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MarkWithaC · 07/03/2024 17:11

crockofshite · 07/03/2024 17:06

Can women use the mens pond? Or only ladie buoys?

Round of applause Easter Grin

negeme · 07/03/2024 17:23

DadJoke · 07/03/2024 12:32

I'm disagreeing with you and other gender critical people on this forum. You don't appear to have an issue with the men who agree with you.

Gender critical people think trans woman are not women, trans rights supporters say they are. As the former, you will not use the word "women" to refer to trans women. As the latter I will.

If you want any debate at all on this subject on this forum, then it's best to accept that each group will use different meanings for the same word.

The only way to police this is to exclude people who think trans woman are woman., or have a moderation policy which prevents this (which is pretty much the same thing) It's an option, but then you'd have an echo chamber, Perhaps that's what you want? It's also entirely reasonable for mumsnet to confine this forum to women. But they have not.

"If you want any debate at all on this subject on this forum, then it's best to accept that each group will use different meanings for the same word."

Huh? No. Plumb wrong. If you want to debate, you need to use words to mean (more or less) the same thing. Otherwise you're just shouting in a void: "Blah, mingly, blo!" ... "Ergh hungder grag!"

Try to think about it. This really isn't difficult.

It's fascinating to find someone so mixed up in his thinking, @DadJoke. How on earth do you manage to keep yourself alive?

(I know the answer, of course. In everyday life, you don't behave as though you're really as ignorant and stupid as you pretend to be on MN. You couldn't.)

--And, btw, a transwoman is a man. (Where 'transwoman' means transwoman, 'man' means man, 'btw' means ... But of course you know what I mean, don't you?)

DadJoke · 07/03/2024 17:33

@negeme I think trans women are women, and won’t refer to them as men. You think trans women are men and won’t refer to them as women. We are unlike to persuade each other differently. Your inability to encompass this difference speaks to your own limitations, not my “mixed-up thinking.”

An alternative is to agree to a common vocabulary, but I can’t see that happening.

SirChenjins · 07/03/2024 17:37

The difference @DadJoke is you think something, whereas we know something. That’s not a limitation - quite the contrary , for knowledge is power.

DadJoke · 07/03/2024 17:41

SirChenjins · 07/03/2024 17:37

The difference @DadJoke is you think something, whereas we know something. That’s not a limitation - quite the contrary , for knowledge is power.

if you are going to be pedantic, substitute “think” with “know” in the post above. It doesn’t change a thing. We are talking about how a word is used.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 17:43

You can't "know" men who claim to be women are women. It's a quasi religious belief involving an act of magical thinking. It doesn't stand up to the slightest amount of scrutiny. It is literal nonsense.

SirChenjins · 07/03/2024 17:43

DadJoke · 07/03/2024 17:41

if you are going to be pedantic, substitute “think” with “know” in the post above. It doesn’t change a thing. We are talking about how a word is used.

No, we’re talking about a belief versus a fact.

MarkWithaC · 07/03/2024 17:44

DadJoke · 07/03/2024 17:41

if you are going to be pedantic, substitute “think” with “know” in the post above. It doesn’t change a thing. We are talking about how a word is used.

We're talking about a word with a scientific meaning. One which any biologist can tell you is immutable.

But that's what this whole thing relies on, isn't it? 'Sex is a construct' and all that.

HereForTheFreeLunch · 07/03/2024 17:44

Transwomen by definition, are men.
As a woman, I cannot be a transwoman - ever.

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/03/2024 17:46

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 17:07

@crockofshite GrinGrin you are so going to get deleted though

WORTH IT!

😂 @crockofshite

negeme · 07/03/2024 18:01

DadJoke · 07/03/2024 17:33

@negeme I think trans women are women, and won’t refer to them as men. You think trans women are men and won’t refer to them as women. We are unlike to persuade each other differently. Your inability to encompass this difference speaks to your own limitations, not my “mixed-up thinking.”

An alternative is to agree to a common vocabulary, but I can’t see that happening.

But look. When I say "trans women are men," you know what I mean, don't you? (Otherwise it wouldn't be possible for you to disagree, would it? -And you do disagree. Don't you?)

In order for you to disagree with me - as you do - you have to mean the same thing as I did by the words we use. Otherwise what would you be disagreeing with?

