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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Restoring Sanity Takes Time - Helen Joyce

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RethinkingLife · 02/03/2024 10:16

A bracing read. I am still in a state of some despair about how long this will take. As several people have observed, in the last 10 days, the BBC (in common with other media) disseminated unscientific propaganda that male galactorrhea is better than mother’s milk, repeatedly called a deeply disturbed killer a woman while disdaining to acknowledge the alternate reality as a cat, and has publicly reprimanded Justin Webb for plain speaking that was probably helpful to many listeners.

What will it take to bring bigoted employers to heel? Part of the answer is time. During the past decade, the trans lobby has been stunningly successful in selling false analogies to HR departments: that separate toilets for men and women are like racial segregation; and that insisting people can change sex is “gay rights 2.0”.
Lazy, power-hungry HR managers and staff working in “EDI” (equality, diversity and inclusion) pronounce that the arc of the moral universe is bending towards denying sexual dimorphism, and relish imposing their will on others.

Imagine you’re an HR professional belatedly wondering if you’ve got the wrong end of the stick on the whole sex-gender thing. You might turn to A Practical Guide to Transgender Law by two barristers, Nicola Newbegin and transwoman Robin Moira White.
But that might not save you from serious missteps. The first edition, published before the binding Forstater judgment, enthusiastically endorsed the faulty lower court ruling. The second grudgingly acknowledged that yes, gender-critical beliefs were protected, but claimed that “manifesting” them — letting others know you held them — wasn’t.
Even before the recent string of judgments to the contrary, that was obvious nonsense. The law about freedom of belief expressly includes “manifestation”. And anyway, it takes but a moment’s thought to realise that the law can’t possibly concern beliefs that are never manifested, since it can’t reach inside the privacy of our heads.

At bottom, the mindset of the narcissistic identitarians joining in workplace witch-hunts is that of the Crusaders, who made converts at the point of a sword. They do not respect other people’s sovereign consciences, nor accept that their belief system is just one among many. And like the Crusaders, they need to be consigned to history.

https://thecritic.co.uk/restoring-sanity-takes-time/

Adding in a good read about the Meade and Phoenix rulings:

Restoring sanity takes time | Helen Joyce | The Critic Magazine

This article is taken from the March 2024 issue of The Critic. To get the full magazine why not subscribe? Right now we’re offering five issues for just £10. It’s nearly five years since I met Maya…

https://thecritic.co.uk/restoring-sanity-takes-time

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JanesLittleGirl · 06/03/2024 22:46

Girlontherailreplacementbusservice · 06/03/2024 19:40

Nahhh, neither of them has declared that they are only taking time to tell us they don't believe in anything being separated by sex ever because they are bored waiting for the sex discrimination case they are bringing to get to court. Or that they are a massive rule breaking rebel (or they will be come.the revolution when the rules are abolished).

Good point. Well made.

Helleofabore · 06/03/2024 22:49

lifeturnsonadime · 06/03/2024 22:44

@Helleofabore there is a LOT more I could say about the racism of that post, but I won't because it's going off track which is deliberate on the part of the poster.

The relevant point is that in the provision of single sex services there is no discrimination against any class of male, if we say that the provision is only for females.

That poster seems to be very confused as they appear to understand that trans women are a subset of men when they talk about refusing to contract with asian and black men. But I suppose it makes a welcome change to the awful comparisons made with black women that we sometimes see.

Ultimately it would be discriminatory to refuse to provide a service such as building work to a subset of men but that is not what we are asking for at all when we talk about keeping single sex services single sex.

We seek to discriminate against ALL men/ males because they are male. This is allowed for by law under the Equality Act single sex exemptions.

So the argument of that poster fails without really needing to point the racism out.

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yep

DeanElderberry · 07/03/2024 07:41

The mood on this thread gives me the impression that some TRAs are very afraid of Helen Joyce, just as they are of JKR. Articulate intelligent women are a threat to - something.

Helleofabore · 07/03/2024 08:25

When a movement has to use other's legitimate movements to prop up its arguments, you know that the movement has nothing concrete.

