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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

National Trust AGM

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PRAMtran · 04/09/2023 13:59

I’ve received an email from the National Trust inviting me and all other members to vote in their AGM. Does anyone know if there are any things a woman’s rights advocate should vote for or against. Eg TWAW by stealth.

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RebelliousCow · 10/09/2023 09:37

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 09:30

@ArabeIIaScott i made a point on the other thread that the bar for racism is set so much higher than the bar for misogyny.

You think racism is just to do with Black and Asian people. You ignore your own racism.

GodessOfThunder · 10/09/2023 09:38

RebelliousCow · 10/09/2023 08:58

If people want a more studied account of a certain issue or subject then they tend to visit temporary or special exhibitions; but if you are visiting a general collection then you want more general, rounded information. What you don't want is to be force fed a certain narrative - which has clearly beeen carefully constructed for certain political ends.

How many times does this need to be explained? People don't like the feeling that something is being forced on them and in a contrived way.

Did you actually read the review I posted the other day about a recent exhibition at the Fitzwilliam in Cambridge. That conveys perfectly the issue.

This looks like a well conceived and curated exhibition to me. I think that is incorporated how history is produced, how certain narratives become dominant, and how some aspects of the past get silenced is great. What is your “issue” with it?

https://fitzmuseum.cam.ac.uk/plan-your-visit/exhibitions/black-atlantic-power-people-resistance

Black Atlantic: Power, People, Resistance

About the exhibition, Black Atlantic: Power, People, Resistance, at the Fitzwilliam Museum.

https://fitzmuseum.cam.ac.uk/plan-your-visit/exhibitions/black-atlantic-power-people-resistance

maltravers · 10/09/2023 09:40

GodessOfThunder · 10/09/2023 08:24

“A lot”? Really?

In that case you will be able to share a couple of them.

What I meant was “I am not trawling through 850 posts to find the one referring to this”. Is that better? Honestly 🙄

GodessOfThunder · 10/09/2023 09:42

maltravers · 10/09/2023 09:40

What I meant was “I am not trawling through 850 posts to find the one referring to this”. Is that better? Honestly 🙄

Because there aren’t any - perhaps one at best which has been referenced but no one seems to be able to recall it.

There aren’t “a lot” by any definition.

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 09:42

You think anything which is in disagreement with your view is 'hard right' - that is totally your own framing device. Be aware of that.
Wrong (again). the hard right creep is in direct reference to the influence of Tufton Street.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 10/09/2023 09:43

Why are posters playing Hop Skip Spot The Thread?

quantumbutterfly · 10/09/2023 09:47

TheirEminence · 10/09/2023 07:08

I think this thread is fast reaching its natural end but I will respond to this from GoT:

*As I’ve mentioned several times, Including this in information is a matter of accuracy.

Small c conservative attitudes might make make some feel uncomfortable with this, but the NT exists to “look after history” not to pretend events didn’t happen, censure them for delicate sensibilities, or ignore the latest biographical research into how it’s properties came to be built.*

Two things:
If history were only about ‘accuracy’, then there would be very few history books. In any narrative about the past, something will always be left out as it is simply not possible to reproduce everything in one story. All history is partial, and there is no neutral position of total accuracy that can be used as a yardstick. To assume this is historically naive.

Having read the thread, I am confident that the vast majority of posters (I would say all but I’m being careful) support including information on links to slavery in NT materials where they apply to a specific property, and that is probably because in our current historical moment, in which Britain is reckoning with its role in the world and a rapidly diversifying society (including many more British people who are mixed-race/ethnicity) this is regarded as very important.

What some posters seem to disagree with - returning to the starting point of the thread - is a) the NT’s alleged attempt to enforce a very narrow point of view, to the exclusion of other relevant narratives, b) the misrepresentation of history (example: cotton tapestries) and c) a contemptuous attitude towards NT members and audiences who are assumed to be ignorant and resistant to new interpretations, even though sometimes they might actually accurately point out misinterpretations or missing context (again, the tapestry example is brilliant as it pointed to the technological origins of the cotton boom, leading to a better understanding of slavery as an institution).

Finally, even though I support encouraging historical awareness, the way to do this is to appeal to the imagination, encourage audiences to ask questions, meet them were they are, not present history as a morality tale. And it seems from the support RT are getting that the NT risks alienating some of its audience - a dangerous place for a national institution, there for everybody.

