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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Today is a horrendous day for women.

224 replies

Catsanfan · 08/01/2024 08:47

I haven't the energy to explain, just skim Aja's twitter this morning. So much there, I am losing heart. Especially the police thing.

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PointBreak83 · 08/01/2024 15:24

Intimate body searches have to be conducted with at least two other people present.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 08/01/2024 15:25

And?

NoBinturongsHereMate · 08/01/2024 15:36

I don't care if they have to be done in the presence of Queen Victoria. They still need to be done by someone of the same sex.

stillplentyofjunkinthetrunk · 08/01/2024 15:38

PointBreak83 · 08/01/2024 15:24

Intimate body searches have to be conducted with at least two other people present.

and if any one, or potentially all three of those police officers are men it is an absolutely disgusting abuse of power. No matter how strenuously they might assert that they're lovely people or that they know how women feel their actions would be proving the opposite.

BalletBob · 08/01/2024 15:53

PointBreak83 · 08/01/2024 15:24

Intimate body searches have to be conducted with at least two other people present.

And?

It's not OK for women to be subjected to strip searches by men, regardless of who else is in the room.

PointBreak83 · 08/01/2024 16:06

BalletBob · 08/01/2024 15:53

And?

It's not OK for women to be subjected to strip searches by men, regardless of who else is in the room.

Didn’t say it was.

crunchermuncher · 08/01/2024 16:10

PointBreak83 · 08/01/2024 16:06

Didn’t say it was.

You sound like my teenager.

What, then, was your point?

JusticeTrade · 08/01/2024 16:13

The f**king Labour Party and all others had better not be condoning this line of assault, although the Conservatives have allowed this to happen under their watch,.so Sunak should take immediate care of it if he truly had no knowledge before.
The misogyny in the UK is off the charts.

cardibach · 08/01/2024 16:15

ifIwerenotanandroid · 08/01/2024 14:06

The phrase 'straining at a gnat' comes to mind.

I’m not sure what your point is. I’ve expressed no strain or indeed opinion. I’ve just pointed out a poster’s error. She was ridiculing people about numbers when she had misread the original information.

IcakethereforeIam · 08/01/2024 16:25

I suppose, theoretically, a woman could be intimately searched by a tw and the...witness...chaperone could be another tw. This is something though that I believe has a vanishingly small chance of happening.

As a slight derail, if the witness/chaperone is there to ensure the copper behaves it should be someone who can be trusted to advocate for the person in custody. I wouldn't trust another copper. That murdering bastard was nicknamed 'the rapist' because his workmates thought it was funny rather than concerning. They've too often got each other's backs.

Perhaps this is already the case?

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 08/01/2024 16:28

IcakethereforeIam · 08/01/2024 16:25

I suppose, theoretically, a woman could be intimately searched by a tw and the...witness...chaperone could be another tw. This is something though that I believe has a vanishingly small chance of happening.

As a slight derail, if the witness/chaperone is there to ensure the copper behaves it should be someone who can be trusted to advocate for the person in custody. I wouldn't trust another copper. That murdering bastard was nicknamed 'the rapist' because his workmates thought it was funny rather than concerning. They've too often got each other's backs.

Perhaps this is already the case?

I suppose, theoretically, a woman could be intimately searched by a tw and the...witness...chaperone could be another tw. This is something though that I believe has a vanishingly small chance of happening.

Vanishingly small so long as the two events were statistically independent and linked only by random chance. Which they're not, because people with similar interests often seek each other out.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 08/01/2024 16:28

cardibach · 08/01/2024 16:15

I’m not sure what your point is. I’ve expressed no strain or indeed opinion. I’ve just pointed out a poster’s error. She was ridiculing people about numbers when she had misread the original information.

hall of fame game missed the point GIF

😂

ifIwerenotanandroid · 08/01/2024 16:43

Revenons a nos moutons gendarmes.

Butchyrestingface · 08/01/2024 16:46

They'll never take me alive.

Froodwithatowel · 08/01/2024 17:02

JFDIYOLO · 08/01/2024 14:55

Yet police instructions say a strip search must be done by a member of the same sex as the person being searched.

Are the police ... Transphobic ...??

https://www.college.police.uk/app/stop-and-search/quick-reference-guides/legal-quick-reference-guides/quick-reference-guide-legal-application-search-options

From grim experience, I'd suggest this is probably where the Stonewall good ally stars and the validation cookies are.

It will say same sex.

It will mean that men can be any sex they say they are.

And the police are such good allies that they will even let those men assault women under the pretense of those men being the sex they say they are, and punish women for daring to resist or mention actual reality.