The fact we have seen swivels and swerves all over the shop on this thread reminds me that we still have much to do. Posters have attempted to use the plight of LGB people, black people and religion to shame women instead of finding actual evidence to support their arguments. Plus they seemed to think their swivel to 'what about trans men' was some kind of clever gotchas.

And then they have attempt to declare the they are somehow righteous and kind?

Where the fuck is society at that posters think their brand of feminism that excludes women with religious needs and that those women should be forgotten about because of their religious choices (or not choices) is somehow one that should be fucking lauded? Thinking back on this, that was just swept away by those posters. They thought nothing of trying to win points by virtue signalling against religious belief. They honestly thought that what they said was ok.

RedToothBrush · 07/03/2024 08:33

Datun · 06/03/2024 22:35

I know that ideologues will put their fingers in their ears and just carry on mouthing whatever they've been told.

But really, this level of denial is quite disturbing to watch.

It's not remotely unusual though either.

That's how cults react.

You won't meet many activists who have even socially transitioned back down. They will either go silence, launch into an adult hominem attack or double down and defend anything.

That's ultimately what I fear most.

RedToothBrush · 07/03/2024 08:37

DeanElderberry · 07/03/2024 07:41

The mood on this thread gives me the impression that some TRAs are very afraid of Helen Joyce, just as they are of JKR. Articulate intelligent women are a threat to - something.

This

Britinme · 07/03/2024 13:55

Interesting that on Xitter there is a great deal of discussion about the WPATH files while on Threads literally the only discussion I could find was about Erin Reed's "debunking" of them.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 13:58

Yes of course "Erin" has "debunked" it all, like Katy Montgomerie "debunked" JK Rowling's essay on Medium.

RethinkingLife · 07/03/2024 14:08

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/03/2024 13:58

Yes of course "Erin" has "debunked" it all, like Katy Montgomerie "debunked" JK Rowling's essay on Medium.

I had a small failure of context switching and initially read that as 'debulked' (as in cancer tumours).

A lot of self-styled debunking is more readily understood as, "I disagree. For ideological reasons rather than evidence but my word should be accepted as sufficient for this as it is for other major areas of public life".

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BringBackLilt · 07/03/2024 21:29

"The Fox Coral is both male and female and can reproduce sexually and asexually. To reproduce sexually, the corals release eggs and sperm at the same time."

And there we have it

We're just like coral, innit?

Jesus fucking Christ.

Britinme · 07/03/2024 21:32

That casts a different light on a previous poster's faux naivety and possibly on the claim to be a middle aged woman with a daughter. However that poster has actually done a great job of allowing us to show what nonsense the TRA's claims are.

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 21:35

BringBackLilt · 07/03/2024 21:29

"The Fox Coral is both male and female and can reproduce sexually and asexually. To reproduce sexually, the corals release eggs and sperm at the same time."

And there we have it

We're just like coral, innit?

Jesus fucking Christ.

Hahaha. That name was literally one generated by mumsnet. The name I wanted was already taken, mumsnet suggested some random ones, that was the first on the list. Honestly. I've never heard of a fox coral.

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 21:39

Britinme · 07/03/2024 21:32

That casts a different light on a previous poster's faux naivety and possibly on the claim to be a middle aged woman with a daughter. However that poster has actually done a great job of allowing us to show what nonsense the TRA's claims are.

You guys love a conspiracy theory don't you? It was a name randomly generated by mumsnet. I never claimed to have a daughter, am approaching middle age, and I wasn't being faux naive. I'm well aware of gender critical arguments but am mystified by them. Some people just don't like or understand your perspective. It's not all a convoluted conspiracy with hidden meanings.

Oh, and my sex and gender are both female.

BringBackLilt · 07/03/2024 21:42

Britinme · 07/03/2024 21:32

That casts a different light on a previous poster's faux naivety and possibly on the claim to be a middle aged woman with a daughter. However that poster has actually done a great job of allowing us to show what nonsense the TRA's claims are.

Yes, absolutely.

It blows my mind that any grown adult would talk such bullshit with the arrogance that this poster has.

No one is denying anyone's existence.

I'm yet to read a single post on these boards that wish harm on ANYONE.

This insistence that we are denying the existence of people (WTF) and being 'hateful' for saying "hang on a minute, we're not happy with this and here are our well articulated reasons why" is nothing short of juvenile. And really, really embarrassing.

