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Trans archdeacon story in the Telegraph – and my dilemma

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RevUlsion · 17/12/2023 15:09

The Telegraph reports that a vicar is being investigated for calling trans archdeacon Rachel Mann a ‘bloke’.

Comments from Telegraph readers are predictable: ‘Well he is a bloke, and the Church is selling out to woke ideology’. Comments from gender critical people too: ‘Here we go again: another man pretending to be a woman.’

On the other side, progressives inside and outside the Church are outraged at what they see as disrespect and bigotry.

My dilemma is that I’m strongly gender critical, but I suspect a small number of people have real gender dysphoria (as opposed to AGP, sexual motives for entering women’s spaces etc). If anybody has real gender dysphoria, Rachel Mann does.

Somebody with long-term dysphoria who goes as far as having their bits removed as an adult, as Rachel has, instinctively seems to me quite different from men with penises and wigs demanding access to women’s spaces.

Interested to know what others think about this distinction.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/12/16/church-of-england-investigates-vicar-trans-archdeacon/

Church of England investigates vicar after he calls trans archdeacon a ‘bloke’

The Rev Brett Murphy faces official rebuke over ‘intentionally derogatory and disrespectful’ remarks

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/12/16/church-of-england-investigates-vicar-trans-archdeacon/

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ArthurbellaScott · 17/12/2023 20:47

Why do we need to 'value and support' a man with dysphoria? Any more than any other group? Anorexics, say, or people with BIID, or 'trans race' people?

I have no animosity towards them but I don't understand why this group is being made into a sacred caste that deserves special treatment.

Catiette · 17/12/2023 20:48

@Didoreththeterf, thanks, that’s really interesting. My understanding, in response to subsequent posts, is that gender dysphoria isn’t limited to a discomfort with social roles, but is also a visceral unease with the body, too - is that right? Just thinking aloud, but has the term gender dysphoria itself encouraged the unfurling of the trans umbrella to embrace lesbian tomboys etc.? Was the gender part of the term initially used as a euphemism for sex - sex dysphoria? Should we be distinguishing between sex & gender dysphoria - the one an unbearable dissociation from one’s sexed body, the other a discomfort with gendered social constructs? It would make it easier to facilitate debate about any unquestioning adoption of medicalised pathways for the latter.

MargotBamborough · 17/12/2023 20:59

ArthurbellaScott · 17/12/2023 20:47

Why do we need to 'value and support' a man with dysphoria? Any more than any other group? Anorexics, say, or people with BIID, or 'trans race' people?

I have no animosity towards them but I don't understand why this group is being made into a sacred caste that deserves special treatment.

I was wondering the same thing.

Social conditioning to "be kind" at work again, I think.

OldCrone · 17/12/2023 21:04

TinselAngel · 17/12/2023 20:30

Is he the one who wrote a poem about a young girl's arse on the bus, or is that somebody else?

Yes, here it is.

Trans archdeacon story in the Telegraph – and my dilemma
Trans archdeacon story in the Telegraph – and my dilemma
DuesToTheDirt · 17/12/2023 21:06

FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/12/2023 16:08

OP, I realise you are posting in good faith but please think about what you are suggesting here.

Women - adult female humans - are complete beings in their own right.

The idea that if a man makes enough changes he "becomes" a woman is incredibly reductive, sexist and offensive. It is at heart based on men's assumption that their external observations about our lives hold as much - nay more - authority about womanhood than the observations and understanding of those who actually live it.

We aren't interchangeable with men who have had their bits removed, or men with low testosterone, or men who like girly things. We aren't a status a man can achieve if he meets a checklist. We are not, in short, defined simply by our difference to men.

A man with the deep beliefe that he is inside, or should have been, a woman is not in truth a woman. Society needs to find a way to support and value him that doesn't require debasing the reality of womanhood for all women in order to service the needs of a small group of gender dysphoric men.

This says it very well I think.

ArthurbellaScott · 17/12/2023 21:10

OldCrone · 17/12/2023 21:04

Yes, here it is.

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Of course, its all about arses.

TinselAngel · 17/12/2023 21:11

Yes, here it is.
Thought so. The envying a teenage girl's arse poem puts an end to any debate about whether he's AGP or not.

Boiledbeetle · 17/12/2023 21:11

ArthurbellaScott · 17/12/2023 21:10

Of course, its all about arses.

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😁

TinselAngel · 17/12/2023 21:11

I sometimes think I've been doing all this for too long.

Boiledbeetle · 17/12/2023 21:12

TinselAngel · 17/12/2023 21:11

Yes, here it is.
Thought so. The envying a teenage girl's arse poem puts an end to any debate about whether he's AGP or not.

Yep!

TinselAngel · 17/12/2023 21:15

I'm now wondering what Old Crone googled to find it.
"Trans vicar arse poem"?

