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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Boyish girls and girlish boys in 20th century children's literature

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SaltPorridge · 18/03/2025 16:31

George in "The Famous Five", Enid Blyton

Peter in Malcolm Saville's books set in Shropshire

Nancy and Peggy in Swallows and Amazons, Arthur Ransome

Petrova in "Ballet Shoes", Noel Streatfield

Please add more/ discuss/ disagree etc.

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AshKeys · 21/03/2025 19:18

NRTFT but boyish girls? Girls doing things that are not in line with harmful modern stereotypes are not boyish.

SaltPorridge · 21/03/2025 19:22

The GCSE Eng Lit syllabus is always dismally male- heavy.
I do wonder though the extent to which stories require action and adventure to drive a plot tends to favour male protagonists.
In real life, hand on heart, how adventurous and active are girls and women?
I liked Titty and Susan because they were coded girl, and were awesome sailors. I didn't like George in the Famous Five or Peter in Seven White Gates so much, because they wore boy names and boy clothes as if girls couldn't go exploring. (Sorry if i am repeating myself.)

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MementoMountain · 21/03/2025 19:37

Will in Susan Cooper's The Dark Is Rising series is also quiet and unassuming.

And musically gifted, while Barney has a talent for sketching.

DuesToTheDirt · 21/03/2025 20:06

EmpressaurusKitty · 21/03/2025 07:24

Yes. From a Georgette Heyer set in the mid-18th century:

He walked mincingly, for the red heels of his shoes were very high. A long purple cloak, rose-lined, hung from his shoulders and was allowed to fall carelessly back from his dress, revealing a full-skirted coat of purple satin, heavily laced with gold; a waistcoat of flowered silk; faultless small clothes; and a lavish sprinkling of jewels on his cravat and breast. A three-cornered hat, point-edged, was set upon his powdered wig, and in his hand he carried a long beribboned cane.’

And there was no suggestion in the book that there was anything feminine about this bloke.

And now we get men in football shirts and sliders. How far humanity has fallen! Grin

TonstantWeader · 21/03/2025 20:10

TheCourseOfTheRiverChanged · 19/03/2025 12:50

I agree.
I think Nina Bawden has lots of soft and gentle boy characters in her novels. Thinking about it, the children she writes about are all loners, through circumstance or temperament. There's no wanting to be "one of the boys" for anyone of either sex.
She was the first author I discovered on my own, rather than being introduced by parents or older siblings. I picked up Peppermint Pig up at the library one day on a whim and went on to devour all her books.
Lots of memories roused by this thread.

I think Nina Bawden is underrated both in her children's and adults' writing. I didn't realise until relatively recently that there's a sequel to Carrie's War but focusing on Carrie's children. @GryffindorsSword & @SaltPorridge - I don't remember Albert being ill at all, so funny how memory plays tricks on you.

@EmpressaurusKitty - funnily enough I was thinking of Georgette Heyer earlier today in relation to this thread because of Leon/Leonie in 'These Old Shades' (a lovely favourite comfort read). But of course it's more that Leonie has grown up as a peasant child disguised as a boy that's presented as the reason for her behaviour as opposed to anything else.

Agree also about Tom in 'Tom's Midnight Garden'. Another Philippa Pearce boy is Ben in 'A Dog So Small'. He also lives largely in his imagination & dreams so not 'typically' boyish either.

DuesToTheDirt · 21/03/2025 20:11

NitroNine · 21/03/2025 17:13

An interesting substack piece by a[n American] teacher regarding boys reading about girls.

2012 blogpost on the Publisher’s Weekly website on the same topic; & the NYT article mentioned therein.

I’ve heard a huge amount of anecdotal evidence about boys not reading books with female protagonists - or indeed by female authors. (As I’m sure everyone knows, the latter is why JKR is, well, JKR.)

A couple of people have mentioned Jo Bettany & I wanted to add that the early CS books, particularly, include some interesting stuff on differing socio-cultural constructions & understandings of femininity (& indeed childhood).

