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BBC Radio 4 series this week about PIE: In Dark Corners

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ILikeDungs · 06/01/2025 17:57

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m00272c6

Starts Wednesday 8th Jan. 9:30 a.m. R4

Journalist Alex Renton is shown a secret document, containing the names and addresses of people signed up to a pro-paedophile group called the Paedophile Information Exchange, or PIE, which was active in the 1970s and 80s.
That’s not all: weeks after getting the membership list Alex meets a contact who gives him bags full of documents, crammed with reports, contact details, letters.
As Alex starts following up on leads; detail of the criminal activities committed by some of PIE’s members, and those connected with them, begins to emerge.
It’s a lot to take in. Alex is not only a journalist, he’s a survivor of child sexual abuse. All of this information about PIE; it feels like a heavy weight to carry. Are children still at risk?

BBC Radio 4 - In Dark Corners, Series 2

Journalist Alex Renton investigates a mysterious membership list.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m00272c6

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SerendipityJane · 11/01/2025 10:53

UtopiaPlanitia · 09/01/2025 23:22

Bloody hell, that’s horrific! I can’t believe so many people think DBS checks are the best way of keeping children safe when in fact it looks as though they’re often safety theatre.

SOMETHING MUST BE DONE !

Here's something.

Trebles all round !

It was pointed out at the time (for those who remember when and why DBS checks came in) that they were a shambles and would merely generate an entire industry based around a false sense of security. I know because I did.

However because there was a media climate anyone who dared to suggest that the DBS scheme may not be as effective as it was being sold was immediately labelled a peado-pal - or worse. So any flaws or criticisms got buried.

Sound familiar ? It's a natural consequence of the UKs descent into a country where everything - everything - is commoditized.

"Safeguarding ? What's that and how much can we make from it ?"

DeanElderberry · 11/01/2025 12:24

I was told Savile was dodgy ca 1976 by the girl who sat in the desk in front of me whose sister was a nurse and had to hide patients when he was doing his rounds. She didn't specify under-age people being at more risk. Likewise the second time I was told about him, ca 1983, by a college friend who also had a sister nursing at a (different) hospital in the north of England the story was much the same - warning put out, beds (with patients) moved into storage rooms until he'd gone. He was notorious, but on both occasions there was someone in our group who was appalled that anyone could say such awful things about someone so famous and so charitable.

Which is how he (and many others) get away with it.

PIE was very widely reported on and discussed in broadsheet newspapers and on the BBC in the late 70s and early 80 - not obscure, never mind secret.

UK politics was full of it - Private Eye reported on Cyril Smith MP, the Irish Independent reported on the Kincora Boys' Home in Belfast. Nobody in Westminster cared about children being sexually assaulted or raped on their watch. They still don't seem to.

MarieDeGournay · 11/01/2025 14:13

I think you make a very good point, DeanElderberry - so many of these 'revelations' of the abuse children suffered at the hands of well-known, or less well-known but highly respected men, are in fact revelations of how people put the needs of men above the safety of women and girls, and boys.

There was a nudge-nudge wink-wink attitude to sexual abuse up to and including rape - I came across a book of 'jokes' from the 1970s the other day, and there were several about sexual harassment, rape and child abuse, including jokes about scoutmasters, choirboys etc., which we now know were actually describing the reality for so many abused children.

What Savile was doing to girls was not only known, it was captured on TV. The issue was not that nobody knew, it was that nobody cared because women and children were fair game and not worth bothering about.

It wasn't even always a case of victims not being believed, it was sometimes a case of 'yes everyone knows that he's a risk to children but he's the priest/pillar of the community/holder of high office/respectable father of three, and that's the most important thing, not what he's doing to you.'

It used to be hard to explain how on earth a society could know that harm was being caused to children by, for instance, priests, and yet do nothing about it because people didn't want to stick their heads above the parapet to criticise a protected caste.

It used to be hard to explain how something like that could possibly happen; then along came transgenderism...

