To vote is important, but if the only candidates that are available are fundamentaly opposed to something you very much think is important - then how can you, in good conscience, vote for them? You can't!
It is not pathetic to have integrity and to take the vote seriously. And spoiling is sometimes the only option.
I live in a Labour city with a Labour mayor. The Labour party in my city is a total basket case: corrupt; incompetent, full of cronyism and even Labour voters in the city want to see the back of them.
I sat in the council chamber a few years ago when the Labour mayor screamed abuse at us ( a group of women who had been invited to speak about womne's issues in the event of them wanting to pass a bill that would make all toilets 'gender neutral' in council owned buildings going forward) and the assembled counciillors stood up to applaud that abuse.
My local Labour MP refuses to meet with her constituents on the issue of women's righst and protections - we've been told we are "wasting our time".
I'll probably end up voting Lib Dem ( in local electcions only) in order to ensure that Labour is weakened in the city ( they have the best chance locally) - even though I'd never dream of voting Lib -Dem in a general election.
The last few elections I've been spoiling my ballot - with specially made stickers.