I'm not sure if its still a thing, but films used to be called just "films" (or movies, if you prefer). Unless they featured women in the lead roles, in which case they were "women's films". Hmm

EmpressaurusKitty · 21/03/2025 20:18

TonstantWeader · 21/03/2025 20:10

I think Nina Bawden is underrated both in her children's and adults' writing. I didn't realise until relatively recently that there's a sequel to Carrie's War but focusing on Carrie's children. @GryffindorsSword & @SaltPorridge - I don't remember Albert being ill at all, so funny how memory plays tricks on you.

@EmpressaurusKitty - funnily enough I was thinking of Georgette Heyer earlier today in relation to this thread because of Leon/Leonie in 'These Old Shades' (a lovely favourite comfort read). But of course it's more that Leonie has grown up as a peasant child disguised as a boy that's presented as the reason for her behaviour as opposed to anything else.

Agree also about Tom in 'Tom's Midnight Garden'. Another Philippa Pearce boy is Ben in 'A Dog So Small'. He also lives largely in his imagination & dreams so not 'typically' boyish either.

My favourite is Cotillion, but These Old Shades is high on the list!

I’m glad Heyer was writing back in the fifties - nowadays both Leonie & Pen Creed in The Corinthian would probably be declared nonbinary Hmm

TheOtherRaven · 21/03/2025 20:40

Cotillion is wonderful :) The lovely Freddie, not at all the archetypal hero. Who thinks such heroes are 'dashed loose screws'.

TonstantWeader · 21/03/2025 20:51

Heyer's heroines are definitely not girly girls! I had no idea These Old Shades had a sequel until someone on another forum told me, and Mary in The Devil's Cub is a v good DIL for Leonie.

And gosh, have just discovered there's a third <adds to 'to read' list>

EmpressaurusKitty · 21/03/2025 21:12

TonstantWeader · 21/03/2025 20:51

Heyer's heroines are definitely not girly girls! I had no idea These Old Shades had a sequel until someone on another forum told me, and Mary in The Devil's Cub is a v good DIL for Leonie.

And gosh, have just discovered there's a third <adds to 'to read' list>

There’s a fourth. After Devil’s Cub there’s Regency Buck & An Infamous Army.

TonstantWeader · 21/03/2025 21:14

Blimey, I've read Regency Buck and had no idea it was connected to the same characters......

MementoMountain · 21/03/2025 21:18

TheOtherRaven · 21/03/2025 20:40

Cotillion is wonderful :) The lovely Freddie, not at all the archetypal hero. Who thinks such heroes are 'dashed loose screws'.

But he has address!

I too love Freddie.

EmpressaurusKitty · 21/03/2025 21:18

Blimey, I've read Regency Buck and had no idea it was connected to the same characters......

I know, but An Infamous Army brings the Alistairs & the Audleys together!

EmpressaurusKitty · 21/03/2025 21:21

MementoMountain · 21/03/2025 21:18

But he has address!

I too love Freddie.

I love Kitty!

I don’t think Heyer was concentrating when she wrote the first description of Fish, though. She goes from an elderly grey haired lady to one not much above 40 who might still have kids.

TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 21/03/2025 21:48

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 20/03/2025 23:53

Not in the books, though Frodo is (very reasonably) reluctant to take on the role he is destined for, and he avoids violence. He's an interesting character who shows great mental strength up against forces too powerful for him, and ends up damaged and little appreciated for his heroics, perhaps because his heroism is very unassuming.

In the books, Frodo is carried by Aragorn after the attack at Weathertop, by Boromir after the cave troll attack, and by Faramir when he faints after saying they are going to Mordor. He’s also literally carried to the Cracks of Doom by Sam. You were saying?

MementoMountain · 21/03/2025 22:41

EmpressaurusKitty · 21/03/2025 21:21

I love Kitty!