SuePine69 · 11/01/2025 19:00

Zita60 · 11/01/2025 05:51

How would she have known that Savile was an abuser? Some of those who worked at places where he carried out his abuse knew, e.g. the BBC, Stoke Mandeville, Broadmoor, Leeds General Infirmary etc. But most people had no idea until it all came out after his death.

It sounds as if John Smyth’s activities weren’t known about until after he acted for her in court cases.

So how could she have protected children from them if she didn’t know they were abusers?

Lots of people knew that Jimmy Savile was an abuser. John Lydon (Johnny Rotten) knew that Savile was an abuser and wanted to expose him. Mary Whitehouse as a Christian had a distorted world view and was looking in the wrong places. She could not imagine that a Christian like John Smyth could be just as much an abuser as the members of PIE.

She thought PIE were wrong because she thought promiscuity was wrong. For the same reason she thought gay liberation was wrong and the counterculture generally.

There's a book called Hags by Victoria Smith where she writes that middle-aged women stopped men like Savile from exploiting younger women and children. They didn't though. She describes Savile as 'a serial abuser in plain sight'. She quotes Louise Perry who wrote that when anyone stood up to Savile it was older women, the sort who flocked to Whitehouse's campaigns. This is not true.

IwantToRetire · 11/01/2025 20:09

I think there is a huge difference in terms of say Jimmy Saville between those who only knew him as a personality and those who knew him through working in the media, hospitals and children's homes.

Really scary to know, that even knowing what he was doing, people in those areas of work felt unable to report him.

And this climate of not feeling able to report still exists. Look at Fayed. How many years has that taken to be spoken about.

I do think the media who often are in the know, but hold back for fear of law suits also need to take some responsibility.

IwantToRetire · 11/01/2025 20:14

PIE was very widely reported on and discussed in broadsheet newspapers and on the BBC in the late 70s and early 80 - not obscure, never mind secret.

If you were someone who followed these.

Just as young people now only look at social media, many people didn't bother with what they thought was the establishment.

The issue is, not did the general public know, by why politicians, and the media itself, give them air or newsprint space.

How was it possible to just sit and interview someone who said 4 was the age of consent.

When you compare this to for instance, women being able to openly talk about the problem is men / male culture. ie domestic violence, rape. Even after the Gisele Pelicot case, nobody talked about the problem being men.

Even the child abuse scandal is being talked about in terms of, its only certain men. Not that it is something that men, irrespective of race, class, religions or whatever do.

But a man saying 4 year olds can agree to sex, is taken as being worth listening to.

Zita60 · 12/01/2025 09:47

SuePine69 · 11/01/2025 19:00

Lots of people knew that Jimmy Savile was an abuser. John Lydon (Johnny Rotten) knew that Savile was an abuser and wanted to expose him. Mary Whitehouse as a Christian had a distorted world view and was looking in the wrong places. She could not imagine that a Christian like John Smyth could be just as much an abuser as the members of PIE.

She thought PIE were wrong because she thought promiscuity was wrong. For the same reason she thought gay liberation was wrong and the counterculture generally.

There's a book called Hags by Victoria Smith where she writes that middle-aged women stopped men like Savile from exploiting younger women and children. They didn't though. She describes Savile as 'a serial abuser in plain sight'. She quotes Louise Perry who wrote that when anyone stood up to Savile it was older women, the sort who flocked to Whitehouse's campaigns. This is not true.

The fact that "lots of people" knew about Savile doesn't mean that Whitehouse knew. People in certain circles knew - in the places where he worked, in some parts of the media - but a lot of us didn't. Do you have any proof that she knew about Savile?

If Whitehouse was opposed to paedophilia (on whatever grounds) she would hardly have supported Savile if she'd known the truth about him. I could accuse her of many things, but I've seen no evidence of hypocrisy. She was passionate about her causes, and there's no reason to think that she would support someone she knew to be a paedophile when she was so vehemently opposed to paedophilia.

You say that "as a Christian [she] had a distorted world view and was looking in the wrong places". That suggests she didn't know about Savile or Blyth, because she wasn't looking in the right places to find out about them.

