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Safe spaces for women (and anyone else who says they’re a woman) help by completing Leeds survey

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Ouchiebum · 08/06/2023 17:16

Leeds council are consulting on creating safe spaces for women. But not just for women. For anyone who identifies as a woman ie men and women, therefore giving people who are most likely to harm women ie men access to the space designed to keep them safe.

I am really annoyed about this survey and am asking as many of you as possible to complete it to point out that women needs safe spaces based on sex. Not on how people feel.
https://surveys.leeds.gov.uk/s/OWA2023/?dm_i=7IRL,39I6,19VMAF,C5JW,1

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IncomingTraffic · 09/06/2023 21:23

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 09/06/2023 21:18

Consider it a protest.

I think is fair.

I’m mostly flabbergasted that a local authority - you know, actual local government - have just straight up told people that they’ve no intention of this being proper research or consultation. They’re not interested in learning what people think. They’re touting for ‘data’ to confirm and enable what they already want to do. They actually say this in the intro.

I shouldn’t be. I know lots about local authority consultation practice, and most of it tells me they’re only interested in looking at it from their own perspective.

Ourladycheesusedatum · 09/06/2023 21:37

IncomingTraffic · 09/06/2023 20:56

There’s precisely zero chance of them properly analysing the survey in relation to the views you want to express.

It doesnt matter. As long as we get our say and its recorded that we will not be ignored, that's peachy.

It's a rung in the ladder that we are dissatisfied with gender woo.

When it finally ends, which it will, this will lead to us being incarcerated but that too is peachy.

IncomingTraffic · 09/06/2023 22:30

They might ‘redact’ it all as ‘hate speech’ of course.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 09/06/2023 22:40

IncomingTraffic · 09/06/2023 22:30

They might ‘redact’ it all as ‘hate speech’ of course.

I don't see how they could redact mine as "hate" speech. I didn't even mention trans people.

Unless reminding them that sex and preg&mat are EA2010 protected characteristics is now deemed "hate" speech...

mybestchildismycat · 09/06/2023 22:54

Crumbcatcher · 08/06/2023 20:13

Do you think the survey was really 'created by women'?

Yes, quite possibly (mad as it seems). The recent poll my Sex Matters found that support for the Stonewall position on gender identify and women's spaces was actually higher among women than men.

Dumbo12 · 09/06/2023 22:58

How has Leeds gone from the place where the original Reclaim the Night protests began, to this rubbish?

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 09/06/2023 23:03

Dumbo12 · 09/06/2023 22:58

How has Leeds gone from the place where the original Reclaim the Night protests began, to this rubbish?

RTN was a grassroots protest about West Yorks Police curfewing women, IIRC. So Leeds has actually stayed the same in terms of levels of misogyny coming from public authorities.

mybestchildismycat · 09/06/2023 23:08

Quveas · 09/06/2023 09:49

Did you read ANYTHING in my post or just continue the rant?

The survey is about PUBLIC SPACES - streets and stuff like that. You may think it's a great idea to exclude men and boys from public places but it's not realistic.

Look, I happen to agree with you that single sex should mean single sex. Full stop. But this cult like adherence to reading what you want to read and seeing what you want to see makes you all look like raving lunatics. The survey IS NOT ABOUT SINGLE SEX SPACES. It is about where you go shopping or clubbing or eating. You have missed the point entirely and are actually hurting the opportunities for making places safer for women and girls by focussing on the wrong thing.

I guess when it comes down to it I should have known better than to expect rationale, lietracy or common sense to prevail, but at least I tried. This survey is about making our streets safer for women and girls, and the least important thing about that is what a few people define themselves as. It is about dressing how you like, being the person you want to be, enjoying the amentities of day time and night time facilities, whether that's shopping, eating, clubbing, drinking or just standing on a stret corner chatting to your mates, and being able to do that safely and without harassement because you are a woman, Does that not matter to anyone here?

I'm out. If you lot want to ruin an attempt to improve the safety for women on streets because of point scoring, shame on you. You could make your points without deliberately setting out to damage attempts to make women and girtls safer on the streets of cities.

But it was about safe spaces? Unless I misunderstood? One of the purposes of the survey seemed to be to understand the potential demand for an app that could be used to direct women and girls to nearby safe spaces. I'd imagine that at least some of these safe spaces would be adverstied as women-only, in which case it is absolutely relevant to understand if they are actually also open to men.

Dumbo12 · 09/06/2023 23:16

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 09/06/2023 23:03

RTN was a grassroots protest about West Yorks Police curfewing women, IIRC. So Leeds has actually stayed the same in terms of levels of misogyny coming from public authorities.

I am well aware of the origins, just horrified that the city council is still so regressive, forty + years on! Mind you I do know it's the same council that backed the Holbeck experiment.

tourdefrance · 09/06/2023 23:44

Done. Thanks for sharing.

Lushers · 09/06/2023 23:49

Done... shocking survey .... but duly made some good points .

