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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Is calling 'people' 'folk' part of gender ideology rewriting language norms or is it separate?

141 replies

Gofastboatsmojito · 08/07/2024 13:26

I've noticed this a lot in the last couple of years, it seems much more common in articles broadly on board with GI, pronouns, using the word Queer to describe anyone not achingly boring.

I've also noticed it coming out the mouths of my friends who are more TWAW inclined.

The word 'people' doesn't seem to have explicit links with biological realism or gender critical beliefs but it seems out of fashion in some circles.

Is this coincidence and more related to younger trendier language (!) or is it chosen for a reason?

OP posts:
AppleCream · 08/07/2024 15:10

I find peeps really cringe!

Codlingmoths · 08/07/2024 15:11

GiveMeMySoddingCokeZero · 08/07/2024 14:03

Adoption of language trends signals group membership even if the language is largely unrelated to the common interest. These people aren't all using "folk"because they're from Northern England or Ireland or wherever; they're using it because their online community uses it. There wouldn't necessarily have to be any justification for it — just the fact that it's common among that group for whatever reason would be enough for people to adopt the usage.

Same as how (purportedly) British posters who talk about bathrooms when discussing public toilets are likely to be TRAs or TRA-adjacent. Because so many of the posters in their online communities are in the US, and the commonly-used term there is bathrooms, that's what they use, and British members naturally pick up on that language and start using it, not only through plain exposure, but also because it's natural to use the language that seems particular to the social group you consider yourself part of.

I use folk because I’ve always read a lot and lived in different continents and because it’s a useful nice word that people everywhere use. For real you cannot make this assumption that someone using folks is a TRA!! There’s folk tales, the little folk, gentlefolk in modern and old speak (Shakespeare used it), I hear thanks folks in corporate speak at work in both hemispheres and multiple other common usages. Others on this thread refer to more.

GiveMeMySoddingCokeZero · 08/07/2024 15:28

Codlingmoths · 08/07/2024 15:11

I use folk because I’ve always read a lot and lived in different continents and because it’s a useful nice word that people everywhere use. For real you cannot make this assumption that someone using folks is a TRA!! There’s folk tales, the little folk, gentlefolk in modern and old speak (Shakespeare used it), I hear thanks folks in corporate speak at work in both hemispheres and multiple other common usages. Others on this thread refer to more.

I'm not making any assumption that an individual using folk/folks, whatever the context, is a TRA.

I'm saying that there are patterns of usage that are identifiably different in this particular group of British people (mostly young, mostly highly-online, involved in strongly American-influenced social justice movements and particularly those around gender ideology and trans rights) compared to the patterns of usage you see from other groups or from British people more broadly. (I can't comment on how their usage compares to usage in other countries, though.)

Noticing patterns of how a word tends to be used by one group compared to others doesn't mean claiming that this group always does this, this group always does that, and any time someone says x it means they're in this group. It means noticing general trends, tendencies one way or another, looking at how stuff seems to average out and how particular usages cluster.

If you think I'm claiming that the moment "folk[s]" falls from someone's lips, you can immediately and accurately assign them to a specific social group, then you're misinterpreting what I'm saying.

terryleather · 08/07/2024 15:31

AppleCream · 08/07/2024 15:10

I find peeps really cringe!

Hell yes!

Yuope · 08/07/2024 15:34

I had a course where the instructor called everyone folks but spelt it folx in all the written stuff, which felt ridiculous

JanesLittleGirl · 08/07/2024 15:38

Whenever I hear the word folk or folks, I immediately think of elves, pixies etc.

Abhannmor · 08/07/2024 16:44

Well I really don't know y'all

DappledOliveGroves · 08/07/2024 16:53

I see a lot of use of "folk" when talking about the trans community. It also seems to be the done thing to refer to trans and non-binary "kiddos". Not children.

DeanElderberry · 08/07/2024 16:55

'Folk' (yes, I've noticed it being used a lot by TRAs) is interesting in that until recently it got used not just as a variant on 'people' but specifically with a suggestion of 'kinsfolk'. Going to see your folks - there's a suggestion of something closer than just the neighbours, certainly something different from humanity en masse.

Which makes me wonder if using it is sometimes part of the whole 'chosen family' narrative, which has potential to get very sinister.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 08/07/2024 17:01

FuzzyPuffling · 08/07/2024 14:03

"Folks" and "folx" don't sound the same at all to me. Are they supposed to?
("Fokes" and "follks" is my closest approximation)

Yes, that’s how they’d sound to me too. I’m from Southern England.

Fourfurrymonsters · 08/07/2024 17:02

terryleather · 08/07/2024 13:31

I'm in my 50s and use folk all the time, always have.

I'm in Scotland and it's pretty common here - there's no connection with genderism in that respect although I know how much genderists love to use the term.

Absolutely agree (Scotland here too). It’s very common here. I’ve used it for decades and don’t give any further thought to it.

