I was actually responding to this: hadn't realised it wouldn't show up in the quote:
BCCoach · 19/09/2023 14:13
I'm in a small and mostly rural community. I think people are much more likely to be conservative and 'traditional' in their views, which means most people are gender critical (if they are aware at all), but sadly also means that racist/sexist/homophobic views are also quite common and openly shared. Among older people there is very much a horror of places like London and Brighton and a determination that "things like that" don't happen here. People will watch a news story about something happening in London with the same level of detachment as something happening in Kabul: "it's all very sad but nothing to do with us." It makes it very easy for people to dismiss stuff without ever having to actually think about it.
In my area of Ruralia and among the 'older people' I mix with, many of us have either lived or worked in London and the SE before returning or moving to the rural areas where we now live. Some of us have children who now live and work there. I think that posters are talking about a certain type of rural person, a growing minority around here, and then generalising.
And this: People will watch a news story about something happening in London with the same level of detachment as something happening in Kabul: "it's all very sad but nothing to do with us." It makes it very easy for people to dismiss stuff without ever having to actually think about it.
This is such a London-centric way of thinking. It's as if nothing has been learned from Brexit. Certainly in my local, 250 miles from London, the recent Croydon stabbing has been discussed. Tell me, do 'older people' people in London hear about something happening in Carlisle or Launceston or rural Lincolnshire and, unless they have a connection to those areas, feel concerned or involved?
Sorry, derailing. I just stumbled across the original post and thought 'Bollocks to that...'