As I said, in order to have a debate, we must agree about what we're talking about - which of course includes what we mean by the words we use.

"Transwomen are not women," I claim, "They're all men," where by "women" I mean women and so on. (By "are" I mean are, etc. Interesting, the disquotation property of intentional terms, hein?) Do you know what I mean? Do you agree or not?

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/03/2024 18:25

Do you agree or not?

As the late, great, CEM Joad would have said - "It all depends on what you mean by 'agree' ".

He was a great one for defining your terms was Cyril. As a world-renowned philosopher, author and teacher, he was very aware of the importance of knowing what you were talking about, and what your opponents were talking about.

theilltemperedclavecinist · 07/03/2024 18:25

I will concede that @DadJoke 's definition of the word 'woman' is clear and unambiguous, but worry that it is not at all useful.

It can't be used to interrogate a data set, because it's formed by adding together two classes of humans who have in common nothing that can be measured or studied that is not also shared by all other humans.

And it can't be used in a debate or narrative. I can't think of a single true non-trivial statement that could be made using that meaning, nor have I ever seen DadJoke make such a statement. When he says 'women want to swim with women' he means that transwomen want to swim with actual women - two different meanings in one sentence.

Here are some true statements:

Every person who has given birth is a woman.

The fastest man in the world will always be much faster than the fastest woman in the world.

It is possible to tell whether an ancient skeleton is that of a woman.

Now then DadJoke give us some statements that use your definition. True, grammatically correct and non-trivial. I can't think of any, but I'm sure you can do better.

@negeme 👏👏👏and I can't believe we're wasting our time like this.....

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/03/2024 18:54

I think @DadJoke might find it helpful if he went back to treating "trans" as a prefix (which was how the TRAs originally treated it - remember that battle cry "It's a PRE-fix you BIGOTS! It's yer actual LATIN!* Have you never heard of TRANSALPINE GAUL? That's why you other lot of people who aren't trans are CIS, because the other way was CISALPINE GAUL etc etc etc")

As a prefix (even though we didn't accept "cis" for ourselves) it modified the word woman. Prefixes are most commonly employed to make words into their opposites eg un + happy = unhappy; im + mature = immature; il + logical = illogical. You get the drift.

Then, almost by osmosis, and in the dead of a dark and foggy night, "trans" began to morph into what at first glance appears to be an adjective - TRAs did this by separating the prefix from the noun. And then they got annoyed when the "transwoman" was used instead of "trans woman" - even though that is what they had always done themselves until that dark and moonless night.

Suddenly "trans" seemed to be an innocent adjective, so a "trans woman" was apparently (in the addled minds of the TRAs) just as much a woman as a tall woman or a thin woman or a blonde woman. (SPOILER ALERT: no way is it an adjective; no way is a transwoman a woman). But it wasn't innocent at all - nor is it an adjective. It is an archaic word, normally used only in science (Oh! The irony!) which has been slipped into everyday language under the guise of "being kind" and trying to legitimise a male fantasy.

This may be how @DadJoke got confused. If he goes back to using "trans" in the correct sense (eg as in Transalpine Gaul - the Gaul on the other side of the Alps) he may find things easier. Transwomen are on the "other side" of woman - ie men.

*Latin is a very scientific language. Also a legal one - 2 stones, 1 bird etc

** Yes - I know I wrote 2 stones, 1 bird. It was intentional.

DadJoke · 07/03/2024 18:58

@negeme you think the category “woman” excludes trans woman. I do not. This usually does not matter. When you use the word “woman” I know you are excluding trans women by default. When I say “woman” you know I am including trans women by default.

If we are to discuss transgender issues we have to understand these differences. It’s not remotely as complicated as you are making out.

The forbidden term “cisgender” makes the whole thing much more complicated.

ScrollingLeaves · 07/03/2024 19:08

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/03/2024 18:54

I think @DadJoke might find it helpful if he went back to treating "trans" as a prefix (which was how the TRAs originally treated it - remember that battle cry "It's a PRE-fix you BIGOTS! It's yer actual LATIN!* Have you never heard of TRANSALPINE GAUL? That's why you other lot of people who aren't trans are CIS, because the other way was CISALPINE GAUL etc etc etc")

As a prefix (even though we didn't accept "cis" for ourselves) it modified the word woman. Prefixes are most commonly employed to make words into their opposites eg un + happy = unhappy; im + mature = immature; il + logical = illogical. You get the drift.