Some time ago, I visited the historic house of a famous white male and the one exhibit I remember best is that relating to his wife and the many children she bore over more than two decades. This was the reality for many women in the past and caused huge physical strain, added to by the emotional strain of not many children surviving. Not my experience but I could relate to it. Am I a bad person now for remembering this and not something else?

Sorry for long post.

Hear hear.

In the past on Mumsnet people used to say 'you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.'
(Of course many flies prefer bullshit - but that's not something I've studied in depth.)

narniabusiness · 10/09/2023 09:53

narniabusiness · 09/09/2023 10:18

I went to some trouble to find these trip advisor reviews but my post has been overlooked it seems.

I’m reposting again as apparently this post is now hard to find.

RebelliousCow · 10/09/2023 09:56

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 09:42

You think anything which is in disagreement with your view is 'hard right' - that is totally your own framing device. Be aware of that.
Wrong (again). the hard right creep is in direct reference to the influence of Tufton Street.

Back to Tufton street.......tedious in the extreme.

Regarding equivalences between misogyny and racism. We all know that thousands upoin thousands of women were persecuted as witches in the past; that women were considered the property of men - in the same we know about the transatlantic slave trade and how black people were given their white master's name and condisered his property.

But we also know that slaves were kept in many countries and societies in the world, not just in white, 'western' society. There is nothing uniquely sinful about white people. We are all human beings with the same range of potentials, whatever our skin colour or cultural background.

Yes, these things happened, and are part of the story of human life on earth and yes, the stories should be told. These stories also go some way to explaining where we are now, and how we got here. Nobody is averse to any of that.

What people are averse to is american social justice activism ( Sorry I'm not going to give a lengthy exposition of that here and now) which has a very particulat flavour and intent. People don't like being force fed any one narrative, which they correctly intuit is meant to shame and have people somehow atone for the sins of their fore-fathers.

Personally, i'm not ashamed of anything in this regard, nor do I feel the need to personally atone. I don't feel "uncomforatble" knowing that slavery existed. What i tend to do fell is reflective on the nature of humanity and the horrible things it can be responsibile for; I can feel empathy for past sufferings. I'm sure most of us do.

EdithStourton · 10/09/2023 09:58

GodessOfThunder · 10/09/2023 08:50

It's possible to think that and also not think that slavery is funny.

So what exactly are the aspects of slavery that one might find “funny”?

@GodessOfThunder
Nobody is saying that slavery is funny. Or that aspects of slavery are funny. You are putting words into people's mouths and managing to wilfully misinterpret what they are saying. You are either, therefore, poor at reading comprehension, enormously blinkered, or actively dishonest. None of these is a good look.

As for the earlier post about CarpetRight (which you reference when saying to me, 'Your research was incomplete'), I didn't find that in particularly good taste. But I read it as the poster observing that it is possible to over-stress certain aspects of a building to the exclusion of other, equally relevant aspects. In any case, the poster was not calling for 'more "humour"' about slavery. So I still find your interpretation disingenuous.

I asked you earlier, 'Could you explain what counts as 'well educated' by your lights and I'll let you know if I measure up?' (p. 30 I think it was) Any chance of a response to that?

And I'm still extremely unimpressed that you were willing to describe those who you see as the other side as 'borderline racists' whilst knowing nothing about us beyond a tiny fraction of what we've posted on MN.

Your attitude is not winning anyone over to your way of thinking. If anything, it is serving to harden division. I find it very difficult to remain open to reasonable points put forward by someone I know despises me. Especially when I have serious doubts about their honesty.

quantumbutterfly · 10/09/2023 10:04

Needmoresleep · 10/09/2023 09:24

I have a life membership. Happy to see different places and hear different histories and am happy to have preconceptions challenged, but increasingly I find the world (Guardian, BBC, NT, various subsidised theatres) seems to tell me what I should be thinking.

