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Pornhub - ***MNHQ adjusting subject line to add that the thread is regarding Laila Mickelwait and her work***

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LushAlice · 09/07/2024 18:03

https://exfwkqfbb.cc.rs6.net/tn.jsp?f=001FHdwIQX51TspyQP6Qg6T1brgsBbaKDiePo033M8v22x4ajbSA5eMX0F6OCWb49hAfDNuxOc2ttZnXEAmlZS4dhiev6PbEXNF-PMNCsS56rx101hVw5NqgC0brEDVZbxrC_ch1zEuxonQejrYTbj2f1WRaH1CGrWCub1tFWrvnoi4dW9ACEQ50xQmrvLxTh62OjuOSb8Mr9M=&c=mW6OZCImGxhLQoUX22N9DE6AOK0o8x5u3B_JMru8WlntPbuzVeIQkg==&ch=TiHOP6bpYEWuOA3DVj3AMqsKc1vTV1KBkPIBhwaNhWY9elZnI7qs6Q==
Mumsnetters - please watch this video by Laila Mickelwait and consider buying her book 'Takedown'. (Hopefully I've configured the link correctly!) The stories are heart-breaking.

x.com

https://exfwkqfbb.cc.rs6.net/tn.jsp?c=mW6OZCImGxhLQoUX22N9DE6AOK0o8x5u3B_JMru8WlntPbuzVeIQkg%3D%3D&ch=TiHOP6bpYEWuOA3DVj3AMqsKc1vTV1KBkPIBhwaNhWY9elZnI7qs6Q%3D%3D&f=001FHdwIQX51TspyQP6Qg6T1brgsBbaKDiePo033M8v22x4ajbSA5eMX0F6OCWb49hAfDNuxOc2ttZnXEAmlZS4dhiev6PbEXNF-PMNCsS56rx101hVw5NqgC0brEDVZbxrC_ch1zEuxonQejrYTbj2f1WRaH1CGrWCub1tFWrvnoi4dW9ACEQ50xQmrvLxTh62OjuOSb8Mr9M%3D

OP posts:
Pinkespressomachine · 10/07/2024 00:23

The link is absolutely fine. It’s a horrible story which I’m already familiar with but thank you OP for spreading the word.

dontcryformeargentina · 10/07/2024 01:35

I wasn't familiar with this. It's horrific. Thanks for bringing it to my attention.

Weetabbix · 10/07/2024 05:55

@LilyMumsnet Even if the link is OK, the poster has just started a thread without really saying anything but directing people to a random website.

It's a request to buy a book, not a thread/ discussion - OP didn't have any point or opinion to post other than "Can everyone please buy this book and watch this video" - it should be taken down.

Mummyoflittledragon · 10/07/2024 06:04

It’s not a link to a random website, it’s a link to TwiX.

Thank you for posting op. I had no idea about any of this, neither the sexual abuse images on such a popular site nor the fight to remove them.

Allezallez · 10/07/2024 06:54

Jennyathemall · 09/07/2024 20:53

So this just looks like a thinly veiled advert for her book.

Are authors not supposed to promote their books now?

GoBackToTheStart · 10/07/2024 07:46

It’s not a link to a random website, it’s a link to TwiX.

On the app, for me at least, the link isn't showing as a link to TwiX, so it looks dodgy. It may be different if using the web, but I assume that is why people have queried it.

Pornhub - ***MNHQ adjusting subject line to add that the thread is regarding Laila Mickelwait and her work***
ApocalipstickNow · 10/07/2024 07:55

That’s what I get as well.

Posters are right to be suspicious- weird looking links are not always safe, I won’t click anything if I’m unfamiliar with the user name, which does limit things but hey ho. Mumsnet have clarified it’s safe to click, people are just playing safe. Understandably.

EllisEllisBoom · 10/07/2024 09:11

Weetabbix · 10/07/2024 05:55

@LilyMumsnet Even if the link is OK, the poster has just started a thread without really saying anything but directing people to a random website.

It's a request to buy a book, not a thread/ discussion - OP didn't have any point or opinion to post other than "Can everyone please buy this book and watch this video" - it should be taken down.

Why should it be taken down? Surely anyone exposing the horrific practices in porn such as non consensual sex, underage sex and trafficking is doing good work. The fact that Laila Mickelwait is getting abuse for doing so is horrific, we should all be supporting her.

Anonym00se · 10/07/2024 09:16

EllisEllisBoom · 10/07/2024 09:11

Why should it be taken down? Surely anyone exposing the horrific practices in porn such as non consensual sex, underage sex and trafficking is doing good work. The fact that Laila Mickelwait is getting abuse for doing so is horrific, we should all be supporting her.

