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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Do you "feel like a woman"? What does that mean?

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Fingernailbiter · 29/03/2025 15:46

I have always said I think it’s bollocks that everyone "knows instinctively" what gender they are, with no reference to learned stereotypes, so that a male could feel that his "authentic self" is female/a woman. I’ve always said I know I’m a woman because I’m an adult human female, but I just "feel like" a person.

But someone has said to me what about many women's instinctive longing for a baby of their own? I couldn't think of a good answer to that. I certainly longed for babies and felt very "maternal" when I had them. I know not all women feel that way, and I know some men really want children of their own, but there’s no denying that maternal urge. Could it be true that that (a hormonal thing?) counts as "feeling like a woman"?

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TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 06/07/2025 11:00

Clarice99 · 29/03/2025 15:56

I am a biological female. My sex is female. I had no hormonal urges for a child. I never, ever felt that maternal urge. I don't 'feel' like a woman, I don't know what that would 'feel like'. I just AM a woman.

Because the maternal urge bypassed me, despite being a biological adult human female, without any gender identity because IMO gender is made up bollocks does that mean I'm not a woman?

Me too @Clarice99

We're both women 🥰🥰

MistyGreenAndBlue · 06/07/2025 13:40

Fingernailbiter · 29/03/2025 15:46

I have always said I think it’s bollocks that everyone "knows instinctively" what gender they are, with no reference to learned stereotypes, so that a male could feel that his "authentic self" is female/a woman. I’ve always said I know I’m a woman because I’m an adult human female, but I just "feel like" a person.

But someone has said to me what about many women's instinctive longing for a baby of their own? I couldn't think of a good answer to that. I certainly longed for babies and felt very "maternal" when I had them. I know not all women feel that way, and I know some men really want children of their own, but there’s no denying that maternal urge. Could it be true that that (a hormonal thing?) counts as "feeling like a woman"?

Who cares? Men who claim they "feel like a woman" don't have female hormones anyway - until they start taking them artificially, and they do this AFTER they make their claims - because of it in fact. So it's definitely not hormones that make them say this whatever else it might be.

Also, not noticed a lot of them suddenly becoming broody after they start taking oestrogen either. Tbf though, a lot of them already have kids - that they FATHERED. hmmm

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