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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Boyish girls and girlish boys in 20th century children's literature

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SaltPorridge · 18/03/2025 16:31

George in "The Famous Five", Enid Blyton

Peter in Malcolm Saville's books set in Shropshire

Nancy and Peggy in Swallows and Amazons, Arthur Ransome

Petrova in "Ballet Shoes", Noel Streatfield

Please add more/ discuss/ disagree etc.

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pollyhemlock · 26/03/2025 16:15

My parents ran a boys’ prep school in the 60s/ 70s and there were a lot of old -fashioned ’boys’books’ in the library which I read. Talbot Baines Reed mentioned by @ErrolTheDragon was one of them. His best known book is The Fifth Form at St Dominic’s in which the reserved intellectual Oliver is wrongly accused of cheating in a scholarship exam. It’s actually quite good. There’s even, unusually for the time (1881), a sympathetically portrayed disabled boy who edits the school newspaper.

SaltPorridge · 26/03/2025 16:47

TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 26/03/2025 13:51

The Little Prince has come to mind.
But I can't think of any adult male characters in children's books who fill a nurturing role, attending to the little things, revealing the significance of mistaken-for-insignificant things - all that maternal / feminine ideal.
Maybe Jim in Huck Finn? The interplay there between gender and racialisation and enslavement is alot to unpick.
I'm still thinking about this, all through the day.

The uncle in "The Circus is Coming" by Noel Streatfield is surprisingly nurturing when his orphaned nephew and niece appear and ask to stay with him. He is not your standard male character.

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DeanElderberry · 26/03/2025 17:20

Grammarnut · 26/03/2025 10:39

But if dwarves keep their sex secret Tolkien can hardly 'out' Gimli by saying 'daughter of Gloin' - son is shorthand for scion.

Yes, son is offspring (and father is parent, and brother is sibling, etc). No way of knowing what sex the individual is.

EBearhug · 27/03/2025 00:54

I have Fifth Form at St Dominic's. It's got some great illustrations in my edition. I've not read it in an age, though. I have some other boys books like A Hit For Six, can't remember who the author is.

Jennings is about boys, but I'm not sure who the intended audience was. Probably just "children".

Then other boys' books are stuff like Biggles, which is very much about manly men (I do love Biggles though.) It's interesting how von Stalhein is rehabilitated from being an evil Nazi in later books, but he's still very much a man's man - and his saving grace is the mutual respect he and Biggles end up having for each other. Nothing there is about alternative ways of being male though.

allstarsuperstar · 27/03/2025 03:12

The Secret Garden.

cptnancyblackett · 01/04/2025 11:01

Talipesmum · 21/03/2025 14:39

In real life, Roger did join the RAF, and made it through to qualify as a doctor, and allergy specialist, very involved in the development of the first asthma spin-halers!

https://sophieneville.net/tag/the-children-who-inspired-swallows-and-amazons/

Thats amazing - DS has a few friends who use inhalers and loved finding this out about 'Roger'!

cptnancyblackett · 01/04/2025 11:07

I've really enjoyed this thread, but I've been mildly irked by how to classify girlish girls and boyish boys. Fear not, I think I've come up with a system... 😆
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Think of a character. Ignore restrictions placed on them by their time (e.g. what they wear, activities they are allowed to do). If you weren't told their sex, then based on their actions and character would you guess it correctly?

  1. Yes. Character strongly fits stereotypes for their sex.
  2. Yes. Character fits stereotypes for their sex, but more subtly than 1.
  3. Could go either way. Doesn't obviously fit stereotypes for either sex.
  4. No. Fits stereotypes for the opposite sex more than their own.

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I've had a go at classifying some I've read in the last few years.

  1. John Walker. Mr Fox. Badger. Toad. Julian. Anne. Asterix. Obelix. Pongo. Missis Pongo. Cruella DeVil. Heidi. Tigger. Roberta (Railway children). Peter (Railway children).
  2. Susan Walker. Roger Walker. Dick Callum. Dorothea Callum. Ratty. Dick. Fergus Hamilton (Flying fergus).
  3. Peggy Blackett. Matilda. Danny (champion of the world). Charlie Bucket. Sophie (BFG). George (Marvellous medicine). James (giant peach). Jim Hawkins (Treasure Island). Mole. Alice (in Wonderland). Harry Holdsworth (Harry's Mad). Jack (The Christmas Pig). Winnie the Pooh. Katie Morag. Cadpig. Phyllis (Railway children). Mildred Hubble.
  4. Nancy Blackett. Titty Walker. George. Piglet. Pippi Longstocking.

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Not sure I agree with where I've put some of them, but I was interested in how many I put in 3 - I suppose a lot of stories create the character of a 'generic child', there to react to whatever extraordinary situation they have been put into, rather than the story being driven by their character?

SionnachRuadh · 01/04/2025 11:16

I can believe category 3 being most common.

