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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Miriam Cates

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CassieMaddox · 01/07/2024 23:54

New report says she was trustee at a church while gay conversion therapy was happening. The kind of conversion therapy that involves exorcism of demons.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4ngprp5xdvo

As a director and trustee at the charity behind the church, external from September 2016 to September 2018, Mrs Cates, had safeguarding responsibilities for those who attended

Thought this might interest some posters on here. Not sure I would trust her with safeguarding after this, if indeed she retains her seat.

A close-up of former MP Miriam Cates

Miriam Cates: Tory candidate was trustee of church that ‘endorsed’ conversion therapy

A report finds St Thomas Philadelphia church in Sheffield had "supported" conversion therapy.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4ngprp5xdvo

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CassieMaddox · 02/07/2024 22:52

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Precisely what the Labour party under Corbyn said about GC women. Or the Greens or Lib Dems.

This is why the double standards are stark to me.

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TicklishLemur · 02/07/2024 23:04

CassieMaddox · 02/07/2024 13:40

This thread is fascinating.
Similar reports about the impact of LGBT groups and their practices on young people would be (rightly) viewed with alarm in terms of the pressure they might be applying. In fact that absolutely would be described as abuse by many on here.

What is it about this that is different? Why is "strong social pressure" within a church different to "social contagion" or "brainwashing"?

Because it doesn’t count when it’s done by people they like 🙄

TicklishLemur · 02/07/2024 23:08

UtilitarianNameChange · 02/07/2024 15:15

You are the one doing the conflating!

Religion/religious practice is not and has never been ‘therapy’.

Don’t be ridiculous. Conversion ‘therapy’ is not therapy, it is abuse given a euphemistic name. Religious organisations are by and large the biggest perpetrators of it. You are the only one conflating issues, considering that this incident involved attempts to make a gay person straight! It has nothing to do with exploratory therapy for gender distressed children.

TicklishLemur · 02/07/2024 23:16

Imnobody4 · 02/07/2024 19:25

This thread isn't about conversion therapy at all. It's about finding a any stick to add to a bonfire to burn Miriam Cates on.
I'm against conversion therapy absolutely which is why I'm concerned at all the Wpath and Tavistock stuff. I'm also against witch burning.

‘I’m against gay conversion therapy but don’t think anyone should be held accountable for it’ 😂

TicklishLemur · 02/07/2024 23:25

ScrollingLeaves · 02/07/2024 16:53

Your thread is about a church in which a young man with an extreme Christian upbringing underwent prayers or a ritual at a church, against his being gay, which he described both as ‘an intense prayer team meeting’ and then, an exorcism, though the church denied that it was an exorcism.

He was a young adult at the time, a youth leader in the church. He was not forced into this prayer session or exorcism except by his own beliefs that it was wrong to be gay, which he had been brought up in by his own family who were part of an ‘extreme Christian cult’. Mistaken though many people would think those beliefs are some people hold them.

After what he went through, he felt empty at first but then concluded he could be gay and still hold on to his faith, though this church did not want him in his role there because he was in a gay relationship.
There are Christian Churches where the leaders believe it is against the teachings of the Bible to be gay.

This happened two years before Miriam Cates was there so there is no point in suggesting her safeguarding of this man fell short.

As to any implication she believes in converting gay people through prayer, either because she attended this church or was a trustee there two years after what this man described happening to him, there isn’t any evidence one way or another.

There is evidence though that she is against making young gay people believe that being gay means they are really trans and should undergo harmful practices in order to change.

Many argue that vulnerable young adults take cross sex hormones of their own free will, so it shouldn’t be anyone else’s business. The rest of us recognise what a ridiculous argument that is. It’s just as ridiculous to see you making it in this context. As if a young man whose entire community and family belong to a church, and who is not welcome as he is, has true ‘free will’ when it comes to abusive and coercive attempts to change his sexuality.

TicklishLemur · 02/07/2024 23:30

Sloejelly · 02/07/2024 20:24

I agree, where the mention of this on the BBC, let alone the condemnation of MPs who promoted WPATH or Stonewall?

It is also notable that once again a Christian MP is being targeted, yet nothing is said of Muslim MPs or candidates. Look at all those MP candidates promoting Hamas in Palestine despite the treatment of LGBTQ+ there. Where is the LBGTQ+ safeguarding there?

The difference is that mumsnetters aren’t bending over backwards to praise Muslim extremists or minimise the disgusting behaviour of those praising Hamas. If there are any threads where that’s happening please let me know because I’ll be just as loud there.

Imnobody4 · 02/07/2024 23:32

TicklishLemur · 02/07/2024 23:16

‘I’m against gay conversion therapy but don’t think anyone should be held accountable for it’ 😂

Holding the right people accountable is pretty important.

TicklishLemur · 02/07/2024 23:36

Sorry not sorry for my many comments. For the sake of vulnerable children I’m glad that the GC movement has gained prominence. I’m still utterly disappointed to see it being increasingly affiliated with homophobic, misogynistic and regressive figures who stand against everything we hold dear. I am even more dissapointed to see so many doing all they can to silence concern and prevent accountability. I have too much self respect and love for women and LGB people to turn a blind eye.

