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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The latest fallouts in GC world

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Pluvia · 11/12/2024 11:06

My terfing energy has been focussed elsewhere in recent months and I haven't been here or on TwiX or social media much. Now I've taken responsibility for tweeting/ comms on behalf of a small but potentially significant LGB group and I discover that there seems to be something going on — another schism — in GC world. Jane Clare Jones's name seems to be coming up a lot. Something seems to have gone on but I can't work out what.

If it was my own account I'd just ignore, but the followers of this account are bringing it up and seem to expect an opinion to be expressed or a side to be taken. Also I'm seeing a lot about 'ultras' and 'lites', which is new to me. Can anyone enlighten me? I need to tread carefully.

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Abhannmor · 13/07/2025 16:23

ArabellaScott · 12/07/2025 13:37

That's very interesting - could you point me towards any good books on Distributionism?

I suggest Small is Beautiful by E F Schumacher.

ArabellaScott · 13/07/2025 16:42

Abhannmor · 13/07/2025 16:23

I suggest Small is Beautiful by E F Schumacher.

Thanks! I've seen that one about.

ArabellaScott · 13/07/2025 16:45

RoyalCorgi · 13/07/2025 15:47

I haven't been able to keep track of a lot of the fallouts, because as well as the obvious soc fems v KJK dispute there seem to be a number of others. The most recent one, as alluded to by a PP, is the very bitter disagreements over Israel/Palestine, which makes me very sad because the movement has split even further. A lot of soc/rad fems who would normally regard themselves as supporters of Bindel are now very angry with her for her pro-Israeli stance.

Back in the 1980s there were so many splits that the women's movement fell apart, and I wonder if the same will happen again.

I don't actually think it matters too much to the broader movement. People fall out, women move on.

It's sometimes difficult for the individuals involved, but we're not in fact a hive mind nor a cult and I think it's healthy and inevitable for there to be a certain amount of churn. Pressure groups and grassroots organisations and some political movements especially are usually existing to try to solve specific issues, once that's achieved, they risk becoming moribund and need to change or cease.

That said, I did really love the 'gc movement' years back for the fact that there was so much cross party work done, and so much willingness to work alongside and listen to women with disparate views.

ArabellaScott · 13/07/2025 16:49

And it's been pointed out before that the type of people who are willing and able to stand up and talk against the orthodoxy are generally strong willed, less concerned about being 'agreeable', and willing to stick to their principles rather than rub along for a quiet life.

A bunch of them from all different backgrounds, political positions and life situations all chucked in together are almost guaranteed to experience friction.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 13/07/2025 16:54

Abhannmor · 13/07/2025 16:23

I suggest Small is Beautiful by E F Schumacher.

That is a book that I haven't heard mentioned for many, many years.

Abhannmor · 13/07/2025 17:01

PrettyDamnCosmic · 13/07/2025 16:54

That is a book that I haven't heard mentioned for many, many years.

Yes it was very popular in the 70s 80s iirc. Maybe it is due a revisit.

SensibleSigma · 13/07/2025 17:04

From my perspective, some people are full time feminists. It’s in some way their job, or their key interest.

Others are otherwise engaged and only part time, serially monogamous feminists if you will. Their attention is caught by one issue or another and they get caught up in tackling it. But then have to focus on other things again. Still feminists, but not actively involved in anything.

I think it’s only the first category that have any concept of a homogeneous movement, that want everyone to discuss the issues, and then agree on a way forward. They would then be intolerant of those who act unilaterally or have unpalatable opinions on a different subject.

The second category, people like me, just wouldn’t begin to think everyone should agree about abortion/maternity leave/single sex spaces - let alone effectively separate issues like Israel/Palestine.

SidewaysOtter · 13/07/2025 17:05

illinivich · 13/07/2025 16:16

It seems extremely difficult for feminist to separate causes leading to many refusing to work with others because of a total unrelated issue.

I get that priorities change - ive notice lots of people i follow on twitter talk of nothing else but Palestine. But just because they've pivoted and changed focus, its bonkers to think others have to too.

There's also a weird double standard. They refuse to work with women because they disagree about Palestine, but are willing to work with LOJ even though he actively promoting the removal of women only spaces and is in favour of children transitioning. Why dont they stay mad at the men?

Yes, it's the purity politics that is seen so often on the Left - one wrong opinion and you're beyond the pale. It's disappointing to see it happening in feminism too but I guess feminists are more likely to be left-wing.

I'm all for healthy disagreement - if you put a load of feisty women together who feel passionately about things then it's somewhat inevitable - but not this nonsense. Can't we just focus on the issue in hand rather than in-fighting over unrelated causes?

