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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Naomi Cunningham; interview in Holyrood magazine

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IDareSay · 08/03/2025 08:03

Fascinating stuff:

“When the Gender Recognition Act passed in 2004, I was already kind of 10 years into being an employment lawyer, and I was aware of it. It vaguely clipped my radar. I kind of thought, very niche, that’s not going to cross my desk, and shrugged it off. So, I didn’t wake up until about 2017, 2018 and what woke me up was Anya Palmer, who is a barrister at Old Square. She was Maya Forstater’s barrister, and she was one of the group of people I was talking to. I was following her on Twitter and she was tweeting about this subject, and it started to educate me on it. She was the person who had the brilliant idea of running a case on religion or belief discrimination, on what’s now called gender critical belief. And I remember pulling some very sceptical faces about that when she was first discussing it, even before she found Maya, before she found a client."

www.holyrood.com/inside-politics/view,naomi-cunningham-im-fuelled-by-rage-and-ive-been-lucky

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stealthsquirrelnutkin · 08/03/2025 12:16

DeanElderberry · 08/03/2025 10:11

I'm over 60, spent my childhood in lower-middle-class suburban England and now live in rural Ireland, and am pretty sure I have never met a 'gender essentialist'.

Extensive reading of light fiction suggests they have been rare if not quite non-existent since the end of WW1.

I remember when I was a teenager back in the early 70's someone mentioned that their dad flew into apoplectic rage and threw her boyfriend out of the house because he had an earring in one ear.
Later on, after being introduced to the gay scene I wondered if her dad had his own experiences, and assumed the lad was flaunting his sexual orientation. When really the young chap was just getting a bit too far ahead of fashion to rural Lancashire.

DeanElderberry · 08/03/2025 12:28

ClioMuse · 08/03/2025 12:08

Nuns at my Irish Convent school 35 years ago had conniptions when numbers were down in Honours maths and Physics one year - there was a meeting where they challenged us to think again about subject choices

Nuns being women who decided not to centre their lives on men and marriage, but to go for careers, whether in teaching or social work or nursing, possibly had a mindset different from secular teachers. Hard to think of them as radicals, but in a way they were - particularly ones in the non-posh tradition - Mercy, Pres, etc.

fanOfBen · 08/03/2025 12:30

What a lovely article, thank you for sharing! And in the course of it, it settles the profound discussion we had somewhere in the SP threads, about whether she was unaware of Rainbow because she was too old or because she was too middle-class - as some of us suggested there, she's too old, like me ;-)

CuriousAlien · 08/03/2025 12:36

Thanks to whoever mentioned Alexandra Asteriti. I'm not up on the pros and cons of the path chosen in Maya Forstater's case so that's more reading for me. I did find this video of AA talking about the genealogy of gender identity in international law. She's impressive.

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ArabellaScott · 08/03/2025 12:38

Very interesting interview.

If we didn't have 'protected belief' then I think it would be very, very much harder to do so many of the things that women are now doing.

It was a corrective to the idea that questioning or criticising 'gender' was bigotry, beyond the pale. And while 'gender identity' beliefs haven't been tested or properly defined, one can point to 'gender critical' beliefs and that in itself creates the opposite views (sex is mutable, a spectrum, and immaterial, roughly).

CuriousAlien · 08/03/2025 12:42

DeanElderberry · 08/03/2025 12:28

Nuns being women who decided not to centre their lives on men and marriage, but to go for careers, whether in teaching or social work or nursing, possibly had a mindset different from secular teachers. Hard to think of them as radicals, but in a way they were - particularly ones in the non-posh tradition - Mercy, Pres, etc.

Thanks, this is invisible to me. It does remind me of the Wimsey book which is not really about him but goes to Harriet Vane's old college. Gaudy Night.

Ingenieur · 08/03/2025 12:54

CuriousAlien · 08/03/2025 10:50

Really? I've certainly had a lot of gender essentialist things said to me...

You can't be an astronaut you're a girl
Boys are better than girls at maths
Why do you like football, you're a girl?
Please don't wear combats and a tshirt, you look like a man
Why don't you make more effort with your appearance like other girls?
Ladies don't whistle
Women who use Ms are either divorced or feminists

Thanks, Curious, this is exactly what I meant. I had plenty of this stuff said to me as a kid in inner London in the '80s so it's difficult to believe others hadn't experienced it. To a large extent, if these superficial stereotypes and distinctions weren't pervasive there would be no need for feminism.

