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Signalbox · 06/04/2025 08:40

The hearing is scheduled for 7th-11th April at Canterbury County Court.

Tribunal Tweets will be following the case…

Live tweeting sessions Abbreviations
J - His Honour Judge Parker
HH - Harriet Haynes, claimant
RW - Robin White, claimant’s barrister
CC - Colman Coyle, claimant's solicitor
EBPF - English Blackball Pool Federation
PT - Paul Thomson, defendant
AG - Anna Goodwin, defendant
SC - Sarah Crowther KC, defendants’ barristers, and
SS - Sapandeep Singh Maini-Thompson
JRL - JR Levins LLP, defendants’ solicitor
JG - James Goodwin, witness for defendant

The original thread has been deleted for “breaking Mumsnet guidelines”. Not sure why but possibly “misgendering” or possibly making it too easy to find the crowdfund @mumsnet it would be good if you could let us know so this thread can stay up. Do we have to pretend that the Claimant is female?

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murasaki · 08/04/2025 13:19

EdithStourton · 08/04/2025 13:18

Or, indeed outsource your emotional regulation mostly to women, by intruding into their spaces, restricting their speech and so on.

Because I can't help but notice that women seem to do a lot more running around after TRAs than men do.

Kindness is such an important thing, but if my DC were young now, I would caution them endlessly about having their kindness used against them.

I've said it before and will say it again, #bekind was one of the worst things to happen to women.

StickItInTheFamilyAlbum · 08/04/2025 13:26

EdithStourton · 08/04/2025 13:18

Or, indeed outsource your emotional regulation mostly to women, by intruding into their spaces, restricting their speech and so on.

Because I can't help but notice that women seem to do a lot more running around after TRAs than men do.

Kindness is such an important thing, but if my DC were young now, I would caution them endlessly about having their kindness used against them.

There is an FWR thread about this and women’s inner Beryls and when kindness can be actively harmful.

Datun · 08/04/2025 13:33

Mmmnotsure · 08/04/2025 11:50

Okay, they are really DARVOing us now. RW saying that decisions were made without consulting trans people.

Remind me how many decisions/policies/etc across the UK over the past ten years or so that impact on women have been taken/implemented without consulting... women.

It honestly wouldn't surprise me if RW was genuinely aggrieved that men weren't consulted, and genuinely hadn't even considered that women should be consulted.

As I said, when you truly believe women to be support humans, you tend not to take anything to do with their well-being into account. Without thinking.

Seeing everything through the male gaze, with male entitlement, and male privilege will absolutely blind you to everything else.

Especially so for men who one hundred percent rely on women's subordination to them, 24/7, for their very existence.

i'm sure there's a word for the conundrum that means how vital women and their spaces are to certain men, whilst simultaneously, being as significant to them as an ant.

BunfightBetty · 08/04/2025 13:42

EdithStourton · 08/04/2025 13:18

Or, indeed outsource your emotional regulation mostly to women, by intruding into their spaces, restricting their speech and so on.

Because I can't help but notice that women seem to do a lot more running around after TRAs than men do.

Kindness is such an important thing, but if my DC were young now, I would caution them endlessly about having their kindness used against them.

Yes, you are correct. I was too unspecific. It isn’t society as a whole that’s expected to manage the mental health problems of those men, it’s women the vast majority of the time. And our kindness and the societal demand of that that have been weaponised against us.

Mmmnotsure · 08/04/2025 13:42

@Datun i'm sure there's a word for the conundrum that means how vital women and their spaces are to certain men, whilst simultaneously, being as significant to them as an ant.

Transgenderism?

Datun · 08/04/2025 13:45

Mmmnotsure · 08/04/2025 13:42

@Datun i'm sure there's a word for the conundrum that means how vital women and their spaces are to certain men, whilst simultaneously, being as significant to them as an ant.

Transgenderism?

🤣

Totally

Signalbox · 08/04/2025 13:53

Apparently Blair Hamilton is the expert witness for the Claimant.

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Datun · 08/04/2025 13:55

Signalbox · 08/04/2025 13:53

Apparently Blair Hamilton is the expert witness for the Claimant.

Excellent. The more zealots they ask to support them, the quicker their (non) argument is exposed

moto748e · 08/04/2025 14:01

That sounds like idiocy! Let them get on with it!

Bundlejuice · 08/04/2025 14:09

Datun · 08/04/2025 13:55

Excellent. The more zealots they ask to support them, the quicker their (non) argument is exposed

Bring it on.

thenoisiesttermagant · 08/04/2025 14:13

BunfightBetty · 08/04/2025 12:57

This.

