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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I live in Rosie Duffields constituency. Just had local election door knock from labour party

341 replies

BadgerWadger · 22/02/2023 16:08

He asked what my main concerns were. I said my main issue was that i stood with Rosie and felt that Labour, as a party, from the top down, did not offer her enough support. And my main concern was womens safe spaces.

Man said, well, this is local elections and not about that, and that issue is more complicated than you think. What are your concerns, locally?

I said the local council is involved in issues to do with womens safe spaces. Like the womens refuges, the womans changing room at the local pool, etc. All spaces where biological men should not have access and that womens safe spaces was my main concern.

There followed a debate. And his stance is that its not that simple, i am being brainwashed by the right wing media, and that Rosie is in fact, (drumroll please...), mainly being supported by American right wing anti abortion groups.

Arrrrrghhhhhh. So that is where my local labour door knockers are at. Saying Rosies main core of support is American right wing anti abortion groups and i am being fooled by them. Silly, foolish, female me.

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ijclark · 23/02/2023 19:33

SinnerBoy · 23/02/2023 19:24

ijclark · Today 17:46

Bloody hell, it’s so rare she replies to emails. Probably handy for her to know what most of the constituency thinks of her, so I hope the candidate in question tells her to her face how unpopular she is.

I hope I can help you with some advice, about getting MPs to reply to your emails. The main point is that you stop writing them in Da-Glo Orange Giant Crayola.

She has a 1,836 vote majority, by the way. My cousin is a schoolteacher in her constituency and she likes her.

That’s nice. I know a lot of people in the constituency, from soft left to hard left, who don’t and won’t vote for her again. So I think that trumps your “cousin”.

Kucinghitam · 23/02/2023 19:35

I just wanted to wholeheartedly thank ijclark for their sterling work on this thread 👏

Grammarnut · 23/02/2023 19:35

ijclark · 23/02/2023 19:07

“I do think right-wing groups, and various religious groups (Christian, Muslim etc) agree with Rosie Duffield about transwomen being men, and probably that women should have sex-segregated spaces (in the case of Muslims, they definitely believe that).”

in which case, it’s not a smear then.

Somewhat selective quote. Rosie Duffield supports women's sex based rights, which not many right wing organisations do, but they are of the oppionion (correct) that one cannot change sex. Linking Duffield to right-wing organisations is meant as a smear and it is a smear. It suggests that Rosie Duffield - a Labour politician - consorts with right-wing political organisations which have agendas inimical to Labour's agenda and beliefs. It's suggesting her ideas chime with organisations like the National Front or the English Defence League etc. It is meant to do her harm - and it is not true, she is not in contact with them or anything like it. Gender critical beliefs (you know, biological reality) are neither right-wing nor left-wing and they are what ordinary people know is true. Saying she's supported by right-wing organisations is a slur on a left-wing politician - one that can stick and cause her a lot of problems. As I said, Duffield supports women, and women's sex based rights. She does not think trans rights trump anyone else's rights. I think she is correct in that stance; that stance is not axiomatically right-wing - it is feminist.

SinnerBoy · 23/02/2023 19:36

Saying she’s backed by right-wing groups is though.

She's not backed by them, though.

And my cousin's an actual human being, so no need for the quotation marks.

TheBiologyStupid · 23/02/2023 19:38

ijclark · 23/02/2023 18:56

Can you clarify…do you think right-wing groups don’t agree with her on trans rights?

Can I just clarity? Don't TRAs, Christian fundamentalists, and Nazis agree on book burning? FFS - the first two even agree on the specific author whose books should be burned and have acted on that impulse.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2023 19:42

FFS - the first two even agree on the specific author whose books should be burned and have acted on that impulse.

Indeed they do. We can say that TRAs and their allies like ijclark are "supported" by right wing Christian fundamentalists on that.

TheAdmiralAndFishermanFavorEntirelyDifferentPies · 23/02/2023 19:45

Did anyone else hear Wes Streeting on PM today talking about Labour and beliefs in ideologies? Religious ideology, in this case. I'm just surprised his head didn't explode with the cognitive dissonance.

ijclark · 23/02/2023 19:46

SinnerBoy · 23/02/2023 19:36

Saying she’s backed by right-wing groups is though.

She's not backed by them, though.

And my cousin's an actual human being, so no need for the quotation marks.

I mean, that was exactly my point. Keep up! Maybe have a chat with your “cousin”.