It's decades since I've read Trixie Belden, but from memory I don't think I would class her as a "boyish" girl - just a girl who's clever and adventurous and doesn't feel confined by "girlish" stereotypes.

CuriousAlien · 01/04/2025 11:37

@cptnancyblackett I love what you've done but completely disagree with it! No time now so will come back later (maybe make my own?) but how does Pippi Longstocking fit any stereotype???? She is utterly, joyously, riotously,nonsensically free of any definition. I've only read her stories as an adult and could not predict a single thing she did.
I think at the very least you need a category 5: fits no stereotype.

Edited to account for my poor retention of numbers.

CuriousAlien · 01/04/2025 11:40

Also, how do you factor in cultural stereotypes within the story or from the reader? Heidi does not fit the stereotype when she moves culture to Frankfurt.

cptnancyblackett · 01/04/2025 14:40

@CuriousAlien haha - bring it on!
I nearly put Pippi in 3, and that functions as a 'no stereotype' box so I think thats where you would put her. However I didn't think that was honest to the rules I set as I would guess her as male. So into 4 she goes!

I deliberated on 1 or 2 for Heidi. Didn't want to be swayed by how 'girly' in appearance she is usually depicted. But she is so incredibly (sickeningly) good and sweet and caring - both in the alps and Frankfurt - I plumped for 1. Could be swayed to a 2 though. I'm not sure location changes that, she's certainly at one with the land in the alps, and bold and resilient to the challenges of life there in a way she isn't in Frankfurt but I'm not basing my judgement on that part of her character. (Bit like Chris Guthrie in Sunset Song, she's a 2 I reckon).

ErrolTheDragon · 01/04/2025 14:44

I’m baffled how you came to put Titty in your group 4.

cptnancyblackett · 01/04/2025 14:56

@ErrolTheDragon She's all about adventure, exploration and tales of derring do and songs of Spanish ladies. Plus her practical scouting skills and imaginative play around that theme. With no other info I'd guess male. Change my mind?!

ErrolTheDragon · 01/04/2025 15:13

cptnancyblackett · 01/04/2025 14:56

@ErrolTheDragon She's all about adventure, exploration and tales of derring do and songs of Spanish ladies. Plus her practical scouting skills and imaginative play around that theme. With no other info I'd guess male. Change my mind?!

I’m definitely not seeing it from your list!

SaltPorridge · 02/04/2025 07:31

Is making up stories regarded as masculine or feminine?
Titty was my role model, so much so that i got official warnings for being inappropriately dressed (in a dress) at two separate sporting events....

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Merrymouse · 02/04/2025 08:43

cptnancyblackett · 01/04/2025 11:07

I've really enjoyed this thread, but I've been mildly irked by how to classify girlish girls and boyish boys. Fear not, I think I've come up with a system... 😆
.
Think of a character. Ignore restrictions placed on them by their time (e.g. what they wear, activities they are allowed to do). If you weren't told their sex, then based on their actions and character would you guess it correctly?

  1. Yes. Character strongly fits stereotypes for their sex.
  2. Yes. Character fits stereotypes for their sex, but more subtly than 1.
  3. Could go either way. Doesn't obviously fit stereotypes for either sex.
  4. No. Fits stereotypes for the opposite sex more than their own.

.
I've had a go at classifying some I've read in the last few years.

  1. John Walker. Mr Fox. Badger. Toad. Julian. Anne. Asterix. Obelix. Pongo. Missis Pongo. Cruella DeVil. Heidi. Tigger. Roberta (Railway children). Peter (Railway children).
  2. Susan Walker. Roger Walker. Dick Callum. Dorothea Callum. Ratty. Dick. Fergus Hamilton (Flying fergus).
  3. Peggy Blackett. Matilda. Danny (champion of the world). Charlie Bucket. Sophie (BFG). George (Marvellous medicine). James (giant peach). Jim Hawkins (Treasure Island). Mole. Alice (in Wonderland). Harry Holdsworth (Harry's Mad). Jack (The Christmas Pig). Winnie the Pooh. Katie Morag. Cadpig. Phyllis (Railway children). Mildred Hubble.
  4. Nancy Blackett. Titty Walker. George. Piglet. Pippi Longstocking.

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Not sure I agree with where I've put some of them, but I was interested in how many I put in 3 - I suppose a lot of stories create the character of a 'generic child', there to react to whatever extraordinary situation they have been put into, rather than the story being driven by their character?

Edited

When I read these books as a child, my impression was that, almost all of these characters just had personalities. I don't remember thinking Titty was unfeminine.

I think the Famous Five characters conform most strongly to gender stereotypes, (Including George whose character is defined in relation to a gender stereotype), which from memory makes them quite flat.*

*Haven't read most of these books for decades, so I might be being unfair.

Merrymouse · 02/04/2025 08:47

cptnancyblackett · 01/04/2025 14:56

@ErrolTheDragon She's all about adventure, exploration and tales of derring do and songs of Spanish ladies. Plus her practical scouting skills and imaginative play around that theme. With no other info I'd guess male. Change my mind?!

