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3 questions for GC women

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ChirpyFinch · 28/08/2024 00:27

As the title says, three questions for the women in this chat.

  1. Do you think the majority of people are gender critical, and why/why not?

  2. Globally, the right wing is more vocally gender critical than the left. They are also far more likely to be regressive on a range of women’s issues like abortion and anti-gay. Why do you think they agree with GCs on this one issue but disagree on so much else (if you think they do?)

  3. How many trans people do you estimate there are globally?

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AmaryllisNightAndDay · 28/08/2024 15:43

Waitwhat23 · 28/08/2024 15:40

I do wonder what the next fad will be (and anyone who claims that there's not at least an element of social contagion about all this is deluding themselves).

I think it'll go one of two ways -

  1. The whole authoritarian GI movement will collapse under it's own weight as people finally tire of being told what they must think. I think this will take the form of increasing number of people saying 'no. piss off. I'm not your mum - I don't have any obligation to indulge your navel gazing' to the cult of look at meeeeee's!
  1. Something even more ludicrous will take hold. I suspect some sort of religion, along the same lines as scientology. Again, there will be a backlash along the line, probably when a push for absolute science kicks in as a reaction.
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I'm expecting some variant of transhumanism. Siri will have more human rights than we do.

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 15:44

MerryMarys · 28/08/2024 15:27

A truly progressive society would recognise that the only thing that makes someone female (woman / girl) or male (man / boy) is their biology.

ANY person with some intelligence would surely recognise that Confused?!

Are you so entrenched in your beliefs that you’re unable to accept or understand that intelligent people may have considered the question and come to an alternative view point than your own?

I don’t understand why many GC posters on this forum think that holding GC views gives them a monopoly on intelligence.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 28/08/2024 15:49

Tbh if someone thinks that biology is not what makes people genetically male or female then I don't think it's unreasonable to wonder if they're not all that bright.

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 15:50

Snowypeaks · 28/08/2024 15:06

but it fails to take account of the existence of trans people and ‘third gender’ in cultures dating back to ancient times.

Third gender. ie men who fail to live up to or fit into masculine gender stereotypes or were just homosexual in cultures where that was totally unacceptable. Men who carve out a niche or are forced into a niche in society.
Not men who become, or think of themselves as, women. Not members of the female sex. They are not "transgender".

Also, having gender dysphoria doesn't mean you actually are the opposite sex.

Where are all the middle-aged women coming out in comparable numbers as young women and girls, if it's just a case of gender dysphoria becoming more accepted or recognised?

The term transgender includes those who are non-binary. It is not limited to (in your words) men who become women or vice versa.

Where does the conclusion that those who are/were third gender are ‘men who fail to live up to […] masculine gender stereotypes’ come from?

And finally, I don’t know but my guess is that there are more young women and girls who openly have gender dysphoria because Gen Z is a vastly more accepting and inclusive generation than those that have come before.

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 15:51

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 28/08/2024 15:49

Tbh if someone thinks that biology is not what makes people genetically male or female then I don't think it's unreasonable to wonder if they're not all that bright.

Tbh if someone is unable to engage in debate without questioning other people’s intelligence then I think that’s quite disappointing.

ChaChaChooey · 28/08/2024 15:55

Third Genders aren’t the same thing as Transgender - read about the history of the Hijra or the Fa’afafine for the homophobia aspect - amazed you are so unaware of the reality.

Gen Z is a vastly more accepting and inclusive generation than those that have come before

Perhaps! But Gen Alpha are looking at their older siblings and schoolmates and celebs such as Sam Smith and concluding that Gender is a load of old tosh so we should be back to reality soon.

ChaChaChooey · 28/08/2024 15:56

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 15:51

Tbh if someone is unable to engage in debate without questioning other people’s intelligence then I think that’s quite disappointing.

Are you are Creationist?

RainWithSunnySpells · 28/08/2024 15:58

No, In my experience people were more accepting of gender non-conformity when Hair Metal was a big thing and internet porn wasn't so ubiquitous. I suspect that the latter plays an important role in young women/girls rejecting their 'womanhood'. I also think that the intolerence (by those who conversely claim to be progressive and accepting) in general discourse around the topic of sex and gender has ramped up hugely since 2014.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 28/08/2024 15:59

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 14:53

@Hairyesterdaygonetoday it’s an easy response to say that gender dysphoria is increasing because of internet publicity, but it fails to take account of the existence of trans people and ‘third gender’ in cultures dating back to ancient times.