ArabellaScott · 13/07/2025 17:17

<a class="break-all" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20141014171926/www.ditext.com/schumacher/small/small.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://web.archive.org/web/20141014171926/www.ditext.com/schumacher/small/small.html

Whole text!

Small Is Beautiful

https://web.archive.org/web/20141014171926/http://www.ditext.com/schumacher/small/small.html

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 13/07/2025 21:34

Twotribesgonna · 13/07/2025 07:54

i think it’s healthy for people to have their own views. My issue with kjk is that she has a huge platform and is constantly playing the victim on it, whining about how the “Soc fems” were mean to her. But then she’s spiteful to them. Classic darvo.
One moment she is bragging about how rich she is and the next she’s whining about how she isn’t making enough money.
Then she gets a huge ego boost from patronising women who find it difficult to speak up and they fangirl her in return.
Excruciating. I’m glad she has lost so much popularity. One day her platform won’t be so big and her whining will get much worse. Her PoW was an embarrassing disaster.

"Then she gets a huge ego boost from patronising women who find it difficult to speak up and they fangirl her in return.
Excruciating. I’m glad she has lost so much popularity. One day her platform won’t be so big and her whining will get much worse. Her PoW was an embarrassing disaster."

I obviously cannot let this pass without comment 😂

"patronising women who find it difficult to speak up and they fangirl her in return."
I think that is "excruciatingly patronising" about the women who take the mic at LWS events.

"she has lost so much popularity."
What evidence do you have for that claim?

"Her PoW was an embarrassing disaster."
I don't think you have grasped the purpose of POW standing candidates in the General Election.

As I was one of them, let me enlighten you.

If you imagine that I am "fan girling" at the start of this video, that is on you. There was misinformation going round that KJK had not provided any support for POW candidates. That was very far from the truth so I was keen to dispel that myth:

LWS Morpeth - Party of Women - Liz Panton

Here, I apparently have "difficulty speaking" about Northumbria Police:
Northumbria Police: a Curate's Egg

Here, I have "difficulty speaking" about Trade Unions:

Trade Unions - Equality Act Section 57: Liz Panton

More pertinently, Paula from Oxford talks about women who genuinely had difficulty speaking and being heard speaking about the Grooming Gang and lack of support for victims in Oxford:

Police & "Anti-Fascists" Silenced Women speaking about Oxford Grooming Gang: LWS 25 May 2025, Paula

DrLouiseJMoody · 13/07/2025 22:27

Something that's consistently missed in the KJK vs Soc-Narcs discussion is that one needn't even like or have any strong opinion about KJK at all: we just don't like bullying, and she's had numerous lies told about her personal life, family, as well as being likened to dog excrement by FiLIA. If she's an irrelevance to your brand of feminism, then perhaps just let her get on with it and don't make yourself look deranged by publishing entire magazines about THE NAZI etc etc.

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 14/07/2025 08:30

DrLouiseJMoody · 13/07/2025 22:27

Something that's consistently missed in the KJK vs Soc-Narcs discussion is that one needn't even like or have any strong opinion about KJK at all: we just don't like bullying, and she's had numerous lies told about her personal life, family, as well as being likened to dog excrement by FiLIA. If she's an irrelevance to your brand of feminism, then perhaps just let her get on with it and don't make yourself look deranged by publishing entire magazines about THE NAZI etc etc.

This. So much this.

Ironically the lies and attempted smears of KJK I think likely increase her popularity amongst normal women who care about the issues and aren't interested in petty ego trips. Attempting to shut KJK up and police what she can talk about is also trying to shut up all the women attending her events trying to talk about what matters to them: same sex intimate healthcare, lesbian only spaces, grooming gangs and how they've been otherwise silenced, child safeguarding, whatever it is.

And I've been to LWS events and I don't feel patronised. I think my opinion about who is patronising me is probably all that counts, thanks. And it's not KJK. KJK actually lets women speak AND LISTENS. No interrupting, no gatekeeping. I can't think of anyone else who does that for normal women.

Twotribesgonna · 14/07/2025 12:31

Something that’s consistently missed by the kjk fan girls on here is that kjk can’t go a day without slagging someone off
x.com/theposieparker/status/1944634623792722181?s=46

SionnachRuadh · 14/07/2025 12:41

"Fan girls", forsooth.

I don't know KJK. I've never met her. I do know some of the more prominent socfems who have been taking aim at her for years. The same people who thought it was jolly japes to smear KJK as some kind of neonazi, when they are very aware that there are men in the left wing activist space who will take that to mean "KJK is an enemy of the people and should be assaulted on sight."

