Every time I think I have got a grip on what the various outcomes could mean, it feels like there is another twist. In my head it’s so so simple and yet we have ended up with legislation that is so contradictory and illogical.
Yep, it's an utter mindfuck of obfuscation when it's reported in the press.
I like the "simple" graphic that Sex Matters created which shows the absurdity of turning a belief into reality, via a certificate. Screenshot below.
So if FWS loses and my husband gets a GRC to say he's a woman, I'm now a lesbian (as is "she"). But if I then get a GRC to say that I'm a man, we're both back to being straight again. TBF to the Scottish government, that does seem to be a reasonable interpretation of the law, given the spousal exit clause in the GRA which allows a spouse to divorce someone before the marriage reverts from being a straight marriage to a gay one.
Just to clarify, I would have no issue being in a lesbian marriage if I were a lesbian. My issue would entirely be that my own sexual orientation should never be affected by someone else getting legal recognition of their personal belief (that they have a gendered soul that is the opposite sex).
Surely common sense will prevail and the law will recognise that nobody's personal belief should ever affect someone else's (legal) reality.
My understanding is that if FWS wins, GRCs will be as meaningful as a certificate which states you're a member of the Biggles Police (great analogy!) or if a Christian wanted one that says "god loves me".
If someone needs a certificate to validate their own feelings and beliefs, fine. But these certificates need to be toothless in law. Thankfully we don't get children being indulged as real police officers, or Christians demanding priority access to healthcare or other services over non-believers (luckily most Christians seem to believe that god loves everyone, no certificate required... even atheists like me... so it wouldn't happen). Yet for gender identity, these certificates get a solemnity that makes zero sense.
Yes, some people genuinely believe that they have a gendered soul that is "in the wrong body". Yes, that must be awful to have this genuine belief and distress. But that doesn't mean everyone else should need to accommodate the belief as if it were true.