I’d suggest instead that numbers of those recognising their gender dysphoria may be increasing, as it becomes more widely understood and (generally) more accepted in our culture. I’d suggest labelling it a ‘fad’ is pretty reductive.

Elle, don't you realise that the very fact that you even know these people exist/existed means they were not seen as the opposite sex - otherwise they'd just have been woman and men with no special names!

It's a completely different construct to the Western transgender TWAW / TMAM concept where the sex of the body is seen as an irrevant detail and the sex of the mind is what determines ones manhood or womanhood, with no limitations or distinctions made between female women and male women.

As others have noted these additional social genders are something that evolves in very socially gendered societies to workaround the times where real life doesn't fit the constructed genders, like widows with no sons, or effeminate or gay men that undermine the patriachial self image. A society without sexist constructs and limitations should have no need of them.

Given that, I invite you to consider why it might be that trans gender identities are surging so much in our culture right now.

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ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 16:02

ChaChaChooey · 28/08/2024 15:56

Are you are Creationist?

??

MrsOvertonsWindow · 28/08/2024 16:04

I can thoroughly recommend this important thread that examines how Gender Dysphoria as a diagnosis lacks all psychological credibility and how easy it has been for bad faith adults to use online and social contagion to gaslight a generation of children with the lie that sex change is not only possible but desirable for them:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5147164-does-gender-dysphoria-actually-exist

The motivation of the OPs odd posts pass me by but thank you to so many women for affording them a respect in responding that was, as usual, not replicated by the OP.

Does ‘Gender Dysphoria’ actually exist? | Mumsnet

Came across this lengthy post yesterday that explores the way GD/ROGD found its way into the DSM (I think version V, around 2012 ish). It discusses th...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5147164-does-gender-dysphoria-actually-exist

ChaChaChooey · 28/08/2024 16:05

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 16:02

??

Are you?

PurpleSparkledPixie · 28/08/2024 16:05

Helleofabore · 28/08/2024 14:55

How many of those cultures that get mentioned here a lot were homophobic so that the homosexual people of these societies had no option but to declare a they were a special gender?

That is something I have always wondered tbh.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 28/08/2024 16:07

Gen Z is a vastly more accepting and inclusive generation than those that have come before.

Oh my! Tell me how young you are without without tellng me how young you are.

I'm Gen X. They said that about us when we were young. Then they said it about the millenials when they were young. They say it about Gen Z now, and as Gen Z get older and start to deal with the reality of life, they will say it about Gen A instead.

I'm not old enough to know what was being said about the generations before me but I'm sure it was similar.

Because it's not about the generations being different, it's about things that seem easy and ready for change when you are young look very different when you see how many of the people who said all the right things in their twenties somehow still managed to take advantage of all the old structures and norms they claimed to reject. And that makes you very wary of people who tell you you don't need the old protections against men and sexism and homophobia and so one because new people are just so much better than the old ones.

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 16:07

ChaChaChooey · 28/08/2024 15:55

Third Genders aren’t the same thing as Transgender - read about the history of the Hijra or the Fa’afafine for the homophobia aspect - amazed you are so unaware of the reality.

Gen Z is a vastly more accepting and inclusive generation than those that have come before

Perhaps! But Gen Alpha are looking at their older siblings and schoolmates and celebs such as Sam Smith and concluding that Gender is a load of old tosh so we should be back to reality soon.

I think I prefer the members of Gen A I know, DD included, who don’t consider it to be a ‘load of old tosh’ at all!

ChaChaChooey · 28/08/2024 16:08

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 16:07

I think I prefer the members of Gen A I know, DD included, who don’t consider it to be a ‘load of old tosh’ at all!

Not raising your daughter to be a feminist then? Seems a bit old fashioned! Goes with the Creationism tho.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/08/2024 16:09

Any chance you could share the research you've mentioned on other threads that you've done on these issues which convinced you of the righteousness of the trans political agenda as opposed to gender critical feminism, @ElleWoods15? Thanks in advance.

