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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Labour Women - who will you replace Cates, Atkins and Badenoch with?

78 replies

UltraLineHolder · 03/05/2024 21:06

Miriam Cates
Kemi Badenoch
Victoria Atkins
.. and many more.

Those who voted Labour today - who did you vote for that will equal ANY of the women above in standing up for women's rights?

OP posts:
RemarkablyBrightCreature · 04/05/2024 10:18

I will never believe that the tories give a flying fuck about women - they might be all merrily using this issue to embarrass labour but most of their actual policies are a fucking disaster for the majority of women in this country.

Ofcourseshecan · 04/05/2024 10:30

Do you know what your Labour candidates stance is on this issue?

During the consultation on extending the GRA a few years ago, I wrote to my Labour MP opposing the changes.

I started by telling him I was sexually assaulted when I was about 11, by a stranger who pushed me into a confined space. I eventually escaped and hid in a public toilet, women-only of course.

The assault left me with a lifelong fear of confined spaces and of men blocking my escape route. I’ve always just lived with it, but the threat of men in women’s toilets brought that horrible experience into the front of my mind again.

I’d never written about it before and Iwas feeling sick when I wrote. But I had to explain to him why it was important.

The reply I received was the standard “be kind to men” one. I don’t know if he even read what I’d written. He certainly didn’t even mention it.

I do not forgive him.

Edited to add that I will never again vote for him!

NoWordForFluffy · 04/05/2024 10:31

RebelliousCow · 04/05/2024 10:15

That's a misrepresentation of her views. As you suggest she's a full time MP with a university education - yet also has children and thinks family is important.

The issue now - is who in the Labour Party is going to speak up in the same way and be able to articulate the issues at the heart of this conflict? ( in the way that she has done)

It makes me wonder what Labour supporters are worried about when they persistently misrepresent [gender critical] people's views in this way. It feels like a desperate bid to put people off.

Many of us know our stuff on here, and exactly what people have said, so it's a wee bit daft to do so when you're then going to be corrected.

NoWordForFluffy · 04/05/2024 10:37

That's awful, @Ofcourseshecan.

We're Tory here at the moment. I've not managed to speak to our Labour candidate on this issue yet though I scared some canvassers when I brought it up. However, I've stalked his Twitter and it's markedly absent of any posts on either side of the debate.

But...even if he is GC, I don't hold out much hope that he'd vote against the party line as a newbie MP who's trying to find his feet / place in the party. So I'm wary of risking voting for him, if I could bring myself to vote Labour (hard no right now).

I spoiled my local election vote. Interestingly, while Labour held their council seats here, the majorities were reduced somewhat. Our council is heavily Labour and many aren't impressed with their performance (and perceived preference for the south of the borough re spending).

Otterly2 · 04/05/2024 10:43

TheColourOutOfSpace · 04/05/2024 06:29

Not sure why most of the responses to the OP are all waffling. They just need to list Labour female politicians that are vocal about women's rights in the way the Conservative ones are.

I think Tonia Antoniazzi is good. Rosie Duffield I guess as well.
Shabana Mahmood seems to be sticking her head up the parapet, but only just.
Those are the only names that come to my mind so far.

From what I can tell, Tories tend not to aggressively harass their politicians in the way the Labour ones do. Labour moderates in the party always seem cowered and trembling and scared of the crazy fraction on any kind of policy.

This.

Otterly2 · 04/05/2024 10:44

TTPD · 04/05/2024 07:10

Miriam Cates? The woman who blames women going to university for the low birth rate, which she calls the "one overarching threat to British conservatism".
Obviously she doesn't mean herself, she went to Cambridge. And at a guess I'd say she doesn't mean her children. It's other women who shouldn't go to uni so that they don't subsequently find it difficult to "decide when is a good time to pause and have children" (maybe they don't want to, Miriam). She also disagrees with expanding free childcare (but seems to make no link between childcare costs and the birth rate). So she doesn't want more mothers working either.

Pretty much a massive distortion of what she has said.

Otterly2 · 04/05/2024 10:46

RebelliousCow · 04/05/2024 10:07

The Cass Review...blocking Self ID......blocking the Scottish GRA?

You might hate everything else they do on policy isues, but at least be honest and recognise what they have done on this issue.....and how they are the only ones to challenge the loons on the Labour benches.

Edited

Yes - imagine a Labour govt doing ANY of this? No, me neither.

teawamutu · 04/05/2024 10:46

The point made up thread about GC Labour politicians being genuinely frightened to speak up because of aggression and threats from fellow party members has struck me.

