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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
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WearyAuldWumman · 08/06/2024 11:56

UtopiaPlanitia · 06/06/2024 02:15

I'm massively envious of your toy bow and arrow set. I tried to make my own as a weeun but couldn't get enough tension in the bowstring lol and then mammy caught me trying to make arrows and skelped me 😂

The similarities in our personal histories show that some kids just don't fit into the narrow boxes that society has drawn around girls and boys. Things seemed to have improved for a while in that tomboys were a common feature of films and telly and books in the 80s-90s, but now the stereotypes are back in full force. No wonder there are so many girls still feeling constrained by it all.

I had originally tried making my own bow using elastic purloined from Mum's sewing kit. Alas, it wasn't very successful. Part of the problem, I later realised, was that my "sticks" were actually dried dock plants, after they'd set seed and turned brown.

It's very different days.

I was a PT in a Scottish high school. By the time I retired, girls were coming in wearing what I would have termed full evening make-up. Gel nails seem to be de rigueur. (I actually had girls telling me they needed a scribe because they couldn't "waste their nails". Eh?!)

No wonder that the girls who just want to come into school and get on with things feel that they're different from the rest.

One of my colleagues gave her first year class wee presents at the end of term - pencils and rubbers.

One girl started complaining because her rubber had a dinosaur on it and "that's only for boys". I could weep.

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