SaffronSpice · 17/12/2023 21:15

I disagree that the articles suggests he was being deliberately offensive. It said

^The Rev Murphy, in a 32-minute-long YouTube video, criticised the CofE for putting “a radical rainbow activist” in a “position of high authority in a diocese”.
The Rev Murphy, who quit the CofE a month after the broadcast, had said in reaction to the appointment: “Now you may wonder ‘is that really newsworthy, Brett?’^
“You may roll your eyes, if you are a complementarian, that another feminist is getting a prominent high-ranking position in the CofE, but this is worse than that.
“The Rev Rachel Mann is in fact, biologically, a bloke, who identifies and lives as a woman.”
He goes on to question whether the appointment is “positioning” the Rev Mann to become the CofE’s first transsexual bishop and questions how she would deal with a member of her congregation who sees her lifestyle as in “complete rebellion against God’s word”.
“So what you are seeing here is someone who is a radical rainbow activist being put in a position of high authority in a diocese.”

He is merely state a fact. Remember a third of people think a transwoman is a female who identifies as a male rather than vice versa. Facts may seem blunt but against this backdrop of obsfucation (including she to refer to Rachel) you need clear language.

WomenShouldStillWinWomensSports · 17/12/2023 21:42

RevUlsion · 17/12/2023 19:39

Interesting. Can you be specific? What roles do you think women are excluded from, or discouraged from applying for, in today's C of E?

The specifics of the undercurrent of misogyny of the C of E are very well-documented. Four examples below. However, at no point did I say women were specifically excluded from applying for anything. The C of E doesn't work like that, which was my point.

Easy reading:
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/nov/11/female-clergy-face-institutionalised-discrimination-campaigners-claim

https://theconversation.com/as-metoo-harassment-claims-hit-the-church-of-england-its-an-institution-still-steeped-in-sexism-86884

Academic:
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2050303220952868

https://etheses.whiterose.ac.uk/24736/

ArthurbellaScott · 17/12/2023 21:57

Sometimes I think it's nothing but turtles, all the way down.

RevUlsion · 17/12/2023 22:10

WomenShouldStillWinWomensSports · 17/12/2023 21:42

The specifics of the undercurrent of misogyny of the C of E are very well-documented. Four examples below. However, at no point did I say women were specifically excluded from applying for anything. The C of E doesn't work like that, which was my point.

Easy reading:
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/nov/11/female-clergy-face-institutionalised-discrimination-campaigners-claim

https://theconversation.com/as-metoo-harassment-claims-hit-the-church-of-england-its-an-institution-still-steeped-in-sexism-86884

Academic:
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2050303220952868

https://etheses.whiterose.ac.uk/24736/

OK, thanks. Will have a read of these.

I ask because my own experience is that the C of E at all levels goes out of its way to encourage women to apply for jobs, and is desperate to appoint women to senior posts.

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RevUlsion · 17/12/2023 22:12

OldCrone · 17/12/2023 21:04

Yes, here it is.

Ew.

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Helleofabore · 17/12/2023 22:14

TWETMIRF · 17/12/2023 20:11

I agree completely, he is very likely to be safe in women's spaces. The women on the other hand would not be safe from him

This.

Melroses · 17/12/2023 22:19

RevUlsion · 17/12/2023 19:16

Please say more...

OldCrone has managed to dig some up (thanks 🙏)

I thought it was all long vanished and sanitised.

Melroses · 17/12/2023 22:20

RevUlsion · 17/12/2023 22:12

Ew.

There was plenty more, but that one was particularly grim.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 17/12/2023 22:20

Ew.

Quite. Still think he's just genuinely dysphoric, and definitely not... that other thing we're not supposed to mention?

Helleofabore · 17/12/2023 22:20

OldCrone · 17/12/2023 21:04

Yes, here it is.

Archdeacon you say? Well… that is interesting. Regardless of rank, they are a male despite the insistence that they are ‘a woman’.

StellaAndCrow · 17/12/2023 22:22

OldCrone · 17/12/2023 21:04

Yes, here it is.

That poem is disgusting in so many ways. What a vile way to think.

literalviolence · 17/12/2023 22:29

Rachel's demand to be called a woman is an act of blatant and shameful misogyny. We should see it as such and that should be the main focus in this analysis.

thatsthewayitis · 17/12/2023 23:29

OP; there is still some sentiment over; true trans for those transwomen who rid themselves of their genitals .
But at my lesbian social group there was such a person, I know because he informed us loudly and yes he was no different than the archdeacon....save your pity

LuluBlakey1 · 17/12/2023 23:33

FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/12/2023 16:08

OP, I realise you are posting in good faith but please think about what you are suggesting here.

Women - adult female humans - are complete beings in their own right.

The idea that if a man makes enough changes he "becomes" a woman is incredibly reductive, sexist and offensive. It is at heart based on men's assumption that their external observations about our lives hold as much - nay more - authority about womanhood than the observations and understanding of those who actually live it.

We aren't interchangeable with men who have had their bits removed, or men with low testosterone, or men who like girly things. We aren't a status a man can achieve if he meets a checklist. We are not, in short, defined simply by our difference to men.

A man with the deep beliefe that he is inside, or should have been, a woman is not in truth a woman. Society needs to find a way to support and value him that doesn't require debasing the reality of womanhood for all women in order to service the needs of a small group of gender dysphoric men.

^^^ This

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