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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Protest the BBC giving a man “women’s footballer of the year” December 17th

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fromorbit · 09/12/2024 09:36

On 17th December we will protest BBC Sport for their decision to award a man “women’s footballer of the year”. Two protests will take place. One in London outside Broadcasting House and one in Salford outside the ‘Sports Personality of the Year’ event. Details to follow. Join us.

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OP posts:
Hoppinggreen · 09/12/2024 09:39

WTAF, are there no actual women deserving of this award?

heathspeedwell · 09/12/2024 09:42

Brilliant idea!

NPET · 09/12/2024 12:14

Hoppinggreen · 09/12/2024 09:39

WTAF, are there no actual women deserving of this award?

Seemingly not. Having a d means EVEN MORE these days!!

Cosmosforbreakfast · 09/12/2024 13:35

Why can't the BBC start a Transwoman footballer of the year award? Why must actual women always lose out to these men?

Hoppinggreen · 09/12/2024 13:38

To be fair I don't think this person does actually have male bits, I think we are looking at a Semanya/ Khelif type situation BUT even so this persons Testosterone has been too high to compete previously and they do seem to have the physical advantages of male puberty to some extent

anniegun · 09/12/2024 13:44

So are we against women who look a bit like men? This is a WOMAN. Just because she is not blond with a ponytale. How hateful that people want her banned because of her looks

anniegun · 09/12/2024 13:46

Oh and it was fans who voted for her not the BBC. Is the OP a Mail Journalist?

Hoppinggreen · 09/12/2024 13:50

anniegun · 09/12/2024 13:44

So are we against women who look a bit like men? This is a WOMAN. Just because she is not blond with a ponytale. How hateful that people want her banned because of her looks

They can look however they want, its what genetics say that matters. If this person had a blood test and it said they were female with a testosterone level within the normal range nobody would give a shit what they looked like.

eurochick · 09/12/2024 13:53

anniegun · 09/12/2024 13:44

So are we against women who look a bit like men? This is a WOMAN. Just because she is not blond with a ponytale. How hateful that people want her banned because of her looks

Educate yourself. This is a man with a DSD. With all the physical advantages that male puberty brings.

arethereanyleftatall · 09/12/2024 13:53

anniegun · 09/12/2024 13:44

So are we against women who look a bit like men? This is a WOMAN. Just because she is not blond with a ponytale. How hateful that people want her banned because of her looks

Um. You might want to do some research. Male with a DSD for males. XY chromosomes.

midgetastic · 09/12/2024 13:53

anniegun · 09/12/2024 13:44

So are we against women who look a bit like men? This is a WOMAN. Just because she is not blond with a ponytale. How hateful that people want her banned because of her looks

If it's a person with XY chromosomes it's a man - nothing to do with looks , although appearances often indicate the chromosomes

If it's a DSD it's horrible as they often are raised as female , often don't realise they are male till puberty , and as such I would not want to protest at the event

Not that they should get an award that is a female award - these people need protection from abuse including those who don't support them in their disability but instead pretend all is ok

arethereanyleftatall · 09/12/2024 13:55

We can agree this DSD is horrible for these men without allowing them to trample all over females.

midgetastic · 09/12/2024 15:06

Totally agree

But it's how we go about preventing women losing their rights - targeting individuals - protesting in their faces - should not be necessary

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 09/12/2024 15:18

anniegun · 09/12/2024 13:44

So are we against women who look a bit like men? This is a WOMAN. Just because she is not blond with a ponytale. How hateful that people want her banned because of her looks

The African Football league ( apologise if this isn’t the right title, I’m not able to look it up now) banned Banda from playing in their woman’s competition because Banda did not meet their definition of a woman.
So if anyone is being discriminatory, it is the home continent.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 09/12/2024 15:24

midgetastic · 09/12/2024 15:06

Totally agree

But it's how we go about preventing women losing their rights - targeting individuals - protesting in their faces - should not be necessary

It shouldn't. But that care for individuals gets weaponised to silence women, and that's not ok either. Sometimes you have to counter "Don't be unkind" with "Don't put men into female positions, yes not even that one."

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 09/12/2024 15:36

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 09/12/2024 15:18

The African Football league ( apologise if this isn’t the right title, I’m not able to look it up now) banned Banda from playing in their woman’s competition because Banda did not meet their definition of a woman.
So if anyone is being discriminatory, it is the home continent.

