Great post @RebelliousCow
At any time in history ( including now) great wealth and opulence is predicated on some form of exploitation of someone, somewhere. If you live in a society it is virtually impossible for someone to be separate from the running or workings of its economy. How many of us buy cheap or fashionable products made on the backs of bonded labourers somewhere in the world? How many of us work for big corporations which have vested interests in activities or products which now elicit social disapproval?
Exactly. And I'm going to do some shoehorning here, because whilst one can have an appreciation of the abuses of the past, the same people pushing this agenda are likely the same ones who think it's fine to go overseas to obtain a baby. Yes, my favourite topic : surrogacy.
We have a U.K. lawyer, Natalie Gamble advertising to offer help with surrogacy arrangements in Mexico and Colombia. Does anyone really think these Mexican and Colombian women just love breeding babies to gift to sad rich westerners who can't get a baby any other way?
If this isn't modern day colonialism, outsourcing birth to women who are kept in slave conditions I don't know what is. Yet the very people who are pushing popular current agendas down our throats at every turn, who probably wouldn't dream of eating a battery farmed egg, are likely to be the same people outsourcing pregnancy and childbirth to poor women in poor countries. BBC journalists who chatted happily about obtaining theirs from India for instance.
Cutting and pasting a section from an interview discussing delivery arrangements with a couple of Australians who used a woman from Georgia via a clinic in Greece. Possibly the same clinic that has been in the news recently for a range of crimes including people trafficking.
"Nick: She was quite adamant that she wanted a natural birth. And we preferred a natural birth too. Her main reason for it was that she hadn't told her mother back home. So she didn't want a C-section and have to explain the scars and everything. But we got told by the clinic in no uncertain terms that we would not be having a natural birth.
Why not?
Nick: They want full control. Most of the women give birth at the 37th week, from what we understand.
And she didn't know that was the clinic's policy when she got into it? She didn't know when she'd signed up?
Nick: That's a good question. Maybe she didn't. I don't know. Did we know?
Alex: We didn't.
Nick: Did we? I think they did mention it to us.
So what happened?
Nick: We got a call to say, 'It's happening today, come to the clinic.' And we thought C-section. Because, you know, we'd been told that. But as we're approaching the clinic, we meet both of the ladies that run the surrogacy program. And one of them says to us, 'You know, you're having a natural birth.' I didn't believe it. And she goes, 'No, no, she's been here since seven o'clock. She's very close to giving birth.'
Alex: We were very much an exception. We don't advertise it.
Nick: The doctor was happy for it to happen. She was low risk. She said she wanted it. The parents wanted it. So you know, they obliged.
Alex: She was very persistent.
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You are nearing the end of your second Greek surrogacy. This is not the same surrogate, though, right?
Nick: No, she is. She is the same person.
Oh, that's great!
So when is this third baby due? Are you going early this time too?
Nick: Well, we were told the delivery date. But what we weren't told is that that was the full term date.
Ah.
Nick: Every time we would speak to the surrogate mother, she would try to convince us that we should come earlier. But we know that the sooner we go, the sooner everything will happen. And the sooner she gets to go back home and the sooner she gets her post-birth payment. And we also know that the baby puts on most of its weight in the last two or three weeks of gestation, so it's better for the baby that it stays.
So we've resisted, you know. She'll tell us our baby's turned, getting in position, you should come and we're thinking, hang on, the clinic's not telling us that. The doctors aren't saying, 'You've got to get here quick.'
She is like, 'It's between you and the baby.' No, it's actually not. We'll just let God decide! Hopefully I don't have to eat my words.
So she might give birth a few weeks before the date you were given.
Nick: She might give birth tomorrow.
Oh!
Nick: We booked flights fairly early. To change those flights now would be quite costly.
What happens if she gives birth before you get there? Who looks after the baby?
Alex: The baby stays in the hospital.
Nick: Yeah, for three to five days anyway.
Will she do a natural birth again? Does she have the option again?
Nick: She wants to do natural birth again.
Alex: We haven't had that discussion with her this time.
Nick: I think she has mentioned it. Early on, she mentioned it.
You'd think the clinic would prefer it. She's done it already, it'll be quick, she'll recover within a day or two... Not like after a C-section.
Nick: I think they're more about mitigating risk and being able to control the timing of it. They're probably not generally concerned about her health or the baby's health entirely. So, you know, we will ask for it. If she's low risk again, there'd be no reasonable way they would deny us.
It got pretty tense last time, because there was friction between us and her and us and the clinic. And she kept hounding us, quite frankly, to insist on a natural birth. And we said, 'Listen, we want a natural birth, you want a natural birth, but unfortunately, it's whatever the doctor wants.' And I said, 'We want to return as well. So we don't want to sour the relationship.' But thankfully, they, yeah, they gave us the natural birth, so it was good for everyone.
If forced LSCS (which this surrogate mother managed to avoid by delivering early, quickly and naturally) isn't modern day slavery I don't know what is. So personally I am less interested in past crimes and more interested in the present day ones being committed by the current great and good and fashionable.
(Apologies for derail)