us was female. In the years since our lives have been shaped, in part anyway, by being female. I'm so glad I'm not young now and my daughter is in her 30s, so missed most of this madness.

SquirrelSoShiny · 16/04/2025 18:06

'Stonewall have deep concern' apparently according to BBC. Deep concern that the grift is over most likely. They certainly don't have any concern for the gay and autistic teens they have encouraged to self-mutilate over the past decade. Bastards.

Felinnefine · 16/04/2025 18:07

SquirrelSoShiny · 16/04/2025 18:06

'Stonewall have deep concern' apparently according to BBC. Deep concern that the grift is over most likely. They certainly don't have any concern for the gay and autistic teens they have encouraged to self-mutilate over the past decade. Bastards.

Edited

They’ll need to get proper jobs and everything, now.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 16/04/2025 18:07

SquirrelSoShiny · 16/04/2025 18:06

'Stonewall have deep concern' apparently according to BBC. Deep concern that the grift is over most likely. They certainly don't have any concern for the gay and autistic teens they have encouraged to self-mutilate over the past decade. Bastards.

Edited

Won't anybody think about the money?

Ohyoudodoyou · 16/04/2025 18:09

I've seen so many men kicking off on FB and X, it's incredible, almost like this WIN has done them personal harm. I have blisters on my fingers from liking all the WIN posts on X today, Lord there are a lot of them. I enjoyed popping over to see some of the most misogynistic accounts on X and what they have to say about the WIN. A ranty journalist has only given it a cursory 'blah blah we stand with TW' crap when at one stage they were on it every day (they have another more important cause now!) and I've noticed a much more muted response about the WIN from previously angry accounts. Could be they are festering and planning some sort of hex on all of us women here on Terf Island. Well, we (a big load of women of all ages) have been messaging each other all day about the WIN with a spring in our step! I enjoy putting win in capitals.

DeffoNeedANameChange · 16/04/2025 18:11

Peony1897 · 16/04/2025 17:57

It’s very, very heavily gendered now. The ‘look’ for Gen Z girls is the blow up sex doll look - big lips, small thin nose, big eyelashes, long hair, tiny waist with big bum/boobs. Then there the fake tan and long nails. I was watching a reel the other day of sixth formers in 2003 on their last day of school and what struck me was how toned down even the glamorous girls looked compared to now - just straightened hair and some make up, nice top and jeans.

It's almost as though the concept of female as a costume/performance has permeated through a whole generation....

Catiette · 16/04/2025 18:11

WINNIN' for the WIMMIN!

Zita60 · 16/04/2025 18:12

CheshireSplat · 16/04/2025 18:02

I've just cancelled the direct debit I have had with Amnesty for 30 years... I gave them all my birthday money for two or three years in my teens and campaigned heavily for them at university.

This is what I've told them. I'd like to thank the PP who used the "when sex matters, it really matters" line. That resonated and I'll be using it on a few friends!!

Hi.

I'm just writing to inform you that I've cancelled my DD as a result of your reaction to the Supreme Court judgment.

The judgment is not "disappointing", it is crucial for women's rights. I think in particular of the case highlighted by Baroness Nicholson, in the House of Lords debate on SSA, about the case of a male patient raping a female patient, who was then told by NHS staff that no rape could have taken place because there were no males on the ward, when in fact the alleged rapist is a male who identifies as a woman). The trauma she must have gone through, being gaslit and doubted.

In addition I am thinking of women's refuges and women's sports. Sex doesn't always matter, but when it matters, it really matters.

I have supported Amnesty for over 30 years, since I donated all my birthday money at the age of 13, campaigned extensively at University, but you have completely lost the plot.

I sincerely hope that transpeople can have an easier life, I'm a tolerant left wing wishy-washy woman, but this isn't anti trans, it's pro women, and separate.

Good for you! I used to support them too, but stopped a long time ago.

DuesToTheDirt · 16/04/2025 18:18

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 16/04/2025 18:03

Wings Over Scotland have been quick of the mark, with a very through distillation of the judgement.

'In another unconventionally strong bit of judicial language, the Scottish Government’s position is at one point described as “unprincipled”, “impractical”, “perverse”, being of “doubtful” truth and characterised by “incoherence”. Ouch. That’s gotta sting.'

Wings Over Scotland | The highlights show

Edited

"Much of it [the judgement], of course, can be summarised as “the bleeding obvious”." Grin

CheshireSplat · 16/04/2025 18:20

Zita60 · 16/04/2025 18:12

Good for you! I used to support them too, but stopped a long time ago.

I've been tempted before, they do so much good work that I couldn't bring myself to do it and I've been invested for so long... But I've finally lost patience, they had this chance to graciously stand down.

DuesToTheDirt · 16/04/2025 18:21

I really did not expect the judgement to be so strong, nor so thorough. It's delightful.

mrshoho · 16/04/2025 18:21

Apologies if already posted but here's is KJK's post (one of many and so she should) following today's ruling. Good on you Kelli 👏

x.com/ThePosieParker/status/1912516297969062109?t=UILsAbwZNW5WnvwVatbbuw&s=19

Theeyeballsinthesky · 16/04/2025 18:26

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 16/04/2025 18:07

Won't anybody think about the money?

And the support animals! What will become of them?

Lucylongcat · 16/04/2025 18:26

This is fabulous news.

I am really struck by the pictures of celebrating women. How often do we see groups of successful women in the news, wielding their collective power? The reverse is true - we see groups of men imposing their wills on the world all the time. It really puts paid to the whole "backed by the American right wing" argument... does anyone really think that if this wonderful effort was funded by US right wingers, they wouldn't have been there, in their manly suits, to gloat and hog the limelight?

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