It is FUCKING OUTRAGEOUS to me that in 2025, as a woman, I am having my freedom of speech curtailed and being dictated to about which terms I can use to describe facts by men. And not only are men feeling they should control women’s speech, but Mumsnet, a forum mostly used by women, are tugging their forelock to these controlling men and going along with it.

It’s a fucking disgrace.

As to concerns about losing advertising revenue, us (as in site users) and our content on this site are the product that gets Mumsnet the advertising revenue in the first place.

I am grateful by and large to Mumsnet for showing more backbone than many other sites overall. But it is very disappointing that they appear to now be rowing back from their previous sensible position and are now running scared of somebody male, just because they are a lawyer. The law is the law and somebody being a lawyer should not give them an advantage over other non-lawyers.

Agree 100%.

Also, I'm willing to bet the spending power of the women of mumsnet is far, far greater than the entirety of the transgender movement.

It's not about the advertising, it's about advertisers being willing to bow down before a tiny number of male bullies demonstrating male abuse tactics.

Also - just a point that women who are trans identified (trans men) CAN play in women's sports as long as they're not doping (i.e. taking testosterone). It's about sex not gender.

PoshCoffee · 08/04/2025 14:17

Blair Hamilton. Brilliant!
Is Blair appearing in person? The optics, again, will be excellent.

SidewaysOtter · 08/04/2025 14:53

But it is very disappointing that they appear to now be rowing back from their previous sensible position and are now running scared of somebody male, just because they are a lawyer.

To be fair, most people don't know the law (or the nuances of it) so when someone who is a lawyer comes along, people think they must be right. IANAL, but a bit of legal knowledge and legalese can go a very long way if you want to come down heavy!

Also, being fair to MN's moderators, I think the position has vastly improved in the last few years - phrases such as "TIM" or references to autogynephilia are often allowed to stand whereas previously they'd have been reported and deleted. Time was we'd have been knee-deep in deletions on a thread like this, but they've actually been accepted and reinstated so I think that's progress.

Madcats · 08/04/2025 15:08

SC: Not sure where this is going.
J: I suppose it must be the animus thing, which we've already had lots about
SC: There is no procedural fairness issue here.

This is all sounding a bit like scenes from the Vicar of Dibley. Presumably these are fairly elderly volunteers(?)who are really struggling to remember all this stuff because it was ages ago and they are finding RMW X-exam all rather stressful/confusing.

Mmmnotsure · 08/04/2025 15:19

@Madcats
It's a non-profit org and they are volunteers. These are older people - grey haired, normal, with (I assume) local accents - standing up for women and girls. The man on the stand has just tried to explain to RW how it is different for boys/young men - can go into a pub or hall and play - and how a teenage girl can't really do that on her own in the same way. AFAICS RW gives no indication of understanding or caring about that.

Cailleach1 · 08/04/2025 15:32

The clearest bit of questioning was when the Judge too over.

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 08/04/2025 15:39

From what I've seen the judge seems to.be doing most of the questioning and RW seems to be making statements that the C disagrees with - this seems unusual?

MichelleCancelled · 08/04/2025 15:42

I'm finding this very upsetting, volunteers just doing what they think is best having their words and actions twisted. I hope the Judge can see this.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/04/2025 15:44

Signalbox · 08/04/2025 13:53

Apparently Blair Hamilton is the expert witness for the Claimant.

Superb 👏

Fenlandia · 08/04/2025 15:50

SerenaSemolena · 08/04/2025 13:09

Quick Google re how men and women's vision is different:

there are some differences in vision between men and women, with men generally having better visual acuity and the ability to track moving objects
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Seems relevant.

Women are good at spotting when the goalposts keep getting moved by trans activism though...

murasaki · 08/04/2025 15:53

Fenlandia · 08/04/2025 15:50

Women are good at spotting when the goalposts keep getting moved by trans activism though...

Especially when it's Blair Hamilton between the goalposts.

Cailleach1 · 08/04/2025 15:56

Yes, I find it more consistently ‘grubby’ than what we have seen recently. And, the judge seemed to have to intervene to clean it up.

anyolddinosaur · 08/04/2025 15:57

I hope someone is going to question this "expert" witness then - and point out the poor attempt at science.

Cailleach1 · 08/04/2025 16:06

So, there are expert witnesses. Wonder what makes BH an expert in safety and fairness for women in sport. Not for the entitlement of males, but for women in their own sports.

BeLemonNow · 08/04/2025 16:12
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I know this is a serious business, but I would like the lawyers and judge to now go down a "local pub" and start actually playing pool...I suspect that is not their usual haunt.

I really hope it isn't lost on some procedural fairness technicality. They had sound reasons for excluding trans women from the female competition.