It’s slightly off topic (but still relevant), but I’m pulling these quotes out-
It’s difficult for men to understand how scary sex is for many teenage girls.
I think this is true. I was about 10 when I learned what sex involved and it was a very distressing thing. I also remember being shown porn mags round about the same time, by other kids (boys) and feeling fear. I don’t really know why but I don’t know if learning about sex is the same for boys and girls, if the way they feel is the same. I don’t think people really talk about it beyond how it’s a bit cringe, but I think there’s a link with the next bit-
Being a teenage girl is complicated, your body suddenly attracting adult male attention, but your brain still that of a child
I just don’t think boys experience being viewed as a sexually available person from being so young, and I think it does mean they have a blind spot about how girls feel about growing up.
I haven’t organised all my thoughts on this properly, but I have a 10 year old daughter, so lots of this is floating around my brain these days.
Anyway, TLDR if there was greater understanding of girl’s experiences of growing up we might enable safer times for them, because adding gender identity issues on top of everything else is just more pressure.