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Extreme misogyny will be classed as terrorism !

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Omlettes · 18/08/2024 06:24

"Extreme misogyny will be treated as terrorism for the first time to combat the radicalisation of young men online, according to reports."
Government plans will look to tackle violence against women and girls in the same way as Islamist and far-Right extremism, amid fears that current Home Office guidance is too narrow."

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YellowAsteroid · 19/08/2024 11:27

I do not understand how anyone can be skeptical for making misogyny a hate crime when that is so desperately needed.

I'm afraid I'm sceptical because it will be used by trans-identified men against actual women.

Don't get me wrong - I really would like misogyny to be a hate crime, because we live in a society which doesn't regard women as fully human. But I worry that such a law would be used by transwomen against real women ...

Emily1583 · 19/08/2024 11:59

AlisonDonut · 19/08/2024 10:28

Are women killing men at a rate of 2-3 per week?

Can we not have one fucking day of some hope that the government will take the harassment, rape and murder of women and girls seriously without thinking 'what about the men'?

Please read my comment again instead of jumping off the deep end into a rant. I'll repeat once again for you; misogyny needs to be dealt with. What I'm saying is both misogyny and misandry are a problem though. They are both forms of hate, usually born on social media. One problem needing attention doesn't mean another problem should be ignored. To pretend so is part of the overall root problem. I'm just writing as a 11 yr old boy mum who can see the sort of online misandry posts. Social media really is one of the very worst inventions of the 21st century and needs to be regulated properly. It's just a platform for spreading hate and division.

WarriorN · 19/08/2024 12:07

@YellowAsteroid but unless I'm mistaken posters upthread say she disagreed with misogyny becoming classed like this (or was that hate crime?)

WarriorN · 19/08/2024 12:09

IwantToRetire · 18/08/2024 22:12

The last Tory government decided not to make misogyny a Hate Crime, probably because they were a very misogynist party

Yes it would be nice to blame the Tory party but in fact it was lobbying form women's groups, and individualists like Joan Smith, who said it would make it harder to convict men of violence against women. Or some such nonsense.

ie rather than see that having misogyny as a hate crime, mean an act of violence against a woman could incure extra penalties if seen as a hate crime, they thought women should just make do with somehow always being the victims of male violence as though it was "natural".

Beware the women who claim to speak for women. Not because they are themselves powerful, but because they give a misogynistic society plausible validity.

As @IwantToRetire posts here (sorry to quote, I'm trying to clarify the arguments.)

Is the answer therefore, as Labour seem to be saying, not classing it as hate crime but terrorism? And as such treating it much more severely

WarriorN · 19/08/2024 12:17

What I don't think will be useful at the chalk face in classrooms is talking overtly about misogyny.

I think it's needs to be more grassroots and radical, battling sexism, gender stereotyping and also focusing on respect between peers and in relationships.

Some boys turned to Tate thanks to perceived sexism around women's rights.

I remember a discussion on WH a few years ago about misogyny and misandry and a male teacher caller felt he experienced misandry in his school environment (and actually I think I know who he was through the details he shared) but in reality it was sexist teasing. Not right, and not good for school culture, but not 'misandry.' If that even exists.

YellowphantGrey · 19/08/2024 12:21

As long as it isn't a group of men who create the rules and laws around. No doubt they will give themselves and every other man plenty of legal loop holes.

I wonder what the definition of extreme means to them and how bad does it have to be for men to be deterred? Quite frightening to see what they decide the thresholds will be

Dygger · 19/08/2024 12:26

Flying visit: haven't been able to read the thread.

Somewhere here in this video (sorry, not time to find it)
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Helen Joyce explains the dangers inherent in any anti-misogyny law, saying that any law passed for women contains the danger that it will be used against us. I hope Sex Matters are in touch with Yvette Cooper.

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NPET · 19/08/2024 12:27

Why, even here, are men trying to make everything ABOUT THEM?

Dygger · 19/08/2024 12:30

What I'm saying is both misogyny and misandry are a problem though.