Tinysoxxx · 08/07/2024 17:16

How to people pronounce folx?
Does it rhyme with bollocks or blokes?

CocoapuffPuff · 08/07/2024 17:18

Scottish here. If someone asked me " how are your folks?", they mean how are my parents and family. That's the usage here. Nothing trendy, woke or hipster about it.
Elsewhere, it clearly has different connotations. Much like the word "fanny".

CaptainOliviaBenson · 08/07/2024 17:18

CaptainMyCaptain · 08/07/2024 13:30

It's quite common in some areas (Northern) and has been for a long time. Your explanation wouldn't even occur to me.

This.

It's always been a common phrase where I'm from, (NW). You've heard the phrase "There's nowt as queer as folk"? I use it all the time.

CaptainOliviaBenson · 08/07/2024 17:19

Tinysoxxx · 08/07/2024 17:16

How to people pronounce folx?
Does it rhyme with bollocks or blokes?

blokes.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 08/07/2024 17:20

I'm obviously an outlier. I use 'folks' quite often, but am from the SE of England!

LonginesPrime · 08/07/2024 17:22

I sometimes say "right folks, let's get dinner started" or whatever.

But when people say "trans folk" it just reminds me of Woodland Folk - that hippy version of the Scouts. Like they're out with guitars, making friendship bracelets in the forest.

Tinysoxxx · 08/07/2024 17:22

CaptainOliviaBenson · 08/07/2024 17:19

blokes.

So the pronunciation for folks and folx is the same? How do you know if people are saying folks or folx? Or is it only when it’s written down that you see the difference?

CaptainOliviaBenson · 08/07/2024 17:27

Tinysoxxx · 08/07/2024 17:22

So the pronunciation for folks and folx is the same? How do you know if people are saying folks or folx? Or is it only when it’s written down that you see the difference?

😬I didn't know you were asking for both words. I was talking about folks. I need to RTFT next time.

Slothtoes · 08/07/2024 17:44

The TRA usage of ‘folks’ or ‘folk’ though is intended to send specific gender identity dogma signals. People wanting to show they are supporting the party line in this also use ‘folx’. Where a random x substituted into ‘folks’ implies that boring norms are being messed with and suggests that inclusivity isn’t found in typical spelling (Hmm) see also ‘womxn’. (Is there an equivalent Mxn? Pxople? Sorry that should be Pxoplx?)

In these settings ‘folks’ is just a twee faux-cosy imported Americanism- for example in London as I have seen it used, which isn’t a place with a local history of using ‘folks’. It’s often preferred to saying non-binary ‘people’. I think it’s gone a bit out of fashion by now.

Haveanaiceday · 08/07/2024 17:51

Having read the word folks so much in this thread I now have no idea how to pronounce the word.

Marblessolveeverything · 08/07/2024 17:52

DappledOliveGroves · 08/07/2024 16:53

I see a lot of use of "folk" when talking about the trans community. It also seems to be the done thing to refer to trans and non-binary "kiddos". Not children.

Seriously you need to stop overanalyzing language like this.

Folks is used for generations as is kiddos. I am sick and tired of people policing language. All you are doing is alienating people into sylos.

AlexandraLeaving · 08/07/2024 17:56

terryleather · 08/07/2024 13:31

I'm in my 50s and use folk all the time, always have.

I'm in Scotland and it's pretty common here - there's no connection with genderism in that respect although I know how much genderists love to use the term.

Snap

GiveMeMySoddingCokeZero · 08/07/2024 18:17

Marblessolveeverything · 08/07/2024 17:52

Seriously you need to stop overanalyzing language like this.

Folks is used for generations as is kiddos. I am sick and tired of people policing language. All you are doing is alienating people into sylos.

It's not "policing". It's observing. I expect if you analysed MN using corpus linguistics you'd find some distinctive language usage here, some of which may well colour the way some members speak in their non-MN lives too.

Grim, for example. I bet that would turn up at a far higher frequency on MN than in most English-language corpora, and I'd also wager that, on average, the way it gets used on MN skews heavily towards a particular subset of the ways the word "grim" can be used.

But noticing that, and pointing it out, isn't "policing" anybody, or alienating them into silos Hmm Identifying and commenting on distinctive ways that language gets used within a particular community, and more broadly by that community's members, is a perfectly valid thing to do and doesn't imply any criticism of anyone. Noticing that MNers use "grim" in a particular way, and quite frequently, is different to claiming that nobody used "grim" before MN existed, or saying that using "grim" is a sure sign of a MNer, or trying to tell people that they should/shouldn't use "grim" or that they should/shouldn't use it in a particular way (or trying to alienate MNers/non-MNers into a silo).

It's fine if you're not interested in language and communities, but there are people (like me) who find this stuff fascinating Grin

missshilling · 08/07/2024 18:46

Haveanaiceday · 08/07/2024 17:51

Having read the word folks so much in this thread I now have no idea how to pronounce the word.

Foak as in oak.