Sazzasez · 23/02/2023 19:46

SinnerBoy · 23/02/2023 19:24

ijclark · Today 17:46

Bloody hell, it’s so rare she replies to emails. Probably handy for her to know what most of the constituency thinks of her, so I hope the candidate in question tells her to her face how unpopular she is.

I hope I can help you with some advice, about getting MPs to reply to your emails. The main point is that you stop writing them in Da-Glo Orange Giant Crayola.

She has a 1,836 vote majority, by the way. My cousin is a schoolteacher in her constituency and she likes her.

She’s not only the first Labour candidate to take Canterbury in its entire history as a constituency, but she also is a very rare Labour MP who increased her vote in 2019 over 2017.

Apparently with our sealion’s votes both times, which must be very gratifying.

I left Canterbury in 2000: I’d have dreamed of being able to vote for her.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2023 19:47

Apparently with our sealion’s votes both times, which must be very gratifying.

Sadface for ijclark

ijclark · 23/02/2023 19:47

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2023 19:42

FFS - the first two even agree on the specific author whose books should be burned and have acted on that impulse.

Indeed they do. We can say that TRAs and their allies like ijclark are "supported" by right wing Christian fundamentalists on that.

Not really, no.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2023 19:48

Yes, really, yes.

ijclark · 23/02/2023 19:48

Sazzasez · 23/02/2023 19:46

She’s not only the first Labour candidate to take Canterbury in its entire history as a constituency, but she also is a very rare Labour MP who increased her vote in 2019 over 2017.

Apparently with our sealion’s votes both times, which must be very gratifying.

I left Canterbury in 2000: I’d have dreamed of being able to vote for her.

Yes, and we know locally why her vote increased. It had very little to do with her.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2023 19:49

It's the exact same situation. TRAs are "supported" in their beliefs by fundamentalist Christians, for different reasons, that JK Rowling is a bad person.

SinnerBoy · 23/02/2023 19:49

ijclark · Today 19:46

I mean, that was exactly my point. Keep up! Maybe have a chat with your “cousin”.

What, by saying that she's backed by right wing groups, you meant that she's actually not backed by them? Who are you? Humpty Dumpty?

ijclark · 23/02/2023 19:50

Kucinghitam · 23/02/2023 19:35

I just wanted to wholeheartedly thank ijclark for their sterling work on this thread 👏

It’s like eating a light snack when I’m bored. It’s good occasionally to indulge with intellectually lightweight starters before moving on elsewhere to the main course :)

ijclark · 23/02/2023 19:51

SinnerBoy · 23/02/2023 19:49

ijclark · Today 19:46

I mean, that was exactly my point. Keep up! Maybe have a chat with your “cousin”.

What, by saying that she's backed by right wing groups, you meant that she's actually not backed by them? Who are you? Humpty Dumpty?

“No-one has suggested she’s financed. “Supported” isn’t shorthand for financial support. Saying she’s backed by right-wing groups is though. But as I recall, the OP didn’t claim that was what was said.”

Read it slowly. Take your time :)

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2023 19:52

I think kucinghitam was being ironic, ijclark. Your arguments are great for showing lurkers the lack of quality of the debate from your peers.

ijclark · 23/02/2023 19:53

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2023 19:52

I think kucinghitam was being ironic, ijclark. Your arguments are great for showing lurkers the lack of quality of the debate from your peers.

I think that’s sinnerboy’s job tbf ;)

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2023 19:53

But you don't have the self awareness to realise your own considerable shortcomings in that department.

SinnerBoy · 23/02/2023 19:53

Supported, backed, whatever - you're still mistaken. And my point stands.

TheBiologyStupid · 23/02/2023 19:54

ijclark · 23/02/2023 19:47

Not really, no.

Er, YES ABSOLUTELY - unless you want to stop playing guilt by association?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2023 19:54

So does mine, SB, but he's not interested in a good faith debate.

ijclark · 23/02/2023 19:54

SinnerBoy · 23/02/2023 19:53

Supported, backed, whatever - you're still mistaken. And my point stands.

Bold move to publicly argue that no right wingers support her position on transgender rights. Good luck to you with how that pans out for you!

MrsOvertonsWindow · 23/02/2023 19:57

TheBiologyStupid · 23/02/2023 19:54

Er, YES ABSOLUTELY - unless you want to stop playing guilt by association?

It' always interesting when the "guilt by association" posters like ijclark are asked to explain why so many male born paedophiles, rapists and sex offenders claim to be women and want access to women and girls in changing rooms, showers, wards, prison cells etc. Why is that do you reckon?

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