Ingenieur · 08/03/2025 13:00

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/03/2025 11:50

I disagree with both AA and Sex Matters on some things. I've been in this a long time, and I've come to my own conclusions. I know women who I greatly respect disagree, I don't believe we'd have got anywhere without either the Forstater judgment or a similar one.

I think the Forstster judgement was an important step in the right direction, but I too am sceptical of the reliance on "belief" as though gender critical and sex realist positions are equal to other opinions that don't benefit from mountains of facts underpinning them.

Once we see some "comparative" cases, those balancing one belief against another, maybe my view will change.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/03/2025 13:44

If we didn't have 'protected belief' then I think it would be very, very much harder to do so many of the things that women are now doing.

It was a corrective to the idea that questioning or criticising 'gender' was bigotry, beyond the pale.

This is my view too.

ClioMuse · 08/03/2025 15:22

DeanElderberry · 08/03/2025 12:28

Nuns being women who decided not to centre their lives on men and marriage, but to go for careers, whether in teaching or social work or nursing, possibly had a mindset different from secular teachers. Hard to think of them as radicals, but in a way they were - particularly ones in the non-posh tradition - Mercy, Pres, etc.

I think my order was probably in the posh tradition - founded by Mary Ward in the 17th century “Women in time will come to do much” en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mary_Ward_(nun)

Went renegade at one stage.

withthegreatestrespect · 08/03/2025 15:23

I don't think you can legislate for 'reality'. The battle is about words. That the word woman means adult, human female. That the word female means the sex arranged to produce large gametes. The 'GC belief' is that this is what those words mean and that sex is therefore immutable because you cannot change what type of gamete producer you are.

CuriousAlien · 08/03/2025 15:41

ClioMuse · 08/03/2025 15:22

I think my order was probably in the posh tradition - founded by Mary Ward in the 17th century “Women in time will come to do much” en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mary_Ward_(nun)

Went renegade at one stage.

Thanks for sharing that. She's really interesting.

borntobequiet · 08/03/2025 15:53

DeanElderberry · 08/03/2025 10:59

@CuriousAlien Really? I've certainly had a lot of gender essentialist things said to me...
You can't be an astronaut you're a girl
Boys are better than girls at maths
Why do you like football, you're a girl?
Please don't wear combats and a tshirt, you look like a man
Why don't you make more effort with your appearance like other girls?
Ladies don't whistle
Women who use Ms are either divorced or feminists

I've never heard any of those from an actual living human being.

I did encounter the outgrowth of the maths one, in that our convent school did not routinely offer higher level maths at Leaving Cert level fifty years ago. That was apologised for, even back then, and has changed, long since.

None of the others. My colleagues used to get annoyed 20 years ago when the government department dealing with maternity leave assumed they used their husband's names, which hardly any of them did. And all adult women have been 'Ms' in my experience for well over 40 years.

I have sometimes wondered whether Ireland a less gender essentialist than the UK.

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I've never heard any of those from an actual living human being.

Me neither, and I think I must be the same age as you. Born in England, Irish (mostly) parents, medicine was supposed to be my calling, but in the event I chose Maths. My convent school, though awful in many other ways, didn’t hold girls back academically.
(It was a very posh order, and generally preferred girls from old-established English Catholic families over the hoi polloi of Irish background.)

FuelledByRage · 08/03/2025 15:55

Great article, thanks for posting.

Name changed in honour of the magnificent Naomi.

FuelledByRage · 08/03/2025 16:23

RoyalCorgi · 08/03/2025 09:41

Does anyone else on here follow Alessandra Asteriti on Twitter? She is gender-critical but seems always to be angry at other gender-critical women. She has a particular dislike of the way that Maya won her case by arguing that gender-critical views were a protected belief in law, because, in her view, the idea that humans can't change sex is a scientific reality, not a belief, and that by arguing it's a belief, Maya's lawyers created problems for other gender-critical feminists further down the line.