I'm not a Tory, I hold no brief to defend them - but does the same apply to GC or indeed twaw-ers in their ranks?

If not, that says things about Labour culture that are shameful and worrying.

Otterly2 · 04/05/2024 10:47

Ofcourseshecan · 04/05/2024 10:30

Do you know what your Labour candidates stance is on this issue?

During the consultation on extending the GRA a few years ago, I wrote to my Labour MP opposing the changes.

I started by telling him I was sexually assaulted when I was about 11, by a stranger who pushed me into a confined space. I eventually escaped and hid in a public toilet, women-only of course.

The assault left me with a lifelong fear of confined spaces and of men blocking my escape route. I’ve always just lived with it, but the threat of men in women’s toilets brought that horrible experience into the front of my mind again.

I’d never written about it before and Iwas feeling sick when I wrote. But I had to explain to him why it was important.

The reply I received was the standard “be kind to men” one. I don’t know if he even read what I’d written. He certainly didn’t even mention it.

I do not forgive him.

Edited to add that I will never again vote for him!

Edited

Mine told me it was 'cruel' to expect men in dresses to use the loos for their sex. Utter wanker.

Ofcourseshecan · 04/05/2024 11:13

Otterly2 · 04/05/2024 10:47

Mine told me it was 'cruel' to expect men in dresses to use the loos for their sex. Utter wanker.

And they wonder why they lose women’s votes.

RebelliousCow · 04/05/2024 11:22

teawamutu · 04/05/2024 10:46

The point made up thread about GC Labour politicians being genuinely frightened to speak up because of aggression and threats from fellow party members has struck me.

I'm not a Tory, I hold no brief to defend them - but does the same apply to GC or indeed twaw-ers in their ranks?

If not, that says things about Labour culture that are shameful and worrying.

The Labour Party is a very broad church, of course, though there has always been an element within Left politics which is bullying and intimidatory; and certainly at the local level. I think that may in large part due to a very tribalistic type of politics which engages in broad brush stroke positions and assertions.
You are either with us or against us type culture.

People who don't tow the hard lines within the party get subject to this too - and there has often been a culture of bullying out MPs who don't conform. This was particularly marked where I live - during the Militant Tendency years - but also more recently when Louise Ellman was bullied and intimdated out - and replaced with a Jeremy Corbyn-Momentum candidate ( who I'm now stuck with).

There is so much venom and hate in Left circles - many cannot see people as individuals, especially if they are in the Conservative party. They have to be de-humanised and hated, and not seen as fully human. It is not possible to admire a Tory at a personal level, for example...or if they are admired this cannot be admitted to. But they also do this to their own out-casts too...which is why Tony Blair is still hated, and why many have long hated Kier Starmer.

RebelliousCow · 04/05/2024 11:26

RebelliousCow · 04/05/2024 11:22

The Labour Party is a very broad church, of course, though there has always been an element within Left politics which is bullying and intimidatory; and certainly at the local level. I think that may in large part due to a very tribalistic type of politics which engages in broad brush stroke positions and assertions.
You are either with us or against us type culture.

People who don't tow the hard lines within the party get subject to this too - and there has often been a culture of bullying out MPs who don't conform. This was particularly marked where I live - during the Militant Tendency years - but also more recently when Louise Ellman was bullied and intimdated out - and replaced with a Jeremy Corbyn-Momentum candidate ( who I'm now stuck with).

There is so much venom and hate in Left circles - many cannot see people as individuals, especially if they are in the Conservative party. They have to be de-humanised and hated, and not seen as fully human. It is not possible to admire a Tory at a personal level, for example...or if they are admired this cannot be admitted to. But they also do this to their own out-casts too...which is why Tony Blair is still hated, and why many have long hated Kier Starmer.

Edited

Some of this most likley stems from trade union politics, and the sway that the unions have on the party. Trade Union cultures are often very radicalised. Certainly unions such as the NEU ( and rail unions) have always been radicalised and hard line - far more so than most of their members.

Howsoon23 · 04/05/2024 11:34

The labour party has come a long way on this - the labour women's declaration has done an excellent job for example, it is in most forums entirely possible to be GC and active in the party Rosie Duffield and Toni A are the highest profile GC MPs - but there are plenty that agree with them - I do feel that many tories - are using it as a political scoring point as opposed to genuinely caring about the issues. See also free speech. KB is good on equalites and obviously does care but rather liz truss like on economics

Scautish · 04/05/2024 11:34

the tories do not give a fuck about women.

