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Freda Wallace on now

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vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 25/09/2023 20:18

Isla Mac is hosting Freda on twitter live now (8pm)

Freda's been on for 5 mins and is already breaking the rules. Sarah Philamore is speaking sense. These two things might be linked.

Good luck, Freda. You might need it.

https://twitter.com/i/spaces/1RDGllEZMBmGL?s=20

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Boiledbeetle · 27/09/2023 08:45

AlisonDonut · 27/09/2023 08:16

Do actual women [the old fashioned [redacted] ones] often mock up posed photos of someone sucking their lady dick?

I do wonder how much time these guys [remember, it means men and women so is a all encompassing term] spend getting posts cancelled that refer to their [redacted] pronouns.

It is all so tedious.

Call a man a man and it is literal violence and will lead to the deaths of many trans people and can lead to the police coming out and telling you off.

But post porn or pretend porn into a thread to threaten a disabled woman, and then also tell her you will go onto her medical records and tinker with it, and nothing happens.

Do actual women [the old fashioned [redacted] ones] often mock up posed photos of someone sucking their lady dick?

You mean you don't Alison? Bet you're a real slacker and don't own your own sex dungeon either.

Come on love. Do better. This is why the men say they can woman better than the actual women can.

Get your sex dungeon out for the lads.

Helleofabore · 27/09/2023 08:51

😁

Woman2023 · 27/09/2023 09:06

I've got used to posting on Twitter, which is good because I get to use plain language. It took a while to get used to after being trained to be so careful here.

IcakethereforeIam · 27/09/2023 09:16

Didn't Freda get suspended from Freda's job? I'm not sure if it was connected to Freda's vile behaviour on twitter but it was soon after it happened. Is Freda still suspended? From job, not in dungeon.

I don't have a basement. I suppose I could have a sex loft but then I'd have nowhere to keep the Christmas decorations 🙃

Cerealforever · 27/09/2023 09:32

Woman2023 · 26/09/2023 21:55

I've had a post deleted. I can only assume it's because we're not allowed to use pronouns that correspond to a person's sex on here. Sad really.

I assume that is why I was deleted too. This is despite Freda saying openly in that podcast that they only say TWAW to be provocative and that when asked in RL if they think they are a woman, they reply ‘ I don’t know’. So even Freda is not asserting they are a woman, but we have to use pronouns as if they are because…..?

TWETMIRF · 27/09/2023 09:35

What comes out the mouth is utter bollocks but I have to say that I do like Freda's voice.

Boiledbeetle · 27/09/2023 11:19

IcakethereforeIam · 27/09/2023 09:16

Didn't Freda get suspended from Freda's job? I'm not sure if it was connected to Freda's vile behaviour on twitter but it was soon after it happened. Is Freda still suspended? From job, not in dungeon.

I don't have a basement. I suppose I could have a sex loft but then I'd have nowhere to keep the Christmas decorations 🙃

It's obviously very hard to get sacked from the NHS.

could you incorporate the Christmas decorations into the general theme and ambiance of the sex loft? whilst it would make a niche market even more niche, there always a premium on that sort of thing, so you'd probably make more money in the long run.

IcakethereforeIam · 27/09/2023 11:26

I think I misunderstood 😕

I thought it would be my own private Christmas themed sex loft*. I didn't realise I had to rent it out! Won't that need licensing, risk assessments, h&s, probably a fixed set of stairs....I have to say I wasn't that keen on the idea in the first place. I'm totally going off it now.

*making teeny tiny blindfolds for all the elves 😎

PurpleBugz · 27/09/2023 11:47

IcakethereforeIam · 27/09/2023 09:16

Didn't Freda get suspended from Freda's job? I'm not sure if it was connected to Freda's vile behaviour on twitter but it was soon after it happened. Is Freda still suspended? From job, not in dungeon.

I don't have a basement. I suppose I could have a sex loft but then I'd have nowhere to keep the Christmas decorations 🙃

From what Freda said they are not suspended. Kept saying Henrietta was out of order for going to Freda employer over it.

Sex pics aside I think Freda should have lost their hob for saying they would update medical records and it would lead to a delay in care in emergency situations. Absolutely disgusting. An obvious threat and no consequences for the disgusting individual

IcakethereforeIam · 27/09/2023 11:50

Trans Teflon 😡

Rightsraptor · 27/09/2023 11:55

I've read that Freda is a paramedic: do we know this? At least they are registered with oversight of their practice and behaviour. Could it be that Freda works elsewhere in the NHS and Freda's threats are just bluster?

Boiledbeetle · 27/09/2023 12:24

PurpleBugz · 27/09/2023 11:47

From what Freda said they are not suspended. Kept saying Henrietta was out of order for going to Freda employer over it.