It's the ultimate virtue signal.

This is what happens when you let the words sex and gender get conflated, and you try to be kind about the word 'woman' ever applying to a man. Or that a man is ever anything other than a man.

cardibach · 08/01/2024 17:38

ifIwerenotanandroid · 08/01/2024 16:28

😂

Actual footage of you?
My point was merely to correct a misunderstanding. Do you accept my correction was accurate? If so, what’s the issue? If not, why (when it’s perfectly clear the numbers I quoted are what was previously given on the thread)?

ifIwerenotanandroid · 08/01/2024 17:41

cardibach · 08/01/2024 17:38

Actual footage of you?
My point was merely to correct a misunderstanding. Do you accept my correction was accurate? If so, what’s the issue? If not, why (when it’s perfectly clear the numbers I quoted are what was previously given on the thread)?

Please stop trying to derail this thread. It's an offence against Mumsnet.

I won't be replying to you again. No need, no point.

cardibach · 08/01/2024 17:50

ifIwerenotanandroid · 08/01/2024 17:41

Please stop trying to derail this thread. It's an offence against Mumsnet.

I won't be replying to you again. No need, no point.

It’s not an offence against anything. I corrected a poster’s misconception. You weren’t even the poster I corrected. No idea why you were replying to me anyway, really. I’m not trying to derail, either, just to ensure that discussion is based on accurate facts not misconceptions.

BalletBob · 08/01/2024 18:09

PointBreak83 · 08/01/2024 16:06

Didn’t say it was.

Good grief.

What's your point then?

Also you still owe an apology to that other poster whose comment you completely misread/didn't understand and embarrassingly charged in on your high horse to challenge....

PointBreak83 · 08/01/2024 18:20

BalletBob · 08/01/2024 18:09

Good grief.

What's your point then?

Also you still owe an apology to that other poster whose comment you completely misread/didn't understand and embarrassingly charged in on your high horse to challenge....

I made it. The sentence was whole.

Boiledbeetle · 08/01/2024 18:40

I see the but it never happens/is such a small number don't worry your pretty little heads about it brigade have visited!

If a man knows there is a legitimate way to violate women's boundaries and sexually assault her that is not only sanctioned by his bosses but doesn't come with a threat of a few years in jail than that currently small number of men will increase.

And whilst some people might be OK with the current small numbers (never thinking for one moment that they themselves could find themself being the woman being sexually assaulted by a police officer because policy says he can) I personally don't think any woman should have to even have the thought in her head that it could be a possibility that she is strip searched by a man.

This policy change was all about validating someone's gender feels whilst not giving one single shiny shit about women. And I'm fucking sick of this crap!

BalletBob · 08/01/2024 19:57

PointBreak83 · 08/01/2024 18:20

I made it. The sentence was whole.

Ah. It was just irrelevant then 👍

PointBreak83 · 08/01/2024 20:09

BalletBob · 08/01/2024 19:57

Ah. It was just irrelevant then 👍

To you.

SidewaysOtter · 08/01/2024 22:07

Echobelly · 08/01/2024 10:49

I think this does needs putting in proportion seeing as 0.01% police officers (4) in th Met identify as trans and I expect most of those aren't trans women, and I suspect the Met is likely to have a larger number than other police forces. I doubt the famously tolerant and supportive of people who aren't straight white males police force will ever become a popular career destination for trans women so the actual likelihood of any woman being strip searched by a trans woman officer is remarkably low. There's probably a higher chance of a woman being abused by a dodgy female officer at the end of the day so far better to focus on ensuring all strip searches are conducted ethically rather than kicking up a stink about this.

https://www.thepinknews.com/2022/02/26/met-police-officers-transgender-gay-lgbt/

Edited

I don’t care if it’s 1 or even none, the fact that the policy exists speaks to a lack of interest in the rights and safety of women who are potentially affected and who know that, if strip searched, could find themselves being searched by someone who is biologically male.

After all, there was only one Wayne Couzens and that was more than enough.

SidewaysOtter · 08/01/2024 22:09

littleblackcat27 · 08/01/2024 11:28

There were 4 trans police out of the whole force ie 0,01% of the police force in 2021 - why are you targetting this is as a topic of concern? There are other much more concerning issues with the police.

Plus - article from the Daily Mail?? You don't think they might want to possibly stir people up with no basis in reason or logic?

I’d be more than happy to read it in the Guardian or BBC but they wouldn’t touch a story like this. Not because it isn’t true but because they are so utterly captured by this toxic ideology.

So instead of whining about the horror of people reading the Mail, maybe ask yourself why the Graun etc won’t publish stories like this.