So either:

  • she knew about them and was a hypocrite
  • she didn't know about them because she wasn't looking in the right places
  • she didn't know about them because, like the rest of us, she didn't move in the right circles to find out about him.
DeanElderberry · 12/01/2025 10:12

like the rest of us, she didn't move in the right circles to find out about him

'the right circles' meaning knowing women who worked as nurses - or knowing people who were related to women who worked as nurses. Not a very exclusive circle.

It's more about no-one wanting to know. And not caring if they did know. Remember the outcry when people suggested there was something wrong about 47 year-old Bill Wyman having sex with 13 year-old Mandy Smith? Famous men, rich men, men who involve themselves in positive and benevolent actions - entertainment, religion, education, sports training, charity - have a layer of protective glamour.

Children, girls or boys, didn't matter. And still don't.

Zita60 · 12/01/2025 11:22

In this instance, "knowing women who worked as nurses" would mean knowing nurses who worked at Stoke Mandeville, Broadmoor, Leeds General Infirmary. Most of us don't know nurses who worked there.

I agree that there was a lot less concern about such things happening to children, and that has to change. But most of us didn't know about Savile. I used to watch Jim'll Fix It, and thought he was a bit wierd, "unusual". But it never occurred to me that he was raping and abusing children and young people. Why would it? Not everyone on telly that I don't like is a serial rapist/abuser. I don't like Jonny Vegas, but I've no reason to think he's a rapist.

DeanElderberry · 12/01/2025 12:00

Three seconds Googling confirms that abuse by Savile has been reported from 28 hospitals, not three. Lots and lots of nurses in 28 hospitals, all capable of talking to each other and to family and friends. As I said not a small circle of people 'in the know', not and exclusive circle.

SerendipityJane · 12/01/2025 12:09

The fact that "lots of people" knew about Savile doesn't mean that Whitehouse knew.

Never ever underestimate the power of some people to "not know" when it affects their position or livelihood.

Slight distraction (or is it ?) however look at the extremes folk will go to to preserve their world view.

(I almost posted this previously in response to a reply to my comment about flat earthers)

DeanElderberry · 12/01/2025 12:18

Never ever underestimate the power of some people to "not know" when it affects their position or livelihood.

Or even their concept of how the world is, filled with exciting, famous, powerful, people they might get to meet some day if they're lucky. See the people who muttered disapprovingly when we were told about Savile. See the continuing denial about Kincora.

SerendipityJane · 12/01/2025 12:29

DeanElderberry · 12/01/2025 12:18

Never ever underestimate the power of some people to "not know" when it affects their position or livelihood.

Or even their concept of how the world is, filled with exciting, famous, powerful, people they might get to meet some day if they're lucky. See the people who muttered disapprovingly when we were told about Savile. See the continuing denial about Kincora.

The "War on drugs" is another good example. It's amazing how many people in power have an epiphany that it's a crock as soon as they no longer have to believe in it for a career. I'd bet there as some transactivists who are the same.

RethinkingLife · 12/01/2025 14:13

How was it possible to just sit and interview someone who said 4 was the age of consent.

In discussions such as this, I often think about Eileen Fairweather (extract from Helen Joyce).

"In 1979, Eileen Fairweather was working at Spare Rib, a radical-feminist magazine. She was young and new to journalism, but assigned to read Paedophilia: The Radical Case, in which Tom O’Carroll, later imprisoned for child-abuse, argued for lowering the age of consent to four. She recalls “anguished, earnest” discussions with feminist friends about what they should write about it. “I did draft something, arguing that the existing age of consent was not ‘patriarchal’, but protected children,” she says. “But I never even dared show it to anyone.” No-one back then realized the extent and brutality of child-abuse. And the pedophile movement had so thoroughly hijacked the gay movement that, if you said you were against “child sexual liberation”—as, outrageously, they put it—you were branded “anti-gay.” She says she sees “the same intimidation and paralysis of intelligence” with the transgender debate, with people terrified to express legitimate concerns about infiltration and safeguarding."

quillette.com/2018/12/04/the-new-patriarchy-how-trans-radicalism-hurts-women-children-and-trans-people-themselves/

SerendipityJane · 12/01/2025 14:57

RethinkingLife · 12/01/2025 14:13

How was it possible to just sit and interview someone who said 4 was the age of consent.

