OK there are two major issues here.
Firstly, you warn about authoritarianism. And yes, for what it's worth, I agree that the Conservatives have done some worrying things, such as trying to restrict people's right to protest.
But the left is authoritarian too, especially on this issue.
"Trans women are women, no debate."
"[People who do not agree that trans women are women] must be educated. And those who do not respond to education should be expelled from the Labour Party."
If you stand up for women's rights, like Rosie Duffield, the Labour Party will hang you out to dry.
Politicians photographed smiling in front of a placard saying "decapitate TERFs".
Does this stuff not worry you?
Secondly, enough about "GC" and the far right.
Am I "aligned with the far right" if we both say water is wet?
Of course not.
If the far right says water is wet, must I then pretend I do not agree that water is wet, so as to not be aligned with them?
Of course not.
The left has played into the hands of the right in general by throwing women and girls under a bus. Obviously the political right is going to exploit that.
What do you want us to do about it?
Not fight for our own rights because some people who are arguing in bad faith or who haven't taken the time to actually understand our point of view say that fighting for our rights makes us aligned with the far right?
What kind of bullshit is that?
Women's rights is not, and has never been, a right wing position.
And if you want to argue that believing that biological sex is real and important is now a right wing position, that says far more about the political left than it does about the political right. Namely, that they are completely batshit and unfit to govern.