KCandtheSunlightBand · 10/06/2023 00:12

I have travelled all over the uk for work, and solo travelled internationally for work and pleasure, including to India and Thailand. The only place I have been assaulted, is Leeds, twice actually, neither of them serious, thank goodness.
Many apologies to all those that live in Leeds, but, to use the words of a female ex MP, I feel ‘there is something of the night about it’ , 24 hours a day.
I have filled in the consultation, such as it is, I can tell you that I know the SEX of both the assailants (men) and it wouldn’t have mattered what gender they were projecting at the time, I’d have known they were men. The only difference may have been that any slight hesitation on my part, whilst I weighed up the situation, could have resulted in a far worse outcome for me.

Titusgroan · 10/06/2023 02:27

If you do not not Leeds council to know where you are and where you have picked up this survey ie MN you need to reject all cookies as Leeds pick up the link using cookies.

sashh · 10/06/2023 04:10

IamRoyFuckingKent · 08/06/2023 17:47

What a load of fucking bullshit. I've completed it and pointed out they've missed the word woman out. Twats

Me too.

I've also pointed out that an app that finds safe spaces for 'people who identify as women' would make me feel unsafe.

IncomingTraffic · 10/06/2023 07:24

Do you think the survey was really 'created by women'?

whoever wrote it out ‘cis women’ last on their list of women they welcome, after trans women and non binary women.

Doesn’t mean it wasn’t written by a woman priding herself in what an incredible ‘ally’ she is though.

borntobequiet · 10/06/2023 08:36

Quveas · 09/06/2023 09:13

Not wishing to get in the way of a good rant, but whatever your view is on trans, the survey is actually NOT about "safe spaces for women" or "women only spaces". It is about making the city centre - the public areas - safer for women and girls. And says that very clearly. Surely that would be an aim that everyone could unite on agreeing - that women and girls should be able to go out out at all times of the day and night and enjoy themselves without being or feeling threatened? Or is that not as important as point scoring?

But pointing out that sex is important in this respect doesn’t undermine the survey, it strengthens it. So win win.

borntobequiet · 10/06/2023 08:40

It is about dressing how you like, being the person you want to be

The problem here is that the person someone wants to be is definitely not the person you would want to encounter in the women’s toilets. The sort of person that gets sent to prison for rape, for example.

Blackandwhitehorse · 10/06/2023 08:43

IncomingTraffic · 09/06/2023 20:55

Even before you enter the survey, they’ve set their stall out. As @BaronMunchausen says, they’ve pre-framed any comments as ‘hate speech’.

*If you’re non-binary and you feel you have something to contribute to the conversation, please fill in the survey and share your views. We are inclusive of all trans, non binary and cis women. We stand against hate speech and want the views from this survey to support the end of gender oppression and inequality”

Ha I noticed this, the non binary woman. They don’t even adhere to their own ideology

DeathWinsAGolfish · 10/06/2023 08:49

Done

BaronMunchausen · 10/06/2023 09:33

Quveas · 09/06/2023 09:13

Not wishing to get in the way of a good rant, but whatever your view is on trans, the survey is actually NOT about "safe spaces for women" or "women only spaces". It is about making the city centre - the public areas - safer for women and girls. And says that very clearly. Surely that would be an aim that everyone could unite on agreeing - that women and girls should be able to go out out at all times of the day and night and enjoy themselves without being or feeling threatened? Or is that not as important as point scoring?

If there's point-scoring in such an important context, surely it's on the part of the council? They didn't have to asterisk women, and proactively link them with “hate” - warning women and girls that they ‘stand against’ their hateful views.

The idea that women are disproportionately hateful towards trans people (even though it’s other males who assault TW) because their fears and concerns about men aren’t alleviated by “transition”, is pernicious misogyny and male supremacism.

That their municipal authority openly takes this view will make many Leeds women and girls feel less safe.

Ouchiebum · 11/06/2023 23:06

Giving this another bump in case anyone has missed it and wants to complete it.

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Titusgroan · 11/06/2023 23:08

I filled it out twice as I realised I had so much more to say 😀

Needmoresleep · 12/06/2023 00:24

Survey is recommended. Some daft questions but lots of text boxes to explain why they are daft. Years ago I did some work around issues with the nighttime economy in Leeds, with some very good people employed by Leeds City Council. My understanding is that things have improved. Maybe the people I knew have left. I can’t see them putting something like this out.

LittleMissViper · 21/06/2023 08:01

BBC are now promoting this survey: www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-leeds-65961217 with an inaccurate title: "Leeds women urged to contribute to city safety plan", when if you click on the survey it's clearly still requesting for "someone who identifies as a woman", not an actual woman.

The article also should have a warning, as the further clarification of woman in the survey states "trans, non binary and cis women" which contains a slur.

Leeds skyline

Leeds women urged to contribute to city safety plan

Incidents where women have felt at risk in Leeds will be used in a safety plan for the city.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-leeds-65961217

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