I also find it rather racist, it's as if the decision of those black people in Africa is clearly wrong because us white people disagree.

midgetastic · 09/12/2024 15:38

I am not trying to weaponise "be kind"

I am just trying to be clear who the culprit is - and in the case of DSD I see that person as a culprit as much as a victim - extenuating circumstances if you like. It also would not surprise me if they have already been a victim of bullying by girls - I think it's very common for masculine girls to be bullied for that aspect of their appearance or character

And if many other people think like me on this then protesting in that way may do more harm than good

I feel that the protest and objections need to be depersonalised somehow

These people have been abused by professionals who I am damn sure know exactly why their protege does so well

I would be a lot more comfortable offering support not hate - support they might reject but that's their call. And focus on the institutions that are putting people ( the women and the DSD person ) in harms way

2 wrongs don't make a right

Hoppinggreen · 09/12/2024 15:42

These sports people with DSD don't just happen to end up competeing in sports at a high level. There are scouts who actually look for them as they know that they have natural advantages over women but may be able to compete with them, its deliberate. I don't blame the individuals as much, for them its often a way out of poverty for them and their families and an escape from a situation where marriage may be expected but difficult and I am not without sympathy.
BUT there comes a point where is is just cheating

MrsOvertonsWindow · 09/12/2024 15:44

midgetastic · 09/12/2024 15:38

I am not trying to weaponise "be kind"

I am just trying to be clear who the culprit is - and in the case of DSD I see that person as a culprit as much as a victim - extenuating circumstances if you like. It also would not surprise me if they have already been a victim of bullying by girls - I think it's very common for masculine girls to be bullied for that aspect of their appearance or character

And if many other people think like me on this then protesting in that way may do more harm than good

I feel that the protest and objections need to be depersonalised somehow

These people have been abused by professionals who I am damn sure know exactly why their protege does so well

I would be a lot more comfortable offering support not hate - support they might reject but that's their call. And focus on the institutions that are putting people ( the women and the DSD person ) in harms way

2 wrongs don't make a right

This is always the dilemma for women. It does come down to "be kind and ignore the outrage / unfairness / appropriation" because there's usually an individual at the centre.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/africa/62057259

Barbra Banda in action for Zambia

Wafcon 2022: Zambian Barbra Banda ruled out over 'gender eligibility' issues

Zambia captain Barbra Banda has been ruled out of the Women's Africa Cup of Nations after failing gender eligibility tests.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/africa/62057259

FlirtsWithRhinos · 09/12/2024 15:45

@midgetastic I didn't mean to suggest that you are weaponising bekind with your concern, I am saying it has been weaponised by TRAs personalising any criticsm of men taking women's places (including those with DSDs who may not have discovered heir status until puberty or even until they were tested in sports) as an effective tactic to shut down the subject, and that means women have to be prepared to say "Yes, this specific person is not a woman and giving this perrson a woman's award/place/opportunity is not fair on women and it has to be challenged even if this is hurtful to that person."

FlirtsWithRhinos · 09/12/2024 15:45

MrsOvertonsWindow · 09/12/2024 15:44

This is always the dilemma for women. It does come down to "be kind and ignore the outrage / unfairness / appropriation" because there's usually an individual at the centre.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/africa/62057259

Cross post - thank you, you said it better than me.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 09/12/2024 15:47

MrsOvertonsWindow · 09/12/2024 15:44

This is always the dilemma for women. It does come down to "be kind and ignore the outrage / unfairness / appropriation" because there's usually an individual at the centre.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/africa/62057259

These young people are cynically targeted by a number of sporting bodies in order to exploit their likely DSD for commercial gain:
Extract:

"BBC Sport Africa understands that three other Zambian players were affected by gender eligibility but chose not to feature for the national team, whose squad features 22, rather than the permitted 26, players.
Banda was originally named in Zambia's Wafcon squad after taking medication to help reduce her levels of testosterone, which are naturally overly-high, but she has still not met the regulations, BBC Sport Africa understands".

Echobelly · 09/12/2024 15:50

anniegun · 09/12/2024 13:44

So are we against women who look a bit like men? This is a WOMAN. Just because she is not blond with a ponytale. How hateful that people want her banned because of her looks

Funny how it never seems to be the white sportwomen who get this.

No one seems to have been outraged that the Australian (I think) boxer who Imane Khelif defeated to win her Olympics title was a similar height and build to her. I wonder why that was?

murasaki · 09/12/2024 15:55

Echobelly · 09/12/2024 15:50

Funny how it never seems to be the white sportwomen who get this.

No one seems to have been outraged that the Australian (I think) boxer who Imane Khelif defeated to win her Olympics title was a similar height and build to her. I wonder why that was?

Did you watch the fight? One was clearly a man, every movement showed it. You can photoshop as much as you like, but when they move, you see it.

arethereanyleftatall · 09/12/2024 16:06

@echobelly becomes the second poster on a thread of what ten people so far who are utterly uneducated on this matter. 20%. Scary stuff for women. If you don't know anything about it, don't comment.

No, she wasn't Australian.
No, Imane is not a her.
No, it's nothing to do with colour.

It's to do with XY chromosomes and testes. Having them means you are male.

Imane, semenya and this footballer all have a DSD called 5 alpha reductase deficiency its a DSD that means a male fetus fails to grow a penis, the tissue is sometimes obviously ambiguous, sometimes observed as, although in reality not female, please note that a blind vaginal pouch, is not a vagina. There is no vagina, only a malformed penis and testicles.

This is really not hard to understand. He is a man and once he goes through puberty, could like any other man father children.

The reason they are from third world countries is because it's a DSD that would be spotted and they would be detailed as male in developed countries.