Their contempt for us is revealed by fact they are suggesting that the transgender issue is only issue we need to concern ourselves with.

they have absolutely fucked the country and are doing some serious deflecting by focusing on this. I cannot wait until they are kicked out and have to crawl back into the putrid swamps of ignominy.

NoWordForFluffy · 04/05/2024 11:37

Howsoon23 · 04/05/2024 11:34

The labour party has come a long way on this - the labour women's declaration has done an excellent job for example, it is in most forums entirely possible to be GC and active in the party Rosie Duffield and Toni A are the highest profile GC MPs - but there are plenty that agree with them - I do feel that many tories - are using it as a political scoring point as opposed to genuinely caring about the issues. See also free speech. KB is good on equalites and obviously does care but rather liz truss like on economics

The Rosie Duffield who Keir Starmer hasn't spoken to since 2021, that Rosie Duffield?

I haven't seen much support for her from her fellow MPs. In fact, it's most common to see the opposite, I'd say.

NoWordForFluffy · 04/05/2024 11:39

Their contempt for us is revealed by fact they are suggesting that the transgender issue is only issue we need to concern ourselves with.

You mean women's sex-based and children's rights? It's not all about transpeople, no matter what they'd like you to think.

And where are they saying it's the only issue of concern in the U.K.?

Floisme · 04/05/2024 11:42

So who are the Labour MPs who agree with Rosie Duffield and Tonia Antoniazzi? Why don't I know their names?

RebelliousCow · 04/05/2024 11:50

Howsoon23 · 04/05/2024 11:34

The labour party has come a long way on this - the labour women's declaration has done an excellent job for example, it is in most forums entirely possible to be GC and active in the party Rosie Duffield and Toni A are the highest profile GC MPs - but there are plenty that agree with them - I do feel that many tories - are using it as a political scoring point as opposed to genuinely caring about the issues. See also free speech. KB is good on equalites and obviously does care but rather liz truss like on economics

What has the Labour Women's Declaration actually achieved, though?

Who are the out and open gender critical Labour party MPs?

RebelliousCow · 04/05/2024 11:52

Scautish · 04/05/2024 11:34

the tories do not give a fuck about women.

Their contempt for us is revealed by fact they are suggesting that the transgender issue is only issue we need to concern ourselves with.

they have absolutely fucked the country and are doing some serious deflecting by focusing on this. I cannot wait until they are kicked out and have to crawl back into the putrid swamps of ignominy.

That is a just a load of bile...not political comment.

Where are you going to secrete that bile when Labour are in...there will be a natural vacancy.

NoWordForFluffy · 04/05/2024 11:52

RebelliousCow · 04/05/2024 11:50

What has the Labour Women's Declaration actually achieved, though?

Who are the out and open gender critical Labour party MPs?

I believe it's just the two mentioned! 🤔 We'll be in safe hands with Labour, I'm sure, given how reluctant their MPs are to be vocally GC.

Otterly2 · 04/05/2024 11:54

NoWordForFluffy · 04/05/2024 11:49

Rosie Duffield was heckled by one of Labour's well known sexist and misogynistic MPs in parliament, in fact. Keir didn't bother contacting her afterwards. Weird.

He is such a horrible, creepy little man.

NoWordForFluffy · 04/05/2024 11:55

He's very much the type of bloke you'd cross the road to avoid!

RebelliousCow · 04/05/2024 11:57

NoWordForFluffy · 04/05/2024 11:52

I believe it's just the two mentioned! 🤔 We'll be in safe hands with Labour, I'm sure, given how reluctant their MPs are to be vocally GC.

Edited

If Labour MPs are being whipped into line on this issue, and afraid to speak out - that surely suggests that Starmer is trying to provide a unified front on the issue...and that unified front is its commitment to " modernising the GRA" to make Self Id that much easier and more simple. There is absolutley no challenge at all in anything that he has said on the issue - to the concept of 'trans' at all, or the 'trans child. Nothing.

CheshireCat1 · 04/05/2024 11:58

I think you’re assuming that when we vote in local elections, mayoral elections or for a police commissioner that we’ll vote the same way when voting for our MP. I think voting is I bit more nuanced than that. Just to add though that looking at Kemi Badenoch’s voting record on the environment that we live in, I hope she loses her seat in the next GE for our children’s sake.