In discussions such as this, I often think about Eileen Fairweather (extract from Helen Joyce).

"In 1979, Eileen Fairweather was working at Spare Rib, a radical-feminist magazine. She was young and new to journalism, but assigned to read Paedophilia: The Radical Case, in which Tom O’Carroll, later imprisoned for child-abuse, argued for lowering the age of consent to four. She recalls “anguished, earnest” discussions with feminist friends about what they should write about it. “I did draft something, arguing that the existing age of consent was not ‘patriarchal’, but protected children,” she says. “But I never even dared show it to anyone.” No-one back then realized the extent and brutality of child-abuse. And the pedophile movement had so thoroughly hijacked the gay movement that, if you said you were against “child sexual liberation”—as, outrageously, they put it—you were branded “anti-gay.” She says she sees “the same intimidation and paralysis of intelligence” with the transgender debate, with people terrified to express legitimate concerns about infiltration and safeguarding."

quillette.com/2018/12/04/the-new-patriarchy-how-trans-radicalism-hurts-women-children-and-trans-people-themselves/

It's hard to fault the observation that whilst everything in the world is about sex, except sex, which is about power.

Paedophilia arises from the same wellspring as rape and violence in that it confers a power on the abuser. Whether that craving is a reaction to the fact they could not achieve it another way (say by working hard and actually being useful) or is indeed a symptom that having power is addictive and once you have a little, you have to have more and more has yet to be definitively answered.

Sunday afternoon philosophy I guess.

MarieDeGournay · 12/01/2025 15:46

In 1979, Eileen Fairweather was working at Spare Rib, a radical-feminist magazine....

If every woman at Spare Rib did not agree 100% that men having sex with children was wrong, full stop, that PIE was dangerous and should be condemned and that the NCCL were completely out of order to accept them, it reveals something about Spare Rib, i.e. it wasn't very 'radical-feminist' at all.
The most radical sections of the then Women's Movement were the ones calling out all male violence, rape, harassment, child sexual abuse, PIE, etc.,etc. without fear or favour - and getting called ugly man-haters for their troubles.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 12/01/2025 16:07

FWIW (not much, probably) we moved to Leeds in the early 70s when I was a child. Because of my Dad's job there is a good chance that at some point he met Savile, but probably only in passing. I can't remember now if he ever mentioned it. He's dead now so I can't ask him. My Mum would never have crossed his path, fortunately, and neither did I. I never heard a word against him in Leeds, but I'm sure if we'd happened to know a nurse who worked in one of the big hospitals she might have said something.

Let's not forget that a big factor in paedophiles getting away with it was a prevalent belief that the child victims were complicit, had been asking for it, behaving provocatively, and so on. Obviously that broke down when there was incontrovertible evidence that a man or boy had assaulted a baby, toddler or very young child, or abducted their victim from the street, but once children reached the age of puberty there often seems to have been an assumption that they were somehow tempting the poor vicar or scoutmaster or teacher or youth leader or whoever he was by being nice to him and accepting the attention he paid them. I do remember the shock as the 1980s progressed and there was more and more coverage of child sexual abuse. When the first estimates of prevalence were reported I was incredulous. How could it possibly be that common? I'm not as naive as that now.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 12/01/2025 16:10

It was also the time of groupies, often under age. Nobody seemed to blink an eye at the idea that young teenage girls were hanging around the stage door hoping to catch the eye of a much older pop star. Also page 3 girls, who were often only just 16. Horrible stuff, looking back now, but also so normalised back then.

SerendipityJane · 12/01/2025 16:31

Let's not forget that a big factor in paedophiles getting away with it was a prevalent belief that the child victims were complicit, had been asking for it, behaving provocatively, and so on.

