Well, the incredulous thing certainly applies to me as a man watching all of this.
I remember my early teens, extricating myself from religion, balking at the Catholic Church and their various abuse scandals and exaggerated ceremonies. Exasperated at the resistance to ordination of female clergy in CoE. Irritated by the Moral Majority trying to tell me what lyrics I could read.
And feeling like I was part of the Enlightenment as I connected to comics and scientists and philosophers who really were compelled to challenge orthodoxies, and championed free speech and fighting flim flam, from the Python team to Rowan Atkinson, Dawkins to Pinker to Goldacre to Haidt to Hitchens.
And less than two decades after this golden age of reason and anti pomposity peaked, what are we left with? Individuals with massive social capital, fearless in their criticism of Trump and Boris, MAGA and Brexit, the Tories, the alt Right, Covid and vaxx deniers, pro BLM and racialised politics, weaponised in their support for all things intersectional, anti climate change, seemingly anti flim flam like that older generation of heroes, but in fact nothing of the sort as they nail their colours to the anti science/anti humanist/anti woman cult/neo religion of TRA.
Ask any of the new "heroes" what they think of "men can become women" and the medicalisation of youth, and you'll hear either radio silence, the questioner accused of transphobia, or acceptance of the cult.
Stephen Fry, Dr. Brian Cox, Jonathan Lis, Ben Goldacre, to name but four prominent individuals in the arts, science, journalism, ethics worlds.
And once again, the stress of extricating from a world hamstrung by religion, but crazily one even more hard to believe than the previous one.
And beyond the heroes of the GC feminist world, and individual men like Glinner and Ricky Gervais, criminal silence from so many, including my group, men.