Sex pics aside I think Freda should have lost their hob for saying they would update medical records and it would lead to a delay in care in emergency situations. Absolutely disgusting. An obvious threat and no consequences for the disgusting individual

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I think Freda has changed what they apparently meant from what they originally stated.

When it was first said I thought Freda was on about the NHS zero tolerance risk marker system.

I'm not saying the following is how the system should work, but it is how it's been proved to work in actual real life...

As a patient transport driver someone in Freda's job is covered under the NHS zero tolerance policy.

If any member of patient transport staff complains to their manger that a patient has given them reason to be afraid for the safety of themself or other staff members then a risk marker can be placed on a patients file. This marker is available to see by various members of NHS staff who may be involved in that patients care.

The patient may be given a warning first, but the risk department can decide the patient is such a threat that they go straight to the risk marker being placed on the patients file.

There are many many reasons for why the NHS may decide to place the marker, so it's not hard for a disgruntled staff member to fabricate a story that means the patient falls into one of the categories covered in the zero tolerance policy of things they will find you guilty of with absolutely no proof whatsoever.

And the first the patient knows about it is when the letter arrives to tell you that they have found you guilty of a crime and will be punishing you accordingly with a risk marker on your patient file.

This system relies on the fact that the staff member is basically believed 100% and can therefore say whatever they like - the system is open to abuse by staff members who use it in bad faith to persecute people they don't like.

The patient has virtually no chance of getting that marker removed. If they can prove they can "behave themselves" for a set period of time then the marker gets removed after about 6 months. (times vary). Having proof that the staff member is the aggressor also doesn't help the patient, as the risk department tends not to give a shiny shit.

So then the patient has to spend time and energy they don't have trying to find out what the hell is going on, and trying to fight a system that takes six weeks to deal with a complaint or a query whilst that patient knows that anyone who looks can see they have been deemed a risk to staff on no evidence whatsoever.

It is yet another of those things that men can use against women where the process is the punishment.

RhannionKPSS · 27/09/2023 12:29

Freddo is a bawbag

RhannionKPSS · 27/09/2023 12:31

And if Freddo was chocolate, Freddo would eat themselves.

Helleofabore · 27/09/2023 12:36

Is a Freddo Frog a real frog?

RhannionKPSS · 27/09/2023 12:44

Could well be…😂

RhannionKPSS · 27/09/2023 12:45

Maybe Freddo identifies as a real frog…

Rightsraptor · 27/09/2023 12:57

So Freda is PTS and not a paramedic after all.

Boiledbeetle · 27/09/2023 13:00

Rightsraptor · 27/09/2023 12:57

So Freda is PTS and not a paramedic after all.

I'm sure Freda had said in the past that they are a patient transport ambulance driver.

Rightsraptor · 27/09/2023 14:45

I was rather hoping F had claimed to be something that F isn't, in the job sense, not in the 'gender identity' sense, obviously, because we know F's been doing that for some time now. How delicious it would be if F claimed a protected title that F wasn't entitled to. Never mind.

There is online a photo of a person named Freda Wallace, apparently female, in uniform with 'Patient Transfer' on the epaulettes. It looks like this is the person under discussion here. I say 'looks like', but I suspect there's been a bit of photographic magic involved and it's how Freda sees Fredaself, rather than the unvarnished truth.

Villagetoraiseachild · 27/09/2023 15:10

The new Freddo Frog has got jazz hands.....

Scuse my ignorance, but are adjusted pronouns considered compelled speech?
Is there any actual law on this or is it just about preferences and respecting sensitivities?
I would genuinely like to know. Thank you.

Villagetoraiseachild · 27/09/2023 15:17

Just done a quick google.... inconclusive......

Ereshkigalangcleg · 27/09/2023 15:19

I assume that is why I was deleted too. This is despite Freda saying openly in that podcast that they only say TWAW to be provocative and that when asked in RL if they think they are a woman, they reply ‘ I don’t know’. So even Freda is not asserting they are a woman, but we have to use pronouns as if they are because…..?

I've seen this with a lot of these male people. It's basically a power trip.

AutumnCrow · 27/09/2023 15:23

IcakethereforeIam · 27/09/2023 11:26

I think I misunderstood 😕

I thought it would be my own private Christmas themed sex loft*. I didn't realise I had to rent it out! Won't that need licensing, risk assessments, h&s, probably a fixed set of stairs....I have to say I wasn't that keen on the idea in the first place. I'm totally going off it now.

*making teeny tiny blindfolds for all the elves 😎

I have been giving far too much thought to this, because it actually did cross my mind that a small steri-strip would serve as a suitable blindfold for the baby Jesus in my nativity crib. Mary, bless her, who's already up and dressed in her full regalia - what a trooper, really - might need a medium size steri-strip. And the sheep on the left looks sensitive.