Sex is functionally binary. Sex evolved to combine genetic material when reproducing, because that improves health and survival. It has evolved to combine material from two parents. (I guess the reason for that is it's harder to get three parents of three different sexes together, so evolution didn't favour a 3, 4 or any other number sex system - 2 is enough to confer an advantage.)
You need two, and only two, different sex gametes, which come from two different people, one male and one female, for humans to reproduce. That's a binary system.
The fact that there are variations in functionality of individuals, and disorders with chromosome number variations, and situations where some cells of one sex could end up in a person of the other sex, or people can take opposite-sex hormones and grow some typically opposite-sex characteristics, and so on and so on doesn't change the system for sexual reproduction in humans being binary. If you want, you can arrange various anomalies, happenstance situations etc into a "spectrum" of different types and degrees, but that doesn't make sexual reproduction anything other than a binary system. It just means there are differences between individual people. We knew that already. All humans are slightly different so you could call then a "spectrum" with 8 billion different points on it.
People are trying to say sex is a spectrum not because that's what the evidence is bringing up (like if new, non-binary ways of reproducing were discovered) but because for reasons of politics and fashion and wanting to prove a point - whether for personal reasons or because it gets funding or brownie points at work. It just reminds me of those websites and organisations that try to spin "scientific" explanations for creationism.
But the truly bananas thing is it doesn't matter. This whole argument over whether sex is a spectrum is irrelevant. Ethnicity, age, height and disability all ARE spectrums but we understand that doesn't mean that you can be somewhere other on the spectrum than where you actually are just by saying so. (I know there are some people trying to identify as disabled when threy're not, as a teenager when they're not etc and some people are pandering to them but it's not being given widespread support in law, education and institutions etc and being argued for with pseudoscience).
The answer to these people is "so what? even if sex was a spectrum, why should that mean you can identify out of where on the spectrum you are - when that doesn't apply to things that are clearly MORE spectrum-like, such as age?"