I don’t think Heyer was concentrating when she wrote the first description of Fish, though. She goes from an elderly grey haired lady to one not much above 40 who might still have kids.

Hmm, I see what you mean - but to a society hellbent on marrying off its teenagers, 40 probably was old, definitely granny territory.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 21/03/2025 23:44

TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 21/03/2025 21:48

In the books, Frodo is carried by Aragorn after the attack at Weathertop, by Boromir after the cave troll attack, and by Faramir when he faints after saying they are going to Mordor. He’s also literally carried to the Cracks of Doom by Sam. You were saying?

At the camp below Weathertop he has just been pierced by a Morgul knife which nearly kills him, in Moria he has been crushed between a spear and a wall, and by the time Sam carries him he's been fighting a battle against the power of the ring for weeks (and that also applies to a lesser extent in Ithilien). So unmanly. I don't recognise your portrayal of Frodo, and I don't think it's unmanly to resist without fighting. Frodo's mercy towards Gollum when he could have killed him is crucial to the outcome, a morally courageous action which is both risky and turns out to be justified. The idea that men have to fight and have to have great physical strength is unhelpful to many men. And perhaps hobbits ...

HollyGolightly4 · 22/03/2025 00:34

Gosh, Paul Irving brings back memories.

I do think of my favourite Jo's - Bettany and March!

Elle mcnicoll has some great characters in her books that challenge pre existing stereotypes - cousins Ramya and Marley would perhaps have characteristics historically associated with the opposite sex!

EmpressaurusKitty · 22/03/2025 05:30

MementoMountain · 21/03/2025 22:41

Hmm, I see what you mean - but to a society hellbent on marrying off its teenagers, 40 probably was old, definitely granny territory.

Good point.

HollyGolightly4 · 22/03/2025 08:49

*Forgot about the 20th century bit for Elle McNicoll!

Grammarnut · 22/03/2025 18:58

pollyhemlock · 21/03/2025 13:43

Lewis was brought up in an Ulster Protestant household, lost his faith then later regained it. Tolkien was a lifelong Catholic. Both men lost their mothers at a young age.

I think Tolkein was a Catholic convert, but not sure. He had weird ideas about sex e.g. his elves only have sex to have children - a very Catholic idea.

GlomOfNit · 22/03/2025 19:41

ThisIsMyGCname · 18/03/2025 17:46

Tyke Tyler! I read it when it was published and didn’t guess the twist until I was told it in the book. When I read it to my DD she asked me straight away if Tyke was a boy or a girl as the text doesn’t say.

One of the pitfalls of reading this very favourite book of mine to my son, when he was about 8. I should just have let him read it to himself but I didn't think he'd bother if left to it! So of course you have to be really careful not to reveal Tyke's sex if you tend to discuss books as you're reading them. I do remember his classic double-take at the end, though!

ErrolTheDragon · 22/03/2025 19:57

Grammarnut · 22/03/2025 18:58

I think Tolkein was a Catholic convert, but not sure. He had weird ideas about sex e.g. his elves only have sex to have children - a very Catholic idea.

I read Lewis’s Out of the Silent Planet too young (and have never felt the urge to give it a second chance)…seem to remember the that applied to the Venusians too.

GlomOfNit · 22/03/2025 20:59

How about Fanny, the boisterous and irrepressible heroine of Penelope Lively's Fanny stories? Set in the mid-19th century. She hunts for fossils and arranges a pitched battle with another huge family of bloodthirsty children on a piece of contested wasteland! I loved pretty much all of Lively's novels, both for children and adults.

I'm really enjoying this thread and mentally stacking up a pile of classic children's literature to read or reread.

Grammarnut · 22/03/2025 23:21

ErrolTheDragon · 22/03/2025 19:57

I read Lewis’s Out of the Silent Planet too young (and have never felt the urge to give it a second chance)…seem to remember the that applied to the Venusians too.

I think so. Lewis didn't marry till late in life, and it was a celibate marriage afaik.