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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Is calling 'people' 'folk' part of gender ideology rewriting language norms or is it separate?

141 replies

Gofastboatsmojito · 08/07/2024 13:26

I've noticed this a lot in the last couple of years, it seems much more common in articles broadly on board with GI, pronouns, using the word Queer to describe anyone not achingly boring.

I've also noticed it coming out the mouths of my friends who are more TWAW inclined.

The word 'people' doesn't seem to have explicit links with biological realism or gender critical beliefs but it seems out of fashion in some circles.

Is this coincidence and more related to younger trendier language (!) or is it chosen for a reason?

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ThewaytoAmarula · 08/07/2024 18:52

I'm from the south of England and have noticed this too among the more GI-supportive people I know. They also tend to say human, as in "Oh thank you, you lovely human!"

FuzzyPuffling · 08/07/2024 19:18

I'm.going to start calling everyone "chums".

Purplecatshopaholic · 08/07/2024 19:31

I’m in Central Scotland - the word folk is common and always has been, no connotations intended at all

Pieceofpurplesky · 08/07/2024 19:31

I say 'right folks' to my class when I want attention. It's better than guys

SydneyCarton · 08/07/2024 19:40

@GiveMeMySoddingCokeZero See also “eleventy-billion”. Pretty sure I identified a colleague as a MN-er when she used that in an email

BlackForestCake · 08/07/2024 22:24

Pieceofpurplesky · 08/07/2024 19:31

I say 'right folks' to my class when I want attention. It's better than guys

Isn't that what Michelle from ze Resistance says when she starts speaking English?

Heylo · 08/07/2024 22:40

It’s not a coincidence. I’m a lesbian in my 30s and where I am in the company of so called queer people (like you say means basically anyone who wants to Identify into that label) they all use it.

infact I’ve been told off twice for using hey guys / girls.

men and their hand maidens policing everyone’s speech

RebelMoon · 08/07/2024 22:49

Men and their hand maidens policing everyone’s speech

Now on the subject of the use of words, this is one that often puzzles me. Why do people refer to female supporters of GI as "handmaidens"? From what I remember of the book, the handmaids were not willing participants in Gilead. They were slaves effectively. These female pronouners are more akin to Aunt Lydia than handmaids.

Aspierational · 08/07/2024 22:53

Yes, it's definitely very commonly used in more "woke" circles (lived in Bristol for years). It makes me cringe, although folx is worse.

Aspierational · 08/07/2024 22:55

RebelMoon · 08/07/2024 22:49

Men and their hand maidens policing everyone’s speech

Now on the subject of the use of words, this is one that often puzzles me. Why do people refer to female supporters of GI as "handmaidens"? From what I remember of the book, the handmaids were not willing participants in Gilead. They were slaves effectively. These female pronouners are more akin to Aunt Lydia than handmaids.

Because they are doing men's dirty work for them out of self-hatred and an inferiority complex.

Fizbosshoes · 08/07/2024 22:56

A minister from a church I used to go to used the word folk or folks all the time, I'm pretty sure it was part of his dialect rather than being trendy (it was 15+ years ago) He was Welsh if that makes a difference.

Within our own family me and DD refer to the males in the house as "menfolk" and she refers to me and DH as "parentfolk".

DinnaeFashYersel · 08/07/2024 22:56

I'm in Scotland and use 'folk' and 'folks' all the time.

Always have and nothing to do with gender.

greencatbob · 08/07/2024 22:59

This is a term I've always used. I hope it isn't appropriated.

RebelMoon · 08/07/2024 23:00

Aspierational · 08/07/2024 22:55

Because they are doing men's dirty work for them out of self-hatred and an inferiority complex.

But that's not what the handmaids did. They generally weren't collaborators.

TheSmallAssassin · 08/07/2024 23:02

I went through a phase of regularly (politely!) pulling people up at work for using "guys", I work in a traditionally male dominated industry and found it really grating, especially if I was the only woman or if there were (miraculously) more women than men in the group being referred to. Folks is a good alternative, in my opinion, and is mostly used to avoid guys where I work.

YouBelongWithMe · 08/07/2024 23:05

Secondary teacher in Scotland here. We are encouraged to use 'folks' instead of 'guys' or gendered terms like 'ladies and gentlemen'. I associate it with woke nonsense (perhaps wrongly) so I call my classes all sorts instead: 'you lucky little ducks', 'you bunch of horrors', 'you noisy lot', etc.

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 08/07/2024 23:15

Scottish lecturer here, and always use folks - right, folks, today we are going to cover XYZ - at work. My place is as woke as woke can be, so finally I am (inadvertently) playing the game.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 08/07/2024 23:15

@Marblessolveeverything

The word for a bunker or storage place is ‘Silo’. I can find no trace of a noun ‘sylo’ in English, although it is the name of a corporation quoted on the US stock exchange.

For someone who is currently issuing dictats on other posters’ language, you have some curious oversights, or should I say ‘over sites’?

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 08/07/2024 23:25

@RebelMoon

‘Handmaid ‘ has a long history , Atwood didn’t make it up. Gilead appropriated it from the biblical story of Abraham who had a child by his wife’s maidservant when his wife was ‘barren’. Handmaid has the connotation of being fairly low status within a complex household, probably without education or much self determination , but eager to please and ‘serve’ .

it is the term used by the Virgin in accepting her destiny as the mother of Christ

’Behold the Handmaid of the Lord. Be it unto me according to Thy Word’. Submission without question ( though that was in a nobler cause, and to a higher Being).

fashionqueen0123 · 08/07/2024 23:26

Dinosaurlover · 08/07/2024 13:33

I've definitely noticed the link. I'm in the south and the people I know who are full on TWAW use 'folk' a lot. I've rarely noticed others using it.

Same. I don’t know anyone else who uses it.
It reminds me of George w Bush 🤣

Bookery · 08/07/2024 23:26

CantDealwithChristmas · 08/07/2024 13:38

My understanding (from reading an infufferably woke lecture rant on this topic in 2020 - forgive me, it was lockdown, I was bored) is that 'folks' is preferable because it is seen as a reaosnably inclusive, gender neutral term.

Of course if you really want to be On the Right Side of History, you should say 'folx'.

'People' is a white supremacist word for some reason. It's more Progressive to refer to people as 'bodies' and to use 'Folks' or ideally 'Folx' as the vocative.

Obviously this is a US thing, only US west coast progressives would ever propose something this stupid. In the UK, as PPs have rightly pointed out, 'folk' has a long, separate and entirely politically neutral history as a word for 'people', from the Germanic Volk.

Even among US West Coast progressives, this is not a thing (in real life, at least) -- it's an extreme minority view typically seen in certain online spaces.

"People" is used without any problem and virtually no one would claim it's linked to white supremacy in real-life interactions.

clubcropicana · 08/07/2024 23:27

Yes, folk is woke

MyBirthdayMonth · 08/07/2024 23:30

Percivaleverett · 08/07/2024 13:53

I thought it was an American thing. Didn’t George W Bush use it all the time? I find it really annoying personally.

If I remember correctly, Dubya once referred to terrorists as 'those folks who are setting off bombs' or words to that effect.

fashionqueen0123 · 08/07/2024 23:31

Percivaleverett · 08/07/2024 13:53

I thought it was an American thing. Didn’t George W Bush use it all the time? I find it really annoying personally.

Yes! Glad it’s not just me who thinks of that!

I find it cringey when someone says it to avoid saying other words. Americans seem to get away with it it seems more natural when they use it?!

RebelMoon · 08/07/2024 23:34

@Allthegoodnamesarechosen thank you, that's interesting.