My last visit was to Kingston Lacey in Dorset. Lovely house and grounds, so met my criteria of an interesting day out. But in every room we heard about the ancestor who was gay and who repeatedly got into trouble because of his interest in young men to the extend he had to flee to Italy. Part of the House's history and an interesting example of how societal attitudes have changed. But did I need to hear this in every room, with elderly female volunteers doing the female "poor man" thing. No consideration of whether his behaviour might have tipped into modern "me too" behaviour even though there were indications of significant power imbalance in his relationships. But far more irritating was the failure to convey anything abut the life of the sister who he left behind to run the house. She was largely invisible in her support-the-man's-vision role, despite she was in charge for decades.

The trouble with highlighting very specific parts of history is that you miss the broader picture and context. It becomes very black and white, when life, either then or now, is nuanced.

My bigger argument with the NT, and why I am a member of the Restore Trust, is that it has become very corporate and lost links with the communities where their properties are located. I have heard first hand stories of estate workers losing their homes in expensive parts of the country so that the tied cottages can become holiday lets. Or a family who had run a popular cafe for decades losing their contract to an expensive chain. Even at a fundamental level the NT cafes are very corporate and no longer have quirky menu items from the local area. Gift shops too. They used to be a place where you could find local jewellery and jams.

I appreciate some will prioritise staff wearing rainbow lanyards and focussing on issues of the day. However part of the learning from seeing a house through history is to learn that things come in waves. Preoccupations of the present will evolve and change. I for one would prefer a lighter touch and more chance to consider and think for myself. (A bit like this thread, which seems at times to suggest that support for Restore Trust means support for slavery. We have seen that sort of simplistic argument in other areas.)

Thank you.

GodessOfThunder · 10/09/2023 10:15

narniabusiness · 10/09/2023 09:53

I’m reposting again as apparently this post is now hard to find.

So you are referring to the “What a World Exhibition” at Penrhyn.

I went to it. I thought it was pretty good and great that it involved the local community.

The castle was built on the proceeds of sugar and the slavery. This isn’t peripheral, it was its entire funding. The castle was given to the NT in 1951. To have an temporary exhibition in place focussing on its links with slavery/plantation agriculture/colonialism for a small fraction of those 70-odd years is perfectly legitimate.

Also, several details in the reviews are factually innacurate. Other information about the property remained available to visitors. And, as above, the slavery/colonialism links are fundamental to the castle and much of its contents’ very existence. This isn’t a modish perversion of its “real” history - it is its origins.

https://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/wales/penrhyn-castle-and-garden/what-a-world-exhibition-at-penrhyn-castle

What a World at Penrhyn Castle│Wales

Discover how the What a World! exhibition examined Penrhyn Castle, Gwynedd, Wales’s collection and the culture of colonialism.

https://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/wales/penrhyn-castle-and-garden/what-a-world-exhibition-at-penrhyn-castle

EdithStourton · 10/09/2023 10:20

@quantumbutterfly
I for one would prefer a lighter touch and more chance to consider and think for myself.
Spot on.

It's the difference between being metaphorically beaten about the head with your own sinfulness and the Love of God by a doorstep evangelical, and watching, over decades, the low-key social activism and deeply caring interpersonal behaviour of devout Christians in your local community.

Sure, I know not all devout Christians are like that, but it is a great joy in my life to know several who are. They're the ones who make me think, 'mebbe there's something in this', whereas the hard-core, preachy, super-virtuous evangelicals I encountered at university sent me running miles in the opposite direction.

narniabusiness · 10/09/2023 10:20

In case my post at 9.53 reads like some kind of gotcha it isn’t intended to be. Some posters had stressed that it was important to get the balance right in providing information about a NT property so that one aspect wasn’t prioritized so much that other pertinent information was left out. Godess argued that was a straw man argument as it had never happened. An assertion they repeated so si provided evidence that it wasn’t a straw man argument.
At this point so would expect anyone who was discussing in good faith to say that in that one instance it would seem that the NT got it wrong.

narniabusiness · 10/09/2023 10:22

You went to the exhibition Godess? I’m surprised in this long long thread that you hadn’t mentioned it earlier.

DatumTarum · 10/09/2023 10:34

narniabusiness · 10/09/2023 10:22

You went to the exhibition Godess? I’m surprised in this long long thread that you hadn’t mentioned it earlier.

Churlish.

DatumTarum · 10/09/2023 10:42

I'm still amazed that the willful ignorance here.

Why are people so upset by hearing about history?