She's been tweeting about this article today, noting that it mentions that Anya Palmer was looking to make the legal argument that gender-critical views were a protected belief before Maya's case came along.

Just wondered what other people's thoughts were.

Surely Asteriti is missing the point that the “GC belief” protected by the Forstater EAT wasn’t only that humans can’t change sex - which, as Asteriti says is simple fact / reality? The “GC belief” protected by the Forstater EAT was that: humans can’t change sex + there are circumstances in which biological sex is relevant/ important in public policy-making + gender identity is not more important / relevant than biological sex.

So a person who agrees that humans can’t change sex, but doesn’t believe that sex is a relevant consideration in any circumstance, and instead believes that how people “express their gender” is more important than the biological sex which they agree they cannot change, would not be a holder of “gender critical belief” despite understanding that humans can’t change sex.

FuelledByRage · 08/03/2025 16:28

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 08/03/2025 11:39

No. It carved out space for lawyers to endlessly litigate that women "don't believe" the man in their changing room is a man. It has not stopped them going in there. And now we know for a fact that was the intention all along. I find that useful as we can see (prove) we've been had.

No.

It’s employers directing discriminatory, harassing and victimising behaviour against employees who questioned gender identity ideology that caused the employment tribunals. Forstater’s EAT afforded those employees protection.

illinivich · 08/03/2025 16:33

The “GC belief” protected by the Forstater EAT was that: humans can’t change sex + there are circumstances in which biological sex is relevant/ important in public policy-making + gender identity is not more important / relevant than biological sex.

The protected characteristic of sex already established this. Theres no legislation that says policy should or even can prioritise gender over sex.

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 08/03/2025 16:38

FuelledByRage · 08/03/2025 16:28

No.

It’s employers directing discriminatory, harassing and victimising behaviour against employees who questioned gender identity ideology that caused the employment tribunals. Forstater’s EAT afforded those employees protection.

If we were protected and better off as a result of “belief”, the Sandie case would not have happened.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/03/2025 16:42

The protected characteristic of sex already established this.

Not in every scenario. The GRA complicates things.

Ddakji · 08/03/2025 16:57

While I can understand why AP went down the route she did for Maya’s case, I think in the long term it’s been a bad move, because sex realism (aka gender critical) is a fact, not a belief, and now we are having to unpick that.

This is why I don’t support Sex Matters’ line cementing the false concept of “legal sex” as opposed to just sex any further in law. Our daughters and granddaughters will have to deal with the ramifications of that.

I like Alessandra. She talks a lot of sense.

fabricstash · 08/03/2025 16:59

Great read! I think stereotypes and I suppose gender essentialism rose a lot due to social media and the internet. It seems it narrowed the range of what it means to be a man or woman girl /boy. I see it in real life but I think it is dwindling

FuelledByRage · 08/03/2025 17:01

illinivich · 08/03/2025 16:33

The “GC belief” protected by the Forstater EAT was that: humans can’t change sex + there are circumstances in which biological sex is relevant/ important in public policy-making + gender identity is not more important / relevant than biological sex.

The protected characteristic of sex already established this. Theres no legislation that says policy should or even can prioritise gender over sex.

Except that Stonewall was telling employers that the GRA did have that effect.

And employers are still operating as if not “outing” as male a male employee who wants access to female facilities is more important than the female employees’ legal entitlement to single sex spaces.

The Forstater EAT provided protection to women talking about the problems that causes in the workplace.

Employees can now say that they disagree that TWAW, and their disagreement with their employer’s policy is now protected.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/03/2025 17:02

This is why I don’t support Sex Matters’ line cementing the false concept of “legal sex” as opposed to just sex any further in law

No, nor do I.

FuelledByRage · 08/03/2025 17:03

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/03/2025 17:02

This is why I don’t support Sex Matters’ line cementing the false concept of “legal sex” as opposed to just sex any further in law

No, nor do I.

Same here.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/03/2025 17:04

The Forstater EAT provided protection to women talking about the problems that causes in the workplace.

Employees can now say that they disagree that TWAW, and their disagreement with their employer’s policy is now protected.

Exactly. Before that they could literally be sacked just for objecting, and as we can see many organisations still work on that basis. It takes time to filter through.

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