More whataboutery. What about the men and boys? Not all men are like that... The usual derailing from women's issues.

Please go and start a separate thread about misandry and boys, Emily.

Emily1583 · 19/08/2024 12:46

Dygger · 19/08/2024 12:30

What I'm saying is both misogyny and misandry are a problem though.

More whataboutery. What about the men and boys? Not all men are like that... The usual derailing from women's issues.

Please go and start a separate thread about misandry and boys, Emily.

You must have a limited debate ability if you refuse to look at the big picture of any given debate and can only debate in tunnel vision. My opinion is that misogyny feeds misandry and misandry feeds misogyny. You won't defeat misogyny without also defeating misandry.

And who do you think you are to tell people what they can and can't debate on this topic? It's not even a thread you started. Besides, you can bet your bottom dollar if I did start a separate thread that some Knuckle Dygger would derail the thread to champion a crackdown on another form of hate instead.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/08/2024 13:01

I share your caution @ResisterOfTwaddleRex - and that's why I'm also sceptical of including misogyny in the hate crime legislation. I can see how men would use it against women they want to silence or harass.

OTOH, there's pretty solid research data by feminist academic sociologists & criminologists that many terrorists (the obvious kind - bombers, knife wielders, shooters) are domestic abusers before they become terrorists.

Yes.

Dygger · 19/08/2024 13:25

Emily1583 · 19/08/2024 12:46

You must have a limited debate ability if you refuse to look at the big picture of any given debate and can only debate in tunnel vision. My opinion is that misogyny feeds misandry and misandry feeds misogyny. You won't defeat misogyny without also defeating misandry.

And who do you think you are to tell people what they can and can't debate on this topic? It's not even a thread you started. Besides, you can bet your bottom dollar if I did start a separate thread that some Knuckle Dygger would derail the thread to champion a crackdown on another form of hate instead.

This is a thread about misognyny on the Feminism Sex and Gender board. Many of us who post here regularly have had it up to the back teeth with people wanting to centre men and boys in our discussions about women. This is a board that focuses on women's rights and issues.

MarieDeGournay · 19/08/2024 15:02

At the risk of lowering the tone of the discussion by quoting a 1980s pop song -- there's a song going through my head as I flip-flop between thinking 'hell yeah, misogyny should be a crime' and 'but I'm not sure anything good will come of it'

Well, they passed a law in '64
To give those who ain't got a little more
But it only goes so far
'Cause the law don't change another's mind
When all it sees at the hiring time
Is the light on the color bar

And unless misogyny is specifically defined as being against biological females, the law would work against women instead of in our favour - a woman could be accused of misogyny against transwomen.

Finally, could someone please explain 'misandry' - is it a centuries-old global scourge that keeps men out of positions of power, denies them education, and includes the killing of six men by women, every hour?

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Dygger · 19/08/2024 15:52

Exactly.

And a woman could be accused of misogyny against transwomen is exactly what Helen Joyce warned against. Because we live in a world where a significant proportion of the cabinet have declared that TWAW and haven't firmly and genuinely rolled back from that position — including Yvette Cooper.

Bodeganights · 19/08/2024 16:22

Emily1583 · 19/08/2024 11:59

Please read my comment again instead of jumping off the deep end into a rant. I'll repeat once again for you; misogyny needs to be dealt with. What I'm saying is both misogyny and misandry are a problem though. They are both forms of hate, usually born on social media. One problem needing attention doesn't mean another problem should be ignored. To pretend so is part of the overall root problem. I'm just writing as a 11 yr old boy mum who can see the sort of online misandry posts. Social media really is one of the very worst inventions of the 21st century and needs to be regulated properly. It's just a platform for spreading hate and division.

This is fwr where we talk about women and girls and womens rights and basically all things women. We do not centre men in any of our ramblings. The whole entire rest of the interwebs is for that purpose.

So namalt is unwelcome.

RainbowZebraWarrior · 19/08/2024 16:30

Dygger · 19/08/2024 13:25

This is a thread about misognyny on the Feminism Sex and Gender board. Many of us who post here regularly have had it up to the back teeth with people wanting to centre men and boys in our discussions about women. This is a board that focuses on women's rights and issues.