Obviously all these interests and activities are completely normal for girls... if you (and your parents) grew up reading Arthur Ransome.

cptnancyblackett · 02/04/2025 09:37

SaltPorridge · 02/04/2025 07:31

Is making up stories regarded as masculine or feminine?
Titty was my role model, so much so that i got official warnings for being inappropriately dressed (in a dress) at two separate sporting events....

I'd usually agree that fits in the feminine stereotype, but Titty does it in a different way to, say Dorothea. If they grew up to be writers, I'd imagine Titty would write like Stevenson, Defoe or Tolkien, Dorothea more like Austen. That plus the general adventurous nature of the activities she does, plus her being one of the younger ones, where there is more allowance for playfulness and imagination in both sexes.
She's not unfeminine as a character, and certainly isn't trying to escape from the constraints of being a girl. But if I had nothing else to go on I'd guess the character was male.

I guess similar reasons why I'd guess Roger is male - he enjoys all the adventurous activities the others do, and because he's younger has more playfulness and is protected more, without that being seen as feminine. So if I'm going to guess male for him, I can't see a good reason why I wouldnt treat Titty the same.

Its a minefield of stereotypes!

DeanElderberry · 02/04/2025 09:46

Neither Titty nor Dorothea would have been seen as boyish or eccentric in any or the myriad girls' school stories produced in the early-mid 20 century, just as girls with their own skill sets..

TheOtherRaven · 02/04/2025 16:44

DeanElderberry · 02/04/2025 09:46

Neither Titty nor Dorothea would have been seen as boyish or eccentric in any or the myriad girls' school stories produced in the early-mid 20 century, just as girls with their own skill sets..

Which is in itself a bit of a reflection on the freedoms and experiences possible for female people in a single sex space.

DeanElderberry · 02/04/2025 17:51

I've been wondering about that too, @TheOtherRaven . I've even been wondering about boys, if you could get boys' schools where none of the staff had unsavoury motives.

ErrolTheDragon · 02/04/2025 18:06

I’m not sure even as exemplary a writer as Ransome would have had a male character freaked out by the dowsing, though of course Titty very bravely overcomes her qualms.

Grammarnut · 03/04/2025 21:09

Merrymouse · 02/04/2025 08:43

When I read these books as a child, my impression was that, almost all of these characters just had personalities. I don't remember thinking Titty was unfeminine.

I think the Famous Five characters conform most strongly to gender stereotypes, (Including George whose character is defined in relation to a gender stereotype), which from memory makes them quite flat.*

*Haven't read most of these books for decades, so I might be being unfair.

You're not unfair to Blyton. Her characters tend to be flat. That doesn't mean she lacks the ability to write a readable story or that children are wrong to love the books (late DH enjoyed them - the ones I came across (not in my local library) I liked). They are a good way into enjoying books for children who don't much care for reading.

Grammarnut · 03/04/2025 21:30

TheOtherRaven · 02/04/2025 16:44

Which is in itself a bit of a reflection on the freedoms and experiences possible for female people in a single sex space.

That the early twentieth century (and late nineteenth) saw girls like Susan and Titty as being entirely normal makes our own world look outlandishly old-fashioned, as in possibly eighteenth century. Where has the idea come from that girls don't do sports, have to be 'feminine' etc. come from so suddenly?

Grammarnut · 03/04/2025 21:38

cptnancyblackett · 02/04/2025 09:37

I'd usually agree that fits in the feminine stereotype, but Titty does it in a different way to, say Dorothea. If they grew up to be writers, I'd imagine Titty would write like Stevenson, Defoe or Tolkien, Dorothea more like Austen. That plus the general adventurous nature of the activities she does, plus her being one of the younger ones, where there is more allowance for playfulness and imagination in both sexes.
She's not unfeminine as a character, and certainly isn't trying to escape from the constraints of being a girl. But if I had nothing else to go on I'd guess the character was male.

I guess similar reasons why I'd guess Roger is male - he enjoys all the adventurous activities the others do, and because he's younger has more playfulness and is protected more, without that being seen as feminine. So if I'm going to guess male for him, I can't see a good reason why I wouldnt treat Titty the same.

Its a minefield of stereotypes!

I came across a bunch of stereotypical views in one person at a book fair a few weeks ago. It was suggested I spoke to a book seller who was 'really helpful'. The first thing he said was 'you write poetry' - not 'do you' or 'what do you write'. I have no idea why women are supposed to write poetry (as it happens, I do, but it's not my main frame for writing, which is sci-fi) but I am pretty sure Marlowe, Shelley, Donne, Milton, Chaucer, Langland,Gower, Baudelaire, Goethe, Simonides etc were not women. I can run off as many poets who are women (not going to) but really don't get the poetry writing is for girls thing.
Was cross and said sci-fi, which did not go down too well.
Stereotypes are more alive and kicking now than in the 30s to 50s, stunningly,

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