It's like your 14 year old declaring their life is over because you told them to get off the playstation.

BringBackLilt · 07/03/2024 21:44

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 21:35

Hahaha. That name was literally one generated by mumsnet. The name I wanted was already taken, mumsnet suggested some random ones, that was the first on the list. Honestly. I've never heard of a fox coral.

Yeah, ok. Just a massive coincidence then.

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 21:48

BringBackLilt · 07/03/2024 21:44

Yeah, ok. Just a massive coincidence then.

I mean it genuinely is, but you've caused me much mirth and merriment with your conjecture. Magnificent! And lovely to have made such an impact that you've bothered to google my name. Very touching.

BringBackLilt · 07/03/2024 21:55

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 21:48

I mean it genuinely is, but you've caused me much mirth and merriment with your conjecture. Magnificent! And lovely to have made such an impact that you've bothered to google my name. Very touching.

No, not really. There are many TRA dickheads that like to assert humans are just like clownfish or some other non mammal. I knew I'd heard fox coral referred to on Reddit or somewhere equally ridiculous. So I looked it up to check I wasn't mistaken. Fact checking is always good.

Not really made an impact on me, mate.
You're ten a penny.

emmsee · 07/03/2024 21:55

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 21:39

You guys love a conspiracy theory don't you? It was a name randomly generated by mumsnet. I never claimed to have a daughter, am approaching middle age, and I wasn't being faux naive. I'm well aware of gender critical arguments but am mystified by them. Some people just don't like or understand your perspective. It's not all a convoluted conspiracy with hidden meanings.

Oh, and my sex and gender are both female.

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I'm intrigued that you are 'mystified' by GC arguments. Perhaps the following will help: https://thecritic.co.uk/all-roads-lead-to-wpath/
https://cass.independent-review.uk/publications/interim-report/
https://lgballiance.org.uk/gender-recognition-act-reform/
https://fairplayforwomen.com/new-report-how-trans-inclusion-in-sport-is-harming-women-and-girls/

All roads lead to WPATH | Malcolm Clark | The Critic Magazine

No organisation has played a greater role in the adoption of the pseudo-science of so-called “gender affirming healthcare” globally than the World Professional Association of Transgender Health. That’…

https://thecritic.co.uk/all-roads-lead-to-wpath

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 21:59

BringBackLilt · 07/03/2024 21:55

No, not really. There are many TRA dickheads that like to assert humans are just like clownfish or some other non mammal. I knew I'd heard fox coral referred to on Reddit or somewhere equally ridiculous. So I looked it up to check I wasn't mistaken. Fact checking is always good.

Not really made an impact on me, mate.
You're ten a penny.

Really? I thought we were a tiny minority. (I don't mean I'm trans. I'm not. But I thought those of us who were advocating for trans people's civil and human rights were a tiny minority foisting our will on a helpless majority.)

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 22:01

I've absolutely no wish to investigate further. I've heard quite enough.

Britinme · 07/03/2024 22:01

Sounds like wilful ignorance to me.

lifeturnsonadime · 07/03/2024 22:03

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 21:35

Hahaha. That name was literally one generated by mumsnet. The name I wanted was already taken, mumsnet suggested some random ones, that was the first on the list. Honestly. I've never heard of a fox coral.

Mumsnet doesn't 'generate names'.

GailBlancheViola · 07/03/2024 22:04

I'm well aware of gender critical arguments but am mystified by them.

I'm mystified that some people have such a lack of intelligence that they believe people can change sex.

I'm mystified that some people are so misogynistic they think that women and girls are no more than validation tools, human shields and collateral damage so men can have all they desire and then some.

I'm mystified that some people declare themselves feminist while pushing a male rights agenda.

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 22:06

lifeturnsonadime · 07/03/2024 22:03

Mumsnet doesn't 'generate names'.

It literally suggested some names, when I set up an account, and the one I tried was taken. That's what happened. Try it yourself and see. This is bonkers!

ForCoralFox · 07/03/2024 22:09

Britinme · 07/03/2024 22:01

Sounds like wilful ignorance to me.

I support trans rights. I've no interest in changing my stance, or giving credence to the demonisation of any group on the basis of their identity.