We should have this pinned at the top of the board!!

WarriorN · 19/08/2024 16:59

Is misandry even a thing?

WarriorN · 19/08/2024 17:02

Sexism can be a problem for both sexes and sexism amongst men also impacts women as it furtherers the possibility of misogyny. But men experiencing sexism is not misandry.

Men are not experiencing the type of fear women are on a daily basis, due to the threat that men pose.

TempestTost · 19/08/2024 17:18

Millie1501 · 19/08/2024 09:00

@TempestTost Killing people who you view as infidels is definitely terrorism, what are you talking about. Killing civilians to push an ideology is the definition of terrorism. Most of the terrorists on the governments terror watchlist are Islamists who target infidels.

The thing is misogyny is a dangerous ideology so specifically targeting women and girls to kill SHOULD be classed as terrorism, I think that’s what will happen.

I do not understand how anyone can be skeptical for making misogyny a hate crime when that is so desperately needed. The violence against women and girls in this country is on the rise. Due to the internet young boys are being manipulated to hate women and girls, their views are getting more extreme than ever. There is no point just reacting to the violence, that’s the symptom and not the cause. If we make misogyny a crime like racism is it won’t be socially acceptable to be misogynist, people will be too ashamed to publicly say something misogynistic, eventually.

As for people saying men will use it against us, some might try but I don’t see them being able to do that. Misandry is a word they have made up to make themselves the victims. Now I can’t see the government making misandry a hate crime as it doesn’t bloody exist. It’s just a word to deflect blame onto women.

The Southport stabber was 17 so I doubt he was known to authorities for domestic violence at that age. That’s why misogyny as an ideology needs to be tackled or people like him will slip through the net.

I'm sorry, you don't know what you are talking about. Terrorism has a specific, technical definition, in the same way that war crimes have a specific definition. These kinds of designations exist to allow states to deal with certain kinds of militaristic, politically motivated acts, but also hold states to account in doing so. It does not just mean any crime with an ideological motivation, much less a personal belief.

"Terrorism" doesn't just mean that it makes people afraid.

TempestTost · 19/08/2024 17:23

AlisonDonut · 19/08/2024 10:28

Are women killing men at a rate of 2-3 per week?

Can we not have one fucking day of some hope that the government will take the harassment, rape and murder of women and girls seriously without thinking 'what about the men'?

What difference do numbers make in this kind of question?

If it is going to be prosecuted to commit a crime against someone because she is female, how can it NOT be a crime for someone to commit a crime against a man because he's male? Even if it's only one guy, ever?

This is also an issue with getting into definitions around things like Islamophobia. If hatred on the basis of religion is not acceptable it's still not acceptable if it's against Hindus or Christians.

So much of this stuff just reflects poorly executed legislation, that doesn't really know what it wants to accomplish.

TempestTost · 19/08/2024 17:30

WarriorN · 19/08/2024 17:02

Sexism can be a problem for both sexes and sexism amongst men also impacts women as it furtherers the possibility of misogyny. But men experiencing sexism is not misandry.

Men are not experiencing the type of fear women are on a daily basis, due to the threat that men pose.

It has to do what the basis of laws like this would be.

Such rules are based fundamentally on the legal equality of the sexes, and the equality of dignity.

We don't actually protect certain groups above others. It's really important to maintain that principle, as we've seen.

Creating legal hierarchies of special named groups is incredibly dangerous.

IwantToRetire · 19/08/2024 17:40

Firstly:

I am really bored if not angry that anyone should argue that because trans women might be included in something that would be of overall benefit for actual women we shouldn't campaign for it.

For heavens sakd, why bother campaigning for anything based on that logic.

The obvious answer is to finally make sure trans women are not legally included in the laws, policies relating to actual women.

