great article. I think this sums up language very well.
”“I am harder core now than I was at the beginning. It’s been a journey and it’s been gradual. I mean, I started thinking that the people who wouldn’t use preferred pronouns were a bit mean. That it wasn’t kind. And why can’t we just be polite? I remember actually saying to my husband, something like four or five years ago… on a walk, can you explain to me why people get so het up about the language, and frankly, he understood better than I did at the time how important it was to keep hanging on to reality. You can’t say what the problem is with finding a man in the room at a rape crisis centre, for instance, who says he’s a woman, unless you can say the problem is that he’s a man. If you have to say the problem is she is a transwoman, then it sounds as if you’re objecting to a certain sort of woman, and it misses the point that what you’re objecting to is a man. You’ve got to be able to use real language. And I was thinking about that in relation to a number of these cases, because I’m getting more and more determined to use real language in court, in a tribunal. And it’s a worry, because people who haven’t been in the trenches of this for years think what I thought at the beginning, that it’s not polite and a bit beastly, but that is ignoring reality, the truth, and we are lawyers.”
“Language is important and there’s also a very good reason why, for years, the strategy on the other side was basically no debate because you don’t have to be that clever to poke holes in its nonsense, because there’s nothing there. Once you start poking it, it just falls over. I was teasing one of my colleagues in chambers the other day about his rather middle-aged holiday habits and in retaliation, he joked about my approach to the law which he summarised as, ‘you’ve got a willy, so you’re a man, innit’? And it’s true, my legal arguments boil down mostly to you’ve got a willy, so you’re a man, innit?”
I often wonder if those using the term ‘ultra’ as a negative divisory descriptor will look back and regret the label being coined and used.