All information is worth having in my mind.

Sadly, the slave trade is my family history and I find it fascinating. I'm not going to flinch from it.

A person's education should never be finished, to learn is to live and I cannot comprehend this "don't tell me" attitude.

Nobody has yet to engage with the blatant corruption that is Tufton Street either. Head in the sand while your country becomes increasingly riddled with corruption.

ArabeIIaScott · 10/09/2023 10:44

I'm amazed at your eagerness to ascribe motive and feelings to others based on absolutely nothing except your own preconceptions.

ArabeIIaScott · 10/09/2023 10:48

This is a really interesting wee article. Factual, with references.

https://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/wales/penrhyn-castle-and-garden/penrhyn-castle-and-slave-trade-history

Looks like it was probably an interesting exhibition, and I like the method of selecting objects to explore further.

But then, I'm just an uneducated racist old idiot, so I guess it's not aimed at me. Mea culpa.

Penrhyn Castle slave trade history|Wales

Find out how sugar fortunes and the transatlantic slave trade provided wealth to build Penrhyn Castle and how money was invested in the local area.

https://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/wales/penrhyn-castle-and-garden/penrhyn-castle-and-slave-trade-history

DatumTarum · 10/09/2023 10:48

ArabeIIaScott · 10/09/2023 10:44

I'm amazed at your eagerness to ascribe motive and feelings to others based on absolutely nothing except your own preconceptions.

Where did I do that?

I'm describing what I see. I don't understand the motivations behind it.

Why would anyone not want to know about one of the fundamental building blocks of the modern world?

Vast fortunes were made, big chunks of world economies were built on it, it created entire nations, cultures. The twisted philosophies dreamed up to justify it contain some of the roots of modern racism.

Why would you not want to know about that?

NeighbourhoodWatchPotholeDivision · 10/09/2023 10:57

GodessOfThunder · 10/09/2023 05:53

i haven’t seen any data on this - have you?

But whether their members are more likely to hold these attitudes, or not, vs the overall population, it makes no difference though to the matter in hand regarding slavery connections As I’ve mentioned several times, Including this in information is a matter of accuracy.

Small c conservative attitudes might make make some feel uncomfortable with this, but the NT exists to “look after history” not to pretend events didn’t happen, censure them for delicate sensibilities, or ignore the latest biographical research into how it’s properties came to be built.

You’re a feminist, right? It wasn’t so long ago women’s history was belittled, erased, sidelined and omitted. What is your motivation for wanting to erase Black history?

Edited

You have repeatedly attributed other posters' feedback on the quality of current NT exhibits/displays etc to the posters holding "small c conservative attitudes". The implication has been that their feedback can be safely disregarded because of that.

You've also claimed it's because they're middle-class, old enough to have grandchildren, and poorly-educated. Some other stuff as well, but I CBA to scroll back for all of it. Again, the implication is that the NT can safely ignore their opinions.

Really? So who is the typical NT member then? I don't do anything so lofty as "work in heritage", being far too poorly educated for that, but how sure are you that NT members aren't largely middle-class, older or conservative?

If you alienate them all, who do you envisage taking out memberships instead? Millennials? Gen Z?

I'm a working class millennial, complete with avocados in the fridge and blue hair dye in the bathroom. Housing costs now account for 50% of my post-tax income, and I've chopped all unnecessary direct debits. Yet I am in a very fortunate position compared to my peergroup. The chance of any of us taking out NT memberships is marginal, to say the least.

As for the rest of your accusations, I think you should give that strawman a cuddle. He looks unhappy.

ArabeIIaScott · 10/09/2023 11:00

'Why would you not want to know about that?'

Where do you get the impression I dont want to know about slavery?

This is exactly what I mean about ascribing notications and feelings.

DatumTarum · 10/09/2023 11:08

ArabeIIaScott · 10/09/2023 11:00

'Why would you not want to know about that?'

Where do you get the impression I dont want to know about slavery?

This is exactly what I mean about ascribing notications and feelings.

I have no idea what you want

I'm describing what I've seen on this thread.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2023 11:18

Who has said that they don't want to hear about slavery at all? I haven't seen that. Therefore these are misrepresentations of people's views, seemingly based on what people perceive as your unwillingness to listen, and that's why people are objecting.

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