UtilitarianNameChange · 03/07/2024 01:27

TicklishLemur · 02/07/2024 23:08

Don’t be ridiculous. Conversion ‘therapy’ is not therapy, it is abuse given a euphemistic name. Religious organisations are by and large the biggest perpetrators of it. You are the only one conflating issues, considering that this incident involved attempts to make a gay person straight! It has nothing to do with exploratory therapy for gender distressed children.

I know it’s not ‘therapy’ silly! That’s the point I’m making.

TooBigForMyBoots · 03/07/2024 02:03

Colour me surprised.🙄

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 03/07/2024 07:19

There will be people in every organisation whose belief system leads them to be abusive. We have a lot in the NHS, schools, and yes of course churches as well.

In some cases those beliefs become part of the institution and are institutional abuse- like the institutional racism and misogyny at the Met, and
the hospital forcing women to change in front of a man.

There is a difference between being there when it has happened and being responsible for it.

GrammarTeacher · 03/07/2024 07:39

Will the buck does indeed stop with the safeguarding lead, anyone who has been involved with school governance will know that all trustees are held responsible for safeguarding and expected to know about it. There is a lot of extra training focused on it.
Personally, I find the support for MC on this board troubling. She is not a feminist. She is not a friend of women. She does not support bodily autonomy of women. She wants to encourage women to stay at home and raise families (as the preferred model not as their choice). Even if we were to put this incident to one side I would expect to see more criticism of her on here. But she's GC. There are GC MPs who are not anti-abortion and who don't think women belong in the home. It's ok to say you disagree with things people who agree with you on one with have done. So why aren't more people calling out her anti-women stances on other policies on here?

Imnobody4 · 03/07/2024 07:40

2022 article in Pink News - no mention of MC.Not linking 'cos Pink News.

Sloejelly · 03/07/2024 07:52

She wants to encourage women to stay at home and raise families

What is your basis for this statement?

CassieMaddox · 03/07/2024 08:02

TicklishLemur · 02/07/2024 23:36

Sorry not sorry for my many comments. For the sake of vulnerable children I’m glad that the GC movement has gained prominence. I’m still utterly disappointed to see it being increasingly affiliated with homophobic, misogynistic and regressive figures who stand against everything we hold dear. I am even more dissapointed to see so many doing all they can to silence concern and prevent accountability. I have too much self respect and love for women and LGB people to turn a blind eye.

Thank you for saying this

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CassieMaddox · 03/07/2024 08:06

Sloejelly · 03/07/2024 07:52

She wants to encourage women to stay at home and raise families

What is your basis for this statement?

Oh come off it

She is always going on about "producing babies" as if we are brood mares or something.

But that's kind if irrelevant to the point of this thread, which is her failure at a safeguarding responsibility. Either because she didn't want to or she wasn't competent to. Neither are good.

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Sloejelly · 03/07/2024 08:28

CassieMaddox · 03/07/2024 08:06

Oh come off it

She is always going on about "producing babies" as if we are brood mares or something.

But that's kind if irrelevant to the point of this thread, which is her failure at a safeguarding responsibility. Either because she didn't want to or she wasn't competent to. Neither are good.

So you have nothing to back this up? Just making random assertions?

But coming back safeguarding, what have you to say about Harriet Harmen’s previous association with PIE? Or the Greens and the Chanellors?

Imnobody4 · 03/07/2024 08:37

Sloejelly · 03/07/2024 08:28

So you have nothing to back this up? Just making random assertions?

But coming back safeguarding, what have you to say about Harriet Harmen’s previous association with PIE? Or the Greens and the Chanellors?

I'd be very interested in your answer too Cassie

LaundryOnTheLine · 03/07/2024 09:22

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CassieMaddox · 03/07/2024 09:28

Imnobody4 · 03/07/2024 08:37

I'd be very interested in your answer too Cassie

It's another attempt at a derail and totally irrelevant to Miriam Cates

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CassieMaddox · 03/07/2024 09:31

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It's not unusual but it's also quite a damaging belief. For example a belief in "demonic possession" was one of the reasons the safeguarding round Victoria Climbie failed. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/2001/oct/08/childprotection

I don't think damaging beliefs like that should be tolerated or encouraged.

Preacher believed Victoria was 'possessed'

A preacher who "exorcised" Victoria Climbié has admitted one of her murderers convinced him the eight-year-old's injuries were the result of demonic possession, the inquiry into the girl's death heard today.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/2001/oct/08/childprotection

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Sloejelly · 03/07/2024 09:34

CassieMaddox · 03/07/2024 09:28

It's another attempt at a derail and totally irrelevant to Miriam Cates

Is this a thread safeguarding and politicians or a hit thread on MC? You are making up spurious claims about her and refusing to hold other Parliamentary candidates to the same standard. You are very transparent.

LaundryOnTheLine · 03/07/2024 09:36

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