Then, almost by osmosis, and in the dead of a dark and foggy night, "trans" began to morph into what at first glance appears to be an adjective - TRAs did this by separating the prefix from the noun. And then they got annoyed when the "transwoman" was used instead of "trans woman" - even though that is what they had always done themselves until that dark and moonless night.

Suddenly "trans" seemed to be an innocent adjective, so a "trans woman" was apparently (in the addled minds of the TRAs) just as much a woman as a tall woman or a thin woman or a blonde woman. (SPOILER ALERT: no way is it an adjective; no way is a transwoman a woman). But it wasn't innocent at all - nor is it an adjective. It is an archaic word, normally used only in science (Oh! The irony!) which has been slipped into everyday language under the guise of "being kind" and trying to legitimise a male fantasy.

This may be how @DadJoke got confused. If he goes back to using "trans" in the correct sense (eg as in Transalpine Gaul - the Gaul on the other side of the Alps) he may find things easier. Transwomen are on the "other side" of woman - ie men.

*Latin is a very scientific language. Also a legal one - 2 stones, 1 bird etc

** Yes - I know I wrote 2 stones, 1 bird. It was intentional.

Well explained.

MarkWithaC · 07/03/2024 19:08

DadJoke, I'm really interested; can you supply some statements as theilltemperedclavecinist asks?

(and no, the disquotation property/principle isn't particularly complicated).

HereForTheFreeLunch · 07/03/2024 19:22

DadJoke · 07/03/2024 18:58

@negeme you think the category “woman” excludes trans woman. I do not. This usually does not matter. When you use the word “woman” I know you are excluding trans women by default. When I say “woman” you know I am including trans women by default.

If we are to discuss transgender issues we have to understand these differences. It’s not remotely as complicated as you are making out.

The forbidden term “cisgender” makes the whole thing much more complicated.

But then you need to know the other's politics to make sense of the word. And someone who doesn't know either of you is going to interpret what you said based on their own understanding of what the word woman means.
That's not how words work. Which is why we have things like glossaries and definitions and dictionaries etc.

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/03/2024 19:26

DadJoke · 07/03/2024 18:58

@negeme you think the category “woman” excludes trans woman. I do not. This usually does not matter. When you use the word “woman” I know you are excluding trans women by default. When I say “woman” you know I am including trans women by default.

If we are to discuss transgender issues we have to understand these differences. It’s not remotely as complicated as you are making out.

The forbidden term “cisgender” makes the whole thing much more complicated.

No it doesn't.

"Woman" and "transwoman" is perfectly clear. We all know exactly what is being talked about.

winterplumage · 07/03/2024 19:28

HarpQuartet · 03/03/2024 19:11

Do you understand who was actually able to vote, @WandaWomblesaurus ? I haven't understood if there is a committee of a few people, or if all members were given a vote? I've never used the pond, just been reading a bit about it.

I don't know, but I've been swimming regularly there for 25 years and had no idea about the vote, so I don't think it could have been well-publicised among us.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 19:29

But then you need to know the other's politics to make sense of the word. And someone who doesn't know either of you is going to interpret what you said based on their own understanding of what the word woman means.
That's not how words work. Which is why we have things like glossaries and definitions and dictionaries etc.

This. I doubt Dadjoke even convinces himself with his own explanations. It's just vapid, fatuous burble to own the women on MN.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 19:29

We certainly give him a lot of attention.

theilltemperedclavecinist · 07/03/2024 19:32

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 19:29

We certainly give him a lot of attention.

Won't somebody think of the lurkers! He understands things well enough to misrepresent them.

Also, I like word games!

SirChenjins · 07/03/2024 19:38

MarkWithaC · 07/03/2024 19:08

DadJoke, I'm really interested; can you supply some statements as theilltemperedclavecinist asks?

(and no, the disquotation property/principle isn't particularly complicated).

I’d be interested in reading those statements too.

@DadJoke

GeorgeO · 07/03/2024 19:42

‘you think the category “woman” excludes trans woman. I do not. This usually does not matter. When you use the word “woman” I know you are excluding trans women by default. When I say “woman” you know I am including trans women by default‘@DadJoke

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