I'm a bit confused about how old you are and how old you assume I am. I'm in my early 60s.
You're right that someone 10 years older than me couldn't do all those things at 18 that I could, since I turned 18 after the Sex Discrimination Act of 1975. Women born in the early 50s would have had to wait until their mid-20s to get a credit card or mortgage without a male guarantor. And up until 1975 companies could legally say jobs were for men only.
But you said in another post
I had a letter saying the retirement age was rising from 60 to 65 but after that nothing.
It has taken me to actually search on the internet to find out that first it was 66 then 67 and now 68years old before I get any pension.
If your pension age was rising to 65 under the 1995 Act, you must have been born in 1955 or later. If your pension age rose to 65 under the 2011 Act, you must have been born in 1953 or later.
If your pension age is going to be 68, you must have been born in the late 70s or later.
So you're either in your late 60s (and got your pension at 65 or 66) or under 50 (will get your pension at age 68).
I tried to talk to our mortgage company (1990s) and they refused to entertain me. Handed the phone to dh who asked the exact same question I had asked and they couldn’t answer him fast enough.
If you are a woman of a certain age you learned very quickly when dealing with companies, you couldn’t do anything unless a man did it for you
In the 1990s there was no more excuse for this behaviour from the mortgage company than there is now. But sexism unfortunately exists. I'd have made a complaint about the sexist arsehole.
Edit: I just saw that you corrected your pension date under the 1995 Act to 63. So you were born in 1953 or 1954 and have been eligible to claim your pension since the age of 65 or 66 under the 2011 rules. Not 68 unless you chose to defer your pension or failed to claim it.