Presumably they thought that designating an acceptable enemy would win them some favours with the TRAs who they feel a social affinity for. Spoiler: it didn't. I have never heard a TRA say "KJK is an enemy of the people but that Sarah Ditum makes some valid points."

SidewaysOtter · 14/07/2025 12:41

Twotribesgonna · 14/07/2025 12:31

Something that’s consistently missed by the kjk fan girls on here is that kjk can’t go a day without slagging someone off
x.com/theposieparker/status/1944634623792722181?s=46

So? She can say what she likes. She doesn't have to "be nice" or "be kind" and she's allowed to take issue with someone.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/07/2025 12:44

SionnachRuadh · 14/07/2025 12:41

"Fan girls", forsooth.

I don't know KJK. I've never met her. I do know some of the more prominent socfems who have been taking aim at her for years. The same people who thought it was jolly japes to smear KJK as some kind of neonazi, when they are very aware that there are men in the left wing activist space who will take that to mean "KJK is an enemy of the people and should be assaulted on sight."

Presumably they thought that designating an acceptable enemy would win them some favours with the TRAs who they feel a social affinity for. Spoiler: it didn't. I have never heard a TRA say "KJK is an enemy of the people but that Sarah Ditum makes some valid points."

This, exactly.

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 14/07/2025 12:45

Twotribesgonna · 14/07/2025 12:31

Something that’s consistently missed by the kjk fan girls on here is that kjk can’t go a day without slagging someone off
x.com/theposieparker/status/1944634623792722181?s=46

"fangirls" 🤡

You just can't help yourself, can you?

Who exactly are you trying to impress with this sort of juvenile sniping?

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 14/07/2025 12:55

Twotribesgonna · 14/07/2025 12:31

Something that’s consistently missed by the kjk fan girls on here is that kjk can’t go a day without slagging someone off
x.com/theposieparker/status/1944634623792722181?s=46

Did you link the wrong post because this is so benign?

SionnachRuadh · 14/07/2025 12:57

I suspect KJK will never lose her ability to make me say "fuck sake, what were you thinking" but...

I know the first rule of WPUK is you don't talk about WPUK, but there's a particular approach that section of the movement had that really rubbed me up the wrong way:

  1. An attitude of "we've got a nice little high-status club here and you're not part of it"
  2. Alongside having an exclusive club, an attitude of "we're the leaders of this movement and nobody gets to say or do anything that doesn't meet our approval"
  3. The ridiculous spectacle of women well into adulthood literally Voldemorting their designated enemy and publishing opaque open letters denouncing someone, while not naming the person they were obviously talking about

The amazing thing is that they got away with it for so long. When faced with that sort of teenage nonsense, the only appropriate response is to ignore them, do your own thing, and if they threaten to denounce you in their magazine, say "so what, your magazine has 16 subscribers".

ArabellaScott · 14/07/2025 12:59

Always wanted to be a fan girl but could never get the tassels to stay on.

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 14/07/2025 13:03

ArabellaScott · 14/07/2025 12:59

Always wanted to be a fan girl but could never get the tassels to stay on.

Texas Hold Em Dancing GIF by Molke

Don't make me go looking for gifs!!!

😂😱

spannasaurus · 14/07/2025 13:12

Twotribesgonna · 14/07/2025 12:31

Something that’s consistently missed by the kjk fan girls on here is that kjk can’t go a day without slagging someone off
x.com/theposieparker/status/1944634623792722181?s=46

Who was she "slagging off" in that tweet?

themostspecialelfintheworkshop · 14/07/2025 13:13

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 14/07/2025 12:45

"fangirls" 🤡

You just can't help yourself, can you?

Who exactly are you trying to impress with this sort of juvenile sniping?

Calling normal women on mumsnet 'fangirls' seems a lot nastier to me than that tweet stating an opinion about a famous person who's an open misogynist to be honest.

UtopiaPlanitia · 14/07/2025 13:16

As my wee granny would’ve said about KJK ‘There’s no back doors in thon'.

Which means she’s straightforward and more or less what you see is what you get. She is one of those people who says what she’s thinking and, while I sometimes wonder why she’s saying something in a particular way, on the whole I respect her forthright manner. I disagree with her on some things and agree with her on others. And I lost respect for WPUK and The Radical Notion et al for trashing her.

I’m also glad to see that KJK and Jean Hatchet have patched up their differences recently.

ArabellaScott · 14/07/2025 13:23

POWNewcastleEastWallsend · 14/07/2025 13:03

Don't make me go looking for gifs!!!

😂😱

I'm no expert, but that looks arse backwards to me.

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