Also it's the go-to smear in any dirty tricks campaign. That or (male) homosexuality. As with "anti semitic" or "racist" or "transphobic" the more you use a phrase, the less it means and the less currency it carries.

Even now - as I type - all the fuss over grooming gangs has already trampled on any hope of helping victims as yet another culture war football to be kicked from left to right until it has lost all shape.

DeanElderberry · 12/01/2025 16:35

I looked up Lolita, and give you this paragraph from the Wiki entry

In 1958, Dorothy Parker described the novel as "the engrossing, anguished story of a man, a man of taste and culture, who can love only little girls" and Lolita as "a dreadful little creature, selfish, hard, vulgar, and foul-tempered". In 1959, novelist Robertson Davies wrote that the theme of Lolita is "not the corruption of an innocent child by a cunning adult, but the exploitation of a weak adult by a corrupt child. This is no pretty theme, but it is one with which social workers, magistrates and psychiatrists are familiar."

Remember, she was 12 when he first drugged her, by 14 she was getting too old for him

The whole entry is worth reading (as is the novel) if you have the stomach for it.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lolita

SerendipityJane · 12/01/2025 16:59

DeanElderberry · 12/01/2025 16:35

I looked up Lolita, and give you this paragraph from the Wiki entry

In 1958, Dorothy Parker described the novel as "the engrossing, anguished story of a man, a man of taste and culture, who can love only little girls" and Lolita as "a dreadful little creature, selfish, hard, vulgar, and foul-tempered". In 1959, novelist Robertson Davies wrote that the theme of Lolita is "not the corruption of an innocent child by a cunning adult, but the exploitation of a weak adult by a corrupt child. This is no pretty theme, but it is one with which social workers, magistrates and psychiatrists are familiar."

Remember, she was 12 when he first drugged her, by 14 she was getting too old for him

The whole entry is worth reading (as is the novel) if you have the stomach for it.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lolita

Referenced in a #1 hit pop song in 1980, by the way.

lcakethereforeIam · 12/01/2025 17:03

Charlie Chaplin's second wife Lita Grey, 15 years old to his 35.

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lita_Grey

PerkingFaintly · 12/01/2025 17:04

UtopiaPlanitia · 09/01/2025 16:22

Starmer recently mentioned Labour will bring in mandatory reporting of child sexual abuse so perhaps, if the government actually does that, it will reduce the number of people who turn a blind eye to this. Self-interest can be a useful motivator.

Yes, Starmer's been calling for mandatory reporting for more than a decade.

I remember there was some debate back in 2013, when he made this call, re whether it would be helpful in practice or discourage survivors from making disclosures:
Not reporting child abuse 'should be criminal offence'
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-24772777

But it's obvious it would have made a difference in many of the examples we're discussing on this thread.

Keir Starmer

Not reporting child abuse 'should be criminal offence'

Teachers and other professionals who fail to report child abuse suspicions should face prosecution, the former director of public prosecutions says.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-24772777

PerkingFaintly · 12/01/2025 17:09

MrsOvertonsWindow · 09/01/2025 09:53

Sarah Ditum in the Times pointing out how some transactivists insistence that young children must be allowed to transition is a similar age inappropriate argument that PIE used back then to argue that children were entitled to sexual relationships with adults:

https://www.thetimes.com/comment/columnists/article/parasitic-paedophiles-are-lesson-in-trans-debate-307l936m3

Edited

Yes, Ditum nailed it in that article, didn't she?

"Parasitic" is exactly the right word for this behaviour of constantly trying to worm their agenda into any available political movement or social change.

PerkingFaintly · 12/01/2025 17:13

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 12/01/2025 16:10

It was also the time of groupies, often under age. Nobody seemed to blink an eye at the idea that young teenage girls were hanging around the stage door hoping to catch the eye of a much older pop star. Also page 3 girls, who were often only just 16. Horrible stuff, looking back now, but also so normalised back then.

Yes yes.

It's such a relief this is no longer the norm. I'm so pleased younger people are actively shocked this could ever have been seen as OK.