Snowypeaks · 28/08/2024 16:11

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 15:50

The term transgender includes those who are non-binary. It is not limited to (in your words) men who become women or vice versa.

Where does the conclusion that those who are/were third gender are ‘men who fail to live up to […] masculine gender stereotypes’ come from?

And finally, I don’t know but my guess is that there are more young women and girls who openly have gender dysphoria because Gen Z is a vastly more accepting and inclusive generation than those that have come before.

So what if transgender includes non-binary? Where are all the middle-aged women who claim to be men or not to be of either sex, in comparable numbers to teens and young women?

Where does the conclusion that those who are/were third gender are ‘men who fail to live up to […] masculine gender stereotypes’ come from?
This is what the Prime Minister of Samoa thought about Laurel Hubbard competing in the women's Olympic weightlifting competition:
Speaking to the media yesterday, the Prime Minister said he was shocked when he first heard about it.
“This fa’afafine or man should have never been allowed by the Pacific Games Council President to lift with the women," he said. "I was shocked when I first heard about it."
https://www.samoaobserver.ws/category/samoa/45971

P.M. calls on Pacific Games Council to address transgender concerns

Prime Minister, Tuilaepa Dr. Sa'ilele Malielegaoi, has appealed to the Pacific Games Council to address concerns surrounding the eligibility of transgender athletes to compete against women.The call comes on the back of Kiwi transgender weightlifter, L...

https://www.samoaobserver.ws/category/samoa/45971

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 16:14

FlirtsWithRhinos · 28/08/2024 16:07

Gen Z is a vastly more accepting and inclusive generation than those that have come before.

Oh my! Tell me how young you are without without tellng me how young you are.

I'm Gen X. They said that about us when we were young. Then they said it about the millenials when they were young. They say it about Gen Z now, and as Gen Z get older and start to deal with the reality of life, they will say it about Gen A instead.

I'm not old enough to know what was being said about the generations before me but I'm sure it was similar.

Because it's not about the generations being different, it's about things that seem easy and ready for change when you are young look very different when you see how many of the people who said all the right things in their twenties somehow still managed to take advantage of all the old structures and norms they claimed to reject. And that makes you very wary of people who tell you you don't need the old protections against men and sexism and homophobia and so one because new people are just so much better than the old ones.

Awww this is as good as getting ID’d in Waitrose!

Is it so hard to comprehend that an old lady who’s been around the block can possibly have done her reading and come to a different conclusion to you?

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 16:15

ChaChaChooey · 28/08/2024 16:08

Not raising your daughter to be a feminist then? Seems a bit old fashioned! Goes with the Creationism tho.

Those who are GC don’t have a monopoly on feminism any more than they have a monopoly on intelligence, soz.

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 16:16

Snowypeaks · 28/08/2024 16:11

So what if transgender includes non-binary? Where are all the middle-aged women who claim to be men or not to be of either sex, in comparable numbers to teens and young women?

Where does the conclusion that those who are/were third gender are ‘men who fail to live up to […] masculine gender stereotypes’ come from?
This is what the Prime Minister of Samoa thought about Laurel Hubbard competing in the women's Olympic weightlifting competition:
Speaking to the media yesterday, the Prime Minister said he was shocked when he first heard about it.
“This fa’afafine or man should have never been allowed by the Pacific Games Council President to lift with the women," he said. "I was shocked when I first heard about it."
https://www.samoaobserver.ws/category/samoa/45971

Not getting the relevance of your point?

ChaChaChooey · 28/08/2024 16:17

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 16:14

Awww this is as good as getting ID’d in Waitrose!

Is it so hard to comprehend that an old lady who’s been around the block can possibly have done her reading and come to a different conclusion to you?

Yes.

Which is why I assume you have a belief akin to a religion (being ‘born in the wrong body’ is impossible if you believe in Darwinism/Evolution).

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 16:19

ChaChaChooey · 28/08/2024 16:17

Yes.

Which is why I assume you have a belief akin to a religion (being ‘born in the wrong body’ is impossible if you believe in Darwinism/Evolution).

It really isn’t if you think about it.

ChaChaChooey · 28/08/2024 16:19

ElleWoods15 · 28/08/2024 16:16

Not getting the relevance of your point?

The Prime Minister of Samoa said Fa’afafine (Samoa’s third gender) are Men.

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