The Tories haven't done anything because their party like others is divided. You cant blame Sunak for the fact that if all MPs were sane they could have a vote tomorrow and amend the EA (or even get rid of the GRA).
The idea that there are enough voters on mumsnet for any party to change a policy is just unrealistic.
And I dont think the tories gain by leaking this, because the Tories now that dont have enough parliamentary time to hold a HoC debate, nor that enough MPs would vote on principle and not on Party lines. Far more likely that Stonewall etc., want to portray the Tories as stoking the anit woke war.
And probably think that if they did give this parliamentary time when so much else is FU they would lose credibility ie even those who support women's sex based rights, do not think that in the face of cost of living, housing (lack of), NHS, Ukraine, that this is a priority. Why? Because it only benefits women.
The only way a vote will happen before the next GE is enough MPs of all parties indicate this is a priority. Then the Tories can feel they wont be setting themselves up for a defeat in the HoC.
So I'm afraid, that nice as it might be to blame one man, and even though Boris may have given the impression that politics is a one man show, it isn't. Its about getting a consensus, not only in your own party, but in the other parties.
Suspect they are also waiting on the outcome of the 2 legal cases due to be heard. From the intro to the Westminster Hall debate, the message is it isn't possible to discuss the issue openly until both court cases are completed.