There are too many advocates of porn on MN. Even when you point out the horrors of the porn industry they’ll tell you that every video is consensual couples who enjoy it. It’s been swept under the carpet for far too long. People need to start making porn an ethical choice. If you watch porn, you’re contributing to this.

endofthelinefinally · 10/07/2024 09:38

I have been supporting and donating to Laila Mickelwait for years. It has been an uphill slog and a very brave campaign. Actually realising how rich and powerful the porn industry is, is terrifying. I have been meaning to buy her book and this thread has reminded me.

LushAlice · 10/07/2024 09:40

Weetabbix · 10/07/2024 05:55

@LilyMumsnet Even if the link is OK, the poster has just started a thread without really saying anything but directing people to a random website.

It's a request to buy a book, not a thread/ discussion - OP didn't have any point or opinion to post other than "Can everyone please buy this book and watch this video" - it should be taken down.

It’s a genuine attempt to raise awareness of a very serious problem.

OP posts:
Marchingonagain · 10/07/2024 09:58

OP you need to edit your title and first post if you want to be effective

LoremIpsumCici · 10/07/2024 12:48

It’s no secret pornhub has allowed users to upload videos of rape, including child rape for far too long. They claimed they were just a sharing platform and it’s on the users if they create or upload or watch or download anything illegal. New laws have made this argument obsolete. I fully support any all legal action against Pornhub and the users. Fines, prison,- throw the book at them, bankrupt them and lock them up.

MightyGoldBear · 10/07/2024 12:48

oakleaffy · 09/07/2024 21:56

Why on earth did they do that?
It makes it sound so seedy.
”X” sounds pornish

“Twitter” didn’t- but rarely went on it- Even less now it’s called “ X”.

Literally Elons idea and he has taken down any x rated restrictions. Porn is where the money is.

LoremIpsumCici · 10/07/2024 12:50

non consensual sex= rape
underage sex= child rape

just so’s we is clear

SoreAndTired1 · 10/07/2024 13:10

This is the link, it seems OP used the google/copy way instead of going directly to the site, then highlighting the address. I've made that same mistake many times, so I recognised it. https://x.com/LailaMickelwait/status/1810665850170696124

x.com

https://x.com/LailaMickelwait/status/1810665850170696124

Workhardcryharder · 10/07/2024 13:45

As young as 3???? Shocked and disgusted that any of this was allowed to happen on a supposedly legal website. Awful awful.

Weetabbix · 10/07/2024 13:59

LushAlice · 10/07/2024 09:40

It’s a genuine attempt to raise awareness of a very serious problem.

So say that in your OP?

Posting a link without saying what it is or posting your opinion/ thoughts about it is just lazy. If you care then write a sentence or two about what it is.

LushAlice · 10/07/2024 14:32

Weetabbix · 10/07/2024 13:59

So say that in your OP?

Posting a link without saying what it is or posting your opinion/ thoughts about it is just lazy. If you care then write a sentence or two about what it is.

Why? When it's much better for people to reach their own conclusions by looking at the facts laid out as presented to them.

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Weetabbix · 10/07/2024 15:17

LushAlice · 10/07/2024 14:32

Why? When it's much better for people to reach their own conclusions by looking at the facts laid out as presented to them.

You started a thread on a discussion forum.

If everyone was just posting links with no explanation and asking people to buy things, this would be an extremely dull place.

Fannyfiggs · 10/07/2024 16:15

Jennyathemall · 09/07/2024 20:53

So this just looks like a thinly veiled advert for her book.

It's a thinly veiled attempt to bring attention to rape and child abuse videos being on a hugely popular porn site and how she's fighting against it.

Workhardcryharder · 10/07/2024 16:36

Weetabbix · 10/07/2024 13:59

So say that in your OP?

Posting a link without saying what it is or posting your opinion/ thoughts about it is just lazy. If you care then write a sentence or two about what it is.

Move on. This is so unnecessary

Karmaisagod · 10/07/2024 18:58

Do those of you who, faced with a horrific story involving child pornography (about which I knew nothing, thanks OP), insist on bickering about the suspiciousness of the link, the OP's motives, how her post was phrased, etc. realise how dodgy and defensive you come across? I would encourage you to re-examine your focus of attention.

Weetabbix · 10/07/2024 19:10

@Karmaisagod As dodgy as someone starting a thread on a discussion forum titled "pornhub" and asking people to click on a link and buy something?

😕

There are much better ways to initiate such an important discussion (Hence this thread only has two pages of comments...)

Mirabai · 10/07/2024 19:12

Weetabbix · 10/07/2024 19:10

@Karmaisagod As dodgy as someone starting a thread on a discussion forum titled "pornhub" and asking people to click on a link and buy something?

😕

There are much better ways to initiate such an important discussion (Hence this thread only has two pages of comments...)

There are much better ways to respond to it.