Secondly:

I think I was clear that in referencing Joan Smith it was about misogyny not being a Hate Crime. Hate Crimes are about the legal system. The powers that be have decided that whilst other groups that are one of the protected characteristics are covered by Hate Crimes Sex (and strangley disability) are not.

Again for the same whingey "oh its so difficult to get convictions for crimes against women this will just make it worse" waffle, which is where Joan Smith comes in. If the rushed courts can for instance (and these are just magistrates not Judges) convict someone of rioting, and additionally add that it was based on racism, I think we can assume that a court should have the legal training to consider whether an attack on a woman was just about violence or whether it was violence based on misogyny.

In two ways this is an insult to women, that they shouldn't be protected from misogyny, but sends a clear message that there is a two tier system in relation to protected characteristic. Some are treated as more important. ie arguing that misogyny shouldn't be a hate crime is confirming that women are just second class systems.

Thirdly:

Classifying misogyny as terrorism is saying it has societal threats. It isn't about an act of violence or discimination against an individual woman. It is about having a set of beliefs that are considered to be antithetical to the values of society.

Which is why it is complete hypocrasy.

If it isn't a hate crime to be misogynistic, how can it then be classified as a "terrorist" threat on society, when society doesn't care about the individuals harmed by the hate that misogyny inflicts on individual women.

Brefugee · 19/08/2024 17:44

Emily1583 · 19/08/2024 11:59

Please read my comment again instead of jumping off the deep end into a rant. I'll repeat once again for you; misogyny needs to be dealt with. What I'm saying is both misogyny and misandry are a problem though. They are both forms of hate, usually born on social media. One problem needing attention doesn't mean another problem should be ignored. To pretend so is part of the overall root problem. I'm just writing as a 11 yr old boy mum who can see the sort of online misandry posts. Social media really is one of the very worst inventions of the 21st century and needs to be regulated properly. It's just a platform for spreading hate and division.

yeah we all read it.

you are equating "misandry" and misogyny. 2 women a week. A suicide every 4 days. Countless cases of judges not convicting men in case it ruins their lives.

You're so worried about misandry, go and start your own bloody thread about it and keep the WhatAboutDaMenz whining away from this.

Brefugee · 19/08/2024 17:48

And who do you think you are to tell people what they can and can't debate on this topic? It's not even a thread you started. Besides, you can bet your bottom dollar if I did start a separate thread that some Knuckle Dygger would derail the thread to champion a crackdown on another form of hate instead.

well @Emily1583 why don't you go and start one, eh?

you can show us how many men are killed by women every week. How many judges refuse to sentence women for raping them. and all the other massive harms women cause men.

I can tell you what will happen: lots of women will have anecdotes and stories to tell. Nobody will start whining on WhatAboutDaWomenz and so on.

Honourthyname7 · 19/08/2024 18:20

Millie1501 · 18/08/2024 22:54

I do think it is a coincidence this has been proposed right after little girls have been stabbed in the uk. First the Southport stabbings and then the 11 year old girl in London. I think it is safe to assume that the government know the motives of these stabbers by now and I strongly suspected from the beginning misogyny was a big part of the motive for these targeted attacks. Let’s be clear, misogyny SHOULD be illegal, period. It has been illegal for many years to incite hatred to a specific group but for some reason misogyny is allowed.
Misogyny isn’t freedom of speech, it is inciting hatred towards women and inciting hatred will lead to violence. It should have the same legal implications as racism and shouldn’t be allowed at all. How many more women and little girls need to die before people realise it’s a dangerous ideology. Also can we please stop allowing religious groups to have a free pass with inciting hatred, hiding behind religion can’t be tolerated anymore either.

I don’t think it’s a coincidence and I was already thinking ‘what do they know that we don’t’ Especially about the Southport attacks.

Incels are vile creatures and a lot of them hate Taylor swift and her fans, even the very young ones, referring to them as mini femoids, I’m not surprised they’re trying to cut their innocent lives short before they grow old enough to reject them.

The government are not telling us the motive’s because there will be panic in the streets, that these freaks are now going after our children. Note how it